₦airaland Forum

Magnoliaa:
Can yall even stop with this faux-gotcha you think you're having? Ki lo n se gbogbo yin?



So one man, JUST ONE MAN out of thousands that is doing housework to the point of turning his ONE wife off is now the reason why y'all are saying you can never satisfy women?


Meanwhile I can bring you countless of stories of women who appreciated their men putting in equal or greater amount of time into housework.


Infact, I said I didn't know what to comment because this is an EXCEPTION I've never come across before.

Men need no excuse before they're being insensitive lazy bodies to their partners, and guys never needed any justification for not satisfying their wives. The fact is a greater number of women DO appreciate their husbands being hands-on and taking care of household chores.


Instead of you people to focus on the individual case that this is, and to try to address how an 'overindulgence' in housework can lead to a loss of intimacy between couples, you're choosing to call women out. Like being "housework-holic" is no different from being a workaholic, and the former can easily affect relationships just as much as the latter.

madone:
Don't follow the words of the first guy that commented oo. It's never true nd the conditions differs. A woman can open up to you because she just needs to air her mind, she needs someone to talk to and she wants to sample opinions. Or she dont want to talk to her blood relations so she sees you as a closer person who will not judge her.
I have them as friends and I am talking from experience. Be the good man she knows. Show her that the world still have hope woth good men like you.
Forget attraction and treat her like a sister

nurey:
Nah who get money dey japa

Besides if I have 5million now, i will just buy land upto 2 to 3 hectares plant rubber tree in 7years i will.be making 1.5m monthly from the produce for minimum 25years and max 35years if well managed. Better than going abroad to uncertainty

Adewale1603:
How was your sister dressed ? This will solve the mystery

voltron14:
Your head no correct.

Mindlog:
Another crap!

She should rather advise the brother to marry a woman in the Country where he resides, make person hear word!

If the brother is a prize, make the women in that country rush am!

I told one here in the UK, you already have the skilled worker visa that is a sure pathway to British citizenship, then he should be open to marrying a lady already here in the UK with her own papers, so none would accuse each other of being in the relationship because of papers.

Same Uncle, who when he was a Masters student was always yabbing that marrying a Nigerian woman and bringing her over to the UK is suicide mission, is now developing cold feet getting into a serious relationship and marrying one from the millions of women from different parts of the world living in the UK.....there is always an excuse! Marry a Nigerian lady based here in the UK....NO, because they are too liberated and there would be "power struggle" in the marriage! Marry an Asian lady, he came up with excuses. Marry a lady from the Caribbean, he said those ones are streets. Oya, marry a Caucasian British whey go gree for you....brother man went mute!

His WhatsApp status, regularly have pictures of a particular Nigerian lady who I guess is based in Delta State based on the taxis I have seen in the background, he is already talking about getting an apartment that is bigger....I still dey observe.

Therock5555:
God have mercy


So people dey smoke igboh and them no see person wey stair case crash?

Could it be that he joined them to smoke then go crash the staircase wey fall on him, the others Japa.

Vigilante come show later, Hmm this matter long.

GoldenJAT:
I am an advocate for an eye for an eye!! You weren't appointed as an ambassador for peace!!!
With me! Your input determines the output! If a woman/ wife has vowed not to allow peace reign in my home, then two can play the game.

Stevenbright:
Just ignore all of them for now. Time will surely heal all concerned!!

meditator:
Be sincere, would you like your children to be become drunkards ?

Chochovini:
. Lols. NLanders are quite funny. How did you know the phone he or she is using was a stolen one?

Undilutedme:
Hello nairaland family.
I trust you guys are doing fine.
I have a little problem and I need a piece of advise on how to handle it.

I have a very wonderful mother. She's caring, sweet, compassionate, name all the good characteristics of a good woman, she's got all but there's this problem I'm still having with her. SHE NEVER APPRECIATES ME, NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY. My mom will never appreciate me for anything I do, even if she does, she does it nonchalantly like it doesn't matter. She compares me with friends at every slight opportunity she gets.

There was something that happened. Momsy travelled sometime around this year and stayed for close to two months and she has a shop that she manages. The shop's generator has been bad for sometime and it's really stressful for her selling with dim lights but she refused repairing it again because according to her, the generator is consuming her money because of too much repairs every time. So I wanted to surprise her, I called a friend that fixes generator to come help me fix it so when she comes she'll see that it has been fixed. My friend came and fixed it. When momsy came back and I told her that I fixed the generator for her, she told me that, she didn't send me to fix generator for her and that she is not going to use it. According to her "I send you make you fix gen?. I say I nor wan use the gen again". I swear I was really hurt.

On another occasion was during the just concluded UTME exam. My friends wrote before me, a friend of mine had 330 so I told her, she was very happy. She was like, I pray you get something like this. Fast forward, 3 days later, I wrote mine and result came out. I scored 314, when she came, just happily told her, instead of being happy, she just hissed and said "You nor fit get reach 330?". My spirit just died immediately. She likes comparing me with my friends.

There are many occasions things have happened but I'll not bore you with unnecessary talks. It's really eating me up emotionally and psychologically. How well can I make my mom appreciate me more?. How can I please her?.

Ps: Please nobody should throw insults at her. I beg you in the name of whoever you serve. Thanks.

BegAt40:
See afonja old men

AFONJA
(Dedicated to my Afonja brethens)
Both young,
and old
They feel too strong,
To work for gold.

So weak that they pretend to be bold,
It'd be so sick yo pretend not to be told,

that Afonja are criminals
They mine skull,
And kill pals..
They're so dull.

They do fraud,
They mine cunts,
They do drug,
And they mine skulls
And I hope they get burnt,
Without getting laud,
O Lord!

bukky1994:
you mean am?

bukky1994:
Lols yeah but she did it indirectly through her fellow IT student in my company then whom i was close with too, our closeness was much that yeah but it ended in tears I was suspended for 4 months because Babe was being eyed by some managers in my company and i was just a junior staff doing my HND then I was just alone in the whole mess after her IT I didn't take long, she got married, Sandra was as pretty as Bleep mehn! Absu girl... That was around 2014/2015 I didn't know that my boss then has been nursing grudges against me

adonainana:
another one bites the dust
Invest in a real business, I’m sure everyone reading this has a businessman doing business in their area maybe selling electronics or importing and exporting

What don’t you approach him and say pls can I lend you this 1 million naira and help me with a decent ROI or simply tell him you want to invest in his business

Your returns are guaranteed
I have a fish farm in ikorodu come and invest 2m in the business available for inspection whenever you’re ready.

Stop giving your money to people who are into online business or who don’t have a physical product

Only invest with people who buy and sell a physical product

Only buying and selling any commodity commerce wise can make you rich in present day nigeria be it on the wholesale or retail level

Moyinoluwa35:
what can 5k do for you.... am picking two lucky people just quote me and drop ur account number ...will send tomorrow by 5pm