₦airaland Forum

newnigerdelta1:
Shut up, must we channel everything to government, you that is typing this blame do you have common first aid box in your house?

Should we channel it to you instead? Since you are one of the Government's data boys.

Did this happen in Nigeria?

How some people still manage to defend this Tinubu is mind blowing to me. He is so unprofessional, so crooked and deceitful in everything he does.
How did this kind of below-life entity manage to become President?
In fact, Nigeria is an overrated country of miscreants!

Writing all these medical jargons to bamboozle us doesn't change the fact that most Government-owned hospitals are very nonchalant when it comes to attending to Nigerians, especially ones requiring emergency medical attention.
A lot of their doctors are always disgruntled, angry and rude. Only a few remain calm and well behaved.
My last experience at the Lagos State General Hospital wasn't very pleasant at all. I just feel the current Nigeria is frustrating the hell out of every Nigerian.

I don't blame people who run away from marriages.
As much as we men are becoming weaker and less responsible; the ladies becoming more greedy and less useful too.
Those who are giving you those marital discouragements, thought marriage was a funfair, where they just have sex at their beck 'n' call and just eat anytime they wish.
Marriage simply means 2 people (man & woman) coming together to take up more responsibilities which include: building a family, having children, taking care of loved ones, joining forces to weather the storms of life together and staying together forever.
But because we all just want to have fun... Ladies just want to be taken care of without any sense of labour and men just want to have it easy , then the fun begins to vanish after wedding and 'real' life begins to set in over the years, then we start to complain and just want to discourage others.
I will keep saying it, you can't accept the happiness of having children and the company of a wife then reject the trials of raising a family.
Marriage is like Nigeria. Bouyant for some and regrettable for others but in all we just have to strive to make the best out of it.
Life too is unpredictable. Very enjoyable for some, okay for some other people and detestable to others.

And all for what? All this money we keep chasing mercilessly even at the expense of our lives is now all for what?
After the executions of these ones now, all the money they have risked lives for now is useless. Why can't we live within our means?

madridguy:
The comedian president just pushed his country into a deep mess and scattered everywhere.

I only pity the Ukraine women because very soon majority won't be able to find a husband.

The worst part is thst, out of the 38 dead Soldiers from Russia 80% would be immigrants who were deceived into fighting for Russia. Russia protected their men but pushed forward gullible and desperate African immigrants, Nigerians inclusive.

Why would you even sell your house?
I don suffer for housing matter. If I finally get small change to complete the small one I abandoned for years now. Na to relocate be that... I now find it insulting living under Landlords.

PropertyQuestNG:
You've just described one of the BIGGEST problems in Nigerian real estate the artificial urgency trap!

"Pay now or someone else will buy it" is the oldest trick in the book. And it works because:
Fear of losing out - Nobody wants to miss a "good deal"
Pressure from agents - They want their commission ASAP
Emotional decision-making - When rushed, you skip due diligence

Your experience with that first agent is CLASSIC manipulation:
Creating urgency ✓
Discouraging proper inspection ✓
Getting frustrated when you ask questions ✓
Prioritizing his commission over your safety ✓

The fact that he almost "pulled a gun on you" (figuratively) shows he cared more about closing the deal than your well being. You were absolutely RIGHT to fire him and pay him off.

And yes, you're correct about Mr. Adeleke I can confirm that Chief Benson used similar pressure tactics:

"Another buyer is coming tomorrow" "This price won't last" "Just secure it with deposit, we'll handle documents later"

That artificial urgency made Mr. Adeleke pay ₦15 million without proper verification.

Here's my advice for anyone facing this pressure:

🚩 If an agent/seller is pressuring you to pay immediately - SLOW DOWN

🚩 If they discourage you from doing checks - RED FLAG

🚩 If "someone else will buy it" - LET THEM! There are millions of properties in Nigeria.

🚩 If they get angry when you ask questions - FIRE THEM like you did

Remember this golden rule:

"Any deal that requires you to rush is a deal designed to make you regret."

A legitimate seller with nothing to hide will WELCOME your due diligence. They'll encourage you to verify everything because they know their documents are clean.

