₦airaland Forum

Its normal to be shy around guys.

Its upbringing especially when your dad is all macho and dont have that total male dominance and it isnt exuding in you.

I was like that but how i overcame mine was:

As time got by i got my own pack.
Every male in life should get their own packs who will correct them, insult them, defend them, cheat them and even act as wingmen to them so they can get ladies and give them confidence until you dont need them again.

This is how you overcome it.

Or register for a martial art class preferably boxing

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright....though I got no idea about this band
But I must say right from onset we have been the real niggar of Africa

No
Na tribalism of the masses dey ruin us..
Nor be politicians ...lets start telling ourselves the truth and stop pretending if not this nation will be doomed in the nearest future
When a person from the three major tribe is the president..forget it you won't see a united protest from the masses...endsar protest the north didn't participate because their son was the president
Now with the hell we have been subjected to still no protest will happen because a son from a major tribe is the president( tinubu)...same thing will also occur if igbo man is the president

The only time we can see a united protest is when a person from minority tribe becomes the president...take for example subsidy removal of Jonathan in 2012...the whole nation united and there was protest despite the cheap and low cost of things...lets stop pretending...

I love intelligent people. Thanks..you are intelligent

Southwest and the yorubas have always been the ones in the frontline to protest or to start a protest in the country and even lost some of our own (during end sars).

The rest of the country has shown us tribalism and hatred against our kins and entity as a whole.

Now we not do such against

If you want to protest do so in your region please.

We will stand still for Asiwaju

kelly72:
It was a few weeks to the last governorship election in Edo State and that video surfaced online. It was Bola Ahmed_Adekunle Tinubu in a broadcast to the people of Edo State. He said he was the leader of all democrats in NIGERIA and he instructed them to vote for his anointed candidate so that Edo will come under his godfather cocoon and become one of his cash cows..

Of course before making that video, he would have already poured into Edo, hundreds of millions which were proceeds of his financial incest with Lagos and other States, hoping to reap bountifully if his boy won and controlled the treasury of Edo on his behalf. Of course he is still paying for his hopeless ambition to extend his corrupt empire to rein in a people whose history of elitism and political awareness is the longest in Nigeria.

Funnily and characteristically, it is the innocent voters on the street who came out to vote and go back home that are being accused of interfering in Lagos politics. They want to produce a president for Nigeria in an election where Nigerians from other tribes should not vote where they live.

Thank God you yanked off all the pretences by yourself and went ahead to show the world the self you've been denying.

Why will you settle down in your comfort zone and type lies you yourself made up with grammar which do not relate to the actual thing you are trying to state?

Why will Asiwaju interfere in Edo politics?

Show us the video where he was saying his anointed should be voted.

eldoradoxx:
Interfere in yours by not voting who you don't like, example voting for Bode Rhodes Vivor instead of Sanwo Olu,.isn't it?

Thats not the point if he merits it we will side him.

As it is he doesn't

kcnwaigbo:
Do you leave in the SE and SS? Every Nigerian is free to vote in their states of residence.We abide by the dictates of the constitution not by the dictates of political touts like you.

Don't claim right in another mans land as second-class citizen. I reside in the North infact all my life but the only right i have there is secondary.

I can only exercise my right to vote during the presidential election but governors is local.

We allow them do what they want

South West will not interfere in your politics (South East and South South) when time comes.

Vote who ever you want

Please dont interfere in ours.

That was how you all were gallivanting when soludo was newly appointed.

Now the same thing.

Instead to allow them to work first before hailing your Eastern leaders

But their orgasm will always rise to the rising of the sun.

This is what happens when the majority of Easterners forfeit their education for business
They can easily be deceived

Babathanks:
Trust me, there is no crime in selling your land to non indigenes. I was born and brought up in Rigasa in kaduna state. Hausa people there even prefer to dash we Yorubas land for free here. Our populations here in more than them. But they still like us. Do you know why they like us?. Is Because we never for once participate in there politics or religion cos is a red flag for us not to cross, 90% of us don’t vote. We prefer to go to our state and vote. Tell your brother to be a better visitor not trouble visitors

Exactly,

Many Igbos don't have common sense and respect for others. They just do things without thinking of tomorrow.

