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ProgrammingRe: Starting A Life In Programing, 5 Things To Know As A Fresher by Benzemma(m): 5:55pm On Apr 17, 2021
Premiumwriter:
so because it's a script it's not secured?

Many scripts writers will customize your script for you for a few dollars more.
please do I need to have a computer before I can learn programming?
And am looking for who will teach me.
PropertiesRe: Rent: Awka, Onitsha Residents Lament Hike In Rents by Benzemma(m): 5:31pm On Apr 17, 2021
ibedun:
Ok bro! Na mouth government go take do an? How much tax have you paid all your life? Sorry if I am sounding rude but where do we expect the government to get the money from? Please, where?
you sound so foolish and myopic. Also ask yourself, where do they get the ones they loot, the money they use to pay themselves oversized salary and undeserved allowances. Stop this your suffering and smiling mentality.
PropertiesRe: Rent: Awka, Onitsha Residents Lament Hike In Rents by Benzemma(m): 5:24pm On Apr 17, 2021
[quote author=ibedun post=100879355]Ok bro! Na mouth government go take do an? How much tax have you paid all your life? Sorry if I am sounding rude but where do we expect the government to get the money from? Please, where? You sound so stupid. Where do they get the ones they are looting and the ones they use to pay themselves oversized salary and allowances.
Stop this your slave reasoning!
BusinessRe: Bernard Madoff: The Man Who Ran The World's Largest Ponzi Scheme Dies by Benzemma(m): 10:14am On Apr 17, 2021
Phlegman:
https://www.ft.com/content/df7263ef-31a5-487e-af76-8df4af8afa2d
His agent should be hunted also. Cos they will still be using another way to deceive people more.
They should arrest the founder of Qnet also. Their own even worse, very heartless human beings.
RomanceRe: Man Proposes To The One-Legged Hawker Who Was Supported With Over N14 Million by Benzemma(m): 3:19pm On Apr 15, 2021
Gift52:
Source:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CNrkOXCp1y7/?igshid=ruvpvhss08ou

Them don give this woman money now, this one wan to propose. You wan chop the woman money abi?

Watch video here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzMpDtWPsy0
I Know is because of the money that's why these guy went to propose her. But on a serious note, who will marry that lady now? Cos anyone that goes close to her now, is only going because of the money.
CrimeRe: Anthony Ikpeama Beats Pregnant Wife To Coma, Removes Oxygen Mask Until She Died by Benzemma(m): 11:04am On Apr 13, 2021
Muyiwaipere:
Let’s hear from the man

See let’s be honest this woman can be the problem o cause before a man would actually go to this extent,he felt he could correct the woman due to the love

And did you just say Madonna graduate ...I don’t trust those ladies

Just an opinion
Are you for real, is there still any trace of sense in your skull. What is he trying to change in her to that extent. Do not try to justify this evil act in any means. If she is your sister, would you be saying this nosense uttered here. Don't be foolish okay.
CrimeRe: Anthony Ikpeama Beats Pregnant Wife To Coma, Removes Oxygen Mask Until She Died by Benzemma(m): 10:13am On Apr 13, 2021
Newsmic:
Man Beats His Pregnant Wife Into Coma, Removes Her Oxygen Mask Until She Died (Photos)

A man identified as Anthony Ikpeama has allegedly killed his 6-months pregnant wife identified as Barrister Adaeze Ikpeama by beating her to coma and subsequently rushed to the hospital where she was admitted and removed her oxygen support until she died, IgbereTV reports.

https://igberetvnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/chu-768x767.jpg The Suspect, Anthony Ikpeama

Facebook User, Chukwudi Iwuchukwu shared the story.

He wrote;


https://www.facebook.com/100000563983468/posts/4457090787653010/?app=fbl
Actually, we should mind the kind of name we bear e get why!
Ikpe amala Ikpeama. He just acted inline with the Name he has. Wicked soul.
CareerRe: Your Experiences With Chinese Bosses As Nigerians by Benzemma(m): 9:16am On Apr 13, 2021
OtunbaChibok:
Spent 7 years of my life with a Chinese firm,one of the biggest telecom vendors in Nigeria.

Was trained and rose tru the rank to from trainee engineer to a manage before I left after getting another job.

The company even decided to meet the new salary so I could stay but I have had enough and need to move to the next level iny career.

Had the best time of my life,pay was good and career development was apt.

Made lots of Chinese friends till date.

Basic Principle: Chinese don't like lazy people and slow thinkers....they aren't bad people to work with afterall.

