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I have already given and advised all my co-tenants that from Monday nobody should come in to my house anymore. Just knock, I would come out and attend to you.

Because come Monday, I pray it didn't escalate as I am thinking now because me, I am not moving an inch or board any bus. I have extended my own personal Lockdown for two more weeks. I can #PALLIATIVE my self. Whorre a bom shit.

During our primary and secondary school days, every child mostly has it in common to become neither a doctor, lawyer and Engineer. That was three major commonly known professions then. Can you share what was passion behind this?

Mine goes this way...

For me while growing up, I wanted to become a Lawyer, probably because I loved talking and everyone used to Call me barrister. There was also a family friend Lawyer I looked up to then

Then Jamb jammed me and I ended up studying political Science and the rest is history.

Scores of youths in Isuofia, Aguata Local Government Area, Anambra State yesterday protested alleged laying of cables suspected to be for the controversial 5G Technology Network in the community.


The protest reportedly lent credence to a statement credited to leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, alleging the laying of 5G Technology Network cables in the state while residents were compelled to observe stay-at-home over the coronavirus pandemic.

A resident of the area who preferred anonymity said the youths had confronted the firm, warning them that the exercise would put their lives at risk.


He said the officials of the company, whose identity could not be ascertained as there was no inscription on their equipment, denied the allegation, claiming that they were installing a 4G Technology Network cable.

The Nation however learnt that the youths insisted they must stop work and leave the community for peace to reign.

Reacting, the traditional minister of the community, Chief Ndubisi Osele, blamed the protest on misinformation.

He said: “Some miscreants misinformed the youths in the community that 5G Technology Network was being installed in the community.

“What is being laid underground is fiber cables, not 5G Network; 5G Technology Network is a band placed on the Mast, it is not laid under the ground.”

Deltayankeeboi:




Chineke.

Words fail me.

But some tenants can be so wicked, you didn't pay, you don't want them to disconnect your light.

You want to keep enjoying where you did not sow.

Is that not wickedness.

See what you caused yourself.

When you get well, try and pay before you pack out.

How did u pass out from school sef, just jumped into conclusion without going through the story. The tenant only owing for electricity which the landlord have cut her own apartment, the tenant allowed that, it was wen the landlord wanted to cut off her water system that she came out and said no.

Check out of this

bigiyaro:
jokes apart, up north is safer.

Boko Haram nko

Nawa o, the way ppl behave nowadays, how una go dey just nack bomba to bomba without any protection. No fear of HIV, Lassa, abi COVID-19. Abi una do test ni?

No try remove that innocent boy, he might be d next president.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

OP, don't mind people criticising your idea, you made a nice idea but a little mistake. Assuming you had put that ring as said, I will advise you to leave her but you have not yet and she doesn't know how serious you are taking the relationship. So, she gonna strategise for tomorrow.

AfroKnight:
Bekeey, you have not confirmed the truth yet. But let us assume she is a babymama.

Can you handle baby-daddy drama? Whether she likes it or not, her child will always be the link between her and her ex. And when some situations arise, you will be left out of the decision making even though you may be affected by those decisions.

Like someone rightly said, her love goes to her love-child first, even before you. That is the truth and it is normal.

Can you deal with this?

Some men have no problem dedicating themselves to their wives, selflessly. Some others expect the woman to show them as much love and attention in return. Nothing wrong with both personalities.

The relationship is still fresh. If you found out that she was hiding her baby from you, what would you do? Would you leave her or would you stay and discover other secrets one by one? The ball is in your court.

Thanks

joceey:
Biko nwame .....I read everybody post here but there's something I like to ask you ,has she informed you herself that she has a child or not ...answer me biko

She has not o, kept saying she had terrible and heartbroken experience.

daviddagreat:
Down side of marrying a single mother is that you will never be her priority, the child always comes first and you can't change that. Buh if the love is strong enough , you will thrive

Hhhmmm

Michellekabod2:
why will any sane girl tell a guy knowing how judgemental you guys can be?

