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am just here to check if Liverpool is winning and over 2.5.... combo 3.00 am loving tonight

Once again the haters get disappointed and keep wailing heavily

sallaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh

paulibling:
What kind of wickedness is this coming from adamawa voters. They should all be arrested and charged for hate voting. Even in the presidential election voting was not this wicked. Nonsense. Wicked voters.

Baba thank you for the minimum wage o jare.

While thanking him for an overdue minimum wage which he intentionally tried to reduce if not for the timely intervention of the national assembly,i would urge that you plead with him not to go with the plan of increasing VAT! There are on going plans by the federal government to source for funds to pay the minimum wage by increasing the VAT payment....Once that happens,prices will skyrocket and the minimum wage will have little or no value to the receiver!

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lovely

savvy12:
I'm a single lady in my late 20's looking for a Christian guy for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage.I'm a virgin too(not that its an achievement).
I'm fair in complexion and tall.
The guy must be igbo and God fearing.
my no is 09038795246.
I reside in Anambra state.

Your number is not on whatsapp

merxi55:
Oga bentenny...your so called assertion you held as though I meant normal is still the same message I passed to tell people not to jump into conclusions, I still went ahead to tell him to express his displeasures and watch if she'd stop.. Does that sound to you like I meant bad? Well...don't have strength for too much talk.

Madam merxi55,wisdom is profitable to direct...!

This has nothing to do with "jumping into conclusion",this is about the obvious evidence from the OP that his gf or acclaimed partner was flirting with other guys on a social media platform! in other words,he caught her pants down cheating on him. What more evidence do you need to verify or conclude that the promiscuous lady is "cheating" on him or do you want him to show you "video evidence" where she is caught in bed before you believe the kind of lady that she is?


You don't put your hands in a fire and expect not to be burnt.
Am still trying to fathom how you could keep defending such a carnal and immature lady with such unholy comments!

Your submissions are so unfortunate and inadmissible i may even think you are supporting cheating in a relationship!
What is wrong is wrong and must be condemned in its entirety no matter the appearance!

If she loved the OP the way you claimed,she wouldn't need to lower or degrade herself to the extent of allowing other guys flirt with her when she has her man or partner to do that for her!

I still went ahead to tell him to express his displeasure and watch if she'd stop

Express his displeasure towards a lady who is about to cheat on him or already cheating on him and WATCH if she will stop?
You are indeed a very "funny" lady!
Are you for real?
Did you actually peruse your earlier comments?

That's More like keeping a goat and yam in the same room hoping the goat won't eat the yam or put a hungry lion in a room with a goat and expect the lion to pity the goat?
Its like telling a Casanova to stop womanizing hoping he or she will stop just like that?

merxi55:
That she's in a relationship doesn't mean she can't innocently flirt with others ... If she hasn't cheated on you, by sleeping with either of them, she isn't guilty. We all in some ways have done same..the one caught Is the criminal... Some times we just need someone to chat with or be flirtatious towards just keep the days going when bored.

Express your displeasures, and watch if she'd stop. The only wrong she did as not to tell you about it... But talk to her, and let her state her reasons for that... You just don't know...you just dont!

OMG
So based on your assertions,flirting is now normal and cool as long as there is no cheating going on?
Haven't you heard of the saying that "words are actions in rehearsal"?
Once flirtation starts,an affair brews and cheating is inevitable!
Or don't you abide by your Personal text: "if you dont want the devil, stay away from his shore!"?

If the lady wants to flirt,let her free the guy,end the relationship and keep flirting around whether innocently or in a guilty way!
But as long as she is in a serious relationship,she should respect her man and respect herself by not giving other guys a reason to believe she is single and searching!

If she can do such in a relationship,imagine what she will do when she gets married!
Smh

Some times we just need someone to chat with or be flirtatious towards just keep the days going when bored.

Totally wrong and bad advise!
If you want to be flirtatious when bored,please do it with your bf! Simple!
That's selfish nah!

ogadogood:
how u take know she's d kind of lady u r looking for?

He knows exactly what he really wants....

hmmmm

some babes just get bad character

Liverpool Vs Roma outright win and 1.5 check
Bayern vs real Madrid over 2.5 check
Arsenal Vs atletico Madrid Double chance....?
Hmmmm....

"Being in love with someone" and "being in a relationship with someone"

When a guy ask a lady out,some ladies would rather prefer the "being in a relationship" statement rather than "being in love their partner".....

So is there a distinction or is the "being in a relationship" just a statement used to give "hope" to another guy?
Please i need Your inputs or opinion...Thanks!

