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Kobojunkiee:
Oh so now I need to have a husband to cook for? You came here to showcase your inadequacies and you take offense when it is made clear to you?

Feel free to point out the inadequacies wherever they may be. Perhaps, I may learn and have a change of opinion

MufasaLion:
An educated woman or nothing! Shove your opinion down your ass.

I ain't shoving nothing. Everyone is free to express their preferences as you have just done. Btw, it's OverEducated not educated, it would have taken you one second to consider the difference between both

Kobojunkiee:
How could I make sense when you simply created this here thread to broadcast your personal preferences/bias as if to be shared by all?

Smh. Don't you have a husband to cook for or something?

Kobojunkiee:
Now that we have established your worth, why not post this information on a dating sight so women who find men of your low caliber appealing can flock to give you the attention you deserve?

Announcing your desperation via a thread like this isn't really the way to find yourself a mate at all, youngman.

You're not making sense. Relax and take a deep breath and try to be coherent

ednut1:
then focus on your specs and keep it moving. Abi what is the aim of all these posts

Or what? You could also read, ignore and keep it moving, could you not?

Kobojunkiee:
1. You are here broadcasting your personal preferences as if right for all of us is the issue. You ignore every other individuals right to their own when you come here announcing yours as if the superior list. And I am simply trying to ascertain what it is you bring to the table so to speak that makes you believe so.

2. a What do you mean by adequately-educated?

b. Women do not desire submissive men, and you came away with this after polling exactly how many women?

c. I bet Tinubu and Obasanjo also tell themselves they are good-looking but we know the truth. Do women see you as good-looking or is this all about the voices in your head?

d. Alright.

1. I'm sorry, did I put a gun to anyone's head? I have simply stated what I believe to be ideal, while also stating that I welcome opposing views. It's left for people to agree or disagree, confirm or not. In the end, time and chance will hand down consequences. You really need to learn to calm your tits and be less emotional.

2. Adequately educated means I am educated enough to earn well and live a relatively comfortable life. Far above the national average.

b. Women not desiring submissive men is a fact of life. I haven't run any polls yet, but I'm sure women also desire financial stable men/men of means.

c. You do not know what I look like, so your comment is irrelevant at best and trolly at worst. Point dismissed

ednut1:
here we go, false equivalency . there are lots of averagely educated babes go for them. for people like me and some other men, a woman with career is a must. after all na person marry Okonjo Iweala, Akunyili , Alakiji and the over 10 female bank CEOs in Nigeria. these career women usually reject people like una then una go begin vex and cry online hahahah

There's nothing apealling to me about career women or boss ladies, as such their rejections (if I were to mistakenly approach them) would be water off a duck's back. I don't find them attractive as they possess masculine traits which are a massive turn off

Have fun with your Okonjos and Akunyilis.

I'd like to know how many women with multiple degrees are okay marrying a man of lower educational status?

If you're a woman who has a Masters or Doctorate on this forum, I'd like to know if your ideal man has less educational qualifications as you. Not a man you can marry, a man you'd like to marry. Thanks

Kobojunkiee:
Interesting list you have there. So you want to have another human being molded to your personal spec?

How educated at you yourself?
Are you also submissive?
Are you also able to keep quiet when wisdom required ? Do you handle general support well? Are you equally teachable? Are you at least good looking?

What's wrong with having preferences and requirements? Do women not have them? Do women not have an ideal of what their husbands should be?

I'm adequately educated.
I'm not submissive, women do not desire submissive men, not do I even have any interest in being submissive.
I'm quite good-looking, if I do say so myself

I speak when necessary and have developed the habit of listening to dissenting opinions, when presented, to sift out wisdom

ednut1:
marry your spec and stop disturbing the internet . Some of those talking it's their career focus sister that is feeding them and their parents. Go Marry Amaka from the village and face your life.

Ideals are what they are. Many yahoo boys are also the benefactors of their families, doesn't make internet fraud ideal

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are not serious at all

In this competitive era who will want to be stuck with one degree if given the opportunity to further

No vex ma

InTheCloudySky:
https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/361/575/5c9.gif

I chuckled

Kobojunkiee:
And what would those other factors be?

Submissiveness, ability to keep quiet when required, general support, accountability/personal responsibility, teachability, 60%+ beauty/attractiveness to name a few

Kobojunkiee:
Interesting! So you are saying a female version of me will make a good wife, this since I don't even have a degree, but I have a good general knowledge instead.

Generally-speaking, someone with your educational level should make a good wife; there are, however, other factors to consider

Kobojunkiee:
Does the man deserve to have more than more degree? Just that women shouldn't be allowed the same privileges is what you are arguing here?

If the man is expected to be the major/only breadwinner, it's logical that he possesses the requisite skills/education to increase his chances of fulfilling his responsibilities

Kobojunkiee:
Does the man deserve to have more than more degree?

Whats good for the husband isn't necessarily good for the wife and vice versa. So, apples and oranges

Kobojunkiee:
Define averagely educated abeg!

Having one degree or having good general knowledge if no degree

cococandy:
What’s the definition of over educated?

Having more than one degree

Goldbw122:
Make we go marry the one wey nor go school... na you advice ?

Extremism is always a problem. OverEducated and underEducated are two extremes

Married and mature men, can you please tell which set of women you had the most fulfilling relationships with? ( The super educated or the averagely educated).

Thanks

This has been an observation of mine for a while now and I happened upon a twitter thread that sort of echoes my thoughts.

