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toren:
GraciousGod190, take the advice of this person I quoted. As a female myself, I can tell you that she's 100% right.

If she really wanted you, nothing in this world would make her reveal to her family that you have only SSCE, even if a gun was pointed to her head. Forget the tears she's shedding.

The person I'm in love with is an ND holder. I did not only tell my mum that he has BSc, also lied about his job. I can't let my family or anyone else for that matter look down or judge him. Besides, it's nobody's businesse.

So, your girl is either playing you or is too childish to handle such matters.

Exactly, there's no maturity in her, for her to openly tell him that her parents doesn't want him because of his qualification. It is very insulting and shows no respect.

BigDawsNet:
I'm sorry you are going through all this
But it's obvious you not an illiterate and can even speak better English...

Getting a degree now is like telling your people's wife to wait for the next 4years ....

Why don't you try and get some skills online..
The skills can come with a Certification...

Duration is around 2,3_4 weeks
You can get certified from School across the UK and some around the world...

Atleast the school name will appear in the certificate giving to you!...

Not sure if I'm making Sense but if it's gonna work...I don't know...

You are actually making sense. And I would like to do this online training.

sammirano3:
Op. Whether you like it or not the family's decision is final. I stand by such decision. Why would i strife to make my daughter well read for her to settle with one pot belly ssce holder who thinks cause he understands and speak English is enough. Money is inconsequential in this instance. Frankly, you are like a liability to the young woman. Worse off you are unwilling to work for what you want.

Hope you did not mean all this you typed, because life is not always what we want it to be. Remember man proposes, God disposes. Will you kill your daughter for choosing to marry ssce holder she loves instead of a BSC holder she does not love? Or would you want her to keep searching for a degree holder she Will love, even when she no longer young?

Godbless3:
Stop crying and wake up. That girl don't even want to marry you in the 1st place and she wasn't ready to let the cat out knowing fully well she has been benefactor of your riches.
She knew you're ssce holder but your cash was ok.
You mate her parent on sunday for the 1st time, you let your intention known, and left, on monday your gf call you that she wants to come over and she did. She openly tell you that her brother and mother is against the union just because you're ssce holder only and she didn't protest about her choice to her parents, atleast try over a week to convince her family but she spew it to you and you belief that shit.
Bros the signs are written all over.

Infact you are wiser than Budweiser. Oil full your brain guy.
There is no atom of love, like and respect from the girl at all. She is not even willing to have him as boyfriend not to talk of having him as a husband.

Wiseandtrue:
Person wey get gas cylinder before no get fridge

No be Buhari hardship dey make people turn to Buhari pot

Na so nah, � what if the person don sell the fridge because of hardship?

GraciousGod190:
no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

As if you have read my comment before you reply this. You just summarize everything am trying to let you know in my comment section down the thread.
You are indeed a wise person. Do not inconvenience yourself to meet the taste of people that will still be a responsibility to you.

The family, including the girl didn't like you, if not they wouldn't have given that as a reason for you not to marry their daughter. Even the girl wouldn't have agreed with them, as her family is not supposed to make choice of whom to love for her.
And again, if you are hurt by their downgrade on you, then you have rejected yourself just the way they have rejected you. So my advice to you is to forget everything about the girl and her family, if she is mean with you, she should challenge her family and let them know that you are her choice. Do not let her put pressure on her family and marry you out of pity, cos any time you had issue with her, she will use it to insult you. Do not let someone's "definition of your self, to define your life." If you are doing well in business and you take because of this and look for way to further, God forbid if the business falls and you are broke, the people will say, you are not capable financially to take care of their daughter.
Lock up and look for another person that their parents will accept you for whom you are and not what you are. That is love for you!

Wiseandtrue:
Remove the one wey done dey ready add another one wey fit cook at the same time!

Then store am for fridge!

Chai! Sense no go kee me

Person wey no get money to buy gas, go com get money to buy fridge.��

Just get lamisil cream and lamisil tablet use it okay.

Makschinchin:
Custard paint of beans now between #3200-#3500

Local rice and Foreign price almost the same price, just a thousand Naira difference

Before this year, I usually use #5k weekly to stock the house with foodstuffs and have some change in return, but these days, #15k for market and the money nor reach me buy everything needed

Buhari, warris dis now

Local rice and foreign rice is ₦100 difference.

Metrix147:
Source: https://abntv.com.ng/2021/10/gov-hope-uzodinma-bans-alcoholic-beverages/

Sharia law loading, step by step to implementation of Islamic law

So now you want to tell us that you are suspecting she contacted the infection through sex before she got married abi.

Sonnobax15:

In a society where women tend to celebrate their promiscuity,a woman who has preserved her only dignity for a man who's worthy enough to take it should highly be valued

Exactly, people do not know that it's a thing of value and dignity to some men, to have a virgin wife. It worth to be valued!

Onyi22:
Why can't the man just rent a one room apartment for the girl, instead of putting her through this stress

Lol,,, more like why can't the girl rent one room apartment for her sense, instead putting herself through this stress!