Some Nigerian bosses are 100× worse than Chinese.
some Nigerians are not good to have as boss, they will make you develope low self-esteem. And is unhealthy emotionally.
CareerRe: Your Experiences With Chinese Bosses As Nigerians by Benzemma(m): 9:06am On Apr 13, 2021
abeniagbon:
INDIA WORK NO WAY

CHINESE WORK NO WAY

PHILIPPINE WORK DEY OKAY SMALL

LEBANESE WORK PERFECT WORK

BRITISH WORK NUMBER ONE

AMERICANS WORK NUMBER TWO

IF YOU KNOW YOU KNOW...

NIGERIAN MAN WORK LEARN TO STEAL OTHERWISE HE WILL OWE YOU AND STILL USE YOUR SALARY TAKE DEY BUY MOTOR AND BUILD HOUSE ALL AROUND
Nigeria worse self. Especially Anambara people, those people always think any body that come to work for them is their inheritance, therefore can treat them any how.
CareerRe: Your Experiences With Chinese Bosses As Nigerians by Benzemma(m): 8:59am On Apr 13, 2021
4four:
Chinese, Indians and Lebanese are the wrong human beings u can ever work for, if you work for them for more than three years them go reshape ur life and destine for u
Lebanese is SMH better than chincos and India. But Lebanese get bad mouth die, but dem no dey put eye for wetin Dem wan give person. You see some india, dem get tight hand die.
HealthRe: Soldier Commits Suicide In Borno (photo) by Benzemma(m): 8:32am On Apr 13, 2021
Amaechi2023:
see my guy, don't believe everything you read in the news.
the media has it way of inflating the whole situation.
a private soldier in maiduguri receives about #55k as monthly salary.
#20k as monguno allowance (not regular)
#45k as special force allowance.
also they are being granted bonus for every successful operation.
I'm telling you this first hand.
it was in the same news we read that soldiers are still using weapons used in civil war which is pure lies
even the total amount of that money which is 120k, is not worth of that risky Job. That's why they estort from the citizens making the civilians see them as enemy, thereby causing more havoc in the country.
CrimeRe: Two Mothers Arrested For 'Killing' A 64-Year-Old Man In Lagos (Pictures) by Benzemma(m): 5:52pm On Apr 12, 2021
Zetty177x:
What's the meaning of Anwuanwu?
it means NEVER DIE.
CrimeRe: Two Mothers Arrested For 'Killing' A 64-Year-Old Man In Lagos (Pictures) by Benzemma(m): 5:42pm On Apr 12, 2021
AprokoGirl:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/04/11/64-year-old-man-slumps-dies-while-fighting-girlfriend-over-suspicion-infidelity
. 64yrs old man, fight with "girlfriend" not even wife over infidelity. Anyway, Anwụanwu Anwụgonu. So sorry his name deceived him, case closed!
Christianity EtcRe: Ladies, Beware Of Demon-possessed Guys Out There by Benzemma(m): 12:01pm On Apr 11, 2021
Interesting15:
Yes, many times, the whole conversation about being demon-possessed usually revolve around the female gender due to their dynamic configuration. But you see, even male folks can be influenced by demons. And indeed, many guys out there are living under the influence of foul spirits.

There are those whose bodies remain an abode to these demons. Demons, like every other spirits, are usually interested in displaying their features on earth, which can only be possible by possessing a body. That is why you see many people around acting like animals and strangely. It is not them, it is the evil spirit(s) residing in them. Even on the internet, you keep seeing people acting abnormally. They just can't help it.
Some demon-possessed folks are outrightly aware they are possessed, while some others go about their daily activities without knowing they are carriers of foul spirits.

Being under the influence of demons is even beyond having a demonic spirit inside of you. You should understand that there are more spirits than humans. Hence, there are tons of unseen demons all around at different territories and spheres. These foul spirits put in place frameworks that influences those that come into contact with their area of jurisdiction to act the way they (the demons) desire. The only group of people that won't be a victim are those who have been able to ascend the energy level emanating from these unseen evil frameworks - which can only be possible when one gives one's life WHOLLY to Jesus Christ.

