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koladata:
no woman ask a man for money without giving sex in return eventually... we've all been there. Set her up with a good job or business , an idle mind is the devils workshop. if your wife can't afford 50k of her own from her own job or business and you went ahead to marry her... you have some questions to answer

Actually, I stopped ✋her work last year October where she was earning 52k a month. Reasons because, she need to leave Awka and visit me here in Anuja which stayed more than a month

Good morning my people, please pardon my grammatical errors and long writeups. I'm curiously in need of your help to help me decide if I should confront her or not. This is the problem, traditionally I got married to my wife this January 2023 and by grace of God our wedding is coming this July 2023, our IV is already out, we have got 45% of the Wedding needs already, like Asobi clothes, her own clothes and my clothes too, we have also booked for Decorations, DJ, MC etc.

So, here is the issue that I need to confront her or probably council the Wedding because since I got noticed what has been going in my absent, I wasn't myself for past 3days, I am emotionally exhausted. Here is the problem, there is thus guy that always call her late in the night from 10pm, whenever I asked her who was that, she always tell me is just a friend that they have known right from secondary school, that she knows her girlfriend that nothing is between them. I asked her,did he know that you are married, she said of cause, he is aware. I said OK, that day passed, so the call kept coming same time 10pm but not everyday. Later I began to notice that the guy doesn't call in the night again maybe because she have asked her not to call her by that time again. So 3days ago, I had access with her phone, my brothers and sisters, I was shocked, behold the person that told me she has nothing to do with him that is just a friend. All there conversation in that chat was sweetie, sweetie, that's what they call each other. Though, I found out my wife doesn't give him that chance that she's only interested to eat his money because I saw a receipt of 20k he sent to my wife. The guy was seriously asking for her nude videos which she didn't send to her but she instead sent him stickers. The guy will send her some videos showing her how he will sock her breast, and one hot round of sex, my wife will just replied him OK. Last chat my wife chatted him was where she is begging him for 50 to 100k to pay back by June. She don't have anything doing, I wonder where she will get the money to pay him back. Till now the guy have not replied him. I can say she has not started cheating on me because, she just relocated from Awka to Abuja where I leave and she doesn't know anywhere yet. She is always at home. So where I'm confused now is, is she sending him her nude and delete it at instant or she is just playing ▶️the guy? Even at that, as a married woman 👩did she suppose to engage in such conversation with a man? And she is already pregnant, 16weeks pregnant precisely.

Please house, what should I do in this situation, should I confront her or to keep monitoring her but the fact is, it still disturbs me why my wife a married woman should be having such discussions with a man.

PO ombo

Nawa o, APC why

Ahead of 2023, Presidential candidate of NNPP Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso whilst in Enugu, he paid a courtesy visit to the former Governor of Enugu State, His Excellency Sulliva I. Chime at his Residence.

But his state of condition is confusing, is he sick or old age?

Like I don't understand.

Presidential candidate of Labour Party, Mr Peter Obi and wife arrived Makurdi with Obidient plane...I think PO is coming

OP abeg

Jestin:
Edo is for Peter Obi. Obaghato-kpai Ise

Iseeh

Wey the rally??

Ebuka have already mentioned the winner when they were on top three by mentioning there names, Bella, Brayn and Phyna goodluck to you all.

Planned game since the day 1.

abobote:
The attire looks good on him.

We are wishing all the best

With his round head

I wrote mine in the morning 10am, yet I am still login in to the same link..asking me to start the exam.

Who else?

Though, had my test via laptop but now trying login in via my phone and it is asking to start the exam via phone

nikola:
Hahahahahaha
You know, I had a repetition of like 4 questions. I wonder what they would do with that.

Same here

onyiokoye:
Why is your time showing 2:05 ?

No mind the Yeye time bro

Let's focus on testmi for mow

Just got this message from Belz .

Who else??

Has been rotating for past 10min.


Who else?

I can't login ooo.


Nawa o, what kind wahala be this...

This country set...tuaaaa

Nonsense

10minutes to go guys....

In God we trust....Amen

Why d innocent boy looking unkept...wiz y naah

Wheingo35:
Wait till you get the email stating the date and time. Mine is Thursday the 22nd @ 10:00 AM

Same here...please any idea on what to be expecting that day??

Swamp fish

Goldbw122:
The best advice given ever, just keeping doing what you did to get the 10 million do it again and get more 10ths of millions simple..

What if na Yahoo, kidnapping, Agbero, armed robbery, etc he dey do.

Answer him oo

My besties below.....

● Ordega

● Ajibade

● Onumonu.

● Ayinde.

With this four besties above, Burundi gonna collect

Forwards or Backwards?

You can now use your tongues to count your teeth on whom this cap fits.

Dear Kwankwaso My friend.

I read your statement concerning me and your position concerning the upcoming election.

The fact is that, I have no link with Ipob which they've already stated in their press release.

But you must understand that Ipob activities were as a result of the failure of our Government both at the state and federal level.

If we've done the right thing knowing fully well about our past experience, I don't think there would be anything like IPOB!.

Again, if I'm to rate you or any other candidates from the north based on Boko Haram, Bandits and others who are ravaging the north over a decade now, it won't be nice, I guess!

We should be talking about solving problems facing our country not blame games!

Thank you

Only 21, why, how, and who come stop the fight, Nigeria police? Abi Nigeria Army or Civil defense? Because I expected the fight to end to remain one ISWAP and one BH left.

The story is not clear enough...nonsense

In the organ harvesting allegations against a former Deputy Senate President, Ike Ekweremadu and his wife, Beatrice, has broken his silence.


Ukpo, whose kidney was to be harvested for Sonia, daughter of the Ekweremadus, said he was lured to the UK and the move was without his consent.


