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 Romance / She Is Making A Big Deal Out Of Nothing:is This Petty Or Red Flag? by Beke2020: 5:33pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Hello, Please what do you advise? My soon to be bride just found out something about my ex and she is threatening to quit our relationship just for a very flimsy reason. My ex is a banker. She and I were together for almost 5 years. During that time,she was the one managing my account. I am a business man,by God’s grace,I also run my own company. This ex of mine was very instrumental to the growth of my business financially. Being in the financial sector,she helped me get funding that would have been very difficult to get. The facilities I got to take my business off the ground came from here. Naturally,she became my account officer. You know in banking,the accounts you manage determine your promotion and reward in climbing the professional ladder. So,even though both of us broke up two years ago,she begged me to remain my account officer. Which I agreed. Now,I am in a relationship with this lovely lady. Everything is going fine. We have done our introduction. Until she finds out that my ex is my accounts officer. And then she flips and says why should my ex still be my accounts officer. I tried to explain to her but she wont listen. I mean,we have been together almost 2 years. That means,I have not been with this ex for 2 years. I have not even seen her for a long time. We only talk on phone. I have never cheated nor flirted with my ex or anyone. Why would my fiancee be so insecure about my ex? This became an issue and she says she is backing out if I do not....... https://livelystones.com.ng/she-is-making-a-big-deal-out-of-nothingis-this-petty-or-red-flag/
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| Romance / Money Issues: How Do I Handle The Situation With My In-laws? by Beke2020: 5:20pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Good day ma, I am a member of LS. Been going through each and every chat and also learning a lot. But l have few questions please. And also some advice I am married for almost six years and my husband is not working. Since then, I do almost everything in the house that to even take care of my parent in terms of need I can’t. But he always do it to his people. To the extend he said to his sisters to ...... https://livelystones.com.ng/money-issues-how-do-i-handle-the-situation-with-my-in-laws/
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| Romance / My Fiance Has Money Problems:can We Still Get Married? by Beke2020: 10:43pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Please post as anonymous! My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He proposed 3 months ago and I said yes. My only issue is that this guy is always broke. It was not always like this. When we first met,he was ok. He had a good paying job but he lost it He then decided to go into business.Said he does not want to work for anyone. So,he started a dry cleaning outfit. I felt that would not be able to sustain him but I did not want to discourage him. I also do not want to be seen as that girl that is money conscious. For the past two years,this business has not picked up. I don’t know what the problem is. Whether its that he is not having customers or he is not managing his finances well. He does not tell me anything about the business. Since that time,our relationship arguments has always been about money. He is a good guy but he never has money on him. He does not spend on me. Instead,am the one spending. Even on my birthdays,he will not buy anything meaningful. Well,I have been thinking that he should start looking for a job but he says I should give him till March next year. That if nothing changes,then he will start looking for a job. Now,just last week Friday,I got an alert..... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiance-has-money-problemscan-we-still-get-married/
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| Romance / Re: My Fiance & His Ex Spent Christmas Night In The Same House! by Beke2020: 2:01pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
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| Romance / Re: My In-laws Have Done Nothing But Humiliate Me:please Help! by Beke2020: 2:00pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
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| Romance / This Man Loves Me:i Am Excited But Also Afraid:please Advise! by Beke2020: 1:58pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