Don't you think it will be more harm if found out my self

ShagariBillions:
You are not a child anymore, you’ve come of age and settling down is important. If you’ve waited till this time it’s either you’ve been a bad boy or you’ve been busy chasing money, so let’s take one after the other.

You don’t know this girl enough but if you feel good vibes around her, check other parameters you need in a woman and go for it.

A child could have been from a single mistake, and some girls won’t abort a girl cause of fear or faith.
You can’t let one mistake , hinder your happiness
Single mothers go through a lot to take care of their child to the extent of prostitution.
She might be a good person but you need some more time, don’t rush it, let things flow naturally.

Thanks, I appreciate

Michellekabod2:
A lot of men have lost great women in their lives and ended up with wrong ladies because of petty phenomenon like:
1) their friends tell them they had once slept with the girl they are currently into .
2) she said she was a virgin but didn't bleed(as if all virgins bleed when they are deflowered)...

Other petty things like " leftovers"

The sad thing is that they don't ask questions,most will have some assumptions about you or hear a rumour of the girl's past (which may be a lie) and without asking they ghost the lady, and hop up to a fake-it-till-i-get-the-ring-girl who may make their lives miserable.

That's why I don't feel pity for men. To them,a man past can be night-black and after swallowing a capsule of redpill,making money,boosting his self confidence and learn alpha-male tips he is good to go,but a woman error is seen as unredeemable, even if it occurred a decade ago. To them,no amount of submissiveness, femininity ,etc can remove the perceived ugly blot on her. They peddle this queer ideology as "truth" of life. They never seem to rob myths/social constructs on ladies face.


May we all leave with the consequences of our choices.

@Op,talk to her about it. If you can't pull through,leave her for a man that can instead of wasting her time.
Don't stay with her because of pity. Or subscribe to some males that will call you a loser for your choice or a cuckhold. Decide what you want yourself,your decisions are for you to live with for life,those whose counsel you may choose to heed to will not live with the consequences for you.
But confirm first before walking out,a woman belly can be deceptive....
I am a single mom and I have abs (i work out a lot though. Another girl with bad diet may have a protruded belly because of over eating and not necessary childbirth

She have not opened up to me yet, but she ought to tell me. Ain't she?

Michellekabod2:
A lot of men have lost great women in their lives and ended up with wrong ladies because of petty phenomenon like:
1) their friends tell them they had once slept with the girl they are currently into .
2) she said she was a virgin but didn't bleed(as if all virgins bleed when they are deflowered)...

Other petty things like " leftovers"

The sad thing is that they don't ask questions,most will have some assumptions about you or hear a rumour of the girl's past (which may be a lie) and without asking they ghost the lady, and hop up to a fake-it-till-i-get-the-ring-girl who may make their lives miserable.

That's why I don't feel pity for men. To them,a man past can be night-black and after swallowing a capsule of redpill,making money,boosting his self confidence and learn alpha-male tips he is good to go,but a woman error is seen as unredeemable, even if it occurred a decade ago. To them,no amount of submissiveness, femininity ,etc can remove the perceived ugly blot on her. They peddle this queer ideology as "truth" of life. They never seem to rob myths/social constructs on ladies face.


May we all leave with the consequences of our choices.

@Op,talk to her about it. If you can't pull through,leave her for a man that can instead of wasting her time.
Don't stay with her because of pity. Or subscribe to some males that will call you a loser for your choice or a cuckhold. Decide what you want yourself,your decisions are for you to live with for life,those whose counsel you may choose to heed to will not live with the consequences for you.
But confirm first before walking out,a woman belly can be deceptive....
I am a single mom and I have abs (i work out a lot though. Another girl with bad diet may have a protruded belly because of over eating and not necessary childbirth

Thanks

Goodgod213:
The man way fukk her before will still fukk her again

The way things are now to her, I doubt

kestolove95:
It makes guys think dey are eating left over food nd I support dem

Yes, you understand the feelings

Please pardon my grammatical errors.

All started June last year, I mate this girl online, Facebook precisely. We started chatting and talking, video calls each other. I spents 1hour on calls with her.
I stays in Abuja whilst she stays in Nsukka where she schools. For all this while, distance couldn't allow us to meet one on one. We so much fell in love with each other, I mean deep one. We must hear each others voice at least twice a day.

