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My sincere advice is that you should give her 1 million so you can receive 100 million. After that you can release her to the world, because no single male can lay claim of ownership to big áss. Big àss is a community project that others must partake in

Kobojunkie:
You don't have a problem with it but instead you have a problem with the fact that she does not bend to your whim?

The salt stuffs isn't good for your health, so have you suggested you maybe take over as far as cooking is concerned or is this a case of "the woman has to cook for her husband or she is disqualified"?

He doesn't have to take over cooking. Learning to cook shouldn't be a problem. If she's not willing to learn, he should dump her unteachable áss

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

Lmao.... Nairaland men are so emotional , see quotes abeg

Men love purely, women love opportunistically. That's why you see more men write more sad tales than women. Women are more calculating and ruthless in love and romance. A man's "I love you" is far more genuine and dependable than a woman's "good morning"

1Sharon:


So for you, it's about her looks

Nah, it's bad enough that she's a stranger, she come look strange join again. That's a hell no from any parent

Tinububalls:
African mentality.
There is love in sharing but them think say she come collect destinies.

So you're saying you won't mind your children collecting meat from a random weird-looking woman in the street?

dedons:
I was born into an average family with my parents always doing their best to make us happy during Christmas celebration very year.

Unfortunately, I ventured into business this year but lost everything due to the evil employees I had. They intentionally wrecked the business and disappeared. I've been weeping since October till date and left with nothing.

I woke up this morning but couldn't say a word of prayers, instead I found myself weeping again. I do hope on God for divine provision and restoration.

It is well.

Take heart and have a positive view bro. You're alive because you've got something the world needs. You have to give business another go bro. Failure is normal ad you learn more from failures than from success. I know failure is painful, but you must train yourself to learn from the situation when things don't go as planned.

The fact that you took the risk to run a business shows you've got balls and faith and that's really all you need to succeed.

Merry Christmas

Vinnie2000:
I have Already told you Guys what to Do!

If you follow it Religiously, You will not reason Masturbation at all..


Tell yourself dat you have to Quit!
Masturbation is mostly a Teenage thing! Any Guy still Masturbating is NOT a Man, But still a BABY!

You become a Man when you start Fuccking babes steady!

Actually you become a man when sexüal release doesn't control you any longer. When you no longer are controlled by the urges of astürbation and sexüal intercourse, then can you confidently call yourself a man

Masturbation kills your spirit and energy

Flahyuq:
I'm a chronic masturbator,been in d game for a long time....I'm 26yrs n i have been masturbating since age 16
I have tried to quit numerous time but highest i have gone without masturbating is 2weeks
I want to challenge myself by going a full year without masturbating,that's y this thread's created
I will be updating my activities here,No lies
Even if i relapse,i will update it here n d reason
May God help me
In this one year of not masturbating,i will be posting any positive change i encounter in my life and world
.
The journey begins

You can do it bro, but you'll have to be in time with your inner self to succeed. Most times masturbation is a coping mechanism for stress and horninêss. Elevate your self above fulfilling base desires. You are actually bigger than masturbation, so if the temptation comes remind yourself who you are and respect yourself. With time, you'll get used to not wanking and the thought of it would even irritate/amuse you

Good luck

Isn't it a crime to broadcast someone else's nudes?

cayorday89:
Baba calm down this life no too hard, quite a number of great men with all their riches and power have one child and some two. Does that mean they are simps.

Talking sense into her like how, go back to my comment you quoted and the previous ones I made on this thread, and read what I posted, even the one you quoted I told her they can always come to agreement at a mid point favorable to each of them,meaning it's hard for her to get any man who would agree to her terms so she has to one way or the other compromise, that is if she wants one and the guy probably wants more than one they can agree agree at a reasonable number okay for both.

I am lost as to point out valuable reasons to many of the things you typed there, but I will give it a try.. How are you so sure the guy has no mind of his own? How are you so sure the lady will put him through bullshit?

What has number of children got to do with dignity when you can have one or two and live a life of comfort as a family,which dignity beats the fact that you can provide your family with a reasonable amount of comfort and luxury in comparison with a large family and living through your nose and barely surviving.


For your last paragraph, you carry the matter for head and even insult the man you are trying to defend when you barely know him, they are going into a relationship with marriage in view, some things have to be discussed and if both parties can't come into agreement, they can peacefully go their separate ways but you made it sound like she is forcing the guy to accept her decisions.

See calm down, and try to see life in different perspectives and how every decisions taken independently can have an after effect on others. Birthing three or more children these days if a man is not doing anything worthwhile to better the human race should be discouraged, we should rather focus on few kids and larger resources to cater for them.

AY Makun is someone I envy small family and big resources, the peace of mind is unquantifiable, even at that, it does not mean I will call those who chose to do otherwise names, after all we all bear the consequences of our actions.