Good Evening ma, Please I need your advise. Your candid advise really.My fiance and I have been together for three,almost four years. He has been good but also bad. He and I quarrel alot and break up and later,make up and continue. I love him so much but he hurts me so much. I don’t know why someone who loves you will be hurting you. I know I should have left him but anytime we have issues,he will beg and even cry and send everyone to beg me..I get weak and accept him back. We broke up for almost 3 months this year. I thought I was finally over him but I kept missing him. Towards the end of October,we made up and he proposed and gave me a ring. I was happy. Some how,I believe every relationship has their issues so I believe we can always work around our own issues. The issue now is,just a week to Christmas,I found out that he..... https://livelystones.com.ng/this-man-loves-mei-am-excited-but-also-afraidplease-advise/
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| Family / Re: Dad Killed 15ft Python Trying To Swallow His Son In Australia(Pics) by Beke2020: 7:24pm On Dec 27, 2019 |
;Dwhy explaining to him? Didn't he read the story? missjo: |
| Romance / My In-laws Have Done Nothing But Humiliate Me:please Help! by Beke2020: 9:14am On Dec 27, 2019 |
Good Morning ma, I need your advise. As you are aware,I have been married for almost 14 years and its not been an easy marriage. I got married into a family that does not like me and my husband does not protect me from their constant abuse and harassment. Just like you have been advising me,I have tried to ignore all of them and be on my own. But that too is seriously annoying them. They call me proud and they say they made me. They want me to continue being their slave. (Yes,I am an orphan. They married me for their brother many years ago but I cannot keep living to please them). Now,the issue is: ....... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-in-laws-have-done-nothing-but-humiliate-meplease-help/
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| Romance / Re: An Apology Was Given But He Won’t Talk About It-pls Advise! by Beke2020: 10:35am On Dec 26, 2019 |
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| Romance / Re: My Husband Is Having An Affair:what Should I Do?please Advise! by Beke2020: 10:34am On Dec 26, 2019 |
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| Romance / My Fiance & His Ex Spent Christmas Night In The Same House! by Beke2020: 10:04am On Dec 26, 2019 |
Good day ma, Yesterday,my Fiance and I went to his family house for Christmas. We have been together for a little over a year now. He is a good guy and we are working towards our marriage next year. My fiance was married to someone before me. They are divorced but they have a son of about 6 years old. The boy stays with his mother. I did not know that the boy and his mother would also be at the family house yesterday. To my surprise,not only were they there…the ex wife was the one busy in the kitchen cooking for the entire family. I was surprised but my fiance explained that she came cos of their son. That the son spends Christmas with their family every year so she comes around too. I felt awkward seeing her there. Especially because she speaks their dialect (yoruba) and I am from south south. The family seemed to like her alot and having her around made me feel more like the intruder. I mean,she was going around in her bump shorts,shaking her ass and all. I think she tried to flirt with....... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-fiance-his-ex-spent-christmas-night-in-the-same-house/
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| Romance / Re: An Apology Was Given But He Won’t Talk About It-pls Advise! by Beke2020: 9:55pm On Dec 24, 2019 |
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| Romance / An Apology Was Given But He Won’t Talk About It-pls Advise! by Beke2020: 9:35pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Please hide my ID. I am struggling with this and I need your advise. Last month,I fell ill and tests revealed that I had STDs. As expected,they asked me to get my husband to come to the hospital. That was how I got to know my husband gave me the STD. We are still undergoing treatment for the STD but the issue is that my husband refused to admit how he caught the STD. He just said he is sorry that he made a mistake but for me,that is not enough. I want to know why he cheated and I have told him lets see a counselor but he refuses. He says it was just one time and it was a prostitute at.... https://livelystones.com.ng/an-apology-was-given-but-he-wont-talk-about-it-pls-advise/
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| Celebrities / Funke Akindele’s Twins Mark First Birthday: Hubby Post Pics by Beke2020: 9:53am On Dec 23, 2019 |
A year ago, Nigerians rejoiced over the arrival of the most loved actress, Funke Akindele’s twin babies. There was jubilation both home and abroad especially because a prophesy of doom had initially prophesied that the actress can never have a child of her own….only for God to step in and bless her with twins at a time. The twins clocked one over the weekend we want to wish them a happy birtdhay See more photos and post from Funke’s Husband’s Instagram post: Cc: Lalasticlala https://livelystones.com.ng/funke-akindeles-twins-mark-first-birthday-hubby-post-pics/
