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TravelRe: Ukrainian Embassy Says Nigerian Volunteer Fighters To Pay $1000 For Visa, Ticket by Benzemma(m): 1:27pm On Mar 04, 2022
For your information Mr famer fighter, it's not APC tank Nigerian soldiers is driving here, that Russian and Ukraine is driving over. Thank God you said is APC
Tank that you can drive.

Christianity EtcRe: Debo Adeleye: Why You Should Not Marry For Sex (Video) by Benzemma(m): 8:02pm On Feb 25, 2022
Enemyofpeace:
I will marry for three reasons, sex, children and good foods
You cannot enjoy those three things, except you work hard and money legitimately. If not you will not know the taste of the first and the last reason.

PoliticsRe: Buhari: South-West People Would Have Been Trekking, If I Hadn’t Intervened by Benzemma(m):
Another bomb shell.
After calling Igbos dot nation, here he comes again calling Yorubas trekking nation also. To make matter worst, he is even praising himself saying thank God he came to their rescue.

RomanceRe: Ex-Boyfriend Scatters Traditional Marriage Of Ex Lover In Akwa Ibom, Demands 22M by Benzemma(m): 10:46pm On Feb 22, 2022
Please if you know anyone who has a house to rent out at Ketu side, please send messages or chat on Whatsapp with this number 09090430850.
PoliticsRe: 2023: It's Either You Give Southeasterners Presidency Or We Leave - Igbo Elders by Benzemma(m): 1:40pm On Feb 18, 2022
Lifestone:
Why do Igbos thinks they must threaten others and force them to concede the Presidency to the South East. Only quality alliances, desires, negotiations and hardwork can earn them the No 1 position in Nigeria.
Stop this threats
It shows that we don't practice credible election in this country. What they do is selection not election. If not, they won't be threat for any region to concede power to other region. Remember what Buhari said when he is about to contest against Goodluck in 2015. Threat can come in different ways. A candidate might win an election fairly, but instead of declaring him the winner, inec will be bribed to do it the other way round. That's why they see it as something you must use force or threat to grab.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pharmacy Recruitment: Cashiers Needed In Lagos by Benzemma(m): 1:23pm On Feb 18, 2022
Please, someone is interested in the work, the person stays in coconut, but is ready to relocate. The person has worked as a cashier in a notable pharmacy in Apapa for 4yrs.
RomanceRe: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Benzemma(m): 2:55pm On Feb 16, 2022
VocalViolet:
Thumbs up. You deserve the world.
Though am not trying to sound so impressive or get attention. But i don't know why boys and girls of these days, boys especially, see sex in friendship as everything, to the extent that if they hear their fellow male friend saying they never had sex before with a lady, they will see the person as a mugu or simp.

It is even a trending things now among teenagers nowadays. Every small boy on the street now, is focus on having a girlfriend he will be having sex with. One of them told me the other day that he doesn't have girlfriend but a sex friend and this boy is not up to 25years, but he has multiple sex partner of the same age mate or even below that age. All these their attitude will definitely have effect on marriage in future. I have even lost interest of having girlfriend these days cos i will feel as if i have joined them, except am ready for marriage. Even all these girls has started losing their virtue and value in the eyes of serious minded guy out there, who is looking for a life partner, cos they see girls now as the same. And girl now, don't even know the value of virginity.
RomanceRe: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by Benzemma(m): 11:09am On Feb 16, 2022
Am in my early 30's but when I tell people that i have never had sex with any girl in my life, not that i didn't have the opportunity, they begin ague with me.
The thing is that i have promised myself and my God that i Will never had sex with a girl i will not marry. So even if we are friends, if my spirit isn't convinced that you will be my wife, nothing will make me do it. Even if i think of it, and i remember that vow, i will have a control of myself. Having sex with someone just because we are friends, is as needless as the "s" in island.
RomanceRe: Anybody Telling You To Make Money Before Chasing Women Doesn't Like You by Benzemma(m): 3:36pm On Feb 14, 2022
Op, you forgot that girls is like the cloth you go to market to buy. If don't have enough cash, you will end up buying cheapest one, and you know what comes with a cheap product. You might even end up in buying okirika, that is second hand.
SportsRe: Geleta Ulfata Wins Lagos Marathon 2022 (Photos) by Benzemma(m): 1:26pm On Feb 12, 2022
yuping:
How? I'm open to any suggestion.
Reach me out on my email or Facebook page @ mascogentle.
RomanceRe: Man Buys A Car To Propose To His Girlfriend In Rivers State, Gets Resounding NO by Benzemma(m): 1:24pm On Feb 12, 2022
MufasaLion:
Damn! I wonder what type of conversations people do have in relationships these days. I believe that for you to propose to a lady, it means you're 100% sure she's ready to marry you and be with you till eternity.

