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 Romance › Re: No S*x Before Marriage -is This An Excuse To Break Up With Me? by Beke2020(op): 12:33pm On Nov 22, 2018 |
 I wonder! Something you will do and get tire of after marriage. If it's so important to a guy? Pay her bride price and marry her  babyfaceafrica: |
| Romance › Re: My Best Friend Is Engaged But Still Sending Nudes To Her Ex by Beke2020(op): 12:27pm On Nov 22, 2018 |
joseo:Join our WhatsApp group. Pls note , the editor always try to do alot of editing Some of our fans here that have sent stories can testify that their story doesn't come out same way they gave us most those via phone conversation, becos we want to keep their identity private. Not after the urgly experience with a fan. See below: [30/08 21:51] O Airtel: Good evening ma [30/08 21:51] O Airtel: I saw my story on line [30/08 21:51] O Airtel: People have been sharing it [30/08 21:51] O Airtel: In fact my family is very angry with me that why did I exposed them [30/08 21:51] O Airtel: I thought is save in this group as in living stone [30/08 21:51] O Airtel: The girl is upset [30/08 21:52] E : But her name not mentioned naa [30/08 21:52] O Airtel: The date was a giveaway [30/08 21:53] E : Oh [30/08 21:53] O Airtel: Should we take it down? [30/08 21:53] E : Okay, ask her The above was my conversation with LS editor after NL carried a story on front page and it went almost viral August this year: LS is a vision. We don't just post anyhow or anything to get traffic. Visit our blog and see the kind of stories published. Thank you. And all those supporting us. We love you guyz and pray it shall be well with your relationship, marriage and all that you do. |
| Romance › My Best Friend Is Engaged But Still Sending Nudes To Her Ex by Beke2020(op): 10:42pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
Editor’s note: This a question from someone on Telegram. Please share your thoughts,how would you advise her? Kindly drop your comments below. Good Morning ma’am, Please keep my name out of this post if you choose to upload my story. Lorine (not real name)| and I go way back. At least from the first to final years on college,so we know each other so well,even our secrets. Lorine and Frank (not real name) dated for three years. They broke during youth service year. He cheated or something. Lorine dated a guy before she finally met this young pastor guy last year. He is a cool guy,different from the guys Lorine usually hangs out with. They are getting married in December and I am happy for them. However,I think Lorine is cheating on this pastor man,yet she still wants to marry him. Lorine and I went to the saloon to get our hair and makeup done. She wanted me to take a picture of her new do. We had taken a couple of selfies already.But she wanted a full length so she asked me to take a picture of her with my phone. As I tried to take the picture....more https://livelystones.com.ng/my-best-friend-is-engaged-but-still-sending-nudes-to-her-ex/
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| Family › Re: My Husband Does Not Get Tired: He ”bothers” Me Everyday. by Beke2020: 10:31pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
expiro ogawisdom: |
| Family › Re: Guilty & Afraid- Either Way,i Am Sure My Marriage Is Over by Beke2020(op): 10:20am On Nov 21, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: I Fear That My Fiance Is With Me Out Of Pity Not Love by Beke2020(op): 10:32pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
| Family › Re: Guilty & Afraid- Either Way,i Am Sure My Marriage Is Over by Beke2020(op): 10:31pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Its well |
| Romance › Re: Guilty & Afraid- Either Way,i Am Sure My Marriage Is Over by Beke2020(op): 10:31pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Definitely, things happens. Only his mercy that covers us Upsidedown9ja: |
| Romance › I Fear That My Fiance Is With Me Out Of Pity Not Love by Beke2020(op): 3:40pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, I stumbled on your blog a few weeks ago and I am extremely inspired by what you are doing. Its become my daily tonic if I can use that term. I read all the articles,they truly teach me a lot even as I am going into marriage with my sweetheart come February next year. But I want to share something with you. This has been bothering me for a while and I am afraid I cannot share it with anyone because I do not want to sound insecure. I am a big plus size woman in my early 30s. I met my fiance two years ago during a church program. We became friends and buddies before it became romantic. With being friends,it was easy. I am a great talker,friendly and funny. I think G liked that about me. I can also cook very well. being his friend was cool enough. I used to tell him how tough it was for big girls to find love. One day,he sent me an sms to say,I am madly in love with you, please let me spend the rest of my life with you. I responded: ‘lol’….then he called and said,is that how to respond to someone who just proposed to you? I was like,get out of here. Long story short,he came over and went on one knee and proposed to me. I cried and cried. Its not because I didn’t love G but I never thought he could see anything in a girl like me. Before you ask why I am so worried,its not just that I am a plus size lady,its because,G is one of the ...more https://livelystones.com.ng/i-fear-that-my-fiance-is-with-me-out-of-pity-not-love/
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| Romance › Re: Guilty & Afraid- Either Way,i Am Sure My Marriage Is Over by Beke2020(op): 2:55pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Thank you can do more, by praying for people going thru issue in their marriages.Upsidedown9ja: |
