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bukatyne2:
If I understand your post correctly, you cheated on your wife?

If yes, she has the prerogative to handle as she deem fit.

aduhube:
My sincere prayer for you is that when you give birth to daughters, no man will ever give them any money/dine, they will only have money to spend, only if they work extra hard for it, Amen.

CorGier:
This is why whatever I do for them, I would do for anybody. Hence why you would never catch me - not even in a month of sundays - muttering those stupid words in the lines of "after all what I've done for you...". From my teens I knew how this love of a thing works, nobody loves anybody for nothing. Lamar, K. in his L.O.V.E. track put it succinctly when he wondered whether she will still have love for him if "he didn't ride blade on curb" i.e. if he didn't have some of the finest things life has to offer.

The truth is that we all just a bunch of low-lives who use each other for our selfish interests all in name of relationships. You want her heart and vaginá all to yourself so you feel the need to pay for it, you cook and clean, serve up a wet, warm hole and mouth each night with the hope that he puts a ring on it.

It's why you lot can't sustain any decent eye contact with your so-called "baes" even in your most intimate moments, cos you scared if you stare long enough your eyes might just betray your truest intentions. It's fine darl, keep them eyes closed.

iammolise:
Well I've never been one to hold on to anything so much, let her go and find the rich guy then, I'll just move on... And please explain, how I'm I "shortchanging" myself to please her.

iammolise:
I never fail to let her know that... She always say it and I always tell her I can only give what I can and not kill myself because I have a girlfriend.

iammolise:
I'm currently dating this girl that is very skilled at asking for money, when it's approaching month end she will just cook up something... Me that I'm very meticulous about my spendings, I no dey like troway moni anyhow. Well to not make it seem like I don't care I always give her something I can forget.

Mypeople2:
Abeg make una give this guy a bottle of beer ...abi na malt you dey take ?Give him a crate of maltina.Do you also know that sending a lady airtime does not mean she will call you with that airtime ? But do you know something, we are the ones spoiling the ladies .When a guy does not give her ,another guy will give her .That is the problem we are having .She will start comparing the two guys

Arsenate:
Bro, no disrespect, but you are dating Funmistiqueen which means you have an extremely poor taste in women and hence you are in no position to call another man half a man.

Just take several seats and stfu.

KevinDein:
Jesus Christ you are just so bitter and sad. What exactly is getting you all worked up. This is a very harmless thread encouraging young ladies to give good young men who would help them become the best version of themselves a chance. Literally that's all the op is all about.

What is wrong with that?

Paxie55:
Please, shut up.
You don't just see someone on the net and draw out a baseless conclusion. I'm even into boring guys more. I have my man well reserved. All I'm saying is that she's on this habit of always telling women how to live their lives for nitwits and dumb idiots as if her life is perfect.

xrayj:
@bold because the op doesn't preach the things u want to hear, it is baldersdash? This thread is for young ladies like u, looking for that "happening guy". After your lives has been shattered & ruined by that happening guy & that male bestie has dumped one baby inside of u, u come back looking for the boring guy with one baby. U people never learn!

izicooo:
May Godbless Bishop Oyedepo. Daddy Freeze we are yet to read about your donations. Shame on you and all the mockers of the church..

adesmarty:
Lol
Thanks boss..
I guess I was only being selfish, couldn't handle the thoughts of loosing her to someone else, the reason I asked her out
Smashing and bouncing no even they my mind, she's so reserved and sweet

SweetCunt97:
Calling d Lil kid a bastard is quite harsh don't you think? If he wants to divorce her, he should go ahead. Personally it's d innocent kid I'm concerned for

2buffagain:
In certain parts of the world, it would be far easier for the woman to get ahead if, upon any on-toward approach by her boss, she sews the company for multiples of her salary. Even if she gave mixed signals

Much easier on the back and the kitty, wouldn't you say?

Again, Naija factor is what makes your experience on that subject a "most" and not a "some".

MrBrownJay1:
pls enlighten me then because majority of EMPLOYED WOMEN go to work in the morning and come back home at night....so what type of working women (that dont spend too much time outside the home) are you talking about?! what specific job are you talking about?

2buffagain:
*Some* women. Not most.

If it's "most" then that's possibly a naija factor where there is no such thing as worker's rights or really justice of any kind that does not involve money or sex.

MrBrownJay1:
like a biz owner, a doctor, lawyer, architect, engineer etc... that kind of woman?!? so what should she do at home all day? watch telemundo?!

MrBrownJay1:
in this age of woman being intelligent and educated, of course they will... unless of course you are talking about useless good for nothing slay queen that have nothing to offer a man but a warm coochie.
REMEMBER a man may be broke AFTER paying the rent/bills/food etc and that certainly does not make him a poor dude....far from it!



i dont believe it is... it only is in Africa/Nigeria etc where marriage is a do or die mission. thus many are marrying donkeys not because they want to spend the rest of their natural life with their loved one, BUT SIMPLY BECAUSE thats what society/family/religion/friends etc demands of them.

there should be no overcalculation here... you find someone, she ticks all the natural foundation/character/desire that you need in a mate, and you you guys settle to spend the rest of your lives together. having a job is irrelevant, so long as she is intelligent/educated and actively seeking for employment.

2buffagain:
The more the merrier, but as to the bolded.

Lol I guess your mind is made up that the only way a woman can make something of herself outside the home is by thoting.

For your sake bro, I hope you stay in Africa/Middle East and never entertain any plan to live outside of those areas. This your mindset will cause you problems anywhere else.

funmisticqueen2:
you sound that a freeloader and a liability. What a disgrace!!

MrBrownJay1:
its funny how so many men on this thread are saying that if they find a great woman, educated, intelligent that matches what they are seeking in a mate.... but because she may be unemployed at that point in her life, they will dismiss her as a possible life mate?!?!?!?!?!?

you gotta focus on the foundation of that person, her character, her lifestyle, her being.... and nothing else. anyone can lose a good job.

nlPoster:
I logged on and typed 12:51am, this post/thread came up 1:09am.

This is annoying.

People here always throwing personal jabs because they know or heard of me from hacking, gossip, malice, spying, eavesdropping, etc but I dont know who THEY are. So I'm unable to respond adequately to their underhand attacks on my person. They monitor everything I do and my posts here, then throw jabs, knowing I don't have the necessary info on their own misdeeds meanwhile they derive excessive and sociopathic joy from making me look bad every chance they get. I have been offline for days now and the site was quiet. I log on and the usual miscreants immediately start their work.

Ok.

May God give you proper jobs so you don't keep ruining nairaland for everybody.

Shugavee:
we not jor we selfless by nature

Petyprincess:
You can remain single for the rest of your life we dnt give a f**k, bt one thing I'm sure of is not all guys have this backward mentality of yours!!
If all the women you have met in your life never contributed nothing tangible then it says alot about you!! What do Nigerian men have to offer aside money nd their community prick? Most of them dnt even have this money sef

cococandy:
Have told women repeatedly, don’t get involved with any man who doesn’t serve your interests. Many men are selfish.

The blatant hypocrisy should be the eye opener for y’all but for some reason, ladies still let themselves get emotionally manipulated.

Listen again. If a man is not serving your interests, don’t do it. He sure as hell won’t be with you if you’re not serving his. Don’t do anything for a man that you know when the table is turned, he wouldn’t do the same for you.