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FamilyRe: Opposite Sex For Professional Services by Belafonte(m): 10:23pm On Apr 28, 2020
bukatyne:
40% of whatever you make to my account.

I am not greedy.
Haha, that is steep. But oh well, anything to secure Sisisi’s ‘business’. Send me ya aza cool
ProgrammingRe: Ahem by Belafonte(op): 10:22pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Lol I’m not sha. Why do I get the feeling it won’t just be about career tips?

Say it here then tongue
I’m particular about whom I share them with jor. These are decades’ old secrets wink
FamilyRe: Opposite Sex For Professional Services by Belafonte(m): 10:20pm On Apr 28, 2020
bukatyne:
This one you are selling your services on my thread, you will pay o!
What are the house charges, madame? And whom do I pay to? cool
ProgrammingRe: Ahem by Belafonte(op): 10:18pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
I’m actually not single so I don’t think that would be appropriate cheesy
Hmm. Why do I get the feeling you’re just trying to shoo me off?

I’ll tell you what, I’ll be very professional about it. Just want to share a few career tips is all grin
FamilyRe: Opposite Sex For Professional Services by Belafonte(m): 10:17pm On Apr 28, 2020
sisisioge:
Yes o....I love male hair dressers, they tend to be better at the job. I'm my own tailor, I get free massages from whoever is offering regardless of sex...I'm fine with all sexes handling whatever services so long as I am not required to show my entire birthday suit.
I’m also and expert masseuse. Just saying. And you can use that your special code for discounts and happy ... wink
FamilyRe: Opposite Sex For Professional Services by Belafonte(m): 10:14pm On Apr 28, 2020
bukatyne:
Why the shock?
I don’t know. Doesn’t it bother you that a dude would be probing inside you? Eww
ProgrammingRe: Ahem by Belafonte(op): 10:13pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Yeah it isn’t lol cheesy
I really would like to have a chat with you though.

GMail?
ProgrammingRe: Ahem by Belafonte(op): 10:05pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
You again, fine thank you lol
grin. Can’t send pms. I thought this would be private. Obviously not grin
FamilyRe: Opposite Sex For Professional Services by Belafonte(m): 10:03pm On Apr 28, 2020
sisisioge:
grin grin grin grin grin grin

This should be fun. Any service that requires that I go totally nuuuude to get done or the ones where they look inside inside things wink.

For instance, it was a bad experience when I was made a medical guinea pig back then in school. The yeye boys kept pressing my booobs trying to identify the difference between the lump that comes with booobs and any foreign ones. They just kept coming at it. Since then...no thanks.

Another was when me and 3 other babes had to see a doctor together regarding something going round the hostel then...we all had to open something for the doctor to inspect. Whew! That was traumatic embarassed
Come let me check. I assure you, I’m an expert lump checker cool
FamilyRe: Opposite Sex For Professional Services by Belafonte(m): 10:02pm On Apr 28, 2020
bukatyne:
So I stumbled on a thread about a wife not wanting her to visit a female physiotherapist and I decided to create this thread for fun grin

1. What professional services are you comfortable with the opposite sex?

2. What professional services are you not comfortable with the opposite sex or would you never engage an opposite sex?

Let me go first:
1. Hair making, tailors, manicure and pedicure and gynecologists.

2. Masseuse

Updated:

I 100% female bosses and mentors.
Wait, Buka! You wouldn’t mind a male gyno? shocked shocked
ProgrammingAhem by Belafonte(op): 9:58pm On Apr 28, 2020
Hello Ibkayee, how’s it going? angry
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:57pm On Apr 28, 2020
karli4nia:
Belafonte.. Free this maiden and don't let me send you on a compulsory vaccation.. cheesy
Smh
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:56pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Lol ok, I 'promise' I'm not
We’ll revisit this.
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:56pm On Apr 28, 2020
karli4nia:
Bros leave her alone na..She aint single, She is my betrothed.

FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:51pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Lol bye this guy cheesy
Lai lai o. You must prove it before I free you kiss
RomanceRe: 3 Ultimate Bad Girl Rules To Keep Your Boyfriend In Love Until You Dump Him by Belafonte(m): 9:49pm On Apr 28, 2020
James4bright:
The exact mindset of an average Nigerian girl.

Who else has seen that video a rich guy was pissing in the mouth of a girl he was done bleeping? She was so irritated though, but she couldn't act differently because he was rich anyway.

When you finally get the money guys, then act accordingly. No pity.

And Nice one op.
Thank you. Man wey sabi. I implore guys who read the OP to suppress their disdain for the methods highlighted and really consider their dating career and see if this isn’t what most Nigerian women do. grin
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:48pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
No I'm not cheesy
I don’t believe you, Ibk. Prove it angry
RomanceRe: 3 Ultimate Bad Girl Rules To Keep Your Boyfriend In Love Until You Dump Him by Belafonte(m): 9:47pm On Apr 28, 2020
Elui2:
would you advise your daughter to be this bad girl ?
Siddon dia make pata dey wear you na. Is that not the strategy of most Naija girls? Where did ty learn it?

Most Naija girls’ dating strategy is monkey branching. If you didn’t know, now you do
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:44pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Haha she's not single
Lol. Okay. What about you? Are you single? Remember all liars will go to hell. angry grin
RomanceRe: I Need A Woman’s Opinion. by Belafonte(m): 9:44pm On Apr 28, 2020
Realdickoflife, I’m not sure how much I can say cos I’m not in the mood.