| Family › Guilty & Afraid- Either Way,i Am Sure My Marriage Is Over by Beke2020(op): 2:52pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, Please what would you have me do in this situation? I love my husband and I know this sounds crazy and very bad but I made a huge mistake and I have thought and thought about what to do and I am at loss totally. Last month,I found out that I was pregnant. Good news right? No,it was hell..I was not pregnant by my husband. I was pregnant by my husband’s friend,Tobi. I am so sorry…I am crying as I say this..I feel so terrible. I feel like I do not deserve to continue to call myself a wife…I have totally failed my husband. So,my husband works in Bonni with an oil rig. He is based on site but he spends between 3 to 4 months apart on site and our home in Asaba. His friend who is also our neighbor is married but his wife is in Lagos with their children. We usually hang out with each even when my husband is around. He is a friend that we trust. We have known him for over 10 years now. One morning,as....more https://livelystones.com.ng/guilty-afraid-either-wayi-am-sure-my-marriage-is-over/ 1 Share
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| Romance › Guilty & Afraid- Either Way,i Am Sure My Marriage Is Over by Beke2020(op): 2:09pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, Please what would you have me do in this situation? I love my husband and I know this sounds crazy and very bad but I made a huge mistake and I have thought and thought about what to do and I am at loss totally. Last month,I found out that I was pregnant. Good news right? No,it was hell..I was not pregnant by my husband. I was pregnant by my husband’s friend,Tobi. I am so sorry…I am crying as I say this..I feel so terrible. I feel like I do not deserve to continue to call myself a wife…I have totally failed my husband. So,my husband works in Bonni with an oil rig. He is based on site but he spends between 3 to 4 months apart on site and our home in Asaba. His friend who is also our neighbor is married but his wife is in Lagos with their children. We usually hang out with each even when my husband is around. He is a friend that we trust. We have known him for over 10 years now. One morning,as...... ..... more https://livelystones.com.ng/guilty-afraid-either-wayi-am-sure-my-marriage-is-over/
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| Family › Infidelity Apart-how Do I Live With My Husband After This Incest? by Beke2020(op): 7:33pm On Nov 17, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, Odinaka my husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have three lovely children. We moved to Canada four years ago and things are going very well. Last year,Odinaka’s father passed and we came down to Nigeria in August for his burial. It was at the burial that I noticed that Odinaka’s father’s young wife son whom he married after Odinaka’s mother died years ago looks so much like my husband. This boy is 9 years old. He is the striking image of my husband and everyone drew my attention to that. I even jokingly told my husband that their family gene is very strong as to how,his young step brother would look so much like him. Papa was 86 when he died. So he must have been like 77 when his wife gave birth to that boy. I also laughed at how strong papa’s sperm was for him to be able to give birth to a son at that age. Papa’s burial made us stay in Nigeria for like two weeks. It was a fun time for my children too. After the burial,I decided to take my children to see my parents in Port Harcourt before we headed back to Canada. Unfortunately,our flight from Enugu to Port Harcourt was cancelled after we waited hours. Last minuted,we decided to go by road and we chattered a car. It was like God.... ......read more https://livelystones.com.ng/infidelity-apart-how-do-i-live-with-my-husband-after-this-incest/ 1 Like
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| Romance › Re: Love Charm Or Trust God-when Desperate:which Is More Effective? by Beke2020(op): 7:36am On Nov 17, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: No S*x Before Marriage -is This An Excuse To Break Up With Me? by Beke2020(op): 7:35am On Nov 17, 2018 |
Absolutely! tripplephi: |
| Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Beke2020: 11:53pm On Nov 16, 2018 |
Hello sir, you didn't mention Fidelity Bank. Pls what is the best price to buy it? Chibuking81: |
| Romance › Re: My Situation Forced Me To Beg But My Husband Calls Me A Prostitute by Beke2020(op): 9:46pm On Nov 16, 2018 |
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| Romance › No S*x Before Marriage -is This An Excuse To Break Up With Me? by Beke2020(op): 9:44pm On Nov 16, 2018 |
Editor’s note: This a question from someone on whatsapp. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Please drop your comments below. Hello ma, Please help me make sense of this:When your boyfriend says no s*x before marriage does it mean he is into another relationship and doesn’t want to break your heart? I am currently serving (NYSC). On the the day we left Orientation Camp, two guys came under the umbrella of a Church to pick those posted to the LGA for our PPA, I never took notice of the guys, it was while we were in the bus the guys introduced themselves, one of which was a Corper serving in the Barracks as the CLO, as of then. So when we got to the church, we were given a warm welcome and from there, I got to know a Colonel officer from my State of origin and so he took me as part of his family. (Story for another day). I was actually posted to a rural village in that same LGA, were there’s no light and network so I tried getting a reposting letter but it didn’t work. Meanwhile,....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/no-sx-before-marriage-is-this-an-excuse-to-break-up-with-me/
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| Romance › Love Charm Or Trust God-when Desperate:which Is More Effective? by Beke2020(op): 8:44am On Nov 16, 2018 |
