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FamilyRe: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Belafonte(op): 10:21am On May 15, 2022

FamilyRe: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Belafonte(op): 10:20am On May 15, 2022
It continues

FamilyMost Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Belafonte(op):
Brothers, this is a bit long, but it's valuable nonetheless. Do yourself a favour and read to the end

FamilyRe: My Wife Slapped Me & I Beat Her But She Refused To Go To Father's House by Belafonte(m): 11:38pm On May 14, 2022
OblorOblor:
You made a mistake by going to sleep in a hotel. And worse still, you do kerewa. I understand you wanted a break from her to avoid any unforeseen wahala. But I think you should have insisted she proceed on one month leave at her parents', during which time peace can be brokered. NEVER resort to unfaithfulness because of the fight. My two and half kobo.
If sleeping in the hotel was a mistake, where would you have recommended?
FamilyRe: My Wife Slapped Me & I Beat Her But She Refused To Go To Father's House by Belafonte(m): 11:36pm On May 14, 2022
Mishydoo:
My wife has even slapped me once but I know only a weak man hits a woman .
Women that hit men nko? How would you classify them?
FamilyRe: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Single Lady That Already Has A Baby? by Belafonte(m): 9:30pm On May 11, 2022
Marrying a single mother is like arriving at a party after everyone has left and cleaning up the mess they left behind
FamilyRe: For Men Only: The Silent Pains Of A Husband by Belafonte(m): 6:32pm On May 06, 2022
Wahala for who no get divorce for dictionary. Wahala for who no wan practise polygamy.
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia And China To Advance ‘fair World Order’ – Moscow by Belafonte(m): 12:03pm On Mar 31, 2022
Rugaria:
If they West spent a fraction of their African loot over 3 centuries to help build some of those projects, maybe there will be no need for the Chinese loans by now..
Nobody says that China is the newest father Christmas. What we're saying is that there's a determined intention on their side to help bridge the infastructural gap in the continent an that's very helpful..
You're missing the point of the bigger picture.

Both the west and China are primarily concerned about resources exploitation in Africa grin

The cardinal difference between western and Chinese approaches is that while the west are saidfaird with indirect influence while they can get resources out, the Chinese want direct control over those resources.

The west favours imperialism, the Chinese want direct colonialism.


So, while the west didn't do as many infrastructural projects, Africa still largely was in control of her destiny; the Chinese on the other hand have your balls in a vice. Be prepared to see direct Chinese control of a couple of Africa's major assets in the coming years
Foreign AffairsRe: Europe Countries Keep Saying Russia Bridge Their Gas Contracts by Belafonte(m): 11:39am On Mar 31, 2022
VictorUSA:
Belafonte, irony on the beat.Trump was a disaster to America and God helped dethroned the dunce. what are u saying? China and Russia cannot achieve this fit you are daydreaming about.They are just far too small and too weak to do that.The west manipulates the world and the activities here in.
No probs. Let's watch as events unfold
Foreign AffairsRe: Europe Countries Keep Saying Russia Bridge Their Gas Contracts by Belafonte(m): 11:27am On Mar 31, 2022
VictorUSA:
Ken6488, sir since we start conversin I never insulted and never would I.It'll be difficult to dumb dollar as reserve currency as many investors are not used to other currencies.The talks to dethrone dollar have been raging for years so it's not a new thing.

About China and Russia, euro and Africa of a thing, I don't understand what you're trying to pass across.
You never sabi wetin dey happen. This is the opportunity a lot of countries have been waiting for. The dollar will lose value and may never recover for a long time, if ever. You think Russia is stewpid?

The worst thing the west and their media did was to was run Trump out of office. He was their last hope at salvation. China and Russia will straff the west without condom. Just dey dey look film
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia And China To Advance ‘fair World Order’ – Moscow by Belafonte(m): 11:23am On Mar 31, 2022
Rugaria:
This is the best for Africa. This might be a once in a lifetime opportunity for caged African states to break free and look for both international and economic relationships from these two emerging super power states that are ready to treat our people with a reasonable amount of respect. Between China, Russia and probably India, Africa has a huge market to exploit, devoid of western racist imperialistic tricks.. Folks in this continent who are still stuck inside the western mans behind, should relocate to the west and allow pan Africanists to unleash the needed international collaborations essential for the quick development of the continent. From french West Africa to British colonized Africa, we have seen no single success story! All we see are poverty, misery and squalid existence. ..