Simran94:
Altagracia ruined everything by killing filipe. I have already lost interest in #IronRose.

Seriously she did...I always knew this would happen.....She just made more enemies than friends!!

Please the moderators should push this important information to the front page.....the public needs to be enlightened about fake and unlicenced herbal contents in circulation!!

At 9: 30am Thursday morning, a group of young men stood beside a roadside alcohol-selling kiosk under the Ojuelegba Bridge, Lagos. Each of them clutched a plastic bottle of Ise nla Gbaremu- a brownish alcoholic herbal concoction produced in the streets of Mushin.


They threw their heads back, poured sizeable portions of the liquor from the bottle straight into their mouths, gaggled and then swallowed. At only N100 per bottle the young men could afford to quaff and binge themselves on the local brew. “It cures everything,” said Opeyemi, one of them, as he guzzled the herbal liquor. According to him Ise nla Gbaremu is not just their daily dose of getting high for the day, but, they take it also because of its efficacy in curing diseases such as pile, diabetes and sexual dysfunction.



Today, like Opeyemi and his friends, millions of Nigerians are loyal consumers of the various brands of herbal products.

However medical experts and herbal beverage producers have cautioned all to be wary of the numerous unlicensed herbal bitters on the market.

Before now such ailments had often been treated with foreign packaged herbal, the most popular one of which is Swedish Bitters. They were however, soon joined by locally manufactured ones including Yoyo Bitters.


The proliferation of branded alcoholic bitters could be traced to 2007 when Alomo Bitters made incursions into the Nigerian market.

It blazed the trail in the consumption of alcoholic herbal liquor which spread like wide fire among consumers, and in no time, the ‘Bitters’ market witnessed a boom. In a bid to make brisk money, however, quacks soon moved in to reap from the upsurge in demand, and started production of fake and adulterated brands of herbal products!

Many of these fake herbal alcoholic brands are not only crudely packaged, but the herbal contents are said to be brewed in dingy rooms, with untreated water and the mixing is done with bathing buckets and dirty equipment.
Experts say the unhygienic nature of these unlicensed locally produced products, exposes unsuspecting consumers to risks of suffering from diseases and even death.


No one knows how much of the legitimate herbal industry in Nigeria has been eaten into by activities of these quacks, but industry figures suggest their adverse effects are significant. According Mr Kenneth Chiadinaizu Obalum, M.D of Goko Herbs West Africa Ltd, makers of Goko Cleanser Herbal Mixture and Heritage Alcoholic Bitters, only 30 per cent of the products in the Nigerian market are produced under strict hygienic standards. “The economy is so hard in the country today. So people are seeking for means to make quick money. Today anyone can wake up, and decide to start producing any herbal concoction inside his room or at his backyard, because he has seen that the alcoholic bitters market is a very lucrative venture. And to make brisk money he would opt to cut corners, use inferior materials to produce herbal bitters, push these into the market and sell at cheap rate to consumers.”


Dangers of fake bitters

Aside the unhygienic conditions under which some of these fake herbals are produced, many of them contain potentially dangerous chemicals. Certified herbal alcoholic drinks are made with ethanol – alcohol that’s safe to drink in moderation. But the quacks, in a bid to maximize profit, use other cheaper types of alcohol which can have serious adverse effects on human health. “Commonly used substitutes for ethanol include industrial chemicals used in cleaning fluids, nail polish remover and automobile screen wash, as well as methanol and isopropanol. These other types of alcohol can produce similar effects to ethanol in terms of making you feel tipsy. But they are also potentially very dangerous,” says Doctor Charles Odionye of iWell Medical Consult.


How to spot the fake herbal products

Many consumers of herbal products find it difficult to spot the bad ones from the good brands. However, there are still easy and useful ways to identify inferior herbal products. According, Mr Obalum, people need to remember ‘the 4 Ps’ when buying any herbal content to drink; these are: Place, Price, Packaging and Product.

Place : Make sure you buy from a reputable supermarket, off licence or shop.

Price: If a deal looks too good to be true, it most probably is.

Packaging : Look out for: One, poor quality labelling, including things like spelling mistakes. Two, properly sealed caps. If the seal is broken, don’t drink it. Even if it is not illegal, it could have been tampered with. And three, fake bar codes. If you have an app on your mobile that scans bar codes, scan it and see if it’s listed as the correct product.

Product : Look out for fake versions of well-known brands and be wary of unusual brand names you haven’t seen before. If any alcohol tastes or smells bad, don’t drink it.