But this girl does not respect you, your feelings and your sacrifices. She is using you bro. Wake the heck up.

By now you should have blocked her everywhere. She should not be able to contact you by now considering all she’s done to you and how much she’s disrespected and lied to you.

What we should be talking about is you getting a restraining order against her. Cut her off without remorse mahn. Damn
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:37pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Lol joker
I’m being serious here angry
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:35pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
Lol she's on a break I guess
If she’s single, I gotta friend for her grin
RomanceRe: I Want Her All To Myself by Belafonte(m): 9:34pm On Apr 28, 2020
Theundertaker, has it occurred to you that maybe, just maybe, there’s a third guy in the picture? grin.

This has to rank highly as one of the most foolish things I’ve read this year.
FamilyRe: Why Are Average Nigerians An Opportunist? by Belafonte(m): 9:26pm On Apr 28, 2020
ibkayee:
I think the average person has these qualities, it's just amplified with Nigerians given the country's average living circumstances and the fact that you're probably around them more
Hello Ibk, what happened to that scary friend of yours whose picture you used? grin
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2020
Liliantalks:
as the spirit leads grin
Lol. Good luck babe. Invite us to the wedding grin
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2020
Liliantalks:
lol
When are you starting? lipsrsealed grin
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 1:50pm On Apr 22, 2020
Munzy14:
See u, better wake up, I deh tell u married, u are asking how many are still married...cheesy

The question is how many kids....lol
Lol
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 1:49pm On Apr 22, 2020
Munzy14:
The problem is being approachable...

Majority of most single ladies who have crossed 30 made themselves unapproachable in their 20s or where highly critical and hoping to meet a perfect molded mr right.

A runs girl is approachable and she understands no one is perfect.


Many men are naturally shy, few are bold...And those bold ones are the ones u call alpha male....AKA society bad boys.

And those bold men, hunt for the runs girls for a fling, and settles for the good girls for marriage.

In essence, the nice and comfortable gentlemen who are shy, are easy targets for the runs girls AKA bad girls.
You know, this is a very good and severely underrated point.

There are many men who cannot toast a woman, and they have learnt to relive sexual tensions by patronizing prostitutes. They have tried to learn to have organic relationships with women but end up getting rejected again and again.

Look at the make-money-first crew and you’ll notice they’ve mostly had unfortunate experiences with women and have resorted to facing the hustle with no distractions. These are the guys who go on codedruns and InMessage to pay for sexual release and keep it moving. No girlfriend, no fiancée. Like every service you eventually find the service provider who you gel with and have on speed dial in case of emergencies.

While “decent girls” are throwing themselves at bad boys who know how to toast and control a woman, the runs girls are busy massaging the egos of vulnerable men. You think this vulnerable man will leave the devil he knows for an angel he doesn’t? grin. Think again.

Solution?: Make yourself approachable. Encourage good guys who can’t toast but would like to date you. See where it leads. Stop being an emotional drain; runs girls have no time for unnecessary emotional games. If they manipulate, they do so for a reason not the silly attention seeking and drama most girls are wont to indulge in.

Finally, runs girls actually do kiss a lot of frogs (we’re talking minimum 100), so if you want to snag a “rich better man” like them, collect your form and start sampling. One day you go jam Wetin you dey find grin
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 1:38pm On Apr 22, 2020
Munzy14:
Never a fallacy,that is the reality of happenings.

All the girls in my undergraduate days who are coded runs girls married first before the acclaimed good ones.
How many are still married
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 1:31pm On Apr 22, 2020
Liliantalks:
To me the problem with us good girls is we want commited men , we do not want to give our bodies to unfit men , n when we meet a man we like we can sex them with out money n that makes us vulnerable so broke guys like decent girls cause they r cheap n vulnerable , promising them marriage n all , knowing they will buy it. but the run girls put money first , think whatever they do not care ,,, n money on a woman’s Pusey validates her worth , that’s the truth
Babe, go and collect ID card already. Nobody is stopping you. And may you get the man of your dreams too.
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by Belafonte(m): 1:27pm On Apr 22, 2020
Liliantalks:
Cause that’s what they want ,,, bottom line u could even say she was wrong , cause she wasn’t , run girl met the rich better men ,,, while the decent once’s should suffer with men , na wah
I have noticed your problem. It’s not that so-called decent girls aren’t getting men. It is that runs girls are getting the “rich better men”. That is your focus. Men with means. While it is not wrong or even shameful to desire a rich husband, it is important to note that many rich men aren’t really responsible.

There are many rich men you cannot marry. Whose lifestyles would make your stomach turn. The reason for what you’re observing isn’t totally straightforward and you may putting yourself in danger comparing yourself with people whose methods you know nothing about.

You want a rich husband but are you willing to encourage that broke, serious dude who’s been bugging our phone lines or would you rather reply with “k” or worse leave him on read? If you aren’t willing to do that, are you willing to do what your runs girl mentors are doing? grin
FamilyRe: I Ave Cut Ties With My Family by Belafonte(m): 1:02pm On Apr 21, 2020
TrollPolice001:
It is well, people dey find molebi some dey reject theirs.
Who get head no get cap
A child with no parents has a better advantage in life than the one raised in a toxic environment

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