The Chinese have built more roads, more train tracks, more airports and more factories in Africa than the West put together. Yet the Chinese actually started investing big time here less than 3 decades ago. The so called "free world" only see Africa as a mininig destination where they utilize poverty and illiteracy to keep the people in check while looting their resources.., sponsoring wars while assassinating pro people leaders! They killed Sankara and Lumumba, NOT The Chinese! They imposed Bokassa and Mobutu, Not The Russians! They encouraged apartheid till it ran its full course! Almost 5 centuries of contact between the West and Africa has yielded nothing for the mother continent. Let's try something new, afterall we are already down, so why fear further falls?
Most of the Chinese projects are loans which are very likely unpayable in the foreseeable future. You will be alive when China takes direct control over the economies and governments of a couple African countries.

China isn't investing here out if altruism. There's no free lunch in Freetown grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia And China To Advance ‘fair World Order’ – Moscow by Belafonte(m): 11:18am On Mar 31, 2022
KaLuCh:
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

I DO NOT WANT TO LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE RUSSIA AND CHINA ARE THE WORLD ORDER. GOD FORBID!
Nobody wants to, but at this point it is looking likelier by the day
FamilyRe: . by Belafonte(m): 10:26pm On Mar 24, 2022
Mumben:
U better accept that job not because it is befitting for a graduate but because there are bills to pay and economy is not smiling.

I'll advice u start while hoping for a better tomorrow
Actually, the job is befitting a graduate. Beggars can't be choosers
RomanceRe: The Only Solution To The Decline In Men Willing To Settle Down.... by Belafonte(m): 12:34pm On Mar 15, 2022
I absolutely agree with the OP. Sad thing is he'll be called old-fashioned by children controlled by their hormones who have no idea how the world works.

If na before wey guys dey cum if dem see woman ankle sef, the mere promise of exclusive sèx with a woman was more than sufficient to influence men into tying the knot. But today, we dey see nipplès, cameltoe etc unsolicited, so where the incentive to marry?

Na for 2022, you go see where 35 year old woman dey call man time easter because he refuse to marry am after multiple hot seks sessions. Hot seks wey she done dey distribute since the age of 15. Only a fool would seriously consider marrying a woman with 20 years sekshual experience and expect it to be a happy marriage

Iyaebe:
You are right,marriage lost it's value when men started paying for sex,then the acceptance of babymamaism into the norms of the society, what else does a man wants If he can get all these as a single unmarried man? I wish women can close legs and give sex only in exchange for marriage then men will once more begin to value and yearn for marriage.
Seks has always been paid for, it's called the oldest profession for a reason.

With regard to the acceptance of single motherhood, you can thank your sisters for that "progress", after all, we are daily inundated with how it is a backward mentality to stigmatise baby mamas. Well, we men no longer want to be backward cavemen, we welcome and even encourage as many women as possible to be baby mamas if that's what will make you happy grin

And, sorry, your sisters cannot close their legs because their desire for the pleasures of this world far outweighs whatever common sense principles favour their long term welfare.
RomanceRe: What Were The Most Hurtful Words You Received From Someone You Love? by Belafonte(m): 12:20pm On Mar 15, 2022
Stevenson1:
That I'm wicked and inconsiderate just because I delayed to give her 900k for her online business start up.
I broke up with her later that night and refused to give her that money. That's during lockdown oo.
She still calls me once in a while now though and she still dey insert that money in every call she calls. E pain her Wella.



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Mail me.
You are a correct man
FamilyRe: I Walked In On My Parents Having Sex, Now I Feel So Embarrassed. by Belafonte(m): 8:42am On Mar 12, 2022
Jestin:
But ur papa sabi knack from ur observation?

RomanceRe: Is It Proper For A Wife To Make Half-naked Videos Like This?(pics) by Belafonte(m): 10:59pm On Mar 10, 2022
Come on. That's a male yansh na. Which man in his right senses will even marry a woman with that kind of strong, muscular yansh? grin grin
RomanceRe: My Friend Takes Pleasure In Sleeping With Small Girls by Belafonte(m): 10:55pm On Mar 10, 2022
iKON11:
I'm 31 and my friend is 34 years. Lately we've been having some issues over the above topic.
I don't know why but he takes so much pleasure in sleeping with girls he's far older than. Like 18, 19 years old girls (very tender girls).
Anytime I complain about this, it becomes an issue. He even think I'm jealous of him, in fact he told me today to stop been jealous but frankly I feel very embarrassed anytime he brings such girls to our gathering.
We are new in this area but people have already taken notice of this and its even rubbing off on me now.
The funny thing is he doesn't even feel any shame or remorse about this.
Sorry to say but you're simply a jealous asss mufucka grin

