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FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by Benzemma(m): 3:26pm On Jun 14, 2021
Slynation:
That's one problem in marriages.... especially when you marry from any family and it happens to be their eldest daughter, you automatically turns father Christmas in some cases....There is absolutely nothing you can do that will make her to chase away her own siblings, and ending the marriage because of such attitude is bullshit to me.... Discuss things with your wife, I'm sure she would proffer solutions to this situation

Normally, food is something you should enjoy watching others eating with happiness...
Exactly!
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by Benzemma(m): 3:17pm On Jun 14, 2021
Xenry:
This is what happens when you marry from a poor family, you will automatically become a burden bearer for all.
Tell your wife to feed her family, while you feed yours! Imagine feeding a family of 11 just because you are married to One—that's unfair na! grin
Try and relocate if you can. Because with the way they use to feast on your food, they might as well feast on your flesh when the food is no more grin.
But they eat too much ooo! Damn! sad
I tell you bro, Redpill no fit handle this problem ooo. So you need to Japa! wink
Enemy of peace and love! If is you, will you do just as you advice on him?
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by Benzemma(m): 3:12pm On Jun 14, 2021
I think the best way to go about it is giving them attitude and body language, I wouldn't say it to their faces not to come to your house if I were you, I would just give them attitude towards their eating habit when they visit you, but be smart about it.

And you think that will be very helpful?
It will make them hate him, because they will not know where he is coming from. And once they hate him, they will be problem between him and his wife.


Instead, he should talk to them directly how things has become so hard for him that they hardly eat twice in a day. If they have matured mind, they will understand. Instead of changing character and giving them bod language with angry facial expression.
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by Benzemma(m): 3:00pm On Jun 14, 2021
Bola146:
huh I understand your worries. Sir, I know that you knew or saw this coming( that is why it's good to stop what you can't continue) they are her relations, they are her cross, she can't ignore them away. It's now left for you to sit your wife down maybe to minimize their coming or solutions to it. You can still be helping with the little you have, it's better than to ignore them totally.
Matured advice!

Not some people who never know anything in life, trying to make the op hate the family he married from.
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by Benzemma(m): 2:44pm On Jun 14, 2021
It shall be well with you!
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by Benzemma(m): 2:39pm On Jun 14, 2021
Please, don't blame them. Don't see it as cheating or laziness to struggle and feed themselves. As long as they are not asking you for money but just what to eat, have mercy on them. God knows the reason why he allowed the marriage to happen in the first place.

You might be their last hope, reason why they keep coming to you. Instead pursuing them, pray to God to always bless your struggle so that you will always have what to give them.

It is really difficult for people to feed these days in Nigeria. So if you have the one you eat, talk more of giving others, then you should be proud of your self and be grateful to God for making it possible for you to fend for yourself and others around you.

Use it as a prayer point, to be the reason why God should bless you more. See now, you are talking of making money to buy car and live large. But they are people who are even begging God to just provide for them what they will eat in a day. They don't know that there is something called car that human being supposed to have.

Am not saying that for you to buy car is being selfish, but don't see it as because they always come to eat in your house, that why you have not been able to buy care or build a house. There is hunger in the country. Be happy that other people are looking up to you, you are their hope for now. I am sure that there will be a reword for you from God.

Don't change your character to them, and don't let it bring quarrel between you and your wife. Am just feeling for the family. May God help you and your in-law family. Thank you.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Python That Swallowed A Cow Killed In Delta State (Pictures) by Benzemma(m): 8:21pm On Jun 13, 2021
How this small thing,take dey swallow big thing like this, is something I never understand.
PoliticsRe: FG Used Twitter To Announce Suspension Of Twitter Operations In Nigeria by Benzemma(m): 10:30pm On Jun 04, 2021
Confused entities!!!


Foolishness is when you went and throw away the soup you rejected, and start licking the plate while coming back!
PoliticsRe: Re: Giant Of Africa Is Falling: Stating The Facts - Garba Shehu by Benzemma(m): 8:53am On Jun 04, 2021
Na now una Know say na big name dey kill dog.