The good agent you eventually found the patient, client-focused one that's the standard. Anyone rushing you is either incompetent or complicit in fraud.

Thank you for sharing your experience! Your wisdom in paying off the bad agent and finding a good one saved you from potential disaster.

Well done! 👏💯

You are completely right! Thank you...

I am sure these are the same guys doing robbery in the UK. We all want to go to UK without any plan of what to do when we get there, only to get there and start doing nonsense.

Is it not better for this one to have remained in Nigeria. Nigeria has a way of taming alot of the youth.

Wealthyonos:
You were making 6 figures without plans and savings. Omoh, where una dey receive una training from? Na like this you wan take be Dangote?
What I was looking for in your story if it's real is for you not to invest your hard earned money into the relationship. You flopped big time because she was the one who came for you. You should have acted broke, eat her money, borrow lots of money from her and by now, na she for dey cry blood. Na ur money wey u waste dey pain u so not any mumu love

He is young and naive. Besides, it's good to taste 'true love', the heart needs it but the same heart will be pained when the love is broken. But at least, it's better experienced than never.
Don't be scared to love or trust but don't be too foolish to lose yourself in the process. I don't like single mothers (with the exception of widows), I am so sorry! Just like I don't like slay queens cos I don't fancy high-maintenance girls.
I know the kind of girls I like and I got married to one. And ever since I have curbed my penchants for ladies. I can admire briefly occasionally.
Life is life and love is life.
I loved my wife when I met her, I love her more now for the beautiful kids she has given me. I wish I was richer to make all her dreams come true but I guess not all dreams are meant to come true...

Hypnotise:
Geez… many Nigerian women have this disgusting attitude of being a leech, disguised as relationship responsibility of the man. It is b.s.

Women of other countries are much more supportive, and helpful by actually contributing to a cause. Them no dey do your money is our money pattern, she get her own, you get your own.

It is not about Nigerian women alone, most women all over the world are very materialistic now. It's Money! Money!! Money!!! That's why the quality of relationships is fast eroded. Women go for money nowadays and easily let go of their body in exchange for financial gains.

We thought these Northerners were more together and can't be influenced by money.
Tinubu's medicine-man must be really potent. He has successfully split the North into fragments. How are we now going to defeat this Slave-Master from coming in the 2nd time.
This is really crazier than I thought.

Nigerians can be very crazy people. I had a very displeasing experience when I wanted to change my rented apartment.
The Agents always created this urgent atmosphere around every available house. Urging you to pay immediately or you lose the house to someone else (which I believe was the case with "Mr. Adeleke", he must have been convinced to pay a deposit urgently and he capitulated).
At a point, I thought my Agent was going to pull out a gun on me because he was getting frustrated with each house I checked. He didn't want long probes or checks. Each house he showed me, he wanted me to take as if he was the one that would live there. At a point I paid him for his hunting services and sent him off. Got a more patient and kind Agent, who wanted client satisfaction rather than the Agent money he would share from.

It is better you use your youthful years to chase what will make you a "man". Bedding multiple ladies can't make you anything.
Use your youthful years to achieve meaningful things for yourself, ladies will come along when they see results.

AMINDA:
Contrary to what his Nairaland lackeys say, Tinubu will face very stiff opposition in 2027, even from the Southwest. The coast is still not clear yet in Lagos, Osun and now Oyo in 2027. He cannot win the Southwest in a landslide.

He will always use his thugs (the NURTW guys) to overrun Lagos. They will use extreme violence (with guns) to make sure oppositions will not be able to vote freely.
That also goes for most of the south west region. I don't know about North and East.

CanadaOrBust:
I don't think human being applies to you. So if you work where they kill people. TRADE SECRETS kee u there

May be you haven't worked in a corporate organization before. You would have understood it better. It is not in terms of crime. Of course, why would anybody work in an organization that "kills" people?

With the way their VP Jake defended this last murder of a woman Renee or something, I knew there would be more killings. These killings are directly, subtly authorised by the Presidency.
Jake said the Agents have federal immunity. So, they are gonna be killing a lot of people.
I SEE TRUMP SPENDING HIS OLD AGE IN PRISON! I don't know why I keep having that feeling. I have a feeling the next President after him will put him in jail for these crimes.