Does he trouble you over your poor taste in women? Werey. GTFOH
RomanceRe: My Brother Wife Again by Belafonte(m): 3:08pm On Mar 09, 2022
HOLYNICEGUY:
Imagine my brother wife, the food she dish for her self is different from mine. She saved me food without meat and she expect me to eat I think she's been disdainful, I'm so piss why are women so self-centered the other day I was complaining of not having money to go for documentation I as my brother for money he said he does not have any, the self-centered wife was there. she didn't say a word but that same day she went and bought drink worth over 6000#. she took it to school she told my brother that the drink was for her child birth day imagine thank God I now have a job no more nonsense
You're embarrassing. Smh
Foreign AffairsRe: Vladimir Putin's Black Belt Revoked By International Taekwondo Organization by Belafonte(m): 1:53pm On Mar 01, 2022
Well, this is simply a symbolic move which is admirable because it sends the message to Putin that he stands alone
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Belafonte(m): 1:40pm On Mar 01, 2022
Barrister026:
yes, that's exactly my problem.
The little I have, can't satisfy her or her needs
Hence the comparing and quarreling from little issues will turn to physical abuse
You're going to win a Darwin award very soon. Continue
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Beats Me At Home, at any provocation by Belafonte(m): 1:39pm On Mar 01, 2022
You have two options:

1. Fight her like a man. With punches to her face
2. Divorce her
FamilyRe: Am So Tired And Depressed Over Difficulties In Life by Belafonte(m): 1:36pm On Mar 01, 2022
Hello OP, difficulties are the default life setting.

You can absolutely overcome your struggles with the right tools:

1. Gratitude
2. A positive outlook on life
3. Meditation
4. Hope
5. Faith



At this moment, you need to find any job no matter how lowly paying and start from there and think of something you can do generate income. Learn a skill on the side. In a year, if you're diligent, your life will be far different. Good luck
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Turn Good Young Girls To Sex Machines by Belafonte(m):
Southernigbo:
They turn young good decent girls to spoilt ones and leave them to face the complex world with their already defiled and sex hungry bodies. Every now and then u see sex hungry girls looking at innocent men expecting such men to demand sex from them as if every man is as bad as the ones who spoilt them in the first place!
They grow up believing that men are all the same.
If we tell them that young girls should get married they'll say we're misogynistic and want to cage them. However, the truth remains that the longer a woman stays unmarried, the more likely she won't get married and, if she does, the more likelihood of the marriage being dysfunctional or even ending

People, if you have a young daughter that men are already showing sexual interest in, choose the most eligible and responsible of those men to be her husband. Far better than having your baby girl transformed into a full-fledged olosho under your roof
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 5:15pm On Feb 28, 2022
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 5:02pm On Feb 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

So, you are not speaking of this here 21-year old, abi? make i rephrase my question small to help you then.. undecided

Why is 21 a very good time to marry when at that age what a majority of Nigerian women have to bring "to the table" is a vagina, as many have taking to stating? undecided
There's no need t rephrase your question to help me. I'd advise you to show my comment to someone that has a brain and ask them to explain it to you, though I doubt the possibility of that

21 is a good time to marry if the intending bride/groom can sustain there home financially. 21 year olds marry and have good marriages in this country all the time. Afterall, we can clearly see the 30 year old in this story cannot even afford accomodation like millions of Nigerians. Are we now going to move marriageable age to 43?
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 4:59pm On Feb 28, 2022
NeoWanZaeed:
She no go listen and may hate her aunty for that
Going against her aunt's counsel is her choice, but the aunt must counsel her and register her opinions and misgivings nonetheless.
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 4:57pm On Feb 28, 2022
Mariangeles:
You see? Even your father knows why he said what he said. cheesy
I believe his father is wrong. A bad (possibly, bit in this case, not definitely) marriage is not something that you push someone into learning hard lessons from.

At the very least, financial stability should be impressed upon her
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 4:53pm On Feb 28, 2022
NeoWanZaeed:
OP.. let her learn ..

Let her learn.. leave her to her decisions
He doesn't have to leave her to learn the hard way. He's there for exactly this reason, to provide guidance and instruction when and where he feels she can do better. Hence, Ishilove's use of the term 'tough love'.


"Foolishness is in the hart of a child, but the rod if correction drives it away"
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 4:51pm On Feb 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Why is 21 a very good time to marry when at that age all she has to bring "to the table" is her vagina, as many have taking to stating? undecided
You really need to understand what you're replying to. I know you know a lot of stuff, but it would be wise to add comprehension t your list of skills.

This particular 21 year old may have only her vagïna to bring to the table, but that is not so for all 21 year olds. Capisce?
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by Belafonte(m): 4:42pm On Feb 28, 2022
Ishilove:
She is only 21 so what is the rush? To give her a hot slap on her bare back dey hungry me.

People tend to be in love with the idea of marriage, but are always unprepared for the effort and sacrifices it takes to make a marriage work. She is so naive
21 is a very, very good time to get married. If there's any reason for her to wait, it should be to get a solid financial footing before taking the step.

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