How can you name odinary dog "lion" and expect it to act like a lion?


It is obvious that Nigeria is not qualified to bear that name " Giant of Africa"

When you want to fool a person, hail and call the person name that he didn't merit.


Nigerian politicians are being fooled by other countries of the world, by calling them giant of Africa. And they were happy looting everything that God used to bless this country, with the assertion that the country is rich. Little did they know that their so called giantness, in FOOLISHNESS.
Mtchew!
PoliticsRe: Police Capture, Neutralize Ahmed Gulak's Killers (Graphic Pictures) by Benzemma(m): 11:45pm On May 30, 2021
For me to believe this Tori, I need to see the pictures where they are sharing the confiscated onions to the happy public, while others is on guard waiting for any attack. And again, I didn't hear the Gulak's driver mentioning the plate number of those vehicle. Or is it only those vehicle that has that color description in Nigeria? Something is fishy in this news.

PoliticsRe: EFCC Arrests Ponzi Scheme Operator, Amos Olaniyan Over ₦128m Scam by Benzemma(m): 8:57am On May 29, 2021
What you said is undiluted truth. Am in the delimma right now. Some victims, did not fall with their wright mind. My own in-law deceived me same way, He traveled to ivory coast on an invite by his school mate friend. He took from his brother a whole 1.4m and went to meet odinaror friend outside the country, on an instruction that he will register with a Chinese company called DHL. Then the company Will employ him and use the money to provide accommodation for him. So when he got there, it turns out to be a Ponzi scheme and he decided to call me and tell me all sort of lies that is sweet to hear. I even asked him if it is network marketing cos I have been hearing about it but I don't know that they scammers, he told me that he don't even know what it means talk more of doing it. That's how I took all the money I have been saving for 4yrs and went there.


Getting to that place, he took the whole money with me, the next day we went to the place he called office and behold I was introduced to network marketing.
I was mad and ask him not to give any body my money, he made to understand that he has given it to them.
CareerRe: Woman Caught Having Sex During Zoom Meeting: Pics & Video by Benzemma(m): 8:42pm On May 27, 2021
No be Aba be This oo. Na Lagos be This nah, ABI you want make show you more!
Oya see am.

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Hiring Now - Game Center Cashiers by Benzemma(m): 5:40pm On May 27, 2021
Please i want to apply but, the WhatsApp number you gave is not correct.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man, Uzochukwu, Others Arrested In Thailand Over N2bn Romance Scam by Benzemma(m): 11:43am On May 27, 2021
Make una no leave am ooh!


