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Family / Re: My Husband Is Very Jealous Because I’m Beautiful – 16-year-old Housewife by Berbierklaus(f): 1:42pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Hmmm 2 Likes
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Family / Re: Wife/girlfriend Beating by Berbierklaus(f): 1:19am On Aug 19, 2017 |
I don't condone violence from male/female. But if you face a woman who isn't half as strong as you and start panel beating her like that man up there described,I hope you will be satisfied when you finally make her disabled or dead as we keep reading and seeing every day. Best thing to do is end any relationship with a violent person(male/female). If you don't agree with my comment don't insult me,show some manners,to that G.O.A.T that called me silly up there,thank you. 1 Like |
Family / Re: "My Husband's House" by Berbierklaus(f): 8:32pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
My best friend won't take it likely with you if you use the term "your husband's house" for her I always wonder why she gets angry,now I know better |
Family / Re: Wife/girlfriend Beating by Berbierklaus(f): 8:25pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
Lemme explain this to you the best way I can,have it at the back of your mind that we are all learning. Now,you have a girlfriend/wife who is violent and tries to ruffle you up during an argument and as a man you get angry, you don't want to hit her,you refrain,you even manage to escape her because she is a woman. You are doing that because you have self discipline. It is established that men are generally physically stronger than women,now imagine you react back by giving her a hot slap,she can go deaf or blind or have serious headache etc. But if a women who is weaker than you slaps you,it hardly have much lasting effect on you. But generally my advice for men and women is to avoid such violent people,take them for therapy,keep praying for them,then don't let them influence kids around them. Mos violent people are influenced by their upbringing. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Pregnant Nigerian Woman Allegedly Beaten To Death By Her Husband by Berbierklaus(f): 5:05pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Sad end,more
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Family / Pregnant Nigerian Woman Allegedly Beaten To Death By Her Husband by Berbierklaus(f): 5:04pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Below is a shocking story of the pregnant woman, Chinyere Sylvia Akaleme, who died after she was allegedly beaten by her husband, Obinna Akaleme on the day she was due to give birth. Shared by Facebook user identified Ukan Kurugh on Facebook “DOMESTIC VIOLENCE:THE UNTOLD STORY OF ENGR. CHINYERE SYLVIA AKALEME (NEE IGBO) The menace of Domestic violence in Nigeria and it’s implications on the families of the victims. Late Engr Sylvia Unfortunately for Sylvia or Chinyere as she was fondly called by family and close friends, she did not live to tell her own story. She was cut down in her prime by the man she loved till death did them part Obinna Akaleme, her husband. She died on the day she was due to give birth after series of miscarriages in her husband’s house. A brief biography of the victim Chinyere Sylvia Akaleme (nee Igbo) was born on 27 april 1981 into the family of Mr and Mrs Reginald Chiaka Igbo. The second child and 1st daughter of the family with six other siblings, Sylvia was raised in a middle-class Catholic family residing in Ajao estate, lagos where she had her nursery, primary and secondary education. She was a very bright pupil and her position in class never went below the top three. She gained admission into the university of Ilorin in Kwara state where she read electrical engineering and graduated with second class honours. She started a career in information technology and quickly got several professional qualifications including sisco into her academic profile. She started her working career with Karox computers before moving on to reliance info systems ltd where she became a product and sales manager Sylvia at work Her last job was with the Wini group, an Ikeja based corporation. In 2012 she met and married Obinna Akaleme a farmer/ chef/ kitchen assistant and thus began her journey to an untimely death in the hands of the man she loved so much and catered for. She died on the on the 29th of march 2017 and she was committed to mother earth at the Ikoyi cemetery on the 19th of july 2017. Engr sylvia is survived by her aged grandmother, her parents, siblings, uncles, aunties, nephews and nieces. May her gentle soul rest in peace, Amen. What Happened? Her parents and siblings never knew Chinyere endured several years of abuse in the hands of the man she called a husband. She assumed the role of a typical Nigerian wife who must always display a non-existent happiness in a marriage filled with sadness and regrets. The only clue about what happened to her during her over five years of marriage was the account of the neighbors who narrated how on a particular night Obinna her husband beat her up and she ran to their landlords house for safety. Also the little girl who lived with her revealed that Chinyere warned her not to tell her parents that her husband used to beat her up even while she was over eight months pregnant.sylvia and a friend at an event That explained the reason behind the series of miscarriages she had before her last pregnancy which was full term. Her parents got worried that their daughter had about four miscarriages in less than four years decided to take her to come stay with them when she took-in after her eight month old miscarriage. She lived peacefully with her parents and her pregnancy advanced with Chinyere in good health and high spirits anticipating the birth of her child. Unfortunately for her, on her due date, Obinna, her husband came to pick her up from her father’s house at 10 am to the hospital and as a dutiful wife she was, she obeyed him and went with him. According to the doctor, the mother and the baby were confirmed healthy on arrival and Doctor asked her to go get her bag in preparation for delivery that evening. Obinna took Chinyere