I am graduate, still single and searching managing my self, can afford 3² mills a day, for those that can understand. And by 6th of this January 2020, she will be in her final year at University of Nigeria Nsukka.

She is a pretty girl and my speck in a woman, fair in complexion, average height

To cut the story short, I returned for Christmas, we are both Anambrans. I bought her a gown worth of 7k, heigh hill shoes 7k and 5k handbag making it total of 19k.

When I called her that I am back, she was very excited on phone and I told her that I am coming to see her the next day she fell more deep excited. To cut it short like I said, we finally met and both happy to see each othe.

So, we fixed a date she will visit me, that's three days after. She came and I gave her the goodies I bought for her, behold much excitement from her. She paused and said I should excuse her to test it. I was like, excuse you? She pecked me and said sorry yes. I excused her and later came in, I was happy as if I took her measurement before getting all those stuffs for her. Behold she still ask me out from the room when she wanted to remove it.

Cutting the story short, after all the excitement, I started giving her the sines of wonders, if you know you know. We kissed romanced deeply, I can testify, she is very good in that, I mean very good, I said to my self """this one Ochanja Market is like this, na only God knows how the Main Market will look like""" at last she declined me not to touch both up and down points.

My point now is, I found out via her stomach that she is a single mother probably a nursing mother. I was pressurising to see if she will tell me and asking her how her past relationship was like but she kept telling me it was a terrible one, heartbroken this and that. As I am writing this, she have not told me something related having a child outside marriage, I love her so much planning to have future with her but each time I remembers that, it always weakens me emotionally.

Please what do I do as I can't imagining my self getting married to a single mother, and am just 34 whilst she is 26. And she has that wife qualities and pretty.

Please advise!!!

istina:
So what happens to millions of unemployed youths who currently have accounts

Does it means they will be unable to receive their monthly stipend from family and friends who give them a token just to keep them from suicide before they are gainfully employed?

Salary account only

If you have the right skills or experience in a certain field, you may be able to turn it into a work-at-home job.
Future entrepreneurs dream of running their own business one day, but many have to work full-time jobs before starting their own. Careers give you skills and experience that will be valuable when you're a business owner. Many jobs even let you work from home.

These eight stay-at-home jobs cut the time you'd spend commuting, which means you have more time to dedicate to planning and creating your own business. And, you'll save on gas and wear and tear on your vehicle.

If you're looking for a work at home opportunity, why not explore flexible jobs work that may even lead to you launching your own business?

I chose to highlight these eight jobs because they provide legitimate work, full-time income and business opportunities, even for people with kids. Plus, you can apply the skills and experience you gain through these jobs to your small business and overall career.

1. Bookkeeping.
Working as a stay at home bookkeeper can give you steady work while developing your communication and data entry skills. There are many job opportunities in this area, whether you work as an employee or as a freelancer. Once you've gained an understanding of what it takes to run a bookkeeping business, you can open one of your own.

2. IT Support
Businesses have an increasing need for quality IT support due to constant evolution and development of technology. The IT industry often lets employees work from home. This means you can find many IT support positions that are essentially online jobs. Experience in IT support opens many business opportunities, which could help you open your own IT agency one day.

3. Medical or Legal Transcription
I have a good friend who started her own medical transcription business. She transcribes voice-recorded medical reports dictated by doctors. Medical and legal fields use unique terminology and depend on detailed accuracy. That's why both industries continue to rely on talented transcriptionists. Many work entirely from home.

4. Website Design and Management
In today's technology-driven age, every business needs a quality website. Because sites need ongoing maintenance and can go out of date relatively quickly, website design and management is a promising field to venture into. You can do this work remotely, so an agency may hire you to work from home.

I know graphic designers who developed their design skills strongly enough to offer website design on a freelance basis. One of them hired other designers and now has an agency of more than fifty people.

