I don't mean any disrespect and I don't like to judge but I strongly feel you are somewhat weak. And the problem is your wife capitalizing on your perceived weakness.
A man has got to be firm a lot of times. The truth is... It is your wife that should bear some fear for you and not the other way round.
I wish you luck!

pocohantas:
In all this your CIA work, you have never seen that she is with a man or in a man's house. I also like the fact that you don't rely on "them say...them say", but do the work and come up with evidence of where she is. These places come out clean, the problem is she distorts facts. That counts for something.

The issue here is that you might be a possessive partner, so she has to twist things a bit. It is bad, very bad, but many partners do it when they know who they are dating/married to.

If she is picking other calls but not picking yours ALONE, then wherever she went to, wasn't the worst place to be. If you were a woman, you will be advised to give your husband breathing space. Stop checking his phones and or monitoring him.

So, I will suggest you don't give yourself high bp. Is this grounds for separation? I can't be the one to tell you the level of emotional abuse you should endure. That decision is yours to take.

Your wife has the characteristics of a Nigerian tailor or artisan. Is she one?

What is this one saying? Just typing grammar but not making any sense.

MASTAkiLLAh:
Nigerians are just generally wicked people, add a little bit of authority and it's finished

And we are the first to go to Church on Sunday and Mosque on Friday, yet most wicked! That's why the country is like this, let's stop deceiving ourselves about the leaders, na lie! We are bad people in this country, it is as simple as that and things can never get better like this...

I just wonder why this man still has his job intact, with all the commotions he caused and he is getting away with it. We can't continue to behave in an untoward manner as this and be expecting a spectacular country as the same time. It's not gonna happen!

PandoraObi:
If Korra obidi can buy 1.6million mansion, so Festus keyamo cannot buy paltry less than 40% of a dancer bought

I just wonder! Really $400k house is what people are wagging their tongues about? He was rich before coming to office but we all know they still made money from the public office anyway either by hook or by crook. Honestly, I don't think people should worry too much about these distractions. I want to see what Tinubu can do with Nigeria in the next 4years and I am willing to work with him or make it work for Nigeria. We cannot remain like this till we die, things must get better for this country.

Zonefree:
Seems the other one did breast implant. Her breast game is amazing in 400L.

Research shows, women with profitable breast are kindhearted.

Lime breasted women are assistant devil! Stay away from them.

madman

This is why the Whites still treat us like animals because we really are - lower animals!

JASONjnr:
It depends...

If you want to source for original materials with durability and to stand the taste of time, 12mil can do it better.

But if you want it to be quick like gbagi house, two million will finish the job for you....

Oga 2million cannot roof that house with quality Gerrard roof even aluminium sef.

Soccrates:
Just say you want to use style to tell us you have hammered.

But why na? All of us cannot be broke na. Abeg o....

BrotherSade:
😎

What is special about Twitter that people are killing themselves for it.

I don't even use Twitter because i don't like it 😎

I don't use it too. I have tried but no way! Twitter and LinkedIn don't catch my fancy at all...

Some guys' comments on this forum are very funny. Always playing the hard guy online but them nama for real life.
@Op just find the courage to move on... You will surely get over it.

baike:
This thing happened live in my front


ab0ki them dey do like say na them get Nigeria

Na their belief gangan be that. Say nothing go happen no matter what they do. This was beautifully concluded. Case closed!

Case closed!

Patented:
when i see roads like this and those that are worse my heart breaks. there is wickedness in the hearts of our leaders cos many have passed and ignored the road. from councilors to LGA Chairmen, to State house of assembly members, to House of rep members, to Senators, to Governors, all the way up to presido. between all these people no one deemed it fit to fix the road. same plays out in many communities, there are communities without power or some that have not seen power in years adn they have all these leaders coming from or responsible for them.

walahi we are a wicked bunch.

There is wickedness in the hearts of most Nigerians, let me not say all....

This life no balance! I remember when me and my wife just marry, we sleep holding each other. 8 years down the line, we sleep backing each other and there is no bad blood or cheating o....
We are just okay like that.