The Nigerian couple have been arrested and charged in the UK for attempting to harvest the kidney of Ukpo. They were denied bail by a London magistrates’ court where they were arraigned hours after their arrest last Thursday, June 23, 2022.

Ukpo on Facebook on Saturday, June 25, 2022, shared his side of the story in a post titled, ‘My journey to UK.’

His unedited post reads, “On one fateful day I met a man named okoro in a building site where I was working for my daily bread, okoro told me he like me, he want to help me achieve my dream because he saw me as a great person. He told me could you like to work in UK. I just started laughing because I don’t have money for that, then I told him no am not interested and asked me why I told him I don’t have money for that.

“He just started laughing to me and told me he is going to introduce me to senator his company in UK need workers, so he could start my visa processing.

“I have no other option than to accept the offered, after two day the man came to the building site again and told me the senator wanted to see me so we could start the visa processing, then I dropped my shovel and head pan and went to bath immediately.

“Mr okoro took me to unknown area where I haven’t been before, I was afraid maybe he is a money ritualist, I encouraged my self since I knew Mr okoro for a long time there will be no problem. Mr okoro hand me over to one young man wearing a suit, he told me everything about then I told him Mr okoro has already explain everything to me and I have accepted to work in UK.

“Their later gave me a room on that mansion and snap me a passport photographs and told their will start my visa processing immediately. the kind of food I ate there my generation haven’t ate it before. I was so happy staying in that house. After a week their told me my visa and passport are ready their told we are going to leave tomorrow, I was taken to airport from there we land in UK I was taken to a hospital in UK.

“When we landed in hospital in UK I was told I must went for a medical test to check my health status, if I’m fit for the job I accepted without any question. I thank God for doctor harry who told me everything and I told him why I’m here and he later called police for my rescued.

A say used to say that, if you are thinking of today, be thinking of tomorrow as well. Just as Negative and Positive.

What if Tinubu or any of the parties flag bearers dies weeks befor the election day. What would likely happen. Does it mean that the running mate will automatically become the flag bearer or there will another primary election.

US based Nigerian communicator, Jackson Ude, has cautioned former Big Brother Naija housemate, Pere Egbi, against his lawsuit threat or he would release a video of him and Rashida Bello, the first Lady of Kogi State, to debunk Pere’s denial.

Recall that last week, Pere debunked the viral report alleging that he and Rashida Bello, are having an affair.

He described the report as a demonic lie and also threatened a lawsuit against Ude, who made the report on Twitter.

Pere said, the publication about me and the First Lady of Kogi State is a demonic lie and a figment of a diseased imagination of Jackson Ude and those retweeting that rubbish.”
“They must answer me in court both in Nigeria and in the United States of America, where he is based.”
Ude had alleged in tweet that the Kogi first lady and the ex-BBN housemate are lovers.

“Why is #BBNaija Pere Egbi all over the place with Kogi First Lady, Rashida Bello? Gist around Abuja says that they are lovers. Egbi and Mrs Bello are said to have been sighted severally at the Hilton Hotel, Abuja. The gist is that when they first met, First Lady gifted Egbi N5 million.”
However, following Egbi’s threat, Ude had vowed to release a confirmation video that would give credibility to his claim.

In a recent tweet, he said:

“Who the hell is #BBNaija Pere Egbi? They better advice him to keep quiet. If I hear or see my name on his mention again, I will release the video and damn it. I deleted earlier tweet because senior officials pleaded. But if he wants to flex muscles with me, try me.”

BoredBerry:
Just came back from the market... Went there with my landlord's son... This afternoon he saw me going out and asked where I was heading to... Told him... He asked if he could accompany me and I said yes! He was getting a few things too (a mop and buckets and so on...)

I've never spoken to him before... I thought he was an arrogant self-absorbed snub... Not my type... He's a few years older... I'm nineteen so he's between twenty one to twenty three... Very fair... Has curly hair which he dyed dirty blond but left the roots black... Pierced both ears... Dad is a police man... So it's insane he allows his son go out looking like a yahoo boy...

Anyways... He and I trekked a little... We barely spoke... I was extremely shy...

We stay in a very quiet predominantly hausa- fulani- yoruba muslim community... After some minutes we finally stopped a bike... He said we would ride together... I told him 'No'... I never tried that sh** with my exes and sure a as hell wouldn't start with him... But after waiting to no avail... I relented...

It was uncomfortable and extremely exciting! Being really close to cute guy! A lot of bad thoughts but I was also scared a neighbour would see he and I and report us to my mum...

We got to the market which is extremely disorganized! We split up... He went his own way to get what he wanted to buy... And I went to the stalls selling tomatoes and pepper and bought some onions from a mallam...

He and I met again... He asked if I was done so we would head back to our compound together... I told him I had to grind them cause the blender at home was faulty...

In the market... There's a section where yoruba women grind tomatoes or egusi etc... We got there... The lady I chose cause her engine was the cleanest started to tease us... My landlord's son is an aje-butter... He was choking turning red...

It felt good... Cause he was a bit humiliated which made me confident...

The woman asked if we were dating... I couldn't say no... Kept laughing throughout... He didn't say anything.... I think it's a good thing... He made it seem as though we were together...

We finished there... Started talking really well... He's funny... Smart too... Plus he's cute so I enjoyed us being seen together as much as being with him...

We went to a cold room to get some chicken... Nothing much happened there... He paid though... I refused cause I had the money... But I couldn't make a scene... We later spent the money on sweets and soft drinks... Which was fun...

His mum called... Asked him to go to his aunt's wine shop to get something... I didn't follow him cause it's already late... Went home alone...

What if the so called cute guy is here on nairaland too and read all this your story??

A brother needs an advice for which one should he go first. Despite the situation of the country, Lagos precisely.