How will you from another region will want to influence other people from another region against their leaders and expect them not to attack you?

How will they partake in the politics and religion of their host community and even deride the culture and traditions of their host community and expect hands not to turn against them?

I also grew up in Kaduna and we respect the host community, their traditions and culture, and politics. We never interfere and they are fine with us.

The least we can do is vote in presidential election because it is a national thing but for the local elections we shove back our pvc.

We can not say we want to change the present government of kaduna because of our own gains. It will be like a statement of war.

Asake i believe

Briany:
Imagine how badly brutalised Nigeria has become? Normally, this shouldn't even be news. Ethnicity and religion has finished us in this country

Ethnicity and Religion is everywhere in the world. Don't act like you know all

orohbiro:
Nigerian politics na your mate? This life wey u dey climb u must get a spiritual back up either Christian or oboni if u do Nigerian politics with ordinary body sorry. Una know how many people wey Tinubu and Atiku done bury for ground to get power?

Why you no mention Obi?

You people like to put others down so your own can be idolized.

Eventually, everything will run its course

coputa:
A rolling stone gather no moss.Jumping from one job to another is akin to shooting oneself on the foot.

If you have a fairly modest job, stay put to ganer work experience and career growth while having your exit plan in focus.

When you stay in the dark for long, you will now begin to see light,of course nobody want to remain in servitude forever,so follow your exit plan judiciously and exit at the time when the ovation is loudest.

Wise words my man

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Tinubu was never accepted by Nigerians
He was rejected completely....

The warey that claimed osun origin ...but lost osun... osun rejected hime ...a ten year old can not lose their origin during election..even me a keyboard warrior, drunkard, weed smoker, gambler and pussy banger that got no business in politics can not lose uhunmwode local government area of Edo sate during election because that is my origin

Now he claims lagos and father of lagos still he lose lagos during election..lagosian rejected him

Abuja way Apc and he people dey still he lose there also

You are typing nonsense.

If you contest with another person from your region who dont bang pussy, not drunkard, dont smoke weed, not a criminal. You will not see draw.

Of course government should not run businesses. It will not last (we all know why)

Even in the developed countries their government contract businesses from different sectors to their entrepreneurs. Elon Musk got funding to build an underground tunnel for railways. Other global entrepreneurs and businessmen got funding of one way or the other for a landmark project in their country.

Government should be more of making enabling environment such as stable electricity, roads and railways for logistics, security for businesses and entrepreneurship and investment both locally and foreign.

lordkush:
okay. And tinubu will protect you when the cavalry comes. ? 🤣. Lol.

No one called Tinubu here

lordkush:
Zombies don’t care. Tinubu inauguration is all they want. Let Nigeria burn they don’t care. Tinubu must rule.

How much ? Sell Nigeria for Fulani people to kill ? Done !!!! Next ?

We stopped caring when they declared hatred for our tribe.

sholatech:
This is the candidate Lagosians shud have queued for in the last election. Cosmopolitan and professionally well versed.

You are right. The man knows his onions.

I have been following him for quite some times now. He is very vast and educationally sound.

Mitchy49:
The hungry young kids there are not indigene of the state. They are from Kano, Borno state. Nobody from the southeast can ever go hungry. I'm not Igbo but I have never seen an Igbo Beggar.

What is you saying ? Igbo beggers are many here in ABJ talk more of their homeland.

Infact after north they are second.

They just like charade.