Agbebakun22:
I don't spend or give my female or male friends money, they tag me stingy even a girlfriend sef I no dey keep. I was gullible back when I was in college, once my pman send me allowance I go carry some of my Gees for hostel to eat lunch or Dinner, spend well for dem but one day that story change till date.. There was a time I was damn broke my family never send me allowance, nothing to feed on, no foodstuff, I met one of my Gee to borrow me #500 to feed on and I will pay with interest with #500 once I received my allowance, baba tell me say e no get anything with him I say okay no yawa, as I dey go na my present e for e for use style give e babe #1000 weh come visit him,I just bone say I no see am since that day I tight my bet, shishi I no dey give both gender again except my mind I just say make I help u.. I wouldn't forget what that guy did to me and na my guy weh me dey do normal give once money show up for me

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That's why I said some boys and girls are equal in foolishness. Your fellow man ask you lend him some money that he will pay back, (lending oo not dashing) you claimed you don't have it, but foolishly dash it to someone that will still take it and give the person she loves that you don't even know. Is that not penny wise, pound foolish?
That how my own guy claimed he didn't have Shishi to contribute for our cooking, but when his girlfriend came that same day, he mysteriously had some change to buy biscuit and malt for her.

Emmadoc:
You are so so right.

I've helped a lot of niggas, friends, but I found out, I was being taken advantage of.

There was friend I helped when he was in school, nigga called me, that he needed some cash to tidy up some schools stuff.

I sent him the money, he couldn't pay back, so I told him to pay me whatever he has with him.

He gave me half of the funds I borrowed him, as a real nigga, I told him to keep the rest.

There was a time we were having a conversation about his school, and the idiot told me the money I borrowed him, he never used it for school stuffs, he told me he gave it to his girlfriend...

After sometime, I went to this same guy to borrow me some cash, because he was doing well, I even promise to pay back with interest, men the nigga stopped picking my calls till date.

Before I help such friends in my life again, you must have a collateral, something of value for that money, else I won't give you 1kobo.

Bro code my foot, and he is not the only one, because of people like him I stopped making friends, except na for business.

It is very hard for men to help their fellow men these days when it involves money, why because some men has taken that foolish position from girls. Some guys will tell you they don't have Shishi even to eat, but when their Shima came visiting them, the money will mysteriously appear in their pocket.

I stay with two guys, though they Accommodate me for me to get my own room, but always the time if I tell them let's contribute and cook, they will complain of been so broke that nothing is in their hand, but the same person will go out that day and buy biscuits and malt when their girls came.

The question is how many times have i eaten cow meat this year, and am still alive. They should find another another to say. Be

Don't be surprised to see the federal gunment agreeing with him.

Iyaebe:
I will never be scared of marriage because of all these irresponsible people who ignorantly went into marriage because of sex styles. We still have successful marriages around.

You just strengthened me with this your comment. I was asking myself if I will get married, with the things I see and hear that married people do to each other. As in how do married women have the heart to lie down and open their leg for another man other than their husband and even went as far as getting pregnant from another man and secretly hide it from their husband while they sleep under the same roof.
And how a married Man gets the heart to leave his wife and go out sleeping with another lady and still claim he loved his wife. Is quite not understandable. And how some people are proud of what they are supposed to be ashamed of, still surprise. Nawa ooo.

It seems people never understand the power of depression. That's why they are blaming the lady.

I nearly do same to myself, though is not about relationship heartbreak. It was financial heartbreak, that my fellow human being, a man like me made me to loose all i had in life.

But i reason it, that i benefit nothing killing myself, instead i will go for the head the person that throw me into the depression.

Depression, is very dangerous. It's something that has to do with physiology and it affects normal reasoning. The person will begin to see something that is not normal, as though is normal and a solution to the thing disturbing them at that moment. To me, i think break up should be discussed between the two lovers and the agreement reached before carrying it out, to avoid what is called "withdrawal syndrome" which depression is one of the syndrome that follows a heartbreak.

PrinceOfLagos:
Parents should learn to dress their kids responsibly

She's just 3 years old

Happy birthday Wilmer

If you like tie your child with tapolin from head down to toe, the one wey go spoil, go still spoil.

Sirjamo:
Sometimes , I wish Jonathan stays to reap the reward of his mess. I guess his goodluck continues, even in defeat.

And that is why we should not blame him, because he was not allowed to stay and reap the reward of his mess. But rather he was enviously threatened that blood of baboons will flow, should Buhari lose the 2015 general election.

Onyi22:
Marrying a poor guy with the hope that things will get better..
God forbid

Your age will definitely force you even before peer pressure opens your chapter.

Never to have sex with anybody until I marry. So help me God!

aramidey4u:
Water full Nigeria abeg, make dem come recycle am...We're ready to do business and make money

Which water?
The one that people turned to suck away? If na me be them, i rather die of thirst than to recycle Nigeria water and drink. Even if you give it to them free, they will not collect it.

Samunique:
PDP should just shut up, are they not the architect of Nigeria's problems today ?

If they had done well, would we have this Mr disaster we have today as a president at the helm of our nation's affairs?

Without PDP failure, there wouldn't have beem Buhari, Mr disaster !