Well, it's none of my business.
Does it even make sense, to propose publicly to a lady that you and she had agreed in secret to marry each other.
SportsRe: Geleta Ulfata Wins Lagos Marathon 2022 (Photos) by Benzemma(m): 11:28am On Feb 12, 2022
yuping:
undecided I go win this thing one day but my knee dey F**k me up, any suggestion or treatment for my knee.
I can be of help.
SportsRe: Pictures From The Lagos City Marathon by Benzemma(m): 11:23am On Feb 12, 2022
Jennyclay:
I understand your point, but please don't generalize it. I have a flat stomach, I'm always on diet, I exercise regularly and most times I'm always natural.

I plait my natural hair, my hair is very full, I barely put on wigs. So my dear not all ladies are like that.
If what you said is true, give me your contact. You are my taste of woman.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Iniubong Umoren Was Raped, Killed & Buried By Uduak Akpan - Witness by Benzemma(m): 9:53am On Feb 12, 2022
MikeMicheal:
They should free him, let God do the punishment.

Unless you believe God is incompetent.
Are okay?
If the victim is your sister, will you tell them to free him?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Iniubong Umoren Was Raped, Killed & Buried By Uduak Akpan - Witness by Benzemma(m): 9:49am On Feb 12, 2022
Why are they still keeping this monster alive?
You see why i will always support jungle justice to purely verified criminal.
TravelRe: Nigeria Is Safe — American Man Declares, As He Visits Ekiti State (pics And Vid) by Benzemma(m): 4:09pm On Feb 11, 2022
Them go soon kidnap, then he will have a rethink. But i smell sarcasm in what is saying.
RomanceRe: Lady Drags Man To Court For Calling Her Out After She Failed To Visit Him (photo by Benzemma(m): 1:24am On Feb 11, 2022
I swear, i like this girl. She has a working brain. The guy is a compound fool for exposing his ignorance on social media.


To the guy, i sing this song for!

You carry woman go club!
You spend all your money!
The girl talk say she no do!
You come dey cry!

See mumu,
Mumu wey no wise,
Mumu wey no get sense
See brother!
Brother no get sense!

RomanceRe: My Mum Is Against My Relationship by Benzemma(m): 1:26pm On Feb 09, 2022
Show us his pic, let's us know if your mum is wright or wrong.

Don't mind me shaa, am just being funny.

Don't listen to the threat of your parents, especially your mum. Go by your choice, if you've examine the guy character and he such a person you can spend the rest of your life with. If you allow them to stop you from getting married to someone heart accept, you can never be comfortable with it any other guy outside there, cos the rejection didn't come from either you or him and if eventually you listen to them and marry another person, a day will come when you get issue with the person and you start blaming and hating your parents, cos they are the ones that stops you from going for what your heart captured.

So try and get your parents convinced that he is the kind of person you want as partner.

I have a friend that impregnate one of my relatives and his dad vow that he is not going to be alive and watch his son marry that girl. He insisted that should the guy should go on to marry the girl, he is going to disown the guy and put a curse on him. The guy said no problem that his Dad should go on and disown him and the curse on him.

And the father later did as he said, the guy took the girl and rent house outside he was living with the girl as his wife, not too long the guy Dad died. Remember is not only the man that took the decision, even the guy mother and his female siblings hated the girl also for no cause.

So now, the question is, where is the man that disowned his son because he his son decide to marry whom he got pregnant? Inside his grave, did he know how his son is faring? If the guy listen to him, and marry whom he doesn't want, because of the pressure of his father, now that the dad is dead, how will he know if the is living happily with the girl?

So when it comes to marriage, go for who your heart accept and not who your parents want.
Christianity EtcRe: Alcohol Is Medicinal - Rev Fr Oluoma by Benzemma(m): 5:25pm On Feb 06, 2022
uglyafonja:
Alcohol may not be a sin.....But where the problem lies is the after effects....

Alcohol will always make you to think about fornication...
Alcohol will always make you to think to commit mastabation
Alcohol breed anger and hyperactiveness

The sad event is just enormous, if it is possible to avoid it, kindly avoid it.....

I have the urge to fornicate whenever I take alcohol....
That's you OOO, not me!
Anytime i take alcohol in moderation, it makes me forget my worries. That's is the only thing I benefit from alcohol. But am not a die hard drunker. I can stay a whole year without tasting anything alcohol and i will not feel it.
RomanceRe: Man Faints In Church Alter After Girlfriend Rejected His Proposal (photos) by Benzemma(m): 9:35am On Jan 31, 2022
Women, is the most cunning creature on earth. They will take you to the road and put off the light.
The question is why did the girl kept silent and be on uniform with the guy to the church, when she knew that she doesn't have any marriage intention with him? Why not tell him you don't want him, instead of causing this so much pain and disgrace to him.
AgricultureRe: What Is The Name Of This Strange Looking Fruit by Benzemma(m): 9:17pm On Jan 25, 2022
For my village we call it kparambut
TravelRe: Where Could These Be In Lagos at Nights? by Benzemma(m): 9:13am On Jan 24, 2022
Still some where in Nigeria.