May turnder scatter their body one by one. God I don't know why you always keep silent and watch heartless people, scam their fellow being of their hard earned means of lively hood. This is making we that believe in your existence, lose faith in you.
FoodRe: Bakers Hike Bread, Biscuits Prices By 30% Nationwide by Benzemma(m): 9:03am On May 27, 2021
What is the difference, if the size of bread that supposed to be sold at ₦70, is been sold at ₦100. It's still the same as hiking the price. They reduced the size of hundred naira own to the size of seventy naira own and you said that they didn't hike the price.
PoliticsRe: Senate To Consider Proposal To Create Sharia Courts In South-West by Benzemma(m): 8:30am On May 27, 2021
And the west want to have Oduduwa nation. How possible is it?
RomanceRe: The Trend Of Public Proposal Amidst It's Dicey Nature by Benzemma(m): 12:52pm On May 26, 2021
After dating her for like 2yrs or more, having sex with her and visiting her parents with gift. I will still have to kneel down to ask her if she will marry me. Is there any sense? So all this while she is eating food meant for married people with me, she don't know that she will marry me. I can't have sex with any girl am not sure of marrying. So I have been having sex with you, no need of asking you if you will marry me. The only kneeling down I will do to propose to you, is to give you Belle. Is you that will ask yourself that question then.
PoliticsRe: Oyo Muslims Protest In Support Of Palestinians by Benzemma(m): 8:50pm On May 24, 2021
Is it possible for Yorubas to have their own nation when 75% of them are Muslim who are under the control of Hausa? I think their dream of breaking away from hausa is impossible.
CareerRe: The Pros And Cons Of Dating A Coworker by Benzemma(m): 10:03pm On May 20, 2021
One of my coworker, once want me and she to date, very beautiful girl. But because of see finish, I declined the request and am the only male among the girls who are about 12 in number. I hate when am being gossiped, which is very common among girls. And again there is no complete respect for the relationship.
RomanceRe: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Benzemma(m): 9:27pm On May 20, 2021
tayooluwole:
You have a problem and the problem is MONEY
It is not money, it is more about personal decision. Am in the same shoe with him. Even the first time I would have had sex with a girl, something came to my mind and remind me of the promise I made to my self, I quickly got up. Even we are already romancing each other, but I said know it can't control me. So I have to do just romancing and kissing. That is why am not doubting the guy. You might think the am being afraid, No. And this girl is the first and only girl I have loved in my life. I don't have any other friend except her.
RomanceRe: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Benzemma(m): 9:14pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
You are not alone, I will be 30 by December. Sometimes when I telly friend that I have never had sex with any girl, they will begin to call me liar. But deep down in me, I know am not lying. Not that I can't toast a girl and make her fall for me, but because I promise myself that I will never sex any girl I might end up not marrying. So I must be sure 100% that I will marry you before and that is after doing everything I supposed to do on her head. But when am saying it like this, people will think that am lying to them. One may ask don't I experience sexual urge? Yes I do but, I don't allow it control me.
PoliticsRe: Pay Ransom To Kidnappers & Get A Minimum Of 15 Years Imprisonment - Senate Bill by Benzemma(m): 7:37pm On May 19, 2021
TRADELYN:
This is foolishness at its peak.
Now, I understand why many don't have hope in this country. Many Nigerian leaders are very incompetent. They just go into politics in order to improve their social lives.

Can you compare the security system in UK and USA with Nigeria? But you are using these countries as examples. What a shame!

How would it be known that ransom was paid where security agencies are unable to rescue victims or identify the criminals?

Lately, it's alleged that many state governments have been paying ransom secretly.
Let them stop paying the ransomed first and if they did not train the security well to meet up the taste of other country, then you can complain.
FoodRe: The Tuber Of Yam Man Bought For ₦1200 (Photo) by Benzemma(m): 8:11pm On May 17, 2021
nwekeugochukwu:
A Nigerian Man identified as @Anagazo on Twitter has lamented on the high cost of a yam he bought, IgbereTV reports.

He stated that he bought the yam at a high cost of 1200 naira after bargaining for the tuber of yam for 45 minutes.

He wrote;



https://twitter.com/Anagazo/status/1393584181117132806?s=20[/quote]It is only we the poor people that feels the heat. Some fellow citizens don't even know what they mean by inflation. Some of them even is buying cars right now.
BusinessRe: Nigeria’s Inflation Rate Drops To 18.12% In April 2021 by Benzemma(m): 8:01pm On May 17, 2021
FreeStuffssNG:
BREAKING: Nigeria’s inflation rate drops to 18.12% in April 2021




https://nairametrics.com/2021/05/17/nigerias-inflation-rate-drops-to-18-12-in-april-2021/
See as they display ₦5, ₦10, ₦20 and ₦50. As if it has value. Mtchew.
HealthRe: Surgery Gone Wrong: Dr Anu Gave Me An Infection - Lady Cries Out (Graphic Photo) by Benzemma(m): 5:08pm On May 17, 2021
nairafame:
Dr Anu has reportedly done it again o — Lady cries out after a supposedly Surgery went otherwise.

