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Forum Games / Re: How Wide Read Are You? by benoly(m): 4:22pm On Feb 21, 2022
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Romance / Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by benoly(m): 9:26am On Jan 27, 2022
The outcome is always not good bro, moreso, the fact that she is the boss and even older. Stay clear, what you're feeling is not love, it's infatuation and you know it, you just want to hit her. Even if you are seeing a clear green light, just don't make that move bro. She can twist the whole thing against you, you can't even be sure how she will react to your move.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Islamic State Group Claims Responsibility For Uganda Bombings by benoly(m): 9:26am On Nov 17, 2021
Lovenorth:
This has nothing to do with Islam, they are on their own, Why can't we blame Israelites for the maltreatment and killing of Jesus?


Your argument is baseless.

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Sports / Re: EPL: Alan Shearer Names Ronaldo, Jay-jay Okocha, Hazard In His Ultimate Ballers by benoly(m): 10:21am On Oct 14, 2021
Where is Thiery Henry?
Sports / Re: Arsenal Fans Mob Aubameyang Lamboghini After Tottenham Win (Photos, Video) by benoly(m): 11:47am On Sep 27, 2021
AND YOU CALLED THAT MOB?
Health / Re: 7,000 Nurses Leave Nigeria For Greener Pastures Annually ― Registrar by benoly(m): 8:50am On Sep 16, 2021
RADIOGRAPHERS TOO ARE MIGRATING IN LARGE NUMBERS. TIME WILL COME WHEN IT IS ONLY CHILDREN THAT WILL BE PRACTICING HERE IN NIGERIA.
Crime / Re: Corper Odume Princess Paschaline Arrested For Killing Man In Akwa Ibom (Graphic) by benoly(m): 8:18am On Jan 11, 2021
I don't believe she did this.
Food / Re: Post Your Christmas Food Here by benoly(m): 11:43am On Dec 26, 2020
amstamon:
I cannot comman kii my sef

My best wine.
Politics / Re: Ibrahim Sharada Called Out For Sharing ₦200 To Children In Kano by benoly(m): 8:14am On Nov 20, 2020
They asked for education, but they're given 200 naira. Money that can't even serve a plate of food.
Politics / Re: Senate Directs Investigation Into Excessive Bank Charges by benoly(m): 2:08pm On Oct 08, 2020
PLEASE THEY SHOULD START WITH ACCESS BANK

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TV/Movies / Re: Big Brother Naija 2020 Had 900Million Votes – Multichoice by benoly(m): 5:09pm On Sep 30, 2020
Mayeldah:
Just do the maths and you will see that the voters are fools!

900m x N30per vote= N27B

the biggest loosers are the voters while the sponsors and telecomm houses are smiling to the banks

Are Nigerians really poor?

Bro, you're getting it wrong
About 900million votes doesn't mean 900million individuals?

A single individual that has DSTV and GOTV on max subscriptions with online and SMS voting involvement can register even upto 20k votes before the end of the show.

In other words, less than 50k individuals can even give that amount of votes and that's less than 5% of Nigerian population.

I'm not saying it's less than 5% of Nigerian population that voted, just catch the gist. it could be more, it could be less. More so, remember, even alot of non Nigerians in other countries voted via online which also constitutes the same figure.

I personally registered upto 3k votes without spending shishi
TV/Movies / Re: Big Brother Naija 2020 Had 900Million Votes – Multichoice by benoly(m): 5:08pm On Sep 30, 2020
Patrioticman007:
Nigerians are the most unpredictable people on earth.
900m x Nigerian fools = profits.
We dey laugh oooooo.


Bro, you're getting it wrong
About 900million votes doesn't mean 900million individuals?

A single individual that has DSTV and GOTV on max subscriptions with online and SMS voting involvement can register even upto 20k votes before the end of the show.

In other words, less than 50k individuals can even give that amount of votes and that's less than 5% of Nigerian population.

I'm not saying it's less than 5% of Nigerian population that voted, just catch the gist. it could be more, it could be less. More so, remember, even alot of non Nigerians in other countries voted via online which also constitutes the same figure.

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TV/Movies / Re: Big Brother Naija 2020 Had 900Million Votes – Multichoice by benoly(m): 5:05pm On Sep 30, 2020
Fash20:
I see one of the reasons why Nigeria is stagnant.

