Hello,

Someone referred me to you. I am facing abuse in my marriage. He married me at 17 yrs and he has taking advantage of that. I am 28 years old now. He is 49. I dropped out of Secondary school and he didn’t allow me further my studies

No work, no job, no business, no carrier, no future. I’m just here like here, whatever the day brings I take it like that. He don’t support me financially. He drops ₦500 sometimes ₦1000 that is what I use and take care of myself as a woman

He forces sex on, gets me pregnant and aborts the baby. I aborted 5 pregnancy for him last year. He call me a prostitute and lesbian. He throws me out anytime he wants simply because he can do it and he knows I have no place to go.

I am the only child of my Mother. I have step siblings but we are not in good terms since my childhood.

We have 4 Children together. But I dont mind leaving the children with their father. I tried once to run away.....


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correct talk. You too much! Straight to your blog

Awibadie:
they are three best master keys for successsful marriage true love'honesty and trust .never you doubt the person you love so much nor argue uneccessary believe in your love be patience and watchful avoid listening to gossippers they spoil marriage or solid relationship more than witch and wizard check my websit for the common mistakes made by singles www.awibadieheavenlyhealthylivingtips.com

Hmmmmm!

you hit the nail at the head

donbachi:
Marriages to avoid.


1: forced marriage(I don get belle)

2: mistake marriage(because of beauty and money)

3: Arrangee marriage(by friends or parents).

yes ooo!

rosy1992:
True love.

Hello,

Someone referred me to you. I am facing abuse in my marriage. He married me at 17 yrs and he has taking advantage of that. I am 28 years old now. He is 49. I dropped out of Secondary school and he didn’t allow me further my studies

No work, no job, no business, no carrier, no future. I’m just here like here, whatever the day brings I take it like that. He don’t support me financially. He drops ₦500 sometimes ₦1000 that is what I use and take care of myself as a woman

He forces sex on, gets me pregnant and aborts the baby. I aborted 5 pregnancy for him last year. He call me a prostitute and lesbian. He throws me out anytime he wants simply because he can do it and he knows I have no place to go.

I am the only child of my Mother. I have step siblings but we are not in good terms since my childhood.

We have 4 Children together. But I dont mind leaving the children with their father. I tried once to run away one time....


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Good day ma,

I read this woman’s story. (Click here to read the story she is referring to).Sincerely,I could feel her pain.Truth be told,there are alot of women like me in this situation and there is nothing any one of us have not tried.

With my own situation,I have concluded that some people do not really like s*x. Or some others have low libido and pride will not allow them seek help,at least not Nigerian men. I got married about four years ago and this is my story:

My husband and I dated for two years plus and then,the s*x was like once in a month or so. I did not bother myself because I thought things will change after marriage. I also did not want to be too forward as his girlfriend then,so he will not see me as wayward or something.

Fast forward to our marriage. I got pregnant a month to our wedding,so after wedding,the sx got less and less and his excuse was that I was pregnant. But I was not happy. I tried to tell him it doesn’t matter but we had Sx like only 4 times during my pregnancy.

After I had my baby,he became a 2 minute man. I was like,what is going on here? He will not allow me touch him. He only touch me when he has an erection and before you say jack robinson,he is done.

I fought this thing. I tried to talk to him that me I have feelings too but if I dared talk to him,he will withdraw. I tried to make him take some things that some people recommended but he refused to take them.

From once in a month,s*x became once in.....


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Thank you all for your advice

Entertainment businessman and former Ogun State Commissioner for Information, Otunba Dayo Adeneye had a great time with his family at the 50th birthday celebration of his wife, Caroline Adeneye over the weekend.

Dayo and his wife are one of the celebrity couples that do not shy away from publicly display affection towards each other.

He calls her “his BFF and the one woman that he completes him”. That is not all, he also calls her his soul mate and his sweetim’.

In attendance at the party was the Mrs Amosun, wife of former Governor of the State

Dayo got married to Caroline almost 19 years ago after his first wife abandoned him when he was broke.


