Usefulsense:


I earn a little less than, N1.1m monthly net.
I am a qualified accountant.

But you see, working for a private company in Nigeria, not easy bro.

Why not continue as an accountant in Australia?

Kobicove:


Can he prove that he is the first person that started identifying as Peter Psquare in Nigeria?

Even if he is the first one does he have proof to show that every individual in Nigeria including all bank workers know him as Peter Psquare?

It's like you're one of those people who created a fake account.

Do I have to state the obvious? Those people are scammers and they created those accounts to fool people into thinking that they're sending money to Peter of Psquare.

Kobicove:
Did he register the names under copyright laws?

If he did not then he has no case

You don't understand. The issue is people are opening fake accounts under his name. Who else Identifies as Peter Okoye PSquare? How many other Peter's are there in PSquare?

WriterNig:
👍🏻Like for Russia-Wagner, share for USA/Nazi/NATO 卍

You are so confused. Russia wants to neutralize Wagner. Putin is known for assassinating journalists who challenge his rule.

USA and NATO fought against Nazi.

Go and study history.

You're being delusional. You can't understand that his ex is the kind of girl who doesn't tolerate bad behavior. Your strategy won't work on her.

Edipet:
thank you for warning us.
Tips: Get a third girl that is finer than her, flirt with the 3rd girl and that her friend. By that she will come back to beg you. But you made a mistake for begging her in the first place, she is not responding to you because you flirt with her friend, it is because you beg her when she catch you.

JASONjnr:


Believe me, every woman loves a man they're dating, but will never want to suffer in the relationship.

Asking you now, will you rather preach love every day to your woman but can't even take her out on a dinner?

Or get her surprise gifts items?

Go on a tour with her?

If you love a woman, you'd give her the best. And not poverty!

Of course, I won't want to put a woman through poverty but it's better to have a woman who loves you for you not for your money. Even if you have all the money in the world.

JASONjnr:
Lol.....


If you don't have money, forget about love, you won't even enjoy it sef...

Who wan follow you suffer with this Tinubu's economy policies that's useless....

If your woman cannot love you when you don't have money, she loves your money. She does not love you.

Luckysbab:


I'm no more of a 'misogynist' than you are a a male barbie.

OP, this guy is indeed a misogynist. Don't mind him

Luckysbab:


How did you come to the conclusion their relationship is healthy? Simply cos he’s drunk in love?

OP, this is one of the misogynists I am talking about. Ignore him.

Jokes aside, if you has good intentions with your question, they have really good communication. They feel safe with each other enough to be vulnerable. That's the basis of healthy relationships

kayus621:
It was during my national youth service year in Akwa Ibom State... her birthday a memorable one🙏

There are a lot of misogynists on Nairaland. Just ignore them.

You have a healthy relationship. You both address issues openly and share your vulnerabilities with each other. Keep it up.

Wodu89:



That's private. What is already evolving. It has gone beyond starting

Good luck

Wodu89:
Mine is next !

Amen. But words are not enough. Plan your actions then execute

Kingosytex:
The amount is even meagre in my opinion. What they have stolen from us is unquantifiable, whatever they have, they built from the sweat of our fore fathers.

See where Nigeria is today. What do you think will happen to the money? It will all go into the pockets of politicians as usual.

Africa needs to stop with this victim mentality. There's no reason why Nigeria shouldn't be making progress now that there's no slavery and so on. Instead, see where Nigeria is going?

It's easy for Africans to blame the past rather than take responsibility for where we are now.

BoldBrainz:
A thread created on August 11th is just hitting the front page and the comments are still on the first page. Evidence to show that the entire content is useless.

The post has 42 likes. It got people thinking not typing.

Tajbol4splend:
Many believe they can't live a meaningful life without a romantic partner, therefore falling into the wrong hands out of desperation

True talk

What is the right way?

BabaIbo:
Relationship is not mathematics to be honest, no be wetin you fit just calculate on but still you need to be smart and wise not to fall into the wrong hands.

The lady I'm dating came at an unexpected time, she came at a time I was trying to start something with another lady.
She has made me realize that most often people search for love or relationship the wrong way.

Thank God for life!

Degrading people to their so called sexual market value Speak for yourself

pansophist:
An over-30-year-old woman with a child thinks she is a catch. Women logic.

I mean, you can be a catch as a good person, as a good mother, a good wife, as a good friend, etc, but as far as sexual market value is concerned, humans, including men, aint a catch in attractiveness as they grow older, and it's worse for women.