How many people voted in the last election


Bro, you're getting it wrong
About 900million votes doesn't mean 900million individuals?

A single individual that has DSTV and GOTV on max subscriptions with online and SMS voting involvement can register even upto 20k votes before the end of the show.

In other words, less than 50k individuals can even give that amount of votes and that's less than 5% of Nigerian population.

I'm not saying it's less than 5% of Nigerian population that voted, just catch the gist. it could be more, it could be less. More so, remember, even alot of non Nigerians in other countries voted via online which also constitutes the same figure.
Religion / Re: CAMA: FG Says Religious Bodies Must Submit Details Of Their Finances by benoly(m): 7:14pm On Aug 22, 2020
They are sick
Health / Re: She's In Hospital Over Ovarian Cyst Complications! Gynaecologist's Advice Needed by benoly(m): 7:11pm On Jul 14, 2020
edunaragold:
My dear pls be fast go into the surgery as soon as u can, its save, usually and that is the only process in removing it, it has happened to my x, but today she if free, u should have see how her private hair was growing inside her overy and teeth, bones, be fast ok, go in to it, its safe I assure u, yours may even be big, pls don't be afraid its always safe. Pls be fast ok.

Chai!
That was definitely a Dermoid ovarian cyst.
that's the only cyst that contains hair, bones teethe etc.
Those are the bad types that needs quick surgically attention.
Health / Re: She's In Hospital Over Ovarian Cyst Complications! Gynaecologist's Advice Needed by benoly(m): 6:10pm On Jul 14, 2020
Well, I've seen hundreds of hemorrhagic cysts in practice. Most cysts of that size can resolve on their own medically speaking. The good thing is that the cyst contains only internal echoes, no solid nodules inside it or internal septations. But over 85% of hemorrhagic cysts contains thin lace-like internal septations though, so it may not be hemorrhagic. It may just be a simple cyst since the scan described the cyst to be sonolucent. Even if it's hemorrhagic cyst. It can still resolve without surgery.

But if the pain is severe and consistent, cystectomy is advisable. But before surgery becomes the final decision, just suggest to the gynecologist managing her for conservative management to be adopted with follow up scan to see if there will be a good outcome. The size of the cyst is not that big. There are different types of ovarian cysts, some are very harmful, some are not. Hemorrhagic cysts belongs to the later category if it is not too big, and in most cases they don't get too big.

Dermoid cysts, mucinous cysts, endometrioma (chocolate cysts), tubo-ovarian/complex cysts and other cysts that contains solid materials inside and those almost 10cm in size (even if it did not contain anything internally) or even ectopic pregnancy, are the types i will immediately opt for surgery.
However, the advise from your gynecologist should override mine since he is the one seeing your sister physically and and he understands her clinical state more than me.

It is also good you know that surgery does not kill. Infact, Its advantages outweighs its disadvantages by far provided it is done in a good facility by an expert in the field. Remember, a good doctor does not mean an expert in all areas. There are different fields in medicine. One may be good in general practice, but may not possess surgical skills. I am saying this so that you don't go and meet your doctor friend who is good but does not have the surgical skills needed in this area. A gynecologist is what she needs.

I wish her quick recovery.

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Crime / Re: Taraba Man Whose Wife Cut Off His Manhood Cries Out by benoly(m): 9:34am On Jul 06, 2020
PureGoldh:
Some people just dey naturally wicked

Wish him quick recovery



Wish him quick recovery? Asin for his penis to heal or grow back?.
Dude wake up!
Crime / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Attack Kajuru In Kaduna, Kill Many (Graphic Pics, Video) by benoly(m): 10:39am On May 14, 2020
From their names, this is obviously the christian population.
Health / Re: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by benoly(m): 11:12am On May 13, 2020
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In recent time, watching porn and practice of masturbation has increase drastically in our society especially among the youth. This can be trace down to the easy access of pornographic materials in the internet through computer and mobile phones. And a lot of porn website are available for accessibility with daily updates of assorted porn videos, and the more you watch, the more you want to watch and before you know it , you are trapped to it, it becomes a habit difficult to break. Porn and masturbation are like brothers, they go hand in hand. Porn viewers are prone to masturbation. A lot of young people (mostly men ) indulge in this act without knowing the implication. They end up suffering from the ugly side effect without even knowing the root of their problem.
Below , I will tell you some side affects of watching porn and masturbation and a natural way to cure yourself from them if you are already a victim .

