₦airaland Forum

MariaLavina:
Let love heal you Darling

Bashing us won't do no good, The world won't change.

we give up. I am not that bad sis. I am just the normal cool headed guy that ladies term "boring" for my nature lol. You know those kind of guys that make the best dad or husband...

But heck I am not willing to change... But I like them pretty too so that might be a problem cos the very pretty ones are insane.

ImaIma1:
Maybe since you like them very pretty, you ignore some signs and are a blinded by the beauty.

But eventually, the inner ugliness always overshadows the outer beauty.

I see people dating successfully and getting married around me. But you guys on Nairaland are blessed with some certain kind of girls. Seems you guys meet somewhere to select them.

You may be right but the only reason is that I don't want to wish or look outside when I have someone. YeAh, the pretty ones are often badly built... But do you want tell me all pretty girls are bad and the not so pretty ones are all good?

*moulds okele Eba Mixed with 7 days old akpu to stone her if she says yes they are"

MariaLavina:
Sound it Sis!


We love you so much darling op!

ImaIma1:
Awww!!! Sorry ehn. Don't worry the Association of Female Bashers(AFB) will soon be here to help you bash us. They have probably not seen your post yet.

But maybe try and adjust your priorities. If you are looking for a woman with big boobs and yansh...that might be all she has without any values or virtues.

Why not attract a woman with heart and brains so that we the sane ones can even rest from hearing one wounded lion rant everytime.

And you may even be attracting your kind.

Sorry you hear.

Thanks. You probably think I am the kind that falls for such. I am very picky. Well I like them really pretty, with brain and heart. I like them independent and understanding...

Beauty without brain is a turn off. I don't fall for slay queens either. Even if she is the best sex giver. I have never bonded with a lady by sex.

ImaIma1:
Another man obsessed with us in disguise.

We love you too honey

don't love me I don't want any of you to love me

HRHQueenPhil:
the rantings of a depressed and wounded man.

I am not depressed and neither am I wounded. It just what it is... Give them the above and you would be called a sissy, desperate.

Loving women is a waste of your time and energy. Starving them of it makes you more desirable in their eyes.

They don't need your love or attention to stick with you.

Giving excess of these makes you look like a pest, a weakling.

Gold has value because it is scarce!

oniru4real:
I have the same issue with my gf. I m still praying that she will change. I love her so much

that is no love. That is stupidity. Can you love a mad woman on the street? Look, you will not get her respect if you continue.

Women don't respect men that tolerate their crap. They are drawn to masculinity... You got to assert your man power... Like a stern but loving father that scold his child when correcting them.

donstan18:
I'll advice you to break up with her and allow her learn the hard way from a hard and tough man.

But incase you want otherwise, then read.

She's taking advantage of you because you seems to be a good and caring guy, and one of the habit of a typical Nigerian lady is to take such men for granted.

All you need to do is to pay less attention to her nagging attitude for a while. Give her the same attitude in a higher measure. Allow her understand what "Correction" is all about by putting an end to your act of begging her after correcting her on something.


She's taking your kindness for a ride and indirectly wanting to turn you to a MUGU with her nasty attitude. Man up and go aggressive/less concerned on her for a while. Just a while.

She'll change if she really cared for you, but If after she fails to change. DUMP her for a respectful lady who will give you peace of mind with no nasty attitude.

Thank you.

delugajackson:
You are dating a woman with so much ego and such woman will never make a good wife. Truth is, you can never control a woman with so much ego. If she can't apologize for little things, then she has no business being in a relationship. Take my word, she has little or no respect for you. The only reason she is with you up till this moment is because she is gaining from you, once she fulfills her aim of running you down, she will leave your áss for good.

I suggest you look for someone else with better attitude, character and finesse that will make life worth living for you, cause once you marry this particular girl, you will experience x2 of what you're suffering now. She will offer you a lifetime of misery! Who wants a stubborn, nagging, disrespectful woman with an over-bloated ego as a wife?

You need to re-consider this cause it seems you're gradually becoming a victim of emotional deficit. And the hard truth is that you both are not meant for each other.

Thank you.

milemimi93:
Thank u bro I really appreciate.

U said I should follow my heart?
Do u know what my heart says?
If I follow my hrt am afraid I might not see the end of this month.
I am feeling suicidal.
I just wish everything would just end. Am tired of life. Am mentally ill.

I've started drinking lately.
I don't smoke.

I just want to die that's the only way I can find peace.

The greatest mistake I made was to leave Nigeria.

If I was in Nigeria maybe I'd have gone out hang with friends.

But here who do I know?

Nobody just me and my God.

Am empty inside.

I wish to die.

Am told to start AM classes.

How do I even tell people here I am a murderer?

Man am confused am tired..

you would break me if you commit suicide.

You would break my heart if you commit suicide.

I know what it feels like brother. I know just how you feel. I wish you were in Nigeria, people from here would have made attempts to find you and make you whole again.

But don't go near any woman... It appear you are not destined for such.

Please do not commit suicide, I beg you. You can be a source of inspiration to people if you turn your life around...

You are not handicapped, your hands and ears and eyes are working... Steve Hawking was condemned to wheel chair and the only thing that worked in his body was his eyes, every other part was dead due to an illness. He was proclaimed to have just a few years to live but he lived over 50 years more.

He didn't take his life.

Olifiz:
If u want 1m pieces of smart prepaid meter. It’s available.

oh... Cool. You sound like an independent seller or distributor but I thought one needs to go through discos to get their meter? Or are you in partnership with them.