Like I always said, feel free to live in delusion, reality will deal with you wotowoto offline.

https://www.nairaland.com/7802848/regret-not-making-marriage-work/5#125111688

incandescentena:
You are unwell. How dare you call someone partner a "walking timebomb"?! Even the op didm't describe her man in such wreckless way. She only stated what she's experiencing with her gee

What she said was right. He is indeed a walking timebomb. Google the meaning.

BossGerald:


Goan sit down one place


You only want men that you can control anyhow you like abi??

Men with big egos are the easiest for women to control

BossGerald:
After kneeling down to beg a girl to marry, you'll still demand submissiveness??


All these weak men🤦‍♂️

So men with big egos are strong men? Don't fool yourself. Those are the weakest men.

KosiGee:
I don’t believe most of the things she said.

It's not only you. It just doesn't make sense.

DukeNija:
I have questions. How did you acquire most of the wealth? Maybe from the court settlement but why didn’t you leave Italy immediately after your settlement? At what point did you acquire the gold and winery and got so wealthy that you wanted to acquire an international restaurant? You were that rich and you couldn’t leave Italy or buy the Police with your influence? So all they wanted from you was sex? This woman was a trafficker let’s be honest.

Good questions

DrAda:
Not sure I believe this story. From a medical standpoint, nothing adds up.

Even from a non-medical standpoint, it doesn't add up. But please explain why it doesn't add up medically.

Islie:
•Seeks Diaspora Commission’s help to recover property seized from her

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/i-was-raped-in-my-anus-now-i-cant-sit-down-normally-france-based-nigerian-woman/

There has to be more to this story. It's not complete

None. I don't hate doing any of them.

labake1:
It's Saturday
Have you done your chores?


From this list, what's the one chore you absolutely hate to do?

maasoap:


I think he's referring to the situation where his wife leaves and leaves the baby behind. He knows he can't take care of the baby alone. That's what he meant.

BTW: @op is a newbie on Nairaland to have come here with this kind of story where he clearly called himself a cheat, Nairalanders would roast him alive.
I think he's deactivated his account, I trust my people

He doesn't love that kid at all. He even said that it was his wife who wanted the child. He meant what he said that that child is nothing but a liability to him.

Your son is a liability?

I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?

Why give her this much power over you? It takes courage to love again.

I had a painful encounter with a narcissist, but I did not let them turn me into a bitter person. I cut them out of my life completely, but I have taken the lessons with me. I am still open to love, but I am more careful about who. I know what red flags to look for.

When you truly love yourself, no one can hurt you that deeply. The problem is a lot of people fall in love so much that they start loving the other person more than themselves. That is wrong. That is when the hurt and betrayal can be too much to bear.

Love yourself first and only love other people as much as you love yourself. Let go of people who don't reciprocate.

SmartMen:
I am in this category and I do not feel anything towards the female gender anymore. No excitement, no urge, no zeal, and no energy. I used to be the guy that will compose love SMS, I used to be the guy that love to call often...

and then in 2021, a girl I decided to trust her words cos of the way she came as if she was tired of what other guys did to her, chose to "love bomb" me. that completely broke me cos it scared me as I realized that I had been used to catching "cruises" all along. I realized the betrayal and how I exposed my vulnerabilities.

Anyway, she went with another guy between 2021 and 2022 I did something she never believed I could... it is 2023, and she has been working to get into my life... In fact, she called me in January 2023 to say "Hi" according to her. Of course if you know how women work, you will understand what "hi" mean.

However, I do not feel anything for her or any woman out there, no matter what.

Will I get married? Yeah, I will be next year but not to her.

Will I love the woman I would marry? I would just say I would like her but definitely not love in the real sense like I used to feel or have.

I don't even want any woman to love me either... I am definitely not interested anymore, neither am I gonna chase it.

Good luck to everyone.

It could go the other way too. That person may grow and become a better version of themself for the right person.

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

jeromestarks:
A guy who cares less.

...wins the heart of toxic girls.

helinues:


Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's..

That's true, but how does friendship grow into a relationship after you find out that you are both compatible? Some people only want to be friends and you risk losing the friendship when you try to start a relationship with them.

helinues:
The problem nowadays is people don't start with friendship anymore, they just jumped into relationship.

If you have gone through the friendship process, you would have seen such traits before considering going into a relationship with such person. Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's..

Most people don't have love map.

How does friendship grow into a relationship?