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I like your stance, you seem ready to call the bluff if she aint ready. There are many ready girls out there.
Two options, since there is no guarantee that after the introduction she wants and she goes for her master abroad that she would come back, she is only 22 and seem unstable and dont know what she want at the moment(She might find someone better than you and begin to act disinterested)

To avoid a likely heartbreak due to the uncertainty of her return to you after she completes her masters abroad and since you aint ready to sponsor her masters at the moment,

The first option would be tell her you aint ready to be trapped by an introduction, you want to get married to her before she goes for her master's.

The second option is to begin to search for a replacement with immediate effect because she is been adviced against you by her folks.Discuss the options with your Parents.

Blame game + Lies Unlimited =APC government

brize:
Someone remind me the country i govern. You know i am a dullard-

Even though its dissapointing, watching the dismal performance of the Buhari led APC government. This your picture of Buhari get as e be.Though super funny. LMAO.Hahahaha

I have lived in the North before.Those Fulani folks are super dangerous and wicked.If you mess with them, their revenge no get part 2.

Its usually massive and unprecedented. Since Buhari won't call them to order, the way out is to live in peace with them and allow them be.

senbonzakurakageyoshi:
What. A. Christian. We should show this to your children if or when you have any. I'm sure you would approve of usage of certain choice words from your above statement.

What. A. Christian.

My Bible tells me to "answer a fool according to his folly lest he thinks he is wise". Its in Proverbs find where it is.Thats your next assignment since you have become monitoring spirit since I ignored all your senseless response.

Besides I shouldnt be replying an irrational folk like you.Nevertheless, Be aware that I wont dignify you with a further response.

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sweetgala:
You do know the three links you put up address the same incident, I don't know if you actually are familiar with the incident you have so graciously provided links to so I'll put here the exact words quoted


“if Jesus criticises Jonathan’s government, Maku, Abati or Okupe will say that he slept with Mary Magdalene”.

It would be stupid for any individual to take offence for the above statement because it is an indictment of the media aides of Jonathan at the time who did not relent to leave the arena of discussion and drag whomever it was through the mud.

You are doing just that yourself, because el rufai was a critic he has been falsely labelled a bigot by yourself, so by comparison if Jesus criticized one of your champions I'd hate to see the threads and words used to describe him and the wild allegations that would be thrown at his person.

It is obvious both you and CAN lack the capacity to comprehend English language well enough, but then CAN was safely in the control of Ayo Oritsejafor and PDP,one can expect such. The word "if" addresses the subject and presents an important clause , I'm sure programmers on NL understand the importance of the "if" statement as it sets precedence for what is to follow.

You then went on to include an attachment of a scripture from the Qur'an, I wake up some mornings and decide to share a biblical text I come across as I feel inspired , el rufai is a practising Muslim which is yet to be a moral crime in Nigeria and he decided to share a scripture and to your bigoted mind that is wrong.

You may need a psycho analysis done on you soon , I'm not sure you are fit to roam around freely

If you want to address what I raised without any modicum of civility, I would show you that I can be that way If I choose because no one has a monopoly on the use of abusive statements.

You are a super stupid idiot who cant agree that you and your islamic religious misguided fools are a major part of the reason we have wantom destruction of lives and property not just in Nigeria but in other parts of the world, we saw what happened in brussels, Paris recently.You and your idiotic midget called elrufai who has lost touch of priority and pressing matters that affect the socio-economic status of Kaduna state but instead choose to dabble into unnecessary religious controversy in a supposed volatile state which has enjoyed relatively stability in the past few years to stir up religious tension. You so so daft to appreciate the sensitivity of the matter.

You are a moronic idiot who cant understand that the motives of my submissions has been to expose the midget called elrufai for his islamic bigotry and hatred for the Christian faith by bringing a law that is against the constitution mandating freedom of worship.

He has been warned to leave the christian faith alone, his life is on the line should he choose to go ahead.

He can call the bluff and go ahead, we would see.

sweetgala:
It is obvious moat folks don't know this because it is based on crude assumptions because he has chosen to go down a road which many are uncomfortable with.

