I am shocked. Even Asian police are now calling out one Nigerian tribe in particular. Wonder shall never end

Wickedfact:


Here is the Asian policeman calling Igbos criminals. He specifically mentions Igbos as criminals and problems of the black race.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dASnWhwzL-Y

In Pakistan, once they see you are Igbo, they deport you straight from the airport. They won't even allow you to enter.
https://www.nairaland.com/5441444/nigerian-says-he-deported-pakistan#82641229

Those are both countries in Asia.

torqque7:


Which kind useless misleading story be this?where did he post I HATE Taylor Swift biko?all this useless bloggers,how is I am not a fan of Taylor Swift same as I hate Taylor Swift?

Google it.

DTruth10:
He never said he hated her. Fake news

He simply said he was not a fan of hers



Don't be deceived by incompetent media and their divisive rhetorics

He posted "I HATE TAYLOR SWIFT!" today. Do a simple Google search to see it.

It's funny how you people supporting Trump don't really know the kind of person he is.

Mariangeles:
Trump can be anything, but I doubt he typed that. It is way too petty, even for him.
With the US media, anything is possible.

Then you don't know Trump very well. Do a simple Google search to see it for yourself. He posted "I HATE TAYLOR SWIFT!" today.

DTruth10:


He simply said he was not a fan of hers

He posted "I HATE TAYLOR SWIFT!" today. Do a simple Google search to see it for yourself.

Chikel20000:
Trump never said he hate Swift

Yes, he never said it. He posted it, and that's what this thread says. Do a simple Google search to see it for yourself.

Don't mind them. They're truly pathetic!

Trump is hiding behind "illegal immigrants". Deep down, he hates all black immigrants and would deport all of them in a heart beat if he had the power to.

Don't mind those Nairalanders attacking you for saying the truth. They're very naive.

God1000:
I pity nigerians who are supporting this man, some of you have brothers and sisters living in America, some are undocumented immigrants , Donald trump doesn't care whether you are christian or Muslim, he will deport them all for as long as they are from third world countries.

He will not deport anybody from Saudi Arabia, Qatar, UAE but he will deport people from Nigeria, Kenya, Ghana and Uganda

His own wife "Melania" was born in Slovenia before coming to America



Kamala Harris is the answer

I'm sorry to say, but people like you are very naive. Trump detests blacks including you. Keep praising him. Do you know any better?

Trump attacked Barack Obama personally for being black. Now he's doing the same with Kamala Harris. You Nairalanders supporting Trump are truly pathetic!

MadamVanessa:



I support him regardless. He's the type of politician I love. No sugarcoating, no faking , he said it the way it is, not even desperate to be the president, so unapologetic of his action.

Trump is coming.

Saao:
God created us male and female or do we have another creator aside God? God did not created male and male nor female and female, our God created only male and female. Don't forget some people enjoyed sleeping with animals, very soon that will be justify as well.

Go and speak to gay people. You will understand them better. Banning them is not going to stop them from being gay. They will only keep hiding in the closet.

They are like that naturally so who is to say God didn't create them that way?

Their spouses won't know that they are sleeping with people of the same gender behind their back.

I would rather know who is gay so that I can avoid them.

ogascomax:
We understand this game. All this is to deceive the gullible into believing that she is doing well better than Trump. A DEI hire should go and rest.

You are not serious. Go and study the background behind DEI. Trump is using that to insult people like you and you're blindly using that term. Keep insulting yourself.

Mawan:
Is it money kamala was nominated to raise or to contest for the seat of the president of the United States?
Why placing so much attention on how much she raises through donation?

Many reasons. It shows the enthusiasm and dedication of her supporters. The more money, the more powerful the campaign, and so on.

Remman:
It still won't stop Trump from being the president. That was how Hillary Clinton was all over the place until Trump won.

You haven't see how Trump is panicking. Go and see the senseless posts he's sharing on his social media. Very early in the morning and late in the night sometimes. He's losing sleep.

Kamala and Hillary are not the same. Kamala doesn't have the baggage that Hillary had. Even Trump is struggling to find dirt against Kamala. All he can do is attack her personally and only God knows why people like you praise him for that.

Have you spoken to gay people? Do you know that they are like that naturally? Would you like to marry a woman who is secretly gay and sleeping with other women behind your back?

Stop thinking that countries that ban gays are free of gays. They have gay people hiding in the closet.

Saao:
My only reason supporting Trump is his stance against gay, if they don't have anyone stopping these people, it will take over the whole world as so many countries look up to US

There are some problems with this.