to their matrimonial home. Sadly for Chinyere, he got into an argument with her over money, beat her up so badly and left her unconscious in the house. He left the house and switched off his phone and her phone so no one could reach them. He left her in the house and every attempt made to reach them was futile. He later returned and took her to the hospital when he discovered she was dying at about 4.30pm and did not deem it fit to contact her parents or siblings, he did this so as not to run the risk of her coming out of coma and telling her family her ordeal at the hands of her husband, it is also worthy to note that the hospital were she died is less than a hundred metres from her parent’s house. Obinna eventually came to her parents house around 8.30pm to tell them she had passed on. Further findings from her siblings and the doctor’s confirmation revealed that Chinyere was brought to the hospital lifeless (practically dead). The doctor decided to do a cesarean session to try and save the baby but it was all in vain Chinyere’s sad story is one among millions of Nigerian women who fall victim to sexual and emotional predators because they want to be accepted by the society at large . They hide their ordeal from the very people that can rescue them. Their families. Women nowadays pretend that they are in happy marriages even when the obvious signs says otherwise. For how long will we keep up with this trend of pretending all is well when it obviously isn’t? Must we live a lie for societal acceptance? Let’s come together and say no to domestic violence and spousal abuse. There are many families like Chinyere’s who wish their children had remained single and lived with them instead of getting married and killed by their partners. Enough is enough!” http://www.myowngist.info/2017/08/story-of-pregnant-nigerian-woman.html?m=1 Lalasticlala Royalroy Mynd44 Dominique
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Family / Re: Are You Sexualizing Your Children? by Berbierklaus(f): 1:13pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Some parents are just taking the innocence from this kids by dressing them in this manner,its totally wrong. Gone are the days when our party,church,visit,outing wears as girls was redmade(ready made gowns) and cover shoes. Now they dress little girls in tight fitting gowns,why? What for? Why would you fix weavons for kids younger than 10,some even perm kids hair,why? And they expose this kids to x-rated songs forgetting that kids learn very fast and hardly forgets. This generation of parents are moving with the norm at the detriment of kids innocence. Someone need to start talking sense into them. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: John Okeikhan Edobor Apologises by Berbierklaus(f): 7:05am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Daboomb: [b]Sir are you for real? All those blind eyes at the detriment of the women involved? For very long some men has gotten away with every act of wickedness because of nothing but because they are "MEN" they mustn't be questioned,their image is at stake,they have egos,just like what your just put up there blah blah blah,and for once a correctional approach is gotten and you say women shouldn't rejoice because all eyes will go blind? Did you even follow this particular story from the beginning? After breaking her legs he went ahead and tarnished her image and accused her of adultery,then ran away with his mistress,and you say this? (The man went to her house,she didn't take her boyfriend to meet him,he went to meet her himself in her house,So you mean her boyfriend should have stayed and watch him beat his wife up,or even the boyfriend should have gotten the broken legs? I dont understand that funny point you just brought up,if that story is true at all,a man physically unprovoked,went all physical on two people and they should stand and watch? Or what are you implying sef?) Please its not in this situation you type words like this,this is a well deserved punishment,let him lick his wounds,come back and serve his jail terms with hard labour and come back first if that does not cure his violent nature and he still feels he will hurt her when he gets back then he should die there(those threats don't work for all women) or have his own legs broken and shattered to pieces until then this story you write na bullcrap[/b] 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married Man Begging His Wife's Friend Sex Exposed (Photos) by Berbierklaus(f): 6:42am On Jul 17, 2017 |
Prognose:Lolz,because na man do now its fake? Sorry to burst your bubble its not fake,its very real,I follow the person that put it out on Facebook,and this is not the beginning of the story,I can narrate it if you are interested. |
Romance / Re: How To Use Raw Egg To Know If Your Daughter, Sis Or Girlfriend Is Still A Virgin by Berbierklaus(f): 6:54pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
unqombothi:And who are the insane people interested in dehumanizing there daughters,sisters and girlfriends?please speak for yourself 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Pre Wedding Photos Of Me And My Bride To Be........ by Berbierklaus(f): 11:31am On Jul 07, 2017 |
kingdom88:What you said was absolutely unnecessary and stupid,I pity the woman getting married to you,suddenly virtual people are your haters? Y'all abuse that word too much. |
Religion / Re: Seven Deadly Sins Christians Must Never Commit by Berbierklaus(f): 1:36am On Jun 26, 2017 |
prof1990:Give this reply to the comment I quoted |
Religion / Re: Seven Deadly Sins Christians Must Never Commit by Berbierklaus(f): 9:33am On Jun 25, 2017 |
usqoh:You don't mean it,Christians are intolerant? I'm yet to see them killing people in their numbers because they didn't accept Christianity sha 3 Likes |
Religion / Re: Seven Deadly Sins Christians Must Never Commit by Berbierklaus(f): 9:30am On Jun 25, 2017 |
prof1990:Muslims are surely the biggest Bigot of all. Hope you are aware that there is a section where only Muslims can post on nairaland,obviously Christians are not human here. 6 Likes |