TravelRe: Where Could These Be In Lagos at Nights? by Benzemma(m): 9:08am On Jan 24, 2022
Lagosians, who can tell where is this in Nigeria?

RomanceRe: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Benzemma(m): 9:14pm On Jan 22, 2022
Because, pride did not allow them to empty their cup.
PhonesRe: Why Do Most Adults Hold Their Phones While Walking? by Benzemma(m): 8:22pm On Jan 22, 2022
alpharoyalty:
It depend on the location.
In a city like Lagos, it is safer to hold your phone tightly in
your hand.
And also in Onitsha
RomanceRe: “Dear Men, Too Many Women Will Lead You Astray” – Reno by Benzemma(m): 9:57am On Jan 17, 2022
odinson1:
Right from the beginning of time,women have always led men Astray. They are like Parasites whose main Objective is to latch on to a man and feed off him till he gets dried out.
Take marriage as a Case study. Do you ever wonder why the Wives are always Fat, while the husbands are looking Skinny and Dried out?

It is because of being Constantly Milked Dry by the Parasite he calls a wife. And to Prove her "love" to him,she rewards him with sex once every four months for being a Good Dog. Women are not your friends my dear Men cry
So are you trying to say that your mum is a parasite to your dad?
Be careful the way you condemn the handwork and the idea of your creator, for it's the idea of the almighty, that a man and woman, will leave their parents and be joined together as husband and wife.

Am sure that it is a woman that carried you in her womb not man. The same God that created man, create the woman that you are calling parasite, simple because it's God's idea for man and woman to be called husband and wife. At least, respect your mother for taking the responsibility of carrying you in her womb for complete 9 months and taking care of you from the day of your birth till you become a grown up.

Lastly, make sure that you are not married or planning to get a woman as your wife. If not, God will judge you by your own words.
RomanceRe: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Benzemma(m): 8:15am On Jan 16, 2022
Two fucking contractors, fucking themselves for a year, without any move for legalization of their fucking contract.

They have been aimlessly fucking themselves for a year now, without any intention to marry each other. Tomorrow now they will look for innocent virgin to get entangled. Tufiakwa! If na like this everybody dey do, am not going to reason that thing called marry.
RomanceRe: Sex With Ex Girlfriend by Benzemma(m): 9:30am On Jan 15, 2022
Thunder fire him there with advice!

When the greedy lover was planning on how to take his last supper, he he inform me.
PoliticsRe: ISWAP Bans Movement Of Farm Produce With Trucks In Niger State by Benzemma(m): 9:02am On Jan 15, 2022
headbasher96:
Sometimes i wonder what the nigerian army is doing about all of this if u cant secure a country hiw can u secure the territorial integrity that is to say any country fit fucker us up and this people no go even dey aware with huge defence budget
.
Stop wondering what the Nigerian army is about it, because they have done all they could do. The only thing they can be able to do now is to open up and say "we are defeated" but even that one is also difficult for them.
PoliticsRe: Dorcas Vem, Wife Of Deputy Chief Of Staff To Plateau State Government Kidnapped by Benzemma(m): 1:13pm On Jan 11, 2022
Fake news again!

North is quite safe and calm.

Abeg which country get match today?
FamilyRe: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Benzemma(m): 11:08am On Jan 11, 2022
Your complain is hydra headed, i don't know which one to advice you on.


But what i will tell you is to leave her and focus on your own business and make sure that your hand is never down with cash, so that you will not one day ask for her financial support. You have tried for her, she is just the lazy type of woman and if you try to change her by force, it will bring serious issue between you and her and you will not have rest of mind.
Carry it, it's your own family cross.
FamilyRe: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by Benzemma(m): 2:25pm On Jan 10, 2022
Kingpele:
Hahaha ,well am a man with kids ,if u don't want to have problems with your family members try to show real love to your wife and be faithful to her,especially during the early years of your marriage before she start to make her own money or before the kids grow up into Adults,she will be the person promoting you before your kids behind your back, because a woman can never talk ill of the real love of her life ,I travel to village for meetings and community elections for two weeks when I came back i saw that my kids really missed me cos my wife missed me ,out of the blues my second boy said to me u are the best dad in the world, I knew my wife taught him to say that while I was away ,so love your wife and take care of her needs according to your capacity u will have a peaceful life and your kids will love you and take care of you in your old age..
Exactly bro, if my dad had loved my mum and stop seeing her as unimportant to the family right from when we were small, he wouldn't be thinking and saying that my mom took us away from him and none of us like him, which is not true. What you said is true, but ego as been the head, will not allow us apply that simple method.


Children always look out to the soft parent in the family, be it the father or the mother.
And they always grow with that childhood perception.

So if you as a father or mother but fathers especially, make yourself a phero in the family, making your wife to cry like a kid, just know that you are giving your children
a reason to hate you and begin to distance themselves from you, if you continue like that till they grew up as an adult.

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