Editor’s note: This a question from someone on whatsapp. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below. Good Evening all, This platform is Rilly amazing, It has really helped me in various ways to build my relationship. May God bless the good works of this wonderful admin. I have an issue bothering me about a recent trend in this our generation. There is this thing called kayan mata (Hausa language) meaning ladies stuff that women now use to tie men down. (Like a love charm or love portion). If you are from the north you will understand what I mean! I mean is everywhere here people troop in and out from all those mallams place to get it even married women. I have a question because I am beginning to loose hope in this our generation. Is it that genuine love do not exist anymore? Do I have to do fetish things to keep a man? Is it only men that need to be kept? What is the man doing to keep me? Is God no longer on the throne? I know am not a perfect christian I fall I sin I go against God sometimes but I still believe in him more than anything in this world… Please somebody should please make me understand what is happening in this our generation. Please keep me anonymous Sources: www.Livelystones.com.ng
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| Celebrities › Popular Gospel Artist Joepraiz Celebrates Wife’s Birthday by Beke2020(op): 11:50pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
The Mighty God crooner took to Instagram to celebrate his wife’s birthday today. See his birthday message to her: ttps://www.instagram.com/p/BqMeovDhjjJ/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_mid=W-F9RAABAAFt1HDYBwjOMZDMLH6U https://livelystones.com.ng/popular-gospel-artist-joepraiz-celebrates-wifes-birthday/
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| Romance › My Situation Forced Me To Beg But My Husband Calls Me A Prostitute by Beke2020(op): 6:25pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Good day madam, See I have been following lively stone and I want to thank you people for the good work you are doing. You are helping a lot of homes without you knowing. Me,in particular,I have learnt so much and I put some of the things I learn from you to work and it works. But I am not happy in my marriage. I am married,almost seven years now. And I won’t lie,I regret marrying this man. I am a primary school teacher. My husband is a trader. He deals on okrika (fairly used clothes). We were actually just dating but I got pregnant and we got married so that I will not be shamed. Right from our marriage,things have been rough financially. My salary as a Teacher is not enough to do anything. And his business is not moving as before. Because of cost of exporting those clothes has gone very high. He also used to dash young girl clothes so he most of the time will be running at a loss. We have four children and it is not easy to manage with my salary of N45k every month. Sometimes,we go hungry. I feel so bad. Me and my husband always quarrel about money and his girls that he always flirt with. I don’t even care if he is sleeping with them but he will spend the little money he has,he will dash them clothes and in the end,nothing for us. Nobody is really helping us. Occasionally,I.....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/my-situation-forced-me-to-beg-but-my-husband-calls-me-a-prostitute/ |
| Romance › Re: She Stole The Love Of My Life- How Can I Be Blamed For Her Death? by Beke2020(op): 12:12pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
preshdoh: |
| Romance › She Stole The Love Of My Life- How Can I Be Blamed For Her Death? by Beke2020(op): 10:14pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Good day ma, Blessing and I were cousins. We grew up in the same house. Her parents practically raised me until I went to university. I had a boyfriend friend in secondary school then at Okene. He was the love of my life. Bright and I were inseparable. But we did not let anyone know were dating because my aunt,Blessing’s mother would have killed me. But Blessing knew and she promised not to say anything. I went back to stay with my parents in Jos after my secondary school. From there,I got admission to study law in ABU. That time,there was no phone but me and Bright kept in touch through writing letters. But after a while,he stopped writing me and I tried to visit my Aunt one holiday so I can visit him. When I arrived,he was not in town. I was told he was in school at the state polytechnic. I tried to reach him but he was not there either. After I returned,I still tried to send him letters. I even asked Blessing to help me check on him but she said she does not see him anymore. After not hearing about him for two years,I forgot about him. I graduated and did my law school a few years later and got a job in a small law firm in Jos. That was where I met my husband, He also is a lawyer in the same firm as mine. Not long after my wedding,I was informed that ....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/she-stole-the-love-of-my-life-how-can-i-be-blamed-for-her-death/
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| Family › How Do I Stop My Husband From Keeping Malice With Me? by Beke2020(op): 7:09pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
Editor’s note: This a question from someone on whatsapp. What are your thoughts,how would you advise her? Drop your comments below. Hello ma, Good Evening, Please I need your advise. I have been married for six years now,no children even though we have been trying actively. My husband is highly temperamental so most times, I play the fool in this marriage because I want it to work and I need peace to reign in my home. Six days back we got into an argument, on the phone because he was out of town for official assignment. It was a very minor issue which does not warrant him shouting.I kept telling him to calm down but he would not listen. I tried explaining to him calmly while he want ranting.To cut the long story short he stopped calling and when I call him he refuses to answer. He has done this before not once and I hate it a lot. I have told him once when he was in a good mood to that he should be answering my calls no matter what he accepted but I guess he cared less. Just kindly advise me. See More true life stories@ www.livelystones.com.ng