McStoic:


Why do most of you women support your fellow women when
any marital issues comes up? Everyone knows how bad and unfair Western laws are meant to favour women even when they're at fault

This kind of story has been told several times and most times the women use their advantage unfairly. Say the truth, if your own blood brother is kicked out of a home he sweated for or made not to see his kids just like that, will you support it?

It's the same UK that a man can be jailed and punished simply because a woman raised an unverified allegation against him. The West need to look into these things sha...

The west won't look into anything. They are clout chasers as well, always want to be seen "protecting" the so-called vulnerable in the society.

Bringbackmandat:
I am for Dino Melaye, He is a popular, outspoken politician.

Truly outspoken but that doesn't mean he will deliver as Governor, they should think it through in that state else they will be in for a big problem in the next 4years. Who can tell me Dino's development contributions in Kogi except the stupid school building he rushed to build when he was about losing his seat, which he eventually lost anyway. He just speaks, makes ridiculous videos, acts dramas and plays cunning politics all around fighting for his pocket and buying expensive cars to show off. That's how I see him, let him or anyone prove me wrong.

Fahvvy:
And this one thought he made sense ...
Lemme address your pints sir...

1. That a woman has money doesn't absolve her from being a gold digger sir ...

If she wasn't a gold digger, let her go with her money and leave the young man with his money, why want half his assets? ...

2. A woman's intelligence doesn't stop her from being a woman ...

And as you can see, with all her intelligence and ability to speak multiple languages, she still acted like EVERY OTHER WOMAN acts in the course of a divorce, so what are we saying ...

3. Whether or not she contributed to his rise isn't certain, I mean just because a woman is with a man who is just starting up doesn't mean she contributed to his rising ...

She could just be there hoping he rises and then cash out from it in future ...

But however, that she contributed to his rising doesn't make her entitled to half his stuff ...

If a woman who has known him for just 5years wants half his stuff, how about a woman who has sacrificed her all for his entire life?

What percentage is she entitled to? ...

4. That's your wahala...


5. That's an allegation sir and unless proven otherwise, he is INNOCENT ...

Guy! May God answer all your prayers this year! As for the Op advocating for the woman, may the same fate befall him so as to know how it feels to lose your property to someone leaving you. This is equal to armed robbery! I hope men will wise up more with this....

Odogwuzack:
Igbos really showed the depth of their bitterness towards Yorubas this election season.

Some of us that first thought Obidient movement was genuine were so dead wrong!

Igbos see the whole presidential election matter more as competition between them and their sworn enemies, the Yorubas.

Some of us saw it from the beginning and never fell for it. They suddenly put forward a candidate without any meaningful pedigree and want to force everyone into accepting him. No be madness be that!

Greenvaiper:


Which kain suffer head marriage you dey? Better divorce your wife and move on

Thanks for the advice sir. Nothing like "suffer-head" here, I dey alright, just sharing an experience like the OP.

Women are in all shades of character. Even though, courtship is important before marriage but it doesn't just do it all. My wife and I courted for almost 2years before marriage but after we got married, it was as if we never knew each at all before then.
Fighting, shouting, bickering, complaints and more complaints and more shouting. We are both quick to temper and I think I am worse but I lover her very much, she is self sacrificing. I respect her for that, she shares though with caution
Well... So far so good we are about 8years in marriage and still managing ourselves.
I don't know what to advice you seriously @Op. It seems your wife is strong-willed and may be difficult to please. She has her priorities which are about herself and not both of you. It will not be easy my friend, I guess you just have to carry your cross bro!

Kwashiman:
A single letter from Chimamanda was all it took to take Thiefnubuu to the global cleaners, meanwhile all the rebuttive epistles from brainless charlatans like the yorogba professors and pseudo- intellectual criminals have failed to gain any global traction. PROFESSOR Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie no be una mate 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Who made her a Professor? She has a Bachelor's and 2Master's degrees and never an academic PhD but honouraries.
Guy, you are funny! Time you could have used to do little research was spent posting all the gibberish up there.
You are getting carried away...