Dr Anu is a popular plastic surgeon who was sued last year for botched surgery.
Her Lagos based clinic, Med Contour was also sealed by the FCCPC after it was flagged for sub-par medical practices.

Now, a lady has shared disturbing photos of her botched procedure with Gist Lover’s blog. The anonymous patient said she didn’t know about Dr Anu’s track record and flew in from New York to undergo a butt enlargement surgery in Abuja.

The patient wrote, “Dr Anu gave me an infection, fat necrosis, I’m dying in Abuja.”



https://www.instagram.com/p/CO8nbrklNHy/?igshid=1vdbsl30e16l7
Lol, wetin girls no go do for beauty, no dey exist.
HealthRe: 200Level Female Student Of Ondo University Commits Suicide (Pix) by Benzemma(m): 12:51pm On May 16, 2021
AbbynHummy:
.it is well with your soul. Keep holding on and don't give up. I know it's not easy when you ain't seeing results of your hardwork but one thing I know about life is that happiness is choice, resolve to be happy even when your dreams don't come true. If you're a believer I'll recommend you read the book of psalms. When ever I'm down that's what I do and I always find hope afterwards. There's always light at the end of the tunnel, that I'm 100% sure of. Just in case you need to talk to someone, I'm ready to listen
Ok, thank you dear.
Jobs/VacanciesAn Employee Looking For A Sales Representative Or Cashier Work Within Lagos. by Benzemma(op): 3:14pm On May 15, 2021
Please nairalanders, am seriously in need of job, precisely sales representative or cashier in pharmacy or supermarket. I have 4 years experience in sale and cashier work, I can sale with the use Of computer. I live in Lagos. Please if you see any or have any, I will be glad if you remembered. Thank you and God bless you as you considered this my plea.
HealthRe: 200Level Female Student Of Ondo University Commits Suicide (Pix) by Benzemma(m): 2:42pm On May 15, 2021
amrichy:
The simple truth is that ending your life will only make you a complete loser!
Just remember that irrespective of what you've been through or what you're going through, you can still live a happier, richer, more successful and more fulfilling life. You just need to be determined to do whatever it takes to make the best of your life. Your life is precious, don't waste it! I wish you the best
You are wright. But it is almost unbearable, when person you least expect it from, puts you in a condition where you find yourself as though you are drowning in the middle of an ocean, without hope of help from any where. There is no worse heart break than for a close relative to take the advantage of the trust you have for him and betray you to the tune of making you to lose all you have in life and that of the people you have as parents. The emotional trauma is usually suicidal. I can't believe that is me that will work like elephant and then start to eat like an ant. Because of selfishness and stone hearted of the person you considered as a relative. Am just living in a state of hopelessness. I have just been strucked down, even to the level I didn't not pass through. And I have been asking my God, what is my sin that human being have not sinned before?�
HealthRe: 200Level Female Student Of Ondo University Commits Suicide (Pix) by Benzemma(m): 9:05pm On May 13, 2021
amrichy:
Hmm.. I remember a time when some circumstances made me have suicidal thoughts. It felt like there was no point living: it seemed it would be better to leave it all behind even though I didn't know what lies beyond death!
It was only when I thought about how my parents, siblings, friends and family would feel that I came back to my senses.
Exactly what am passing through Right now. When I remember my mum and siblings, my mum especially, I will begin to imagine how my mum feel losing me. Honestly thought of ending my life because of what happened to me,is always in my mind.
HealthRe: 200Level Female Student Of Ondo University Commits Suicide (Pix) by Benzemma(m): 8:54pm On May 13, 2021
Triangles1:
There's more to this story.

I don't always believes this commiting suicide story in Nigeria, they should invite her close friends and family it could be a cover up story

There was a day I tried to commit suicide by strangle my neck with rope, after 5 seconds I don't know how I loose the rope just for me to breathe, at this point I know It's difficult to commit suicide.

We should learn how to face our fears because life will continue to challenge us in one way and the other.
Your suicide attempt, is not backed up with chronic depression.

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