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Slynation:Exactly! |
Xenry:Enemy of peace and love! If is you, will you do just as you advice on him? |
I think the best way to go about it is giving them attitude and body language, I wouldn't say it to their faces not to come to your house if I were you, I would just give them attitude towards their eating habit when they visit you, but be smart about it. And you think that will be very helpful? It will make them hate him, because they will not know where he is coming from. And once they hate him, they will be problem between him and his wife. Instead, he should talk to them directly how things has become so hard for him that they hardly eat twice in a day. If they have matured mind, they will understand. Instead of changing character and giving them bod language with angry facial expression. |
Bola146:Matured advice! Not some people who never know anything in life, trying to make the op hate the family he married from. |
It shall be well with you! |
Please, don't blame them. Don't see it as cheating or laziness to struggle and feed themselves. As long as they are not asking you for money but just what to eat, have mercy on them. God knows the reason why he allowed the marriage to happen in the first place. You might be their last hope, reason why they keep coming to you. Instead pursuing them, pray to God to always bless your struggle so that you will always have what to give them. It is really difficult for people to feed these days in Nigeria. So if you have the one you eat, talk more of giving others, then you should be proud of your self and be grateful to God for making it possible for you to fend for yourself and others around you. Use it as a prayer point, to be the reason why God should bless you more. See now, you are talking of making money to buy car and live large. But they are people who are even begging God to just provide for them what they will eat in a day. They don't know that there is something called car that human being supposed to have. Am not saying that for you to buy car is being selfish, but don't see it as because they always come to eat in your house, that why you have not been able to buy care or build a house. There is hunger in the country. Be happy that other people are looking up to you, you are their hope for now. I am sure that there will be a reword for you from God. Don't change your character to them, and don't let it bring quarrel between you and your wife. Am just feeling for the family. May God help you and your in-law family. Thank you. |
How this small thing,take dey swallow big thing like this, is something I never understand. |
Confused entities!!! Foolishness is when you went and throw away the soup you rejected, and start licking the plate while coming back! |
Na now una Know say na big name dey kill dog. How can you name odinary dog "lion" and expect it to act like a lion? It is obvious that Nigeria is not qualified to bear that name " Giant of Africa" When you want to fool a person, hail and call the person name that he didn't merit. Nigerian politicians are being fooled by other countries of the world, by calling them giant of Africa. And they were happy looting everything that God used to bless this country, with the assertion that the country is rich. Little did they know that their so called giantness, in FOOLISHNESS. Mtchew! |
For me to believe this Tori, I need to see the pictures where they are sharing the confiscated onions to the happy public, while others is on guard waiting for any attack. And again, I didn't hear the Gulak's driver mentioning the plate number of those vehicle. Or is it only those vehicle that has that color description in Nigeria? Something is fishy in this news.
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What you said is undiluted truth. Am in the delimma right now. Some victims, did not fall with their wright mind. My own in-law deceived me same way, He traveled to ivory coast on an invite by his school mate friend. He took from his brother a whole 1.4m and went to meet odinaror friend outside the country, on an instruction that he will register with a Chinese company called DHL. Then the company Will employ him and use the money to provide accommodation for him. So when he got there, it turns out to be a Ponzi scheme and he decided to call me and tell me all sort of lies that is sweet to hear. I even asked him if it is network marketing cos I have been hearing about it but I don't know that they scammers, he told me that he don't even know what it means talk more of doing it. That's how I took all the money I have been saving for 4yrs and went there. Getting to that place, he took the whole money with me, the next day we went to the place he called office and behold I was introduced to network marketing. I was mad and ask him not to give any body my money, he made to understand that he has given it to them. |
No be Aba be This oo. Na Lagos be This nah, ABI you want make show you more! Oya see am.