"One day I woke up and realised that my salary is 17,000 a month. The seven years I worked at Ray Power were my happiest moments but I was so broke. I sold all my four cars and was left with 1 car at the end of the day. I even moved from a 3 bedroom to a one bedroom in Ebute Metta. My first wife left me because I was broke. ” he revealed at a seminar.


Cc: Lalasticlala



See more pics:

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Hello Ma/House,

Please advise for me,well for my friend. She was in a relationship for 7 years with this guy. They love each other so much and everyone around them loved them together. I mean,it was only a matter of time before we knew they would be getting married.

We all have been friends for a long time. My friend and her guy are like family to me and many people in our space. But then,something happened last year. Around July I think. My friend got pregnant.

It was not a planned pregnancy. They were shocked and confused. But they wanted to keep the pregnancy. So they informed their parents. They decided to get married,afterall,they loved each other,they have known each other for years and they ok financially.

The only problem was that,the guy’s mother was not happy the girl got pregnant. She is one of those religious people. She said she will be suspended as a Deaconess if her church found out about the pregnancy. She wanted them to abort.

That did not make sense because,you say you are head of something in a church,pregnancy before marriage is not good but abortion is ok? My friends ignored her and went ahead with planning their wedding.

My friend however started having....

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-broke-up-her-7-years-engagement-married-by-mistake/

Hello Ma/House,

Please advise for me,well for my friend. She was in a relationship for 7 years with this guy. They love each other so much and everyone around them loved them together. I mean,it was only a matter of time before we knew they would be getting married.

We all have been friends for a long time. My friend and her guy are like family to me and many people in our space. But then,something happened last year. Around July I think. My friend got pregnant.

It was not a planned pregnancy. They were shocked and confused. But they wanted to keep the pregnancy. So they informed their parents. They decided to get married,afterall,they loved each other,they have known each other for years and they ok financially.

The only problem was that,the guy’s mother was not happy the girl got pregnant. She is one of those religious people. She said she will be suspended as a Deaconess if her church found out about the pregnancy. She wanted them to abort.

That did not make sense because,you say you are head of something in a church,pregnancy before marriage is not good but abortion is ok? My friends ignored her and went ahead with planning their wedding.

My friend however started having......


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-broke-up-her-7-years-engagement-married-by-mistake/

Hello Ma/House,

Please advise for me,well for my friend. She was in a relationship for 7 years with this guy. They love each other so much and everyone around them loved them together. I mean,it was only a matter of time before we knew they would be getting married.

We all have been friends for a long time. My friend and her guy are like family to me and many people in our space. But then,something happened last year. Around July I think. My friend got pregnant.

It was not a planned pregnancy. They were shocked and confused. But they wanted to keep the pregnancy. So they informed their parents. They decided to get married,afterall,they loved each other,they have known each other for years and they ok financially.

The only problem was that,the guy’s mother was not happy the girl got pregnant. She is one of those religious people. She said she will be suspended as a Deaconess if her church found out about the pregnancy. She wanted them to abort.

That did not make sense because,you say you are head of something in a church,pregnancy before marriage is not good but abortion is ok? My friends ignored her and went ahead with planning their wedding.

My friend however started having....

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-broke-up-her-7-years-engagement-married-by-mistake/

Dear Ma,

I need advise on how to go about this matter. So,my friends and I went on a trip to Dubai last month. It was a couples vacation,so everyone came with their husbands or boyfriends or fiance. I went there with my boyfriend.

One of my friends, Tina (not real name)went with her fiancee. Their wedding is This February. We had a great time at the vacation ma and we all came back home. I went to see my boyfriend two weeks ago just before Christmas and he was not around.

So,I called him and told him I would wait since he was close by. His neighbor, a young lady called me inside to wait for him. She is like all these born again people that do not wear ear rings. She started to preach to me. I listened to her. She sounded very nice.

While waiting,she now said its none of her business but since to her,I look like a good girl (you know,I listened to her when she was preaching and praying for me). She now said I deserve someone better than the person I am dating. I asked her what she meant. She said I am not the only girl my boyfriend was dating and bringing home.