You know, demon-possessed ladies are usually used by the devil to lure others (particularly men) into sinful stuff so he (the devil) can have the chance to carry out his evil works as written in John 10:10. In the same vein, one of the usefulness of demon possessed guys in the hands of the devil is to use them to lure ladies into sin, ruin their lives, and take them out of the path of God

Ladies, there are many demon-possessed guys out there today, being influenced by the devil, on a mission (whether they know it or not) to ruin your life by taking you away from God's Will. The boyfriend or boss that wants to have sex with you or introduce you to something immoral (going against God's commandments) is under the influence of demons. The guy asking you to send your nude pictures or sending you pictures of his private parts on social media, is obviously under the grip of the devil, to pull you into destruction. You think a man ready to spend millions on you just for five minutes sexual pleasure is ordinary? No! The mission is to ruin your life and get you to hell fire

Many ladies, being emotional creatures, always have this deep craving for attention, acceptance and love. And many evil guys keeps taking advantage of this to lure females into moving out of God's Will. They will make it seems like they genuinely care about you, but it's a big lie. If that guy you are with (either as a friend or dating partner) isn't a born again Child of God, expect something nasty from him soon, because only Jesus can help a man to be TRULY responsible.

Hence, as a lady, the wisest decision you will make is to have an intimate relationship with God, which is enough to satisfy all your needs (even your deepest emotional and physical needs). The first step is to accept Jesus as LORD and Savior. If you are yet to do this, anywhere you are, simply say these words with sincerity "LORD JESUS, have mercy on me and come into my life.

Then keep growing in the things of God by studying the Bible, praying, attending a Bible believing Church, etc. With these, it is easier to surround yourself with people (including guys) who are children of God, and you will save yourself the pain that emanates from a relationship with nasty guys.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2021/04/ladies-beware-of-demon-possessed-guys.html?m=1
. Just summarize the message with " the devil gets women through men with money, while the devil gets men through women with sex. And save us the time of reading this endless history of how the earth came into existence.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 11:31am On Apr 11, 2021
seunmsg:
What exactly is your point?
my point is that the op issue is not that she did not consent for the act. But because, of all other body parts, it is her ass that the lecture see confortcomf to touch. But to me I see it as Embarrassment, not an act intended to harrass her sexually in public.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 11:11am On Apr 11, 2021
CHoccolaTE:
OP majority of Nigerian men/boys are rapists that will always look for opportunity to harass girls and blame the girls afterwards.

Just go through the replies supporting this man to see it. If I say males are inherently criminalistic and beastly people will say I am a man hater.

This isn't hatred, it's the simple truth that many females are blind to.
see am speaking for myself, am not saying that the girl accept what she didn't like, but taging it SEXUAL HARRASSMENT is out of context and over emphasized. For no sane person would SEXUALLY HARRASS someone in such a public place, except if the person is mentally sick. She would have find another way of expressing her displeasure over the act, rather than terming it sexual.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 10:59am On Apr 11, 2021
Adakintroy:
Sexual harassment for crowd.
I wonder oo. Some people don't know how to term issues.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 10:45am On Apr 11, 2021
seunmsg:
Go and report the incidence to the school authority if you feel strongly about it. Nobody has the right to touch your ass in that manner without your consent no matter the circumstances.
"without her consent" So if the want touch the ass he will be like "please can you allow me to touch your ass" then she will now choose whether to consent or not.��� Lol you make me laugh.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 10:37am On Apr 11, 2021
Minjim:
Strangers can touch your butt in many places
-When rushing to submit your paper.
- When rushing to enter a bus.
- On a long queue.
- In a crowded bus

If it happened twice then it's something, so come off it.

By the way, are you sure that man is a stranger? Is he not a lecturer?
good question. She called him a stranger, but he has been funny with her for quite sometime, like calling her sweet names and overly interested in her school work. Such a person is no more a stranger to her nah. But she reported it as if that day was the first day of seeing the lecture.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 10:23am On Apr 11, 2021
sisisioge:
Hmmmm...something is wrong with some naija guys. They just like to put one in awkward positions. I think you ought to have said something or look at him disapprovingly. My very good colleague started small until he touched my butt too...I couldn't even say anything cos he has been touching me in instalments which I have been ignoring thinking he would take it as a no until he graduated to laying his hands there...shoulders, arm, legs, cheeks...na wa. It's not like I dont know what to do but I didnt do it at the beginning, doing it now is going to break our good relationship. Whew! I have resorted to avoid being alone with him before dude go smack my lips.

Speak out or show signs you're not down with it at the very beginning babe....it is an harassment.
to me I see it as embarrassment not sexual HARRASSMENT.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 10:10am On Apr 11, 2021
DemonInvoker:
This one dey find who she go accuse of Rape and sexual harassment....Guys,Be Very Careful.
Normally,One strike might be a mistake until it's done repeatedly but you chose to ignore all that.
You for warn am na rather than coming here to form victim.
that's why I do respect my self at where girls are, because it doesn't take time before they tell you what is not in your mind. If I show you sign and you refuse, I will just respect myself and go my way because the next thing that will follow it is Embarrasment.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 10:02am On Apr 11, 2021
Haywiz1122:
Guys let’s be reasonable here


The man has no excuse to touch her butt, that’s nonsense


For example if she was your high school lover and you saw the scene, now think about how it’ll damage you seeing an invigilator touch your babe butt.