Na me fück up

Beebah2000:
The man no get sense.
Why u go dey slap person money for face??
Abi, e wan spoil the make-up ni??
But the woman looks like Bobrisky ooo

The person wey dey chop the slap dey paralysed? She no fit slap her own back or she no fit talk?

mikezuruki:
I can understand the point the activists are coming from...that these people are adults. Not kids. But on the contrary, the language people around here understand is force. Not rehabilitation. I support the use of force and flogging to make youth in SE see the level of condemnation

Only those who are alive enjoy human rights. At this point, any and every means available in restoring sanity must be utlised. Meth is dangerously addictive and there's almost no going back once addiction and dependence sets in

It seems like the chickens have come home to roost. Our hardworking brothers have conquered the drug scene everywhere in the world and now they've come home to conquer Alaigbo.

Unfortunately, this has the propensity to spread to other parts of Nigeria. All hands must be on deck to fish out meth dealers in igboland and bring the full weight of the law upon them.

endsarrrs:
Your marriage will not crash, your family will not suffer Op

In Jesus name

We will not kee our husband because of APC and Buhari(dem say na inflation)

Sit your wife down, talk to her well well make she know wetin dey sup for 9ja

Continue to be productive and positive thinking.

We are here for you

Amen

Caseless:
The reason he needs loan is stated below.

Is this reason not just enough to ask your wife for money? She wanted him to be ambitious and he's doing that via her support. He's not asking for free money, he's asking for loan. She should have granted that and see how he handles the funds before concluding he's less ambitious and only there for her money.


He can get loan from an outsider. Why can't he get that from his wife? Undertaking project does not still show you the guy is ambitious and his only sin is just earning less?

The lady was actually consumed by what she was told before marriage and she came prepared to deal with any demand from him, hence her tough stance.

I didn't even see this before making my own comment. The babe no get talk for mouth abeg. How can you want an ambitious husband and not want to support his ambition? Is that not witchcraft?

I am very sure her mother drummed it in her ears that the last thing she must do is give her husband money. Her parents probably never liked the guy from day 1 and their words helped influence her tight-fistedness towards her husband whether she wants to admit it or not.

Judybash93:
At the end women are takers and men are givers. A man wouldn't come and complain about giving his wife money in order to support her dreams. Equality my butt

For real bro. How many wives have money-pit businesses that their husbands fund for no other reason than to not keep their wives idle?

Many wives own supermarkets and shops that generate almost no income and in fact, most of these ventures are in the red, yet you don't hear men complain

He wanted me to give money for his projects. He wanted loans. I wasn't willing to do so and it became war

His money is our money, my money is my money.

You loved him yet couldn't help lift his profile when he was struggling and expressly requested from help from you.

Women and victim mentality be like 5 & 6

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

Lol. The portion below is right there in the OP. You want an ambitious husband but you don't want to support his ambition.

He wanted me to give money for his projects. He wanted loans

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Brush, then bathe immediately after. Eat, then dress up and get the heck outta the house to hustle daily 2k

Candidlady:
they will beat the living handsomnes outta him

As they beat him, they should make sure they kill him or handicap him irreparably, because if na me I'm coming back 10 times harder.

needsansa:
That's not gonna be a loss. I've been trying to withdraw for some time now but she's been somehow emotional, and I don't want to be tagged a heart breaker. I already have enough reason to move on

She's playing the emotional card on you because she's keeping you on ice as mumu husband that she can tell anything and he will believe, also she will manipulate the hell out of you because she knows you love her.

Like others have said, broom her fast. I can't imagine that she will find it easier than the guy's mum to convince him to part with cash. Na Yankee she go learn her own persuasion skills? Oga, no go jonze, you cannot lay claim to community goat without becoming embarrassed in the end

Truvelisback:
Ur brother wife no get sense. Why did she show ur brother the chat knowing that it could cause a big problem? She should have ignore the chat. I hope ur brother's wife is not up to something? If care is not take it might lead to.........Make i no talk first.

The woman knows what she's doing. It's a psychological trick: she wants to feels Michael's cane again and she wants to do it in plain sight. So, showing her husband the chats is supposed to let him lower his guard and she can be free to interact with Michael and then move on to receive intense penising. Now, the husband's spidey senses are tingling become some fuckery is afoot, but because he's SIMPle, he doesn't know how to approach the issue without appearing insecure. However, feeling insecure is often a result of lack of security

Michael wants to fück his wife, his wife also wants to fück Michael back, but baba doesn't know what to do. He's a mumu who went and married not just a loose woman, but one who actually already pre-fücked his friend. He's as SIMPle as they come.

gasparpisciotta:
Your brother’s wife should block Micheal ASAP.

This is extreme. I think you're overreacting

Not a big deal. I learnt on nairaland that men and women can be platonic friends, even if they engaged in sexüal relations before. It shows maturity. Tell your brother to have no fear, it's just old friends catching up on old times

You didn't go ahead with the plan because your spirit told you it would be the height of stupidity. There's still hope for you. Say no to syupidity