1. Erectile dysfunction : This is the inability of a man to obtain a full erection when about to have sex with a woman. Excessive porn and masturbation does mess with your ability to get turned on in real, intimate situations. You discover you only get a full erection while watching porn but when with a woman you will have a weak or no erection. This is because your brain has been wire through excessive porn and masturbation to believe that all you need to satisfy your sexual urge is to feed yourself with porn and masturbate . Our brain is like a fertile land, whatever you plant on it (whether good or bad ) is what you will harvest. Some guys when they experience this porn induces erectile dysfunction ( which is very embarrassing ) feels the best thing is to forget about women and focus on further watching of porn and masturbation thereby causing more damages .

2. Premature Ejaculation (5seconds man): This is a situation whereby a guy ejaculates too early when with a woman. Here, ejaculate can take place sometimes even before penetration ( during pre-intimacy ) or too soon after penetration, after which the man becomes weak and unable to achieve another erection. This problem is likely experience by people who stating masturbation at an early age. This is because you have train your nervous system to ejaculate very quickly (or while partially erect). When you are younger, while masturbating you want to ejaculate quickly because of the fear of being caught by your parents or siblings. So you teach your mind that when you are hard your job is to ejaculate as quickly as possible and not relax and enjoy the long sensation. Over the years of masturbation, your brain has been wire to believe that the response to an erection is quick ejaculation. When with a real woman you will notice you still experience same thing.

3. Delay ejaculation (low sensation) : This is a situation where a man is unable to achieve orgasm/ejaculation when having sex with a woman. Delay ejaculation often go in hand with weak erection and it's cause by prolong porn and masturbation coupled with holding back ejaculation. Holding back ejaculation while masturbation is when a man stimulates his p**is with his hand or whatever he does that with to a point of release and then stops, wait until the sensation comes down, after which he resumes again and repeat same for several minutes or hours before finally allowing himself to ejaculation , this act is called EDGING . This is done to elongate the masturbation session to enjoy it more. The reason you're unable to ejaculate during sex with a woman is because you are completely desensitized. The level of sensation which you are suppose to have while having sex with a woman is low due to over-stressed sexual nerve. When you wash a new cloth all the time (whether it's dirty or not) it fades away or depreciate and becomes like an old cloth. That's it .

3. Weakness (low testosterone) : In men testosterone is a hormone produced primarily in the testicles. It is what makes a man to be a man. Testosterone in men is responsible for larger muscles, stronger bone, hair growth, deeper voice and a stronger sex. Women also produce testosterone in the ovaries and adrenal glands , but at a lower levels than men, that's why they have smaller muscles, softer voice, less hairy and a weaker sex drive. Testosterone as said is produce in the testicles in men , that's why if a man is castrated he loses all the powers of a man and becomes like a woman. When a man ejaculates, he loses some amount of his testosterone. That is the reason why you experience weakness after ejaculation. People who indulge in excessive masturbation are likely to suffer a low testosterone. That is when you see a man of 27yrs looking like a 17yrs old boy, or a man with a behavioral attributes of a woman.

4. Loneliness: People (man/woman) who indulge in watching porn and masturbation often end up lonely and depressed. They rather prefer to stay indoor for a week or more with their computer or phone viewing all assorted sets of porn and masturbating on them rather than go out to meet real people. Due to this they grow to be uncomfortable around real people especially the opposite sex.

5. Severe social anxiety: This is the inability to be confidence and relax while in public. People (male and female) who are into acute porn and masturbation are prone to have low self esteem. They have problem of inferiority complex when among their peers. This is as a result of all the above other listed problems induce by porn and masturbation, it puts the victim in a life of shame and embarrassment. You hear your peers talking about their different real sex experiences , you feel bad because you know it's embarrassing to share your own porn and masturbation sessions with them. You know you are having problem but you are ashame to discuss it with anybody.