5. Event Staffing Management
If you're organized, efficient, and have management or hiring experience, you may be able to find a remote job with an event staffing management company. You'll network with and hire staff for promotional events all over the country. With a little time and experience, you can open up your own event staffing management company to offer these services to businesses.

6. Marketing Management
The field of marketing is constantly evolving and it's difficult for business owners to stay on top of the latest marketing trends. Marketing managers step into this role for them. They use their expertise to help companies get the most value out of social media and their marketing budgets in general. Marketing is a versatile field, and you can freelance as a marketer or eventually open your own marketing agency.

7. Writing or Editing
Businesses and nonprofits often hire remote freelance writers or editors. And, you can find stay at home opportunities for grant writing, blogging, copywriting, copyediting, proofreading, and more. Working full-time for a company can help to develop your skills and knowledge. In time you might start your own side hustle to make extra money or open your own writing and editing company.

8. Project Management
Many industries offer project management positions that demand organized, efficient, and deadline-driven people. Working as a stay-at-home project manager can help you to develop skills and experience applicable to many different types of businesses.

Not only do many of these jobs offer you the convenience of working from home, potentially on your own schedule, they can also prepare you to start your own business. Explore careers that let you work from home full-time or part-time. It can make it easier to balance your job with the work you'll want to put into launching your own business someday.

Who would tell us where to use the words ''While and Whilst'' in English Language.

It always get me confused.

A brother and a friend came to me and said for almost a year now, he always has fears when ever he books an apoitment with a woman. And with that fears and anxiety in him, it affecting his sexual ability, said he will find one or two excuses give to her which he knew too well that she is not happy with.

Imagine someone that has sex in mind but unfortunately you can't afford it to her, is very disappointing to the girl and disgrace to the man. Said with that fears, his d**k will not stand again buh when she is gone everything will be back, his d**k will be rising anyhow especially early morning.

Said he thought he has a medical problem until he visited a very well known hospital did a thorough test including SIMEN test and everything appeared ok and was given only malaria drugs.

Simen results stated: Viscosity= Normal, pH=7.5,

Under Motility, Active=90%, Sluggish=5%, Dead=5%.

Under Morphology, Normal=60%, Abnormal=40%, Count=255mill cell/mm³

Doctors in the house, please what are the solutions to overcomes this kind situation as the fear that he might not perform always disturbs him and affecting him.

DEtutors:
what role?

Metering supervisor

Please who have any idea of what they may ask.

Help a Sister.


Thanks

lunacol:
Agency has only one option which is Nigeria Security Civil Defence Corp which you must select. Also your position is the cadre or level you are applying for.If you are a University graduate,it is either you go for CONMESS 02 if you fall under the medical profession or ASCII CONPASS 08 for other relevant courses not within the medical profession but if you are a polytechnic graduate then choose SIC CONPASS 08

Wao, thanks. I appreciate

fabem:
Check the top of the passport, if you see application number, it means you have submit your application.

Please, what is required to fill or put in the Agency/Position.

Because I am yet to fill that one as I didn't understand it, and maybe is the reasons I couldn't see the Application number above my passport. Thanks

westernized:
After clicking on submit application, it takes you to the preview page, look at the top of the page, you will be asked if you are interested in other agencies, directly below that question is the submit button, I hope this helps you.

Please, what is required to fill or put in the Agency/Position.

westernized:
After clicking on submit application, it takes you to the preview page, look at the top of the page, you will be asked if you are interested in other agencies, directly below that question is the submit button, I hope this helps you.

Will check, thanks

fabem:
Check the top of the passport, if you see application number, it means you have submit your application.

I will check, thanks.

Pls, what is the next after appearing as preview, because I don't know how I will get to print my Ack. Slip.

It kept showing me preview page after I clicked on Submit Application.

Does it mean I have submitted?

I will appreciate your swift response. Thanks

fabem:
It will appear at preview and submission stage.

Pls, what is the next after appearing as preview, because I don't know how I will get to print my Ack. Slip.

It kept showing me preview page after I clicked on Submit Application.

Does it mean I have submitted?

I will appreciate your swift response. Thanks

Pls more opinion.