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| Religion / Gospel Singer Sinach Shows First Picture OF Her New Baby (pics) by Beke2020: 8:22pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Recently,award winning gospel singer,Sinach Egbu welcomed a baby girl with her husband Pastor Joe Egbu. Click here if you missed that. Sharing a beautiful Christmas card on her Instagram,Sinach and her husband introduced their baby girl to the world for the first time: Cc: Lalasticlala https://livelystones.com.ng/gospel-singer-sinach-shows-first-picture-of-her-new-babypic/
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| Romance / My Husband Is Having An Affair:what Should I Do?please Advise! by Beke2020: 8:08pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Good morning My name is Ronke (not real name) from living stone group. I want this matter treated in the group. I need an advise on this matter. My husband is a manager in a company, and he is in charge of other workers as well. My sister works with him too in that same company. I just discovered that my husband is having an affair with one of the staff and I confided in my sister who..... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-is-having-an-affairwhat-should-i-doplease-advise/ 1 Share
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| Romance / I Have Finally Given Up On True Love: Please Advise! by Beke2020: 6:46pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
So I have finally given up on love Jzhane! In as much as I tried to believe that there is no true love, I also see couples celebrating 30, 40, 50 years anniversary even my parents are not left out. I don’t understand what is happening to me. I have never had a good relationship of a year. My relationships always end in five months. After two years of leaving my ex, I decided to give love another chance. This guy came with honesty and understanding. I started liking him and i have a friend who is a colleague with him. She assented to his humbleness so I give it a go ahead. We have been doing well but just recently he started having issues with work. I am trying all I could do to give him my support emotionally and mentally. We talked this morning, but while at work I received.... https://livelystones.com.ng/i-have-finally-given-up-on-true-love-please-advise/
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| Celebrities / Gospel Singer Sinach Shows First Picture OF Her New Baby (pics) by Beke2020: 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Recently,award winning gospel singer,Sinach Egbu welcomed a baby girl with her husband Pastor Joe Egbu. Click here if you missed that. Sharing a beautiful Christmas card on her Instagram,Sinach and her husband introduced their baby girl to the world for the first time. See the post below: Cc: Lalasticlala https://livelystones.com.ng/gospel-singer-sinach-shows-first-picture-of-her-new-babypic/ 1 Like
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| Travel / Re: Danfo Driver Who Took One-Way Fled & Abandoned His Bus When He Sighted Sanwo-Olu by Beke2020: 10:25pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
 guy, my colleagues were caught on Friday last and Monday this week. They but cough of N200k n N60 respectively. But the truth is that the entrance to Apapa is totally blocked by trailers. Yesterday I got to my office 10am same today because I have to follow normal routes. Fuel that is supposed to last me till Friday got to red today. This morning when I got to top of Ojora bridge, I saw over 30 mobile policemen gathering in one spot because of what they want to extort from trailer drivers instead of ensuring free flow of traffic. From reliable source, I heard the total blocking of the Alaka entrance to Apapa is now deliberate, so that people will have no choice but take one way and LASTMA n police pockets/bank account will be getting fatter, because all this fines are paid cash and not to the government account. Lagos is apology my dear. subtlemee: 1 Like |
| Romance / My Boyfriend Of 9 Years Has Refused To Leave Me-please Advise! by Beke2020: 9:36pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Hello LS, Please share my story and keep me confidential. My name is Oyin (not real name) and I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years now. We met in school in 2011 and have been together since then. Our relationship has not been rosy but we try to make it work( I don’t like the way he reacts to little things, take for example, on his sister’s birthday, he quarreled with me for not wishing her a happy birthday for 2 days.kindly note that I am not so close to this his sister o and she is my junior) He acts petty most of the times. He wont allow me hangout freely with friends until recently when I threatened to break up. To the reason I sent this message, I no longer love my boyfriend the way I use to. I am never excited to see him and whenever we have sex...... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-boyfriend-of-9-years-has-refused-to-leave-me-please-advise/