Then chose between failure and disaster.
If the failure of the past PDP president, will allow me afford a bag of rice, i think the failure is better than the disaster that made it impossible for me to afford a bag of rice.

If the failure of the past PDP president, made 1 dollar to be equal to ₦250, i think the failure is better than the disaster that made it ₦512 to 1dollar.

If the failure of the past PDP president, made fuel pump price to be ₦167 per liter, i think the failure is better than the disaster that made it almost ₦300 per liter.

Stop being a fowl that supposed to bend it's neck to the knife that killed it, was instead bent it to the pot.

Hypocrisy is one of the major problem Nigerians are having.

Sirjamo:
Rubbish.

The PDP handed over a dying economy.


Yar Adua left GDP at over 9%

Jonathan destroyed it to 2.5%


Yar Adua left foreign reserves at $65b



Jonathan destroyed it to $33b



With oil at N75, Ngozi was already blowing the whistle.



Buhari has 50% less revenue than Jonathan.



Anybody can say whatever they want, but the fact is there for every sensible person to see.

And it seems you are the only sensible person. If Ngọzi was blowing the whistle of messed economy then, why didn't Buhari and his gang allow Jonathan to clean the mess. At least by now, Jonathan will not put the blame on any body cos it will be crystal clear that the economy was destroyed by him. Now that Buhari you voted for, has made everything worse, instead of you to tackle him you are finding excuse of Jonathan handing crippled economy to Buhari, as if Buhari was forced by Jonathan to collect the presidential sit. Or is Buhari deaf not to hear it when Ngọzi was shouting it and even if he is deaf, is he blind?

Some people are just commenting no sense, instead of thinking very well to understand what the op mean.

If you are still struggling to feed yourself not to talk of helping your family e.g junior siblings or your parents, you should not think of getting married at that moment.

If you don't have a reliable source of income, no matter how small it is giving you, do not consider getting married at that period.

The op is not trying to say you must acquire billions before marriage.

There is a clear difference that you had something before marriage and after marriage temptation took away all you had, than you don't have Shishi not even something that will bring it later hopefully, and you dived into it. You might survive it but they will be a lot of scars left in your emotional state.

Lastly, consider the future of your children, who will experience the poverty if you did not survive it until they grew up and start struggling just like you their father did.

It's understandable that you have tried a lot, but it is not coming, than you have not tried at all and you think you will carry your struggling together with family responsibility. You will never know the taste of your life and how you spend it on earth. Because frustration will deal with you mercilessly even if you marry a good wife. You will still not be happy with yourself, expect if you are the type of man that feel happy seeing your wife taking care of your responsibility. I will say you will not feel it.

Just waiting for mine to be blocked, then i will go to market and buy already linked one and start using. I no get time for all this one they are saying.
I see people linking numerous sim card with their own data, for business when the yeye gunment finally mean what they're saying.

This i have seen!

post=103806740:
Update From . COM

Mary Daniel, the sachet water hawker who went viral because she's an amputee, has acquired a 17.5 million Naira apartment in Lagos, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , The 27-year-old Kogi indigene bought the house located in Igando, Lagos.

She is also constructing a pure-water factory inside the compound, which is near completion, Understand.

Recall that Mary Daniel received donations of about N25 million after she was pictured hawking sachet water in traffic in Oshodi and her story went viral.

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

25 million -17.5 million =?
Dey dash am 25m and she acquires house of 17.5m, how much she come dey use dey build the pure water factory? Abeg them never tell us how much she bought the house.

OneMarvee:
Many teenagers have recently joined the dating pool. Every secondary school student now has a "special someone".

I am quite appalled at the staggering rise at which teenagers enter relationships just to join the trend.

Going into relationships without being friends first, for financial and sexual benefits, to update Instagram and Facebook?
It gets worse after several months of love-playing and exhausting infatuation, one party becomes bored and wants to try someone else and then the night falls on your undefined relationship. You then proceed to "chop breakfast".

No long term goals or aspirations, no detailed commitments. Just vibes and fulfilled emptiness.

Young people need to reevaluate their decisions and stop jumping on bandwagons. Focus on your education and your goals, that is what matters most now. And if you must, be with someone who you can grow with, share each others goals and ideas, have meaningful conversations, pray or attend religious gatherings.

Let your relationship be purposeful.

Shower thoughts with OneMarvee- E1S2

That's why poverty and crime is on the rise in this country.

Imagine a boy not up 20yrs, that cannot afford to feed well, will get a girl pregnant pregnant, how will that baby get proper care?

But my blame goes more to parents and girls of this generation. Because the truth is, you as a girl respect yourself and shun any kind of mushroom friendship at this age, behave like a matured lady with matured mind, most of this aimless little rats that call themselves boys will never near you. You will only be attracted to men that have already set their plan towards their future and are working on it.

Some people do not know that their future, determines that of your children. And again, if children of these days should stay away from looking at what their mates are doing, it help them a lot.

And girls should also control their greedness and find a way of providing for themselves.

For parents, they should watch the kind of life their children is living and try to correct, cos most parents actually know about all this rubbish but chose to keep silent. Most of parents will even be the one telling their male child to go and marry, when they new that their son had nothing.