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Please i want to apply but, the WhatsApp number you gave is not correct. |
Make una no leave am ooh! May turnder scatter their body one by one. God I don't know why you always keep silent and watch heartless people, scam their fellow being of their hard earned means of lively hood. This is making we that believe in your existence, lose faith in you. |
What is the difference, if the size of bread that supposed to be sold at ₦70, is been sold at ₦100. It's still the same as hiking the price. They reduced the size of hundred naira own to the size of seventy naira own and you said that they didn't hike the price. |
And the west want to have Oduduwa nation. How possible is it? |
After dating her for like 2yrs or more, having sex with her and visiting her parents with gift. I will still have to kneel down to ask her if she will marry me. Is there any sense? So all this while she is eating food meant for married people with me, she don't know that she will marry me. I can't have sex with any girl am not sure of marrying. So I have been having sex with you, no need of asking you if you will marry me. The only kneeling down I will do to propose to you, is to give you Belle. Is you that will ask yourself that question then. |
Is it possible for Yorubas to have their own nation when 75% of them are Muslim who are under the control of Hausa? I think their dream of breaking away from hausa is impossible. |
One of my coworker, once want me and she to date, very beautiful girl. But because of see finish, I declined the request and am the only male among the girls who are about 12 in number. I hate when am being gossiped, which is very common among girls. And again there is no complete respect for the relationship. |
tayooluwole:It is not money, it is more about personal decision. Am in the same shoe with him. Even the first time I would have had sex with a girl, something came to my mind and remind me of the promise I made to my self, I quickly got up. Even we are already romancing each other, but I said know it can't control me. So I have to do just romancing and kissing. That is why am not doubting the guy. You might think the am being afraid, No. And this girl is the first and only girl I have loved in my life. I don't have any other friend except her. |
Ibadanpikin:You are not alone, I will be 30 by December. Sometimes when I telly friend that I have never had sex with any girl, they will begin to call me liar. But deep down in me, I know am not lying. Not that I can't toast a girl and make her fall for me, but because I promise myself that I will never sex any girl I might end up not marrying. So I must be sure 100% that I will marry you before and that is after doing everything I supposed to do on her head. But when am saying it like this, people will think that am lying to them. One may ask don't I experience sexual urge? Yes I do but, I don't allow it control me. |
TRADELYN:Let them stop paying the ransomed first and if they did not train the security well to meet up the taste of other country, then you can complain. |
nwekeugochukwu: |
FreeStuffssNG:See as they display ₦5, ₦10, ₦20 and ₦50. As if it has value. Mtchew. |
nairafame:Lol, wetin girls no go do for beauty, no dey exist. |
AbbynHummy:Ok, thank you dear. |
Please nairalanders, am seriously in need of job, precisely sales representative or cashier in pharmacy or supermarket. I have 4 years experience in sale and cashier work, I can sale with the use Of computer. I live in Lagos. Please if you see any or have any, I will be glad if you remembered. Thank you and God bless you as you considered this my plea. |
amrichy:You are wright. But it is almost unbearable, when person you least expect it from, puts you in a condition where you find yourself as though you are drowning in the middle of an ocean, without hope of help from any where. There is no worse heart break than for a close relative to take the advantage of the trust you have for him and betray you to the tune of making you to lose all you have in life and that of the people you have as parents. The emotional trauma is usually suicidal. I can't believe that is me that will work like elephant and then start to eat like an ant. Because of selfishness and stone hearted of the person you considered as a relative. Am just living in a state of hopelessness. I have just been strucked down, even to the level I didn't not pass through. And I have been asking my God, what is my sin that human being have not sinned before?� |
amrichy:Exactly what am passing through Right now. When I remember my mum and siblings, my mum especially, I will begin to imagine how my mum feel losing me. Honestly thought of ending my life because of what happened to me,is always in my mind. |
Triangles1:Your suicide attempt, is not backed up with chronic depression. |



I understand your worries. Sir, I know that you knew or saw this coming( that is why it's good to stop what you can't continue) they are her relations, they are her cross, she can't ignore them away. It's now left for you to sit your wife down maybe to minimize their coming or solutions to it. You can still be helping with the little you have, it's better than to ignore them totally.