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| Romance / Re: My Mother Or My Brother-law: Who Is More Important? by Beke2020: 7:02pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
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| Romance / Re: I Love My Guy But I Don’t Understand His Behavior:please Advise! by Beke2020: 6:53pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
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| Romance / Re: How I Sacrificed Everything For A Wicked Man & Nothing! by Beke2020: 6:52pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
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| Romance / I Love My Guy But I Don’t Understand His Behavior:please Advise! by Beke2020: 5:40pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Good morning ma, I have something bothering me and I want to share. I have a situation with my relationship and I want to hear what advice the group have for me. I have been in a relationship for almost two year I met David(not real name) at his place of work where my sister was also working at first we were friends before we started dating… Everything was moving fine until I begin to notice his sisters controlling attitude towards him. Their parents are late and he lives in the same house with his two older sisters. At first when we met I knew he was a very busy person and I try to understand but when it comes to his family or himself he always has a way of creating time for their schedules, am not trying to compete with his family but I thought love is all about sacrifice.. Secondly when it comes to..... https://livelystones.com.ng/i-love-my-guy-but-i-dont-understand-his-behaviorplease-advise/
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| Romance / My Mother Or My Brother-law: Who Is More Important? by Beke2020: 2:29pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Good Morning ma, I need your advise. Hide my identity. My husband and I live in a two bedroom apartment. We are just starting our lives ,just married for almost 2 years. I had my baby 2 months ago and my mom came to help me. Having my mother around is a huge blessing because me and my husband both work on the island. Its not easy working in Lagos with a small baby. So,having my mother around is a blessing especially because I had a CS. We are managing everything well until my husband told me that his elder brother who is in Canada is coming to Nigeria and will be staying for like 3 months so my mother has to leave cos its his elder brother and he cannot share a room with my mother. First,I thought he was joking cos that was just a mean thing to say knowing that my mother was only living with us just to help us. I did not think he was being considerate but he was like,do I expect him to tell his brother not to come? Why cant he tell his brother to find alternative accommodation? That was when he made the comment that threw me off:he said..... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-mother-or-my-brother-law-who-is-more-important/
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| Romance / To Tell Or Not To Tell- How Do I Completely Leave My Past Behind? by Beke2020: 2:15pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Hi, I plead to hide my identity. I really do not like telling people my business but I need to make a decision that could affect me and my unborn baby so I want to make sure that I am making the right choice for both of us. Several years ago,I left Nigeria to stay with my Aunt abroad(please don’t mention the name of the country). I thought I was going there for greener pastures.But it was a whole different situation. My Aunt forced me into prostitution for several years. It was the most hellish years of my life. 4 Years later,I was able to free myself from that life. I got an honest job and started life afresh. That was when I met Tim (not real name). We dated for a year plus and got engaged. But when I told him about my past,his behavior towards me changed. I confronted him but he denied it but I just knew he could not handle it so I told him lets go our separate ways. I was single for...... https://livelystones.com.ng/to-tell-or-not-to-tell-how-do-i-completely-leave-my-past-behind/
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| Romance / Stuck In Love For Seven Years Of False Promises:help Me! by Beke2020: 1:50pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
Dear Jzhane, Please help me. Hide my identity if you post this. I also beg for no insults or hurtful words. I am already very emotional and vulnerable. My Family says I need help and I think I do. I am not sure if its therapy or prayers,please advise. I met Jeffery (Not real name) 7 years ago. He is kind and nice. He swept me off my feet. I think he is my first serious boyfriend. I was in school then. We talked marriage and all. So,when I graduated,I moved in to live with him even though my parents did not approve of it. Jeff likes women,that is the root of our problem. He parties and flirts alot. I noticed that he was not talking marriage anymore so I told him if he was not ready,I want to move on. He did not say anything so I broke up with him. Breaking up with him was hard. I was almost depressed. I cried and cried but I tried to move on. About six months later,....... https://livelystones.com.ng/stuck-in-love-for-seven-years-of-false-promiseshelp-me/