“Many fakers of herbal products are not thorough in packaging their bitters. They just go to the market, buy crude-looking empty containers, print a label, pour their concoction into these containers and then bring them to sell to consumers in the market. So people should be very careful and scrutinise the bitters they take because many of them could be poison in disguise,” advised Obalum.

This article does not in any way seek to condemn herbal products or its consumers but rather a means of advising that we ensure such herbal products are licensed or regulated by nafdac or any health regulatory body in order to prevent any adverse effect or possibly death in future.....beware of fake and unlicensed herbal products!

....and la Donna finally met her match....

Manuel and silvanna....one of my best telemundo comedies yet if not the best

Once a couple of people have settled into a relationship, things can fall into a bit of a rut. Routines form, the attentiveness that was present at the beginning of the courtship might be replaced by content complacency, and ultimately tensions arise. These simple tips may seem like common sense, but you may be surprised at how often people forget about their importance.

Communication is Vital

Very few of us are able to read one another’s minds, so it’s important to express things that weigh on us, whether they’re positive or negative. Little behaviors that bother us can become more irksome over time, so it’s good to address them early, before the irritation accumulates to the point of anger. Similarly, miscommunications can lead to some pretty ugly arguments, so if you’re uncertain about something, try to discuss it calmly so you can sort things out: you may have misheard or misread something your partner said/did and taken it totally out of context, so clarify before freaking out about anything. Even though we may feel that we know our partners well after being with them for several years, remember that we all grow and change over time, and methods of communication must change along with us as needed.

Never Take Each Other for Granted

Be aware of every wonderful thing that your partner does for you, and express your gratitude whenever possible. This might be as simple as thanking them for doing the dishes after you’ve eaten dinner, or telling them how much it means to you that they make your coffee/tea exactly the way you like it. They’ll feel appreciated for the love and kindness they show you, and will express their appreciation to you in turn, so no one ever feels like their actions aren’t being acknowledged.

Respect Each Other’s Alone Time

Togetherness is important, but just as important (if not more so) is the ability to spend time alone. Too much time spent together can make you irritable, especially if you feel like your personal space is always being invaded. Time alone is necessary for personal reflection, growth, meditation, or even just quiet contemplation. Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and you’ll appreciate your partner a lot more after having some space away from them. If you live together, it might be a good idea to have personal spaces that you can retreat to: either individual offices, or a garage workshop for one person and an attic library for another, etc.

Don’t “Let Yourself Go”

It’s inevitable that once certain comfort levels have been reached and closeness wins out over early awkwardness, some behavioral patterns will change. You might not spend an hour prepping before dinner to make sure that your hair is perfect, or your partner might wear the same pants for two days in a row without worrying about what you might think of their outfit. That’s totally normal, and really quite hilarious. That said, closer comfort levels don’t mean that you should neglect your personal hygiene, or let your living space fall into complete ruin. You know they’re not going to judge you if you leave pizza boxes all over the floor, but that doesn’t mean that you should. Try to keep things tidy and your appearance a step or two above “slovenly,” and your partner will undoubtedly feel that they’re worth making an effort for.


Share Some Hobbies, and Have Solo Pursuits as Well

You might not share your partner’s love of MMORPGs, and they may not be interested in your love of foreign films, and you know what? That’s absolutely okay. While it’s great to pursue some hobbies and interests together, it’s important to have your own social groups and interests as well. Take cooking classes or swing dance lessons together, hook up with friends to go to wine tasting nights, but then split off for your individual pursuits: you’ll have fun things to talk about when you meet up afterwards.


Admit When You’re Wrong (or When They’re Right)

This may be difficult for some people to do, but it really is important. If you discover that you’ve been wrong about an issue/bit of information/whatnot, own up to it: you’ll gain your partner’s appreciation and respect if you do, and if you don’t, you’re just proving yourself to be an immature, pouty jerk. Additionally, if you’ve been discussing something and your partner turns out to be in the right, acknowledge that fact: they may have been filled with self-doubt, and acknowledging their awareness or knowledge may boost their self-esteem exponentially.


Have Faith In Your Partner

Having trust and faith in another person can be difficult, especially if you’ve been hurt by others in the past. If you’ve been cheated on or otherwise betrayed by another partner, you might worry that the same thing will happen in your current relationship, and this may cause you to imagine things or accuse your partner without just cause. If you find that your own insecurities are poisoning your partnership, talk it out with them and consider seeking therapy: they’re not the person who hurt you, so please don’t assume that just because one person treated you badly, everyone else will too.