Religion / Re: Seven Deadly Sins Christians Must Never Commit by Berbierklaus(f): 9:28am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Celebrities / Re: If You Feel People I Hailed In My Songs Are Fraudsters, Report To EFCC -9ice by Berbierklaus(f): 4:51am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Sexytemi:Hushpuppi does not even have gf or flaunted any gf,check his Instagram,no girl at all. I'm beginning to think he is gay and made money from being gay olosho |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Berbierklaus(f): 10:28am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Blueberrie:Very funny |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Berbierklaus(f): 10:26am On Jun 21, 2017 |
coolviv:As in the masturbation is just too much. |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Berbierklaus(f): 10:22am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Wolfbrother:I really really tire |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Berbierklaus(f): 10:19am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Oyindidi:I swear I don tire. |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Berbierklaus(f): 10:15am On Jun 21, 2017 |
feelgoodInc:Walai I don tire,makes someone even scared to open nairaland sometimes,because you don't know which offence they will accuse women of commiting again Asif na women hold their destiny |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Berbierklaus(f): 10:11am On Jun 21, 2017 |
selflessmaya:Just couldn't stop reading this and smiling all through,I even went to look for it and give you your like and share Can't wait for the next 10 years though by then,all the entitled male brain go don format.. Haha haha hahahahaha hahahahaha What a great century to be born in 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: ♥ Comment The Name Of That Female Nairalander Who Looks Pretty Without Makeup ♥ by Berbierklaus(f): 1:50pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
RoyalBlak007:I trust you getting the mulla |
Romance / Re: ♥ Comment The Name Of That Female Nairalander Who Looks Pretty Without Makeup ♥ by Berbierklaus(f): 9:10am On Jun 19, 2017 |
Romance / Re: Happy Birthday Makydebbie (Pictures Added) by Berbierklaus(f): 1:33pm On Jun 16, 2017 |
makydebbie:Happy birthday dear. Long life and prosperity. Enjoy your day |
Family / Re: Women Trust Them At Your Own Peril by Berbierklaus(f): 10:23am On Jun 09, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: Price of DNA test
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Celebrities / Re: Tboss Absolutely Stunning In New Photos by Berbierklaus(f): 4:58pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
zlantanfan:You people will just sit behind your palasa phone and be typing rubbish on nairaland, while the rest of the world is moving on and people are doing good things with their lives. Do you know Bassey and Debie released a song,do you know Bisola released a song and she is a prominent actress even before BBN? Doyou know Soma is ambassador for payporte and also have a program he does on TV, do you know Gifty is on a Set of a new movie as an actress,do you know Tboss acted in a movie that will be released or it has been released sef,do you know Uriel has been made ambassador for IMO state tourism,she is also an entrepreneur with a business of her own,she even opened a store in lekki few weeks ago,Do you know EFE is the ambassador for Nigerian youths,do you know Bally is set to release a song with Patoranking? Do you know that Thintalltony is making good use of his talent as a dancer,organising and doing shows,going to universities as invited guests,and making his money? Do you know cocoice recently releasee a single and also shoot the video some weeks ago,do you know Kemen is now a celebrity fitness trainer with the likes of INI Edo training with him? Do you know ESE Eriata released a new single the other day,and many other activities this people are doing with their lives, but you just sleep and wakeup in hatred and envy for your fellow human being, after beg your mummy for 100naira,buy mtn 10mb,come on nairaland and start spewing trash everywhere,because you can't even visit Instagram to see all this things with your own eyes,so you wallow in ignorance and type sh*t about people who are bigger and better than you'd ever be in your life,instead of you to pray and work hard to make it like them,na your father house you go dey jobless, typing hatred from your mosquito brain. Better change,see good in others so that others can see good in you. Don't bother replying,you will be ignored. |
Romance / Re: Husband Slams Man Who Sent Dick To His Wife (Photo) by Berbierklaus(f): 4:42pm On Jun 08, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127:Seriously |
Romance / Re: Guys, Start Saving For That DNA Test by Berbierklaus(f): 11:00pm On Jun 07, 2017 |
Avalon316:Make sense,we sabi how your mother train you now 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guys, Start Saving For That DNA Test by Berbierklaus(f): 10:57pm On Jun 07, 2017 |
thegrace:Mummy,look at the spelling of my name well,no biggie there. I am not supporting promiscuous wives,stop misinterpreting my joy on this thread. Just elaborating and letting it known that two can play at the game. If you condone a cheating husband that's your opinion,which is why I adviced her to ignore your comment. Its good to know you are enlightened, its a free world,and you are free to express your own opinion. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guys, Start Saving For That DNA Test by Berbierklaus(f): 10:52pm On Jun 07, 2017 |
ajog1:Hope you are aware that nature also made husband and wife who have lived together to look alike,they aren't even blood relations Let's thank nature jor, some secrets will never be discovered 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guys, Start Saving For That DNA Test by Berbierklaus(f): 10:48pm On Jun 07, 2017 |
Kondomatic:So why are you not interested in heaven? I only made use of the word most yesterday,and it was deliberate, I've seen and heard men use the same word when describing ladies of easy virtues, especially on nairaland. Eg "All girls are ***** etc they even make use of " All" But do you think "most men cheat" or "some men cheat" ? |
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