That made me very curious. She said I should not......

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-is-getting-married-she-begs-me-to-keep-her-secret/

Dear Ma,

I need advise on how to go about this matter. So,my friends and I went on a trip to Dubai last month. It was a couples vacation,so everyone came with their husbands or boyfriends or fiance. I went there with my boyfriend.

One of my friends, Tina (not real name)went with her fiancee. Their wedding is This February. We had a great time at the vacation ma and we all came back home. I went to see my boyfriend two weeks ago just before Christmas and he was not around.

So,I called him and told him I would wait since he was close by. His neighbor, a young lady called me inside to wait for him. She is like all these born again people that do not wear ear rings. She started to preach to me. I listened to her. She sounded very nice.

While waiting,she now said its none of her business but since to her,I look like a good girl (you know,I listened to her when she was preaching and praying for me). She now said I deserve someone better than the person I am dating. I asked her what she meant. She said I am not the only girl my boyfriend was dating and bringing home.

That made me very curious. She said I should not .....


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-is-getting-married-she-begs-me-to-keep-her-secret/

Good day mama,

Please advice me. I am in a relationship for almost one year. Initially,he did not tell me but later on,like 4 months later,he told me he is a divorcee with a kid. I was shocked and that made me leave him.

Its been five years after his divorce but I was not happy he did not tell me at first. But later on,we began dating and he really makes me happy. I have met his kid,a very smart boy. The ex wife has moved on and is engaged to someone else,I think.

My issue now is,even though I have been dating this guy,its been a year and he has nit said anything about marriage to me. I know he says he loves being around me and loves spending time with me,would love to spend the rest of his life with me but he has not really asked me to marry him.

I feel somehow but I want to ask him what his plans for marriage. In fact,I already asked him and he said he will definitely get married again but he is not sure. His answer is: it can be this year or next five years.

That he wants to be 100% ....


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Congratulations are in order!

Nollywood actor, Sam Ajibola popularly known as Spiff, is engaged to his love, Sandra. He shared the news on his IG page this morning. Posting photos of himself and Sandra, he wrote

”S O U L M A T E :

I’ve always been big on the kind of Soul i would be spending the rest of my Life with as Forever is a Long time to be Miserable with the wrong person . At some point of my adolescence , It became a fervent prayer request when i figured i couldn’t find you myself . God answered , and it didn’t take long to confirm you as the woman of my Dreams , My Best friend & the very one that would complement me .

I’m completely certain that i have made the Right choice with you because since we met I haven’t spent a day without thinking of you (which is very rare of me) , and i can’t wait to spend the rest of our Lives laughing and Playing like we do Everyday” he wrote

Cc: Lalasticlala

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PLEASE SHARE AND ADVICE ME

My story…My name is Pat. Been married for 7 years now and I have not been blessed with a child yet. Then midway last year I found out my husband has two boys with another woman who he is planning to marry.

I confronted him and he says he is not the cause of my not being able to get pregnant and tells me no one can stop him from marrying this woman, “she has my children and I cant abandon my children now”.

I simply told him to get me a divorce and go ahead with his marriage plans to her, but he tells me he can’t let me go and will NEVER grant me a divorce.

He clearly told me that whether he marries her or not.....


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Happy New Year to all my Oga's in the house, for the great work you all did in this platform for 2019. I am truly grateful!

My God will perfect all that concern you all and yours this year 2020 and beyond in Jesus name amen. Much Love.

Dear Lively Stones Friends & Family!

Welcome to a brand new year: 2020!

Here is thanking you all for your love and support and belief in us in 2019…..and looking forward to an awesome year of 2020.

Thank you for trusting us to provide you a platform and support group where you can be yourself without a sense of judgement.

Join us,let us reach more people in the year 2020. Follow us on all social media platforms. Send us an email today to join our family and become a volunteer.

Happy New Year,


Love,

From Jzhane & The Lively Stones Team


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