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ImaIma1:
But she has a point.

If a woman had come here with a story about how she upgraded her daughter that she had before in one way or the other, leaving the kids from her present husband out, would the guy take it? Even if it is for supposed good intentions.

And won't the guys on this forum be blaming and back lashing her for not letting her husband know?

It's common in this forum.

crackkhaus:
I believe I was on that thread where the question was posed to name companies who pay women less...

Parroting is a common trait with women who desperately want to appear woke.
They do no researches, make no investigations...only just sit behind their phone screens to conjure up things about gender inequality.

I'm still waiting for the day one of these Nigerian femi-parrots will quote portions of the constitution that expressly denies them any rights.

eyinjuege:
Sexism at the workplace is wrong on all levels, and there should be laws in place to tackle such.
We need to task our lawmakers

crackkhaus:
You want them to die?

Inequality, inequality, yet not one of these people can quote the law that prevents women from doing anything.

All they really want is just special treatment - oh I'm a woman, you must love me, care for me, respect me, give me more white-collar jobs and positions... Lol.

How can special treatment even fit into the context of gender equality where no one should be getting any special treatment?
The dissociative cognitive reasoning is laughable.

eyinjuege:
Excuse you....

Females drive caterpillars, drive commercial buses, do bus conductors, drive keke napep, work on building sites lifting bricks and cement, even female vulcanizers.

Many women are sexually harassed at their work places, in colleges/universities even as we speak and you say nothing is stopping them from achieving greatness.

fuzzywuzzy:
The most irritating thing about Male hypocrisy is that should the tables be turned their brains would start functioning and they will tell the truth.

If a woman was openly treating her out of wedlock child better than her husbands child and telling her husband she would treat him better when he is older the fools supporting OP with stupid epistles would sing a different tune altogether.

Men are so selfish and self centered its irritating honestly.

SmileDance:
well, its my opinion tho but there are still ways to manage the situation without the op appearing to be weak, the op can change the younger kids school and explain to his wife that he's doing it for peace to reign, trust me its not easy as a woman not to feel jealous in cases like this. Personally I won't marry a single father because I don't like trouble in my life.

SmileDance:
If you want peace to reign, take your wife's kid to the school too.
We understand the motive behind the decision but there are things married people do just for the sake of peace.
You married as a single father with a kid, you have to be extra careful when doing some things. My opinion tho

LIVINGICON:
I am not trying to be boastful but i doubt if you have seen up to a quarter of nude big ass that i have seen and banged. So keep quiet

LIVINGICON:
You are still a small child and know nothing. When you are old enough, you will discover that big ass only looks good when clothed but can be very eye-displeasing when fully exposed

Wenonawde:
Good Afternoon everyone,

I dated this girl doing my final year in sch, she is pretty, smart and brilliant but her problem then is that she too too religious (SU mama) and she like sex too much. 1 hr or 2hrs is not okay for this young lady on the bed,Night class reading or anywhere all she want is sex. So we stop communicating after school since we are posted to different state for service. To my surprised she called me early this month and I was happy to hear from her and she asked for my pictures to see my new look and ever since then she will not stop calling complaining to me about her finance that she want us to come back together, she still love me more than the guy and she can’t stop thinking about me. The funniest part of it she said she can’t stop imagine the way I shine her punana � And all our rough play together.

femi4:
yes, the submissive ones

Jimbadly:
Wtf is wine bottle? What is it used for?

frozen70:
If you set such conditions for marriage, you will dig a pit that will be too deep for you to fall into and come out of it without help

Unless you are not getting married to a woman

GboyegaD:
Hope it can be enforced and not just one of those on paper laws.

cococandy:
Reading the comments and wondering why Nigerian women would want to be married to y’all

Randy100:
I love women oh. I love their company, the smell of their hairs, their smile. I love to fvck them. They are there for our relaxation. They are made for our enjoyment. I can't go my own way but I won't be a fool around them. The mgtow is a stupid ideology. We are trapped with them.

Easybela:
That's one of the advantages of abstaining from premarital intimacy.

AfroKnight:
Lol. Okay. That was candid.

proclinician:
A lot of guys are going to end up very useless because of their affiliations with useless girls. I've not seen what will give my babe the audacity to carry my laptop away from my house. Or even mentioning it at all.

AfroKnight:
I want to ask guys. What is it about stretch marks that you hate so much? Have you read up on the causes? Do you think it’s life threatening? Do you think it indicates personal hygiene?

I don’t understand the aversion, really.

Alero3Arubi:
God bless you.
Your number 4 has crashed this table.
Most people do not know some women hate third party whether it is their own family or otherwise.
That thing is very annoying, it can pain and cause hate to fester and revenge to brew.
The grudge this third party causes in the heart of the woman is so big it can cause rift in the marriage.
Fear women especially that don't argue during the reporting. That will just be looking and agreeing to the advice. The revenge they are planning eh... only God can save you.

Rapecase:
This is exactly what I have decided on. I am moving out. Will fend for them all but I am moving out. Someone in my church already called the pastor to involve him but THIS TIME THERE IS NO STOPPING ME. I DONT THINK GOD IS WICKED TO PUNISH ME FOR WANTING TO HAVE SOME SANITY.

I HAVE GIVEN IT MY ALL. I WORK BETWEEN 12-14 hours per day and the only time I don't work all I get is issues.

I am 100% moving out.

Rapecase:
It has been like this from the beginning.

I only just started getting fed up and actually beginning to give up.

I endured this far because I know many youths look up to me and I can't disappoint them but I am running mad.

She left off this morning. Told me three days ago she was traveling today. Nothing said about the purpose of the trip. I got to know from a mother figure that she went to buy some stuffs, gave her 400k for her business days ago which she went to buy stuff with but should a sane woman not tell me her whereabout.

I am just praying she does what she has never done before, fail to return home tonight, it will be the end of us.

misreal:
Just give yourself sometime.in other to get to know yourself, you must spend time with yourself.

agnes7:
please can someone state the reasons why men should marry women that is older than they.
It has the advantages and disadvantages.
But i am interested only in the advantages

Westernlove:
I fuvking hate that man like mad....

dominique:
True but people handle pain differently. Best thing to do is to not cause pain on the person you claim to love.

HRHQueenPhil:
I pray God will bless u so much things like this would not be an issue or topic for u