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| Romance / Our Marriage Is Threatened By Addiction:please Help! by Beke2020: 8:52am On Dec 11, 2019 |
Hello ma, So the problem is:me and my husband have been married for a year but both of us are working in different towns (not too far apart ). We kinda try to see each other like every 4 to 4 days sha. My husband takes care of me, respects me,does every thing a girl could want but I recently came to know that my husband is a porn addict and he likes to sext and send his nudes on online dating apps . The sole purpose is to watch erotic things and satisfy himself. I don’t like this thing and I had found out all in his mobile and confronted him many times so he says thats he just need to masturbate after some time. That the only thing he does...... https://livelystones.com.ng/our-marriage-is-threatened-by-addictionplease-help/
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| Travel / Re: Roads In Dubai Vs Roads In Nigeria (Photos) by Beke2020: 9:28pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
The comparison should be Dubai streets to our roads. Just name one on road on the mainland Lagos state that is motorable. When I saw the crowd today at constain bustop stranded and I wept for my country. These things we see in other countries are not rocket science, and even if they are, we can learn them and implement. I dont think the OP intention is to ridicule Nigeria, but a wake up call. Hadampson: 1 Like |
| Romance / How I Sacrificed Everything For A Wicked Man & Nothing! by Beke2020: 6:21pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Good day ma, Post anonymous for me. I met Taye (not real name) in my workplace 5 years ago. I had worked in that company a year before he was employed.We were both in the Engineering department. Very handsome guy,caught many ladies attention. We hit it off one day at canteen. Long story short,we started dating and became inseparable. It became hard to concentrate at work cos everyone knew we were dating. We got engaged and the company later found out.They now said one of us have to resign as two married people cannot work in the same department. I was in love so I offered to resign even though Taye felt bad but I was ready to sacrifice my job for our marriage. Of course,I did not tell my parents the real reason I left the company. But our wedding was in 2 months so everyone did not bother too much. My father’s connection got me a job but a much lesser paying job. But two weeks to my wedding,Taye and I had a big quarrel. He became quite intolerant. Argued alot and became very authoritative. I do not know whether it was the pressure of the marriage but..... https://livelystones.com.ng/how-i-sacrificed-everything-for-a-wicked-man-nothing/
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| Family / We Cheat On Each Other:is Marriage Possible For Us? by Beke2020: 6:06pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Good Morning ma, Post anonymous. I am 24 years old. I finished last year and got a job. I met someone about 8 months ago. The guy is ok. Has money and very nice. He is living in Lekki. He is 32 years old. When we started dating,I like him but he is not really attractive like other guys I have dated but he is mature and treats me nice. Spends on me too. He also spends for my mom and siblings so they like him. The only issue is,I feel I like him but not really in love. Like I said,maybe because he is just not attractive in my own way. So,I kind of still dated other guys even while with him cos I was not sure I wanted to settle down with him. Well,he discovered I ........ https://livelystones.com.ng/we-cheat-on-each-otheris-marriage-possible-for-us/
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| Romance / We Cheat On Each Other:is Marriage Possible For Us? by Beke2020: 5:59pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Good Morning ma, Post anonymous. I am 24 years old. I finished last year and got a job. I met someone about 8 months ago. The guy is ok. Has money and very nice. He is living in Lekki. He is 32 years old. When we started dating,I like him but he is not really attractive like other guys I have dated but he is mature and treats me nice. Spends on me too. He also spends for my mom and siblings so they like him. The only issue is,I feel I like him but not really in love. Like I said,maybe because he is just not attractive in my own way. So,I kind of still dated other guys even while with him cos I was not sure I wanted to settle down with him. Well,he discovered I ........ https://livelystones.com.ng/we-cheat-on-each-otheris-marriage-possible-for-us/
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