₦airaland Forum

bouncin04:
Is it just me, the Slawomiir above sounds unlike him

ArchiLtd:
Turn it to dumpsite because it's statues that are living there. You guys will just come to faceless forums and type empty comments. I don't know if it's just out of compulsion to contribute to the topic, no matter how the contribution sounds

Asgard73:
Plus support minus support ..

No Yoruba man will be president for a long time in Nigeria.

Power returns North.

Maybe you fit try your support

God1000:
Wow, what a great story.

Spaxon:
[center] when i say have worth before entering a relationship they'll say it's feminism......
even as a man, have worth before jumping into any ship...

it prevents what Hausa people call ''ireni wayo''
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KillIgbohoN0W:
Afonja wan use dead man gain cheap popularity/money.
Swear say you never Bleep since he die auntie.

ArewaNorth:
The mischievous history of how the library was built by public funds for the personal gain of OBJ is saddening.
Nigerians have been suffering by bad leaders for long. OBJ is equally a fraud and failure like his predecessors!

nairavsdollars:
Give the job to Carrick

NwaNimo1:
Mediocrity.......when others dey drop SUV?

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Toks2008:
I just hate it when men lie to ladies just to friend or wife them.
A real man comes clean, a lady who will stay will stay.

Hanibbal:
Go and help your mum in kitchen. She needs you to prepare dinner.

condralbedez:
Nonsense...This administration still remain the worst of it all,do you knw that a cup of beans now is 150 naira that's not the issue here,the real problem is how are you going to get gas to cook it.

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

abusira:
Was thinking say na Bisi Olatilo show b4 as I hear BOS...

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Juliusmomoh:
Am an igala guy but i love igbo people....

Igbo amaka!!!

PrinceOfLagos:
Tinubu will be disappointed at your comment

mission08:
Prefer is not the right word I think. It's just that mothers dote on their kids. It's just natural and it is necessary for their survival especially at infant stage. And again, children in their innocence love unconditionally and merely seeing them can be a solace.

Raising kids can be demanding and most husbands that complain that their wives devout too much time to the kids and none to him is obviously not involved in parenting. It can be very draining dealing with husbands that compete or want to be treated as babies.

Mercychen:
They are little children. So it's natural for her to care for them more than an adult whos already old enough to take care of himself. So it's not a matter of preference.

Shifting attention to the kids most time is not always a deliberate act by the woman because if you view this from a neutral angle, you'll agree with me that, a child can not be crying either because it's feeling irritated or hungry, while the mother is there caressing the fathers head just to show she cares about him .that would be unreasonable of her. In fact, it's you the husband that will shout at her to go and tend to the baby.

The only thing I think the mothers can do to strike a balance, is by making it up to daddy (at night) when everyone has gone to bed as that is when they can have time alone together. And daddy too should learn to exercise patience till that time.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

KingGBsky:
O wow... it’s 3: 1
I’m I dreaming? Rock on west ham... oh yeahhhhh