First of all, it is exhausting. Both of you cannot continue on like this forever. Someone will eventually get tired and want to leave or become indifferent.

The second problem is the fact that both of you are ok with hurting each other. If you love someone, you don't want to hurt them. You don't want your words or actions to hurt them, so when they tell you something you do is hurting them, you will adjust your behaviour accordingly. Retaliation won't be needed.

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

Honestly. And a lot of democrats are still in denial. They still think that Biden will win.

I'm sure people close to Biden knew the state he was in but did nothing about it, and still won't tell Biden the truth.

At this point, I don't even care who wins. They should face the consequences of their actions. And like you said, maybe Trump isn't so bad after all.

Kelklein:
The Democrats shot themselves in the feet.. they should have seen all of these coming before now and have Biden replaced by not necessarily a younger candidate but at least someone that can stand up to Trump.

The Republican were smarter. They presented Trump not necessarily because he was the best among them but he was the strongest. That's what the Democrat thought they were doing too but age said No for Biden. They wanted to use the incumbency factor forgetting that you can't cheat Nature.

Now it looks like it's going to be an easy run for Trump. But don't worry for America. The country is strong enough on its own to have any character as President.

The fact that your sales girl is trying to come in between you and your fiancée knowing that she's pregnant shows that she doesn't have a very good character.

Just like how she is insensitive about causing your pregnant fiancée deep pain, she's capable of doing the same thing to you.

Control your emotions. Don't let them control you.

adebowales:
Hello nairalanders!
I seek your opinion concerning this situation I find myself in.

I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for 3 yrs already to which she is pregnant for me at the moment! Though we have been together enjoying our relationship until recently I employed a new sales representative which is getting me confused.

Since the day I employed my sales girl, she had been handling my business perfectly even while I wasn’t around, she always defends me well, though I pay her well for this, but she had been managing the business like hers and she makes good return daily, besides she is also a good girl in management.

The relationship I have with my fiancée is getting to marriage soon but I feel recently am making a bad choice even though she is pregnant for me.

Recently, my sales girl profess love to me by telling me she really loves me and she has falling in love already, this makes her get pained seeing me and my fiancée together.
I had to explain to her that, I am the kind of person that is very loyal to my commitment, if we had met earlier, no one also would be able to take me away from her, so by that, I love her, but it’s late already as me and my wife has gone deeper and breaking up isn’t easy at these moment at all.

Recently, I found out my sales is already talking to different suitors which at times gives me bad feelings which makes me confused at the moment if I may loose her and this will definitely affect my business except I find someone better also.

You don't understand what TheGift is saying.

Yes, not all women are loyal, but there are some women who love their husbands genuinely and will stay loyal no matter how tough life gets. TheGift was lucky to have found one of them.

He has already told you that his wife stayed with him even when he faced difficulties and she's probably the reason why he's alive. What would be her reason to leave him tomorrow after staying and being loyal to him all this time? If she was going to leave him, she would have left him long ago when he was facing difficulties.

Until you open yourself to it, you yourself will never be able to experience that kind of love from a woman. You will never be able to experience or understand what TheGift is talking about.

It's give and take. You cannot expect something from a woman that you're not willing to give.

If you are respectful and loyal yourself, you should find it easy to filter out those women who aren't.

After all, what's the point of marrying a woman you can't trust wholeheartedly?

As for the other argument, parents need to love each other first. Why? Because it creates a safe and stable environment for the children.

Davido has no idea the amount of damage he's causing Imade by treating his mother like this. Even Sophia has no idea. They will both regret it when they start seeing the signs of psychological damage that will scar Imade for life.

Wait and see what Imade's future relationships will look like. Since her own parents have not shown her a good example of a healthy relationship, she will struggle to build healthy relationships herself.

OKOATA:
The wife that puts poison in husbands food or stab him to death is also what. Abi the wife that has 4kids for another man outside her marriage is also what? Lots of women leave their husbands when they get abroad, so many heart broken 💔 stories here and there. How many have you heard of kids being evil to their parents. The few ones you hear is what you use to generalise. I already told you to love your wife than your kids. Your choice.

How did you know you are attracted to the inside and outside? What about your wife is beautiful and wonderful inside and outside? I need to find someone like that

Obakoolex:
So my wife is very lucky for the steady kpanshin wey I dey give her

No wonder this early morning confirms it, she woke me up with a cup of hot coffee and started caressing me until we both end up sweating

Many years together in love and have never thought of cheating for once and this is me that used to be a chronic womanizer before I met her.

