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You have taken the first most important step which is to know.

The next is speaking about it.

You need to gather evidence of this and forward it to the right channel, a known NGO or International body. Now i noticed you said no one could be trusted so I will suggest that you work with a credible NGO.

I teach young ones of this same age bracket and from the little I know, if you don't set this girl free today, a cold female can be born!

35 is the oldest you can be with me for a wife and 18 is my youngest for a wife.

I care less about age, if the lady is mature enough, teachable, responsible and has what I want from a wife, why shouldn't I marry her? Especially if her family and all are okay with it and if she as well is okay with it.

To me, age is just a restriction to those who want it to be cos in the end it's not her age you marry, it is her person (Her Qualities as a Human).

Scrapping of NYSC would just make more poor Nigerians for 1 Year most of which would be sitting at home doing nothing, except you are scrapping it for another growth oriented program.

Nigeria's unity at some point has also been dependent on this program because most Nigerian youths learn a bit from where ever they are posted to far from home, they learn a bit more about their new environment and culture and how to better relate with those people where ever they find them.

See I know it has become twisted this NYSC program but if properly structured a lot of our problems in this country as regards tribes can be sorted out through this scheme.

It has just been abused by its coordinators!

bbbabes:
Non, I can date you even if you 10 years younger. If you young in age as a guy, that doesn't mean your masculinity is young or not matured.

WORD!

elda2303:
Saw thru it 2 ... for her church mind she's smart.

As in ehn!

ThisTrend:
http://pmexpressng.com/teenager-robs-rapes-45-year-old-housewife-lagos/

I'm still trying to get the right words to express my surprise at this whole story... What's wrong with the world?

NevetsIbot:
oya Na omo iya ..... English.


so what did you say back there

I asked why you had to go on rage mode back there and pleaded you take it easy on her!

NevetsIbot:
mi o gbo nkan ti o n so. ede geesi ni mo fi ba eniyen soro.


speak English baba

Ati emi na egbon mi!

Let's start with you on that English now can we?

NevetsIbot:
and then when I make it big without no woman by me... one foolish broke ass lady would then try to fasten her hands into my pockets in the name of relationships or marriage? Thunder collide with you NNE.


let's even assume you are financially independent..... while you were broke... did you stay off dicks or relationships .

and if you're a Broke lady right now..... are you off relationships and sex?? or ate you depending on your already made boyfriend or ya parents.



ndiara

Maka gini nu chai nwayo nwayo biko!

Sarah20A:
They are two types of broke guys (1)the one that has a goal and he's working towards it .this are the ones that might be broke today but have all it takes to be successful tomorrow. (2) this set of broke guys are the ones that keep saying baby I will make a hit very soon, they very delusional and they always have the illusion of not working before getting money e.g the slay guys.so which one is she talking about

Your eyes and Brain cells are functioning perfectly o, God would bless you!

Didn't have to say much, made sense, drops mic.

Tallysmallz:
Glad to make you see the light. Leave girls alone and establish a life for yourself. The rest comes naturally.

Leave girls alone and establish a life for yourself... (At this point i say OK)

The rest comes naturally. (Oh Lord the word play tho... )

Nice one tho.

maklelemakukula:
its not sacasm abeg

I was referring to his comment, the one you quoted? yes that one not your response to him.

Benita27:
You and the op think women should settle for anything. Since you said "No man is broke", what do we call a "Barrow pusher" that does this job year in and out?. 'cause his life could change at any minute; should I hand around him when I know fully well he has no life?.

Read my comment again and think through what I said thoroughly!

Xisnin:
So you are projecting your failed gambit on other ladies,
why don't you let them live with the consequence of
their own decisions ?

You apparently have not learned a lesson from your past
experience, which is to take responsibility for your decisions.

The mentality that your boyfriend's duty is to be rich to take care
of you is the same mentality held by those you attacked with this post.
You didn't regret dumping your boyfriend, you regretted that he became
rich after you dumped him.

Your boyfriend was lucky to be rid of you because you equated his
self-worth to his success and you still do, this isn't a behaviour
I will expect from a non-slay queen.