They can fool you minorities but not we majority

pol23:
I’m a Yoruba man.
I never support your ambition, because I belief it’s selfish and not the best for Nigeria.
Lots of my friends and Family voted Obi, most of us believe he’s the right man for the job.
Tinubu won election in what many of us believe it’s rigged…
Several drama has unfolded since the election, most of which are abuse by the Easterners.
This made some of us to even doubt all what we believed about Obi.
It now seems like the Easterners just package Obi for everybody….
Harassment of Igbos in Lagos is also condemned, that’s one of the reason why many Yoruba are not on Tinubu’s side….
But as things are now…. It’s like we narrowly dodge a bullet with Obi…
The abuse since Tinubu won is way too much.
I remember the flood in Ekiti after election, some people were even jubilating….

This is really sad…

All this acts are what made few of us to start supporting Jagaban partially…

Welcome home Jagaban of Africa…. Location has changed from Lagos to FCT..

No one have to tell you before you support your own.

Every other are supporting their own or their political alignment and interest. Why will an igbo man forcely be telling me to vote his own because they want sea ports and other projects in their land.

Thank God most of our people are now seeing why they should always support their own.

In fact next election we are voting strongly for anything Yoruba. Other region has shown us why we you should always support our own too

Maybe he is telling the truth.

But the thing is we will exploit the religious divide obi instilled in the country in the next election period.

Let obi go and sit down for now.
Igbos should bring someone else

georgeakins:
Are you sure that is not an Ibo man who is pretending to be Hausa.

Ibos are terrible people.

Of course it might be. They have no shame and self-respect

Odin13:
Observe .. I’ve been more steady with norther
States ..

I support Obi.. simply because Apc southwest is trying to tribalise the whole election..

OBi is not in court to claim mandate as he said .. he said he’s after the process ..and illegally of the process ..
he has his point ..

Atiku is in court to claim his mandate ..

Atiku won kastina with deep margin..
sokoto
Kebbi
Bauchi
Zamfara..
Kaduna

And all evidence is there .. votes were heavily suppressed

See this hausa/fulani man o.

You don't even have shame saying Northern should become president again after buhari.

Which one is APC Southwest? You better say Yoruba so we know how to drag you.

And whenever we are having an election, the south west will start voting for anything Southwest henceforth. You think you people knows how to play the politics abi?

This is a nice move. Benue state has align!!

PulaPower:
Very good. The other wey them chest beat together don run away but they’ll nab them all. It’s all shades of wrong. They must really run a deep investigation..

Imagine an Arab man that’s living in USA to make a video record that he would invite ISIS to USA to protect them! Him & entire family won’t last 24hours..

You said USA?

When Iran threatened to destroy Isreal, isreal immediately declared a state of war with them.

goodnessme1:
That won't change anything because he's not on this alone.


If Rascals continue attacking Igbos in Southwest,Men from East will surely enter south west.
So they should better stop and limit their attack on social media, because anything physical attack again.............



Idiotic miscreants can't be attacking Igbos and their businesses while we fold our hands.

Since Nigeria security are useless and can't defend our people,we must defend ourselves by all means possible.



God bless all loves of freedom and peace.

They have been attacking always but its just talk without action you people are known for

No one deserves anything happening to them. We just have to earn our keep!!!

When they were overshowing the boy too much life they did not know this day will come ehn.

They warned you to marry a housewife you say na life of a party woman you want.

And that album is wack.
Let's be call out people in this country even if we loved them!!!

Angelfrost:
That doesn't answer my question!

I have traveled and lived in every region of this nation!... Your assertion about Southeast is laughable!

Yes, they have a serious leadership problem but there are more people suffering in the North, Middle belt, etc, than most states in the SouthEast!... Forget their recent crisis with Ipob/ESN (which is also a failure in state leadership)!

Now, let's get back on track...

How does a region producing a democratic president make them suddenly better than other tribes and regions who don't?!!

Jonathan was president for 6 years, yet even the North benefited more from the center than his very own people!

Obasanjo didn't do far more for his region than other regions... If memory even serves me well, he even withheld allocation to a state in his region for years!

What have the entire Northeners really gained from a Northern presidency since military till date?!!! How are their people more advantaged educationally, security-wise, and others?!!

So, why the constant fuss and noise about regional domination in national politics??!