The thing is some of my ex are even prettier than her but I can never in my whole life meet anybody else that's is as beautiful and wonderful inside and outside like her.

Men that get tired of their wives were only attracted to the outside which depreciate with time!

I don't even know what to say. I can't believe a human being like you exists. After all, money cannot buy character. Being a celebrity must have gotten into your head

fadilaMaikiriki Don't listen to this guy. He's clearly not normal. You're a natural beauty. Don't mind him

Knightred:
SO U AIN'T GOT MONEY TO BUY WIG AND U CALL YOURSELF A LADY

WHAT THE FVCK IS WRONG WITH ALL THIS VILLAGE LADIES
GO GET YOURSELF A CELEBRITY BOYFRIEND AND STOP CARRYING A SHIT HEAD AROUND MISS

U WANT TO INFECT US WITH CHOLERA??

Don't change yourself because of this woman. There are women who will value you and treat you with respect. If your marriage fails, look for a woman like that instead of becoming disrespectful like your wife.

As for your situation, there must be more to the story. For now, assert your boundaries, but it will probably be hard to turn things around. Maybe if there's a major crisis that makes your wife how lucky she is to have you, things will improve.

Was she always like this? I'm sure you wouldn't have married her if she was like this before. Something changed.

ScotHarvath:
Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.

I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.


Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.


If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.


Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

DanseMacabre:
Not learning yahoo yahoo while I had a chance. Now I've been stuck on this 9-5 earning peanuts and living poorer than a churchrat.

There are much better ways to make money without scamming peope.

dawnomike:
Chasing after Network Marketing (MLM)

Can you explain why?

Usefulsense:


I earn a little less than, N1.1m monthly net.
I am a qualified accountant.

But you see, working for a private company in Nigeria, not easy bro.

Why not continue as an accountant in Australia?

Kobicove:


Can he prove that he is the first person that started identifying as Peter Psquare in Nigeria?

Even if he is the first one does he have proof to show that every individual in Nigeria including all bank workers know him as Peter Psquare?

It's like you're one of those people who created a fake account.

Do I have to state the obvious? Those people are scammers and they created those accounts to fool people into thinking that they're sending money to Peter of Psquare.

Kobicove:
Did he register the names under copyright laws?

If he did not then he has no case

You don't understand. The issue is people are opening fake accounts under his name. Who else Identifies as Peter Okoye PSquare? How many other Peter's are there in PSquare?

WriterNig:
👍🏻Like for Russia-Wagner, share for USA/Nazi/NATO 卍

You are so confused. Russia wants to neutralize Wagner. Putin is known for assassinating journalists who challenge his rule.

USA and NATO fought against Nazi.

Go and study history.

You're being delusional. You can't understand that his ex is the kind of girl who doesn't tolerate bad behavior. Your strategy won't work on her.

Edipet:
thank you for warning us.
Tips: Get a third girl that is finer than her, flirt with the 3rd girl and that her friend. By that she will come back to beg you. But you made a mistake for begging her in the first place, she is not responding to you because you flirt with her friend, it is because you beg her when she catch you.

JASONjnr:


Believe me, every woman loves a man they're dating, but will never want to suffer in the relationship.

Asking you now, will you rather preach love every day to your woman but can't even take her out on a dinner?

Or get her surprise gifts items?

Go on a tour with her?

If you love a woman, you'd give her the best. And not poverty!

Of course, I won't want to put a woman through poverty but it's better to have a woman who loves you for you not for your money. Even if you have all the money in the world.

JASONjnr:
Lol.....


If you don't have money, forget about love, you won't even enjoy it sef...

Who wan follow you suffer with this Tinubu's economy policies that's useless....

If your woman cannot love you when you don't have money, she loves your money. She does not love you.

Luckysbab:


I'm no more of a 'misogynist' than you are a a male barbie.

OP, this guy is indeed a misogynist. Don't mind him

Luckysbab:


How did you come to the conclusion their relationship is healthy? Simply cos he’s drunk in love?

OP, this is one of the misogynists I am talking about. Ignore him.

Jokes aside, if you has good intentions with your question, they have really good communication. They feel safe with each other enough to be vulnerable. That's the basis of healthy relationships

kayus621:
It was during my national youth service year in Akwa Ibom State... her birthday a memorable one🙏

There are a lot of misogynists on Nairaland. Just ignore them.

You have a healthy relationship. You both address issues openly and share your vulnerabilities with each other. Keep it up.