Total disrespect no matter how old you guys think the OP is.
you are talking about jelous, the op is talking about sexual abuse.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:59am On Apr 11, 2021
LuciferO:
so if a male lecturer touches your d*ck in class and says moves your small thing, how would you react?
that is dick. This one is bumbum not even vagina nor breast. And I know that bumbum is not among the sexual part of the body.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:54am On Apr 11, 2021
Duplexxx:
It really looks embarrassed chai
that's what she should have called it "EMBARRASSMENT" cos it is still on the state stage of Embarrasment. It has not gotten to that federal stage of calling it SEXUAL HARRASSMENT. And even I did not see where the man said " remove your sexy bumbum"
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:43am On Apr 11, 2021
Youngpo413:
Still wondering what's so special about ladies ass...
is it not we men that made it look like there is something so special about it. Whereas in actual sense it is nothing but dirty fat.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:37am On Apr 11, 2021
EbenezerTriumph:
another false rape case loading.
I pity that innocent man.
see as you ugly sef.
Tufiakwa
exactly, after five years you will hear a story like my lecture then in the school, raped me during exam period while we were in exam hall. But am afraid of shouting in the exam hall because of other students around there.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:17am On Apr 11, 2021
Hintona:
He had been behaving funny with me for quite sometime before the incident. Like calling me sweet names and being overly interested in my school work.
Then why did you bring in half baked story here, without full detail?
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:11am On Apr 11, 2021
SILENTandSMART2:
It depends on how you look at the matter , the man might not have any intention but you self funny for exam hall , he didn't hold the ........ So why stressing yourself
the exam is not really hard for her, otherwise she wouldn't have noticed that someone just passed her, to talk more about touching her holy bumbum.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:06am On Apr 11, 2021
nuttyprofessor:
Na wah 4 you ** u are what we call "MALARIA "- common touchin will make you start blabbing - the fact u have a small bum means u resemble mosquito lol* - claiming sexual harassment : with what if I may ask _ your skinny bum - abeg cool temper - It might just be a simple mistake or an honest joke - not dat it concern me . BOTTYLICIOUS
she called it stranger's hand on her butt. And am asking her, all the hands that has been on her front bumbum, are those ones family hands?
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 9:03am On Apr 11, 2021
WoundedLamb:
You're asking NL people who never see anything wrong in whatever a man does? Lol... save yourself the time.
she called it stranger's hand on her butt. And am asking her, all the hands that has been on her front bumbum, are they family hands?
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 8:58am On Apr 11, 2021
Offpoint1:
It wasn't sexual harassment, but 'small bum bum' adjustment, for a momentary free flow of movement.

To me if someone touches my azz, I see it as the same thing as touching my hands... They're all PART OF THE BODY.
you the mind her. No sense ingredients.
CrimeRe: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Benzemma(m): 8:53am On Apr 11, 2021
Hintona:
Some weeks ago I was writing exams, the exams venue was one of the school's laboratory, and the stools were quite uncomfortable, if you've ever been to a school's laboratory you would know what I'm talking about and sometimes the stools are too high for the lab bench and it causes great discomfort. The most comfortable position for me after sitting erect on the stool for over an hour was to lower my back and arch it.

So as I was writing the exams, I can remember I was trying to draw a pathway, when the lecturer invigilating us tried to pass behind me and he touched my butt and said "shift this your small bumbum from the road" and laughed. I found it very offensive. I was so focused on writing that exam that I didn't want to answer him, it's not the kind of course students would like to write twice.

I wasn't the only one on that row who was blocking his path but he told the others merely to shift.

So today I was telling a friend about it and he laughed and said it was nothing. Nothing? Was it your butt that was touched? Right it wasn't and so it's so easy for him to say it is NOTHING. A stranger's hand on your butt is SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

What sort of world am I living in?
is your vagina located at your bumbum, that made you to call it sexual harassment? The Exam is not really hard, that is why you had chance to accommodate such dirty thought in your mind or maybe the lecture is not handsome man and you don't see him attractive. A stranger has been touching your butt ever since you were small. Why is it sexual harassment now, even when you don't know the intention of the lecture, you quickly jumped into judging him for sexual harassment. Just say that the man embarrassed you publically, not harassing you sexually.

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