The above problems as long as it is induce by porn/masturbation cannot be cured medically by drugs. It is a psychological problem and can only be correct by a psychological treatment. Your brain has been sexually wired wrongly and needs to be rewired correctly to it's normal form. The method of re-wiring your brain here is known as REBOOTING . It is a system whereby you wipe out from your brain all the wrongs you have input in it about sex . When your brain is now neutral , you can then input the right things about sex and you will see that all your problems will vanish. It is practically like formatting a phone or like clearing the weeds on a fertile land and replacing it with good plants. Sounds magical? Don't worry I will tell you how it is done. In case you are waiting for me to give you set of rules you will not find them - other than: "No porn/ No masturbation/No sex/ No any kind of artificial sexual stimulation for 90 days" By artificial I mean sexual pix, audio and literature. Also no porn substitutes allowed, such as: surfing woman pictures on Facebook or dating sites, cruising Craigslist, underwear ads, YouTube videos, "erotic literature", etc. Some people might say that's very difficult or impossible, how can I not watch porn, masturbate or have sex for a whole 90 days ? Yes, it's difficult but not impossible, Once you know how something works and how it affects you, it's much easier to muster the willpower
to make a change if you so wish. You have to do what it takes to help yourself get better and have a normal life. To achieve a good result, any time you lose yourself and watch porn/masturbate/sex during your rebooting , you have to start all over , by starting all over I mean if you lose yourself on day 13 ,you have to start all over from day 1 again.

What to experience during/after rebooting:

1. Flat-line period:
This occurs within the 90 days rebooting. During the flatline period you will observe that you had lose total interest in sex, there will be no early morning erection, your pen*s shrinks and becomes smaller as such that sometimes you will feel like you have no pen*s, you only remember you have a pen*s when you want to urinate. Whenever you experience this, do not panic but be happy because it's a sign that your re-booting is working. The flatline signifies that your brain has wiped out all the sexual data you installed in it and now restoring to its original settings. The period of flatline may last up to several weeks or months depending on individuals. The flatline period ends with a sudden early morning erection ( full erection) , this signifies that your rebooting was successful and you can then go on and enjoy a normal sex life absent of erectile problem, premature ejaculation, delay ejaculation e.t.c .
More things to notice during or after your rebooting include: a deeper voice , you become attractive to the opposite sex, you no longer panic when around the opposite sex, your self confidence increases, your social anxiety disappears, change in character( the way you talk ,walk, sit and stand show a new confidence ) e.t.c
NOTE: If after adequate rebooting for 90 days , your sexual problem persist, you can then seek a medical help. Different people get cured at different time within the 90 days reboot, as long as you have experience the flatline period and then the sudden early morning erection, know that you are cured, you can stop the rebooting if you like . This means that it's not a must that you will reboot for 90 days . But, after 90 days of rebooting , if your sexual problem persist (then it's not a psychological problem) , seek a medical help.


Follow those recovery steps OP and thank me later.

SOURCE: https://www.nairaland.com/2077982/side-effects-porn-masturbation-how#29524078

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Politics / Re: PDP To Buhari, APC: “You Have Betrayed Almajirai After Using Them To Get Power” by benoly(m): 10:16am On May 12, 2020
Any lies in what they are saying? No.

They are not even done.

In 2023, they will gather them again back to north and arm them with PVCs.
Travel / Re: 30 Northern Youths Hiding Behind Baskets Of Pepper Inside Trailer Caught In Ogun by benoly(m): 8:48am On May 12, 2020
What most of us don't know is that some northern elites are sponsoring these movements. If i'm wrong, then i beg to ask. who will volunteer his truck , fuel it, camouflage the areas that eyes can easily see with few goats , then the rest of the truck with over 50 unfortunate almajiris and then headed to down south and west without sponsorship?.

They present few bags of pepper and the rest- potential hosts of COVID-19 and they feel we are too dumb to understand their real mission?.

We know they don't like the uneven distribution of the virus in the country. They get more sick seeing NCDC reports on daily basis with the Northern states continuously dominating the top half of the table with high figures.

God will deliver us of from this marriage one day i pray.

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Politics / Re: Kaduna Cuts Public Servants Salary By 25% To Fund Support Packages by benoly(m): 10:45am On Apr 27, 2020
This is not funny. Other countries are giving financial aids to its citizens to help them in this period and here we are having the opposite.