Feel free to disagree, of course. I'm open to opposing views

Hmm, e be like say baba done go do DNA test and the result na carryover.

I read a very sad story on twitter about a guy who earns 2.4m naira annually who still took loans from loan apps to satisfy his girlfriend's needs. The most painful part is she deleted their chats and blocked him after the apps sent a broadcast to his contact list, including her, when he couldn't pay back on time.

Guys, please, stop simping. Simping is a curse. How can you spend 2m out of your 2.4m annual salary for your babe in a bid to maintain relationship/love? Isn't that madness? Any babe that cannot get with your program is not for you. If you have to spend more than you can afford to maintain a relationship, that relationship is a drain on your soul. Funny thing is these girls know you're overstretching yourself and are only with you because of the free money they get from you, and they have other guys servicing and paying them steady. Stop fooling yourselves

Tomorrow is valentine's day, some of you are planning to spend money you don't have. That is foolishness. If you no fvck, you no go die. Self discipline is key in fulfilling your potential as a man. Think with your head, not your deeq or your ego.

Selah

Baba, no stress yourself ; as you dey cheat, your wife sef done get her own side cock na why she no send you again.

You never hear say, "when a woman's fed up, there's nothing you can do about it. You can cry a river till an ocean starts to form". Na only Baba God fit help your situation now. Next time you go get sense

sanmtiago:


Sometimes I come to the conclusion that we’re highly sexual beings who found civilization and used it to better our lives. But you see that sexual nature is what we can’t annihilate, it is so indispensable. Na why we Dey see useless topics about sex and the opposite sex matter very often for this forum where we Dey use keep ourselves busy. You can’t go past two threads without bumping into the third that talks about this thing called sex or anything related to it

Your observation is spot on. Sexüal expression can not be annihilated in humans as it is as natural as breathing. We are programmed to reproduce. That's why you see foliage in abandoned or poorly maintained buildings. Marriage and relationships are just ways by which we tr to reduce social volatility in our civilisation as much as possible. That's why most marriages and relationships ends and we need to maintain them using strict controls (vows, shaming of deviants, etc)

pappilo:
Marriage..... The ting wey my eye see ehn.... My ex wife I was married to for 14 years and been with over 23 years testified against me in court today as a supporting witness to the man who destroyed our home.

23 years! Been together since we were teenagers and all it took was for one guy to turn her head and that was it. Possibly heading to gaol in the next week if found guilty. 2 decades in the abroad, no fraud conviction, no driving conviction, no theft conviction, only to be convicted for 'love'

It still feels like a dream. Fear women. Tell him to preserve his life and not sign it away.

I take it you weren't convicted

i don't see what the big deal is here. When will an article be written about the challenges male uber drivers face from female passengers?

1. Unnecessary rudeness
2. Failing to pay cab fair
3. Offering püssy in lieu of cab fare
4. Lateness and disrespect for cab drivers' time and schedule


There's nothing special about what these women face. Idiots will be idiots whether male or female, but the desire to be seen as victims will make this trash article trend

Mercychen:
Men that usually clamore for more children are never around to control these children when they start their troubles. They leave the whole nurturing to the wife, leaving her stressed out at the end of the day.

Better this way, so every one knows what to expect.

Asides the obvious grammatical blunders in your comment, your train of thought is highly illogical. You made a blatantly unprovable comment and unironically seem satisfied with yourself. I remember you saying you're a writer some time ago. Is this the kind of tosh you dish to your readers?

Newboss:
Stop begging. Change your door lock. She must beg before you let her in.

Delete her number and start fūcking new pussy.

You also have to forget your daughter. Let her raise her with her parents.

Don't beg a woman. That's the easiest way to push her away. Always form right.

When we keep talking about simping, una think say we stupid and hate women. See your life now. Yeye

I fully support this post apart from the lock-changing part. Let her come in and find you and your new babe kpanshing. Let her kuku go and eat her püssy. She dey crase. 2 fücking months? I'm incensed

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...that's another point o. Bet why would a wife be happy to be separated from her husband if he is a good man? Did she fall out of love with him? What could she have told her parents to make them support the separation even after hearing his side of the story? It is well fa...let me rest on this matter. I have tried.

Goodest evening Oba.

Good evening B.


She probably never loved him to begin with. He most likely was a means to an end, the end being the Mrs title and a child.

I would advise him to relay the situation to his parents, especially his father. Let his people go meet her people and see if things can be sorted out (to fulfil all righteousness). If she still refuses to come back home after that intervention, Baba should go and get a babe that he'll be sampling steadily and openly.


I repeat, woman no fit use coochie shakara me. I go just dey laugh dey shake head. Denying your husband sèx should be a criminal offence, and 2 months is extreme.

Nothing to see here, just a madam showing off her mumu like people show off cars and houses

sisisioge:
See how wahala just wear cardigan for you! Hian! Sex is beautiful....sex should be enjoyed.....how did you end up with someone not interested in sex when you have high libido? How? Hian! Biko relax....give her space as requested....continue with your life as usual....she will one day get to the point of readiness to discuss. Even the bible discourages sexual denials in marriage! Na wa o.

Bet na wa for you sha....you raped and slapped the love of your life! Jesu gba wa o. It is well.

What if she doesn't ever get to the point of readiness to discuss? The man should just zero his mind abeg. He's feeble minded and his wife is wicked. She's happy he did what he did. He can never, in good conscience, ask for sèx from her ever again. I swear she's secretly ecstatic