I am asking cos some time ago when a friend went to recharge his meter, we met someone trying to get help cos he bought his meter from outside outlet.

KingTugreat:
hahahahahaha dude am never planning to marry or have kids in my lifetime,thats not what i came here to do,to be a slave to a woman? Marriage and kids are not for my specie.And concerning my mother,i didnt ask anybody to give birth to me,so i am not grateful for that,especially in a shithole country where i come from where nothing works.Next time when you give birth to a child know you didnt do him or her any favour,you did yourself a favour because you wanted them,and you went for them,to satisfy your interest and not theirs.I cant be grateful for being born into this wicked world

Why u no wan marry Na bros? Even if na one pikin, e good. I know most of them are misbehave...

Olifiz:
Big fat lie that’s Brains and Hammers in Galadimawa Abuja. That should either be UNN or UNIPORT STREET inside the estate. I know that place very very well. Close to Base university. Bloggers n lie. Where she get money to build this type of Estate. Maybe she got an apartment there. Brains and Hammars they only have these type of unique buildings in Abuja. My company metered most of their buildings so that’s how I know.

hello bros, greetings. Do you still have meter for supply in Abuja?

vizkiz:
You will never see big churches doing this. Instead they will rather preach about tithes and giving to the men of God. Criminals!

God bless Williams for his kindness. I rather help people around me with my tithes than give one criminal spending his summer on an island in another country

bros even though I don't like what Nigerian pastors have turned churches into, but I know some of them do sponsor kids but mainly those of their church attendance

milemimi93:
take it easy oo.

Am regrettin my actions..

Am feeling suicidal..

hmmm bro, you won't understand. Making it seem you are too cool makes this girl's feel they can just run you over.

milemimi93:
Thank u so so much.

I've been advised to enroll for AM classes.

That, I will do from next month..

my mood has changed since yesterday after reading what you went through. I won't lie, destroying an ex life once crossed my mind.

I hated women for many years cos of her and your thread just revived those memories.

And after reading your tread, a girl I was being called with for misbehaving might be in for rude shock. Your story changed my entire mood since yesterday and I just gonna be on a side until she makes and another demeaning remarks towards me and she will see another side of me.

Windflower:
How do you expect her to say yes to someone that talks in this manner, bros park well abeg
If you can't decipher what I wrote there, swerve

whatever rocks her boat and yours too. They be acting as if they have something to add to a man's life apart from what he had made out of life for himself.

Windflower:
She declined because you are not what she is looking for

madam, she is not all that special. Stop making it seem there was any thing amazing about her neither will dating me add much value to my life... After all she just an ordinary human with flesh and blood. After one two kids, shakara Don end.

Rubbish

[quote author= post=69198311]Some fans are just USELESS aswear!
Arrant nonsense!
Women are enemies of themselves!!
Our kinda reply: Kill 'em with love[/quote]bros, na the blogger wey post am here and na hin make that comment so that he can have something to post. nigerian bloggers in the celebrity niche are useless

Bro, i wish you were in Nigeria... i am almost in tears. I almost turned in a beast at one time in my life for this same reason.

HARDDON:
Ouch! Blown food on a platter! Gee, you should be horsewhipped

sorry bro. I am sorry.

DavidTheGeek:
Ooooops...She was giving you "green light". You shouldn't have jumped at it and asked her out. You should have just kept her guessing. Send mixed signals (act like you're into her today, act cold tomorrow). It would drive her crazy.

Anyway, no harm done. Just continue like nothing happened.

Thanks bro. Yeah, I messed up... but will rectify it. That i assure you.

Thuglife2020:
Bro I swear some of my friends adviced me not to woo her because of our closeness. But I can’t just watch myself being friends with her because I truly and sincerely love her. We talk almost every day and we used to spend nothing less than 20 minutes with her over the phone. If she has a problem, I would be the first person to call. I love her but anytime I tried to convince her. She will tell me we can be friends. I stopped myself from sending her money because I doesn’t want her to feel I want to entice her with money..

That is the problem. talking everyday, being too close... ladies are attracted to this opposite of this . You dig? Dont ever think there is anyone out there that will value this your attribute. I swear. there is none. so if you wanna date a girl, never go close to her.

Dammiesugar:
This life is funny! me that I can cook any kind of delicacy, never a dull moment with me, working with side hustle sef, no man to say I want meet your family�� Anyway uncle open your mind to her and if she’s not willing to change then let her go.

Na so una dey talk. when a guy comes now, same you will friendzone him. I heard same from a lady who even complained of being treated like trash by guys and the next thing I asked her out cos i really liked her and was willing to treat her like she deserve. madam, she declined.

That is why it annoys me when girls complain.

Thuglife2020:
I’ve done my best I could. Tho I doesn’t entice her with money. The highest money I think I sent her is 5k.

That is the problem we have with girls when you become too close to them. they dont ever want to date you. I know what you are feeling cos I have been there before.

just disappear from her presence and watch her reaction.

Cholls:
my brother eiyah

To be honest, Igbos are too emotional. DAMN!

Uglymugg:
Your problem is listening to what women say and not their actions.

boss I am still waiting for your reply o. Please explain this and how one can take advantage of it.

Windoflove:
Yea, just as guys will see a good gal as just a sex object. They will Bleep her and dump her without wifying her. Even after struggling with him when he is nobody.

Hypocritical confused lots.

No girls has struggled with me, okay? I hustled a lot, never gave up my dream and in one of those dark days a girl refused to pick my call after first meeting until we met few years later and she expected me to take her serious.

highpriestess:
indeed.

lol...