Leave the Past In the Past

If you work through a hardship together and come to a positive resolution, move past it and use the experience as an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t refer back to it during arguments, don’t bring it up as a means of guilt-tripping your partner, and try not to assume that just because something happened once, that it’ll happen again. What’s passed is past, and rehashing old ugliness will just poison future happiness. Let it go.

Mutual Goals are Important

It’s great to have a goal or a project that you’re both working on together, as that can affect many aspects of your life outside of your actual relationship. You could be working on an art piece, saving up for a trip, building a cottage, or even working on a garden. Determine your strengths for the project so you’re working in harmony, and build something amazing that you can be proud of having achieved as a team.


Be Honest

Some people lie to their partners for years out of fear of hurting or offending them, but that can lead to a whole lot of ugliness on all sides. The one being lied to will know that something is wrong, and the one lying may feel more and more frustration about holding back and the relationship may end up suffering badly as a result. This honesty doesn’t have to deal with outright lies, but rather personal interests or preferences that may have changed over the years. Alternately, there could be some serious issues that really should be dealt with, but are internalized out of fear of hurting the other person. Ultimately, honesty really is the best policy, and a strong couple will be able to work through just about anything together.

link: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/relationship-tips-couples-often-forget.html

prettythicksme:
i smell jealousy.

why Nah...Lol...I already get my own...

prettythicksme:
Lol,my boo can kill for me.

Lol...Na u sabi

kinzation:
OP why all this nah And u want to make heaven

hahahaha...

prettythicksme:
Lose wetin? sorry op i cant lose my boo.

....Lol...as long as u r not a control freak or possessive gf,u won't lose him....

GAZZUZZ:
No time, 5days max

wicked

1. Seek to control him at all times

2. Constantly correct him, like his mother, in public

3. Determine to know all his movements like a monitoring spirit

4. Confront him with his mistakes in front of his friends

5. Deny him sex and yet don't make provision for controlled emotional intimacy

6. Call up all his ex-dates and monitor all his text, online activities and calls.

7. Make sure you come first on his spending list, make him your ATM.

8. Divert his attention from his family to you, and quarrel with his sisters.

9. Become his official escort to anywhere he goes....

You can also add yours

ARLTL:seriously Eva really has a foul mouth which is not really good for her.....yeah pablo messed up...true but why talk down on sumone that you love....in a real world,she wud have been alone with no one because of her reckless words....there is nothing as damning as a lady with a loose tongue....

IOIWY:Its now getting interesting......wont wanna miss an episode

IOIWY: Come ohh....i dont understand dis "if only i were you" sef........between leo/pedro and Usania,who is the elder one?
Cos am wondering why Usania has not been given a good slap by leo to reset her brain.....
How wud u drag a grown up guy and order him to go to his room...jeeez
Some tins happening in telemundo defies explanation..........

dahmie2013:
Hello peeps! Dis WOS is really nice o! But wait! Did I just see sumone like Rodrigo giving dat Erika's puppet money? I hope i've started seeing my Mr Faier! Sumone commented abt d soap & said 4 some reason she thut she was watching a horror movie! I laffed 2 scorn! Poor Junio, Sara is strictly on her own now.
@bentenny hope u're good & watching it?

Yeah am good...watsup longest time!

Captivating...Highly Emotional....Splendid...Realistic....!

The attention to detail,the Story-line,The directing...The Characters/Professionals involved...Everything just blended together to achieve a Powerful,emotional and memorable telenovela that will forever keep interacting with our hearts and minds for years to come.......


Under The Same Sky


I must admit that i wasn't really into it at first,maybe because of PART OF ME.....
But when i did from where i started,to the end....It was breathless.....

Top Top professional performances from some notable and famous Telemundo characters esp Gabriel Porras aka carlos and Luis Ernesto Franco aka El faier...
Their Unforgettable performances sincerely deserves an Academy award or Oscars......esp the last episode aka season finale....!

Whats my final rating for Under the same sky?
Hmmm.....
Numero uno.....

Gosh I must admit dat Erik loved Adele and was willing 2 do any tin for her...however he underestimated how ruthless d colony was...and dat ultimately lead 2 his cruel death...


Adele begged Erik several times but he didn't listen...he tot money and power wud solve every thing in life...


kai if only Mathias was alive,not even Erik's mother wud have laid a slap on Adele...

Blossom023:
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After seeing today's episode... I'm not watching passion for revenge again.. I can't take it anymore. Zee world is actually interesting.. I love Indian movies.

i watched today's episode dis morning....i believe u will still come back again ...leave dose indian movies....tell me of the 70s or 80s indian films and i will understand....dese day's too much makeup,wrong voice suitability.....