November1857:
Soyinka is now a local champion, living in his past glory, he has nothing upstairs..

And what are your achievements to this point? International champion with everything upstairs!

Esortigress:
Policemen are one of the worst set of people on earth. How do some ladies even consider them for marriage?

They are simply Nigerians, if you know what I mean - we are all the worst set of people on earth, everything Nigerians touch, they mess it up.

MetroLane:
Nothing anybody wan tell me.

Tinubu's fingers did not type that message.

Omo I just look around sha, na agbado people full this thread....

Fear dey catch me, make anybody no come for my head abeg...

See as agbado People surround me, e con be like say I dey inside Cornfield.



This Cow have been looking for opportunity to type the name "Peter Obi" since morning....I just gave you that opportunity, you should be grateful.

Even on Sunday you still mumu, which day you go rest.

You for talk na, God save you sha.... We for bite you finisn

It's just a case of when you have everything perfectly under control and then God just wants to make you look stupid, he go just expose you like that - gaped, looking like a fool.
Well... I hope you are fine bro, do what is best for you and move on.

successmatters:
Hmmm

There will be no treason charges
There will be no DSS calls
There will be no investigation
No comments from FFK
No comments from Bayo bigot
No comments from Reno with toilet mouth

Everyone will move on, till the next massacre in a few days time.

Sorry Nigeria.

Even though, I am APC apologist, anytime this massacre news come up, I am filled with rage. I wait for the day Nigerians will rise in arms to defend themselves against these incessant killings from the Fulani herdsmen. It wont continue forever but only a counter violence will bring it to a stop or at most engulf the country at once.
This is beyong madness! I dont know how to describe this, very painful and provocating.

ObiORBiafra:
Is there any life Asiwaju hasn't touched... What a great and generous man he has always been. Ale iyaebe

Emi ti baba o mo ri gan, se free waec si baba lorun...

Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu is a blessing to Africa. If you doubt it ask Thabo Mbeki

Modified: this my comment pain some people well o
Over 40 mentions already

More blessings baba! May the tenure of BAT favour us and favour Nigeria inspite of the bad blood everywhere.

Hedonini:
Of course. I lost respect for the old fool the moment I discerned that he was just another rodent in Tinubu's cookie room. The idiot whose voice of condemnation was very loud against the Jonathan administration somehow retreated into his shell and became deaf and dumb throughout Buhari's disastrous 8 years of sorrow.

Now after a sham election has supposedly produced a bloody thief and drug baron as president, the useless Soyinka has found his voice again, not in condemnation of the election or of the disreputable criminal that was dubiously pronounced winner, but against the people yearning for a change. Obedients are repugnant fascists and he is ready to do a debate with Datti, but he conveniently has nothing to say about INEC, Tinubu, and the APC. This is the final straw.

You always lose respect for anyone not supporting your Obi but praise anyone in support irrespective of their image . I am sure you will immediately lose respect for your Dad too if his views become divergent to yours. Typical "Obidient"!

This country has been harbouring a lot of mad people in governance of the nation, no wonder the country is in shambles. Too many voiceless maniacs the internet is making popular these days.

Well... these issues didn't just start all of a sudden, you guys must have encouraged it somehow, that said, I must say that I understand your husband's position - I wish I had someone to guide when I was young, may be I would be in an better position right now.
My advice is this... Let daddy discourage the idea of picking him up for beating by outsiders, it will "destroy" him. Instead, let daddy continue to liaise with the boy, draw him close. Give him something's he wants in exchange for what you want him to do. Like getting him a car for him to study the pharmacy. He can start by being good friends with his son, let them go out together - may a bar, have some drinks, talk about the girls he likes (which is not a bad idea). All to gain his trust and love back and then subtly make your demands and I feel will gradually oblige. I don't think the use of force will work in this case.

Islie:


https://leadership.ng/54-days-to-inauguration-tinubu-headhunts-best-brains-competence-for-appointments/

Sanusi! Lovely. He is my best candidate. No doubt this coming Government will do well. I love Sanusi and I hope he makes the list to greatly impact this country.