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| Romance › One Day,i Will Marry An Older Woman- Everybody Deal With It! by Beke2020(op): 7:02pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
Good day, You see,when it comes to relationships,I maintain that age is just a number. That lady that does not want to marry her boyfriend because he is younger is not truly in love with him otherwise she will not be saying that. I have always been in relationship where I was the younger one.Maybe because an older girl was my first. Any woman younger than me,I find uninteresting. I also observe less drama with older ladies. However,my biggest challenge has been how society see us. That is my current dilemma. I am in a relationship with a lady who is 39 and I am 31. We met at my 30th birthday celebration. In-fact,she was the caterer at the event. We clicked and have been having the best time since we got into a relationship. I love her and I have made my intentions of wanting to marry her known. But guess what,she is saying no. That she loves me but is afraid if what people will say. That she is 8 years older than me. I really have tried my best to convince her but she is saying no still. We had to break up cos I wandered why we would be together if we were not going to get married. And this has been....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/one-dayi-will-marry-an-older-woman-everybody-deal-with-it/
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| Romance › Jobless For 6 Months But My Wife Won’t Let Me Take This Job by Beke2020(op): 6:50pm On Nov 13, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, My wife and I are disagreeing on something and I need your advice on how to go about it. For some time now,I have been out of a job. I resigned from my job six months ago because I was grossly mistreated. Since then,I have been attending interviews but nothing has come up,although,they have been promises here and there,saying they will get in touch. My wife of two years has been holding forth for us in the family but it is not easy. Her pay is way below what I used to earn, so you can imagine the huge adjustments we had to make. Coupled with the fact that she is pregnant. I feel very bad most times. I have had to do Uber with my car some times just to keep small change for myself. Three days ago,I got a call from my ex’ father. Julie and I dated for almost 5 years but we broke up when I found out that she slept with her ex boyfriend while we were together. She begged and begged but I was done. I used to also work for Julie’s father as a contractor,all that stopped when we broke up. Now....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/jobless-for-6-months-but-my-wife-wont-let-me-take-this-job/
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| Romance › Re: Lost The Love Of My Life Once -I Will Do Anything To Win Her Back by Beke2020(op): 8:33pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Lover boy! Lol! |
| Romance › Re: My Husband Does Not Get Tired: He ”bothers” Me Everyday. by Beke2020(op): 5:28pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: Good Enough For S*x But Not Good Enough For Marriage? by Beke2020(op): 5:17pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
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| Romance › Good Enough For S*x But Not Good Enough For Marriage? by Beke2020(op): 2:02pm On Nov 12, 2018 |
Dear Lively Stone, Please hide my identity.I recently read a story on this blog about a woman who’s husband is fertile.I think it’s almost two women who are going through this,I think I read two stories like that here. Well,after reading their story,I decided to write my own. I was married for eight good years. My husband then used to have early ejaculation. It was very frustrating. I was feeling so unhappy cos I was not enjoying s*x and I was also trying to get pregnant and he could not last two minutes plus his sperm would not even stay inside me for long. He tried medical and herbal treatment,nothing changed. After two years of no issue,I became worried and went for tests in specialist hospitals. I was told to bring my husband too. After several tests ,it was confirmed that my husband had weak and zero sperm count. I was devastated. We were placed on fertility treatments but things did not improve. I used to cry everyday. I started going from prayer house to prayer house. They saw all sorts of visions and blamed several things as the cause of our troubles. Eventually,the frustration got so bad that we started hating each other and stopped sleeping with each other cos,it was of no use sleeping with each other. My husband began to withdraw. His family said I placed a curse on him. They never liked me anyway. By the fifth year of our marriage,I had moved out of my matrimonial home. There were many attempts .....more https://livelystones.com.ng/good-enough-for-sx-but-not-good-enough-for-marriage10692-2/
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| Romance › Re: My Husband Does Not Get Tired: He ”bothers” Me Everyday. by Beke2020(op): 9:46pm On Nov 11, 2018 |
I concurAryEmber: |
| Family › Re: Almost 50..I Fear That I Will Be Alone For The Rest Of My Life by Beke2020(op): 9:43pm On Nov 11, 2018 |
And also note only Jzhane , who is in full employment writes for LS without support. So, if she is making up all the stories, she must be a genius |
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