Women hardly ever change, she was only humbled by her arrogance, mistakes and bad choices she had made.
Same Tonto and one friend that went to destroy one car dealer's office. Behaving like touts, thinking they were on a movie set.
TRULY NIGERIANS ARE VERY HYPOCRITICAL! That's why it will take forever for Nigerian to be a respected country.
This shameless act of always wanting to hide under the umbrella of religion to do evil or after you have satisfied the evil in you is more of a threat to the society than sobriety.
1. CORRUPTION
2. RELIGION
3. HYPOCRISY
Are our greatest challenges in this country and I doubt if we can overcome them.

hopexter:
You quoting me without even getting a single like will not stop the inflow of Nelfund loans to Nigerian students. Imagine if those students where to vote, they will vote for who who didn’t provide them Students grands and stipends?

They didn't need his fraudulent loans. He was the one who made the school fee unaffordable.

jaxxy:
They don't know if that's the last buffalo left. All they know is to kill and eat like savages.

I love this! I wish I could be there fighting with the Soldiers against the terrorists. I had always wanted to be a Soldier. I applied in 2008 DSSC but was unsuccessful and couldn't apply again due to age limit.
I can feel the impact of the Trump in this fights, I hope the US can supply our Soldiers with enough arms to conquer these basteerds.
It's now the Nigerian Army is really fighting and I hope they make it a co-ordinated attack. Air support is very key to easily decimating these disposables.
I wish them victory (how did suicide bombing occur in that place? Was it by one of the Soldiers or a terrorist ran into them?)

See this fine girl! Women are now endangered species in this God-forsaken country.
Who established that money can be gotten from the killing of another human being?
It's all these lunatic beliefs that have kept this country in perpetual suffering and underdevelopment. What nonsense!

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, she has a valid point there. Why should she have to take on additional stress all in order that you can save yourself from the stress of having to do more to afford the bills? I mean, you are trying to give her more work to do because you don't want to have to do more work as a provider. That ogboju dem dey call that one. 🥱🥱🥱

2. What reason would you have to suggest she do that, though? Anyways, you could always divorce your wife and go find yourself a cheaper woman who wouldn't mind cooking using charcoal and taking on all the stress that goes along with it. Alternatively, you can take over cooking duty in your home so you can handle the stress all by yourself instead of stacking on to the stress your wife already has to deal with. 🥱🥱🥱

Zero points made but sentiments.
The Op itemized high cost of energy and family maintenance. No emotions or sentiments involved but practicalities.

Putindbutt:
APC gave Nigerians BIVAS that eliminated multiple voting, over voting and ghost voters. APC is about to also give Nigeria an amended electoral law which includes electronic transmission.

What did PDP do to improve on our electoral system?.. A party that would announce results while voters were still on queues.

Neither PDP or the coalition of displaced politicians, a coalition of vultures and hyenas will ever again be allowed to power.

Tinubu till 2031. God bless Nigeria.

Useless BIVAS that couldn't transmitted results, that one na propaganda equipment.

This one is a scammer. So, if you see a 51year-old you won't know? Continue to deceive yourself, you married him because he was giving you money, not that you didn't know he was much older. Lair!

Winterhaven:
As long as blacks keep reacting and giving these racists attention, then racism will never end...

Completely ignore such racists and give them zero attention and watch how racism due to skin colour will gradual fade away.

You (black people) will have to do more than just not giving attention.
Develop yourselves and your countries and earn the global respect.
Go and check most of the black African countries, they are full of shit!

RISQUE:
Na Fubara dey calm dey pity these men. He has the power to deal with these people but has remained calm yet them feel say him dey unwise. But it won't be long.

He can't do anything to them. There is a grave hang up against him. In the gang-up is the President himself, Wike and others.
Even as a Governor, he can't do anything to the Law makers.

This one has mental issues. What's wrong with a male Doctor checking your wife medically?
Most Gynaes are even males...