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Politics / Re: Sullivan Chime Celebrates His 61st Birthday Today by benoly(m): 11:12am On Apr 10, 2020
Those that lived in Enugu during Sullivan Chime's regime between 2007 to 2015 can attest that Sullivan is one of the best thing that happened to Enugu state. I am not from Enugu state, but i was i Enugu state then.
Anyone living in Enugu city during his regime can also attest to this. His impact was felt. So sad that the current administration isn't following his footsteps.
God bless Sullivan and happy birthday to him

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Business / Re: Ogbete Market Fire: Police Says No Casualty Was Recorded In The Inferno by benoly(m): 2:03pm On Jan 04, 2020
Britishcoins:
Very big and unorganized market, I nearly lost the day I was searching for one medical equipment during my mom's health challenges....
I think government should demolish that market and construct more modern market


Government should destroy market worth billions?. Because you don't know anyone who owns a business there? Or because you lost your bearing the day you went to the market? You're a devil.

That market is well planned as far as am concerned, you've not been to ogbete.
Religion / Re: MURIC: 'Christians Enjoy More Holidays Than Muslims In Nigeria' by benoly(m): 1:51pm On Jan 04, 2020
What has persecution got to do with holidays. Is this man a traditional prof or academic?

He is an unashamed illiterate.

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Politics / Re: 2020 Budget: Zamfara Earmarks ₦1 Billion For Mosques, Renovation Of Cemeteries by benoly(m): 1:07pm On Jan 02, 2020
Zamfara doesn't generate much revenue for Nigeria, as a matter of fact, one of the least in terms of IGR capacity.

obviously they have excess free money to spend. The state doesn't work for it, the resources flows from oil in the south.
Why won't they kick against Restructing of the Nigerian nation. If the state is not generating much a month, can they invest such amount for religious purposes when they stand to gain little or nothing back to to the state pocket? This same attitude will keep a state like Zamfara at the top of that poverty chart.

What happened to building industries, quality schools and empowering the minds of their youths with knowledge.

Almajiris are scattered at every corners of the state yet religious empowerment is topping their priorities. This same state championed sharia law with huge sum amount of money years back, how far did it help them; backwardness was the result.

I have lived in this state between 2016-2017 in fulfillment of my career demands. Sincerely, Zamfara state is nothing to right home about in terms of human capacity development, infrastructure, business...etc. If anyone knows any single thing that Zamfara state can boast of, i will gladly like to hear that.

This is sad, the poverty and illiteracy in some of these northern states still affects every other parts of the nation and it's more sad to know that they are not focusing on the remedies.
Health / Re: The Side Effects Of Porn/masturbation And How To Cure Yourself by benoly(m): 10:32pm On Nov 18, 2019
Everything about this article is real. God help every victim of this menace to recover fully. people should see this. This post is tremendously helpful.
Politics / Re: Governor Makinde Approves N500,000 Each To Oyo Indigenes At Law School by benoly(m): 11:06am On Aug 07, 2019
If this is true, then it's a wonderful development.Imagine the level of leverage on the part of parents.

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Sports / Re: Russia Bans Nigerian Supporters From Bringing Live Chicken Into Stadium by benoly(m): 1:31pm On Jun 14, 2018
Some Nigerians cannot be civilized. mtcheeew

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NYSC / Re: Female Corper And Her Child Rock NYSC Kaki In Adorable Photos by benoly(m): 2:47pm On May 24, 2018
she couldn't just waste d apron nysc gives in the form of khaki uniform.
Career / Re: Doctors, Health Workers Can’t Receive Equal Pay – FG by benoly(m): 10:28am On May 01, 2018
erikoko:
The relativity bfr was a doctor was 2 levels ahead but now e don reach 4 level ahead. I dnt tink dats fair. Until one of their children become a health worker dey wont c d evil in wat they are doing now. Do u know ow much a Level 7 health worker earns now compare it with wat a house officer earns. D diff is more dan 100k. Lets assume dat deir entry level. Plus d discrimination u ll still face at d work place oooo



My dear it's really pathetic. imagine a house officer that just finished school a month ago and can rarely handle any procedure unaided to be earning more than a Nurse, pharmacist, Radiographer etc that has worked for same hospital for 5years. Abeg sentiments apart, the salary scale is highly discriminatory and dosen't make sense. minister of health saying JOHESU is asking for same salary scale with doctors is a big lie he wants the public to believe. I don't even see Nigerian health sector even moving forward in 10years to come because other underlying weightier matters of who to head different departments in hospitals will always keep retarding our growth because of incessant fights resulting from it in almost every hospital in Nigeria.

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