As usual those who can't see through this charade will become the
latest victim in town.

1. She has put herself out so someone can have a chance to re-think. Let her be.

2. Have you been reading through?! She has learnt stop being mean.

3. Same mentality but she's pushing for a different line of thought from them, herself included. Shows regret, stop being mean.

4. Couldn't you just say she tried bringing her story to light and passing a message across at least?

You just had to lash her?!

maklelemakukula:
nice one bro just for laffs
nairaland sweet oo

Sarcasm mehn... Only pleasant way to clear someone.

Benita27:
Her point was "No man is broke". Who told her that?. That I'm a lady does that mean I should mingle with anything in trousers 'cause no man is broke?. That she supports mediocrity I don't. Some broke guys actually have nothing to offer some ladies, such guys should be avoided 'cause they'll be your downfall.

Sorry dear but I agree that no man is broke just as I believe that no man is perfect!

Understanding the two has led me give room for tolerance and growth, the wise saying "No condition is permanent" would be a very perfect way to sum her piece up.

I get that you have a thing against guys who sit and cross their legs waiting for a big thing to come their way yet disturbing a lady but 'cos a nigga don't have the do now don't mean he ain't gon get it later. Also, does he have dreams? Does he have ambition? Is he willing to do something?
If yes, why call him broke? (saying that could literally suggest your disbelief is his quest to get to where he would be).

Lastly, I feel her piece makes a whole lot of sense cos in here I have watched the way ladies go all out to stress how a guy (they may or may never have met in here) is broke... I just laugh though!

Let me rest at this, No man is broke but that one who resolves to nothingness! (And to know this, you need too meet him in person)

Benita27:
Your attention seeking is real. Truth be told and whether you accept it or not. There are broke people everywhere and we all know that being broke is temporal but it's only temporal to those who found their situation uncomfortable, got working and with perseverance their brokenness changed to what we could call "living a comfortable life" if not "Rich". There are broke, unambitious, lazy guys out there that certain calibre of ladies shouldn't associate themselves with. Call a spade a spade and stop the emotional blackmail on your fellow gender, that's if you're what you claim.

Women should strive to get the life they desire with or without a man and when you're there, your kind of man would find you.

You just supported her point Ma, so don't talk her down by bringing her to shame all guys out there for being broke.
What she said was wise now let's leave it at that and give her credit for it.

MissCokie:

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No Man Deserves To Be Called A Broke Ass: Get Your Priorities Straight Before Judging Him.

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Our present day women have lost their focus and priorities. We have lost the golden rules. How can You tag a struggling man as a broke ass, while you can't afford to eat comfortably without the help of your parents! , even your parents can't feed well, yet you transfer your responsibilities on someone else who is far from being your father, mother, brother or even relatives, haba!.

Most of them, even go further to make a list of some silly things a guy must have, before they can go on a date with him. He must have a car, stay in a cool apartment, have a good source of income, bla bla bla . my sister why cant you struggle to have all those things yourself. Why must you depend on a man to take away your miserable responsibilities. This same broke girls would end up shouting "Feminism" , "Women Equality" up and down, yet you can't even help yourself. All you want to do, is to sit your silly ass down, get bleeped a million times, spend money, get dumbed, and the circle continues!. Please respect yourself.

Majority of us, now focus our lives on social media, seeking for cheap likes etc, going nude just to get attention. Acting silly everyday for 365days with empty brains and zero productivities. Congratulations.

We should learn how to respect and support our guys who are still struggling to get their lives together, and not to become a liability to them.

Slay Queens and Slay Mama, this message is for you. While you're busying slaying, remember a lady is someone slaying with affluence and i am one of them(BOLD).

You slay queens allow material gain to becloud your reasoning, no wonder you all end up being slayed by ritualist or a Yahoo guy. Please get your priorities straight and change your focus. If you can channel 0.1% of your slaying energy to something productive,I am sure you would definitely help make the world a better place.