Very good write-up here. True we don't need to call for regional domination in national politics because it has not helped anyone much or any region much.

You should know that since the emergence of democratic system of government. South west has not voted for a preferred candidate before like Tinubu since Abiola who did not rule.
OBJ was not our favorite hence we never expected him to do well. The allocation he withheld to a state just as you rightly said was Lagos state and it was because of bad blood between himself and Tinubu but Tinubu still thrive despite irrespectives.

Though we might have been canvassing and rallying round Asiwaju from the southwest. But he is not just a regional politician but a national one hate him or not he will deliver not only for Southwest but for Nigeria in the entirety.

Angelfrost:
Yet they and South-Westerners claim to be more politically smart and woke than every other region!

I have been asking them what all the years of Political dominance have earned their people...!

They are still dodging that simple question till date!

They come online to brag about winning elections and call people names like "Losers" and "Wailers" yet they are doing no better than others in their personal lives as citizens.

SouthWest is better and livable for hustle than the South East if you dont know. The ones enjoying are the ones who came out from that region to go to other regions where there is opportunity to hustle.

Most South Easterners in their region are suffering.

That is the vibe, sir Orji.

Go for what you want in life - Asiwaju

Yorubalandlord:
Look at what APC has turned yoruba into, because according to them "Igbos taunted" and like cry babies they decided to throw tantrum. Now we know what APC/Yoruba mumu button is. Trust that the button will be pressed countless time, maybe one day, yorubas will burn Lagos down with everything in it because 'Igbos are calling Lagos a No Man's Land' according to them. I've never seen this childishness in my entire life, and trust me I have lived quite long.

APC on behalf of Yorubas have opened Pandora's box. They can blame Igbo all the want, but every other ethnic group they have offended with their barbarism know where the fault lies. They know who turned them away from exercising their rights to vote. And it isn't Igbo.


Jesus this is so disheartening, can't believe this.
We yorubas aren't like this before Apc came into our lives, we were a sophisticated tribe and accommodators, what happened to that?

Now the whole world have seen through us and what we are, just because of a simple election.

Let us not our those bad eggs among us, soil our name to the general public.
Yoruba ronu oooo...

Oga you said a nice speech. But you still talked as if you are not a Yoruba person.

You don't know what is happening in Nigeria. If you know you will not be saying all this.

Do you think it's about APC leaders?? But no. Its not.

They then Igbos have said an act more than the dont need to do in Yoruba land. We have kept quiet for long but know no more.
They disrespect your culture, your heritage your kings and you are still blabbering like a woke person.

There is many things to talk about on this issue so if you want to talk lets talk.

How will a whole ethnic groups/tribe says Tinubu is not good for President and they all went to assassinate his character when southwest has said he is the one they want. Then how do you want his kinsmen to react. To fold hands and watch right.

Yorubas like you need to ronu

pol23:
I’m from Ibadan myself, and I’m not in anyway Biased…. I talked about the unknown gunmen ravaging the East too….

Oh!

There is a fault line in our country. Its not just from politicians but from we the people.

pol23:
This evil politicians will someday burn off this country.
We the masses will be cheering them.
There's no line that is beyond the political space in Nigeria.
Imagine the (naira swap) suffering everyone is going through just because of politics.
Imagine how many people have been assassinated cause of politics.
Imagine how a whole Emir of Kano was sent to exile.
Imagine how Igbo peoples shop and livelihood was burnt in Lagos few days ago.
Someone is currently reading this and he/she is happy because it happens to a particular party.
When I was growing up we always have ethnic and religious war.... The killing of Christain in the north.
Jos crisis, Ife-Modakeke war, Agege abattoir crisis.
All the above are no more or has reduced drastically, politicians has filled up the space of the available evil in the country.
Bokoharam and herdsmen issue are political.
Unknown Gunmen is also political.... I remember when many people are cheering the unknown gunmen... Now, you see the beast you've created.
If we keep politics with everything, we will end up worse than Sudan.

You just blamed the west and the north with your bias good speech