If you're married, and yet you claim to be a slay mama, Your time would surely elapse, and all your stupid lifestyle would come knocking on your door . Because you would end up being kicked out of your marriage, and someone else who has more brain and dignity would replace you. You can't eat your cake and have it back.


If he is broke today, remember he won't be broke forever. No condition is permanent. Get your priorities straight, saddle yourself and be productive.

Why won't guys respect you for this?

Let the guys call themselves broke, that's for them, give 'em time, they'll grow.

Case closed!

Thank you joray OP!

Please the fact that Chemical Engineers do more Maths than we Computer Scientists doesn't go to say that we don't do wicked Maths or that we just face our computers like some people here suggest, I mean like you asked @OP between the two courses, you find more Maths in Chemical Engineering than in CS.

Even when we program or design stuff, we use those annoying Logic Maths, Vector and sometimes depending on where we find ourselves, Engineering Maths too or Statistics.

But in all, the Chemical Engineers have it more than we do.

Raymondboyvic:
thanks bro...but somone with bsc in computer science can you do masters in computer engineering?

Certainly you can...

But you'll need your maths A-game o!

I studied computer science so I know the amount of Maths I did, but to be honest the type of Maths they do in those Engineering courses make me think life through...

Chemical engineering would have more maths, I have a cousin who did it and she's a witness!

corperscorner:
send me your email - let me forward a doc to you

Please can I get that document too bentuzene@gmail.com

haven't got a gig since I signed up!

MathsChic:
I believe this is the number of which you speak. A brilliant and idle mind is indeed dangerous.

I Agree totally

Number not a secret!

CaeserVelli:
You're an idiot. I challenge you to quote in bold any part where I tagged all girls prostitûtes or forever perish in hell.

Secondly, whether we have crossed the shores of Nigeria or not is moot. We compare Nigeria's healthcare, road network, political system, judiciary system with its foreign counterparts all the time. Nigerian women are not any special. This is done to benchmark against high standards. If you are too daft to know that stop commenting when your superiors are having discussions above your intellect. Daft bimbo.

But life is not this messed up na... Ah this is classified Evil in words!

MissRaine69:
You are a funny individual that made me laugh actually. Date a made woman sometime
It's a big difference from what you are used to.

Actually this is true tho...

Well clearly some Ladies here have shown that Nigerian Ladies can have sense of belonging too.

But some (and boy are they a lot) just take pride in making situations like OPs own a major reality in Nigeria! Which is sad!

pocohantas:
True talk.
In all honesty, there is no difference between a guy who wants to fukc a random girl and a girl who wants to chop a random guy.

It was a game and OP played it smarter.

The only place I fault the girl was where she kept staging him, only to turn up when she heard Shoprite...hungry girl alert. She should have just said, "I can't come visit you"...that would have put an end to all this...but she didn't. She was also hoping to win the game...

They deserve each other ah beg.

Ah you are a wise Lady, infact you deserve a treat for stating this!

directorsolomon:
A brilliant and idle mind can be dangerous... With a little detective work I was able to uncover the Vivian in question.

Oh my Goodness, you had to do this?!

If this babe had just said NO ehn, all of these would not have existed. Accepting and trying to play smart was just not it, yes ladies you can say OP was immature and all but then fact still stands that no body tie her mouth make she no talk say she no do and that's the truth of this matter.

ATM o, Olosho o, any name y'all call each side here, that's just rubbish.

She could've said NO and OP would have still been alive after the NO!

Come here and be yabbing each other for nothing... Mstcheeeeew!

misspineapple:
Shez dumb actually

No don't yab her o, she bleeped up big time...

TinaAnita:
You may think that you have succeeded in teaching her a bitter lesson but what you don't know is that an innocent dude would be made to pay dearly for your action. She would sure take her bitterness out on someone else.

Repaying evil with evil never solves a problem and it can't right any wrong. if what you did makes you feel better then there is a serious problem.

Your ill action only proves that you aren't better than the so-called slay queen.

A vengeful person is a dangerous person as you can't mess with him/her and go scott free.

First female that made me think without laughing on this thread... You are wise!

It's not about insulting OP or trash talking guys you know!