I'll date you place any proof, that el rufai is a bigot expanding on the reasoning that concluded this sad description. I know you have none but I'll entertain you

El rufia displaying his religious bigotry

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/01/can-blasts-el-rufai-over-alleged-comment-on-jesus-christ/


http://pointblanknews.com/pbn/press-releases/el-rufai-defiles-jesus-christ-on-twitter/


http://www.sharpedgenews.com/index.php?option=com_k2&view=item&id=1227:el-rufai-under-fire-for-blasphemous-tweet&Itemid=692

senbonzakurakageyoshi:
Oh, so apparently, all the Muslim religious leaders preach discord and strife and ask their followers to kill non-adherents, right? Because that is what you are clearly implying. You have never been in a mosque or listened to an imam preach but you "already know" he's preaching hatred, all from the comfort of your bedroom. Tell me how that mindset is not bigoted.

BTW, aren't there Muslims in the South West and the rest of the North were there isn't religious violence? How come they haven't been stirring up trouble if, by the implications of your statements, it's what Muslim leaders teach? Stop acting persecuted for the sake of pity. It's not christianly. And yes, I'm a Christian too.

From a global perspective. Islam and its hateful preachings and religious extremism and offcourse the result ISIS, Boko Haram, Shites, and the likes.

http://foreignpolicy.com/2015/11/09/islam-is-a-religion-of-violence-ayaan-hirsi-ali-debate-islamic-state/


https://africanreporter./2014/05/21/the-emergence-of-boko-haram-from-religious-intolerance-to-religious-terrorism-in-nigeria-2/


http://www.jihadwatch.org/2015/07/france-deports-40-imams-for-hate-speech

http://pamelageller.com/2015/08/the-washingtonpost-laments-arrest-of-notorious-islamic-hate-preacher-anjem-choudary-attacks-sean-hannity-fox-news-and-pamela-geller.html/


http://www.gatestoneinstitute.org/3425/islam-extremism


http://brighterbrains.org/articles/entry/boko-haram-and-the-threat-of-islamic-extremism-in-africa

There are so many articles detailing how flawed your argument is.I dont have your time, reacting to you with your flawed and irrational argument is condescending and unnecessary.

I remain resolute.Its Islam that needs to be regulated.

Besides you are not a christian, you are a fake maybe a muslim or traditionalist so go deceive yourself but certainly not me.

sweetgala:
You lost me in the second paragraph, like el rufai clearly stated any time someone brings religion into the equation as a means of attacking another individual it is a clear sign they have no principle of their own and losing the argument.

In the absence of any proof why did you label El Rufai a bigot. It is a wicked, dishonest and ridiculous thing to say. I don't even have to think hard to know the kind of person you are.

Goodnight

First and foremost, this is El rufai's Proposal to regulate religion that is been debated for its rationality and relevance its not a matter of bringing religion into it or not. Its looking at the proposal and making informed statements on its true aim. El rufai antecedents shows that he is a bigot, I need not delve in to bring facts because most folks know this. Nevertheless, if my submission offends you, that my opinion based in facts.

Good night.

sweetgala:
Yh obviously did not read the OP from El Rufai because if you did you wouldn't claim how would the government vet who is right or wrong.

The answer is simple the government wouldn't , it has setup two parallel bodies obviously comprised of registered CAN members and qualified priests and Imams recognised by the paramount bodies in the nation who have a duty to issue and withdraw a licence to any preacher as is required, based on principles as defined by faith.

Nigeria is a secular state however the FG only recognises two religions in official capacity and that is Christianity and Islam. We don't need to complicate things, the law is a good thing and should be supported.

It puts an end to the nuisance in Nigeria.

While it is true that the bill proposes a setting up of two parallel bodies for the regulation of christianity and islam, a fact deliberately omitted is that in the bill its stated that the governor shall recommend someone to preside and perharps perform an oversight functions over the two parallel bodies perharps to finalise approval.

Who would El rufai appiont to oversee the 2 parallel bodies? he been an islamic religions bigot would certainly appoint a muslim and Not a christian, the implication is that, the person appointed would make it hard for the church and easy for the mosque to do their thing.

The bill fails in equality and rationality in many respect.

senbonzakurakageyoshi:
http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2016/01/18/redeemed-pastor-sent-to-prison-over-n100m-lekki-land-fraud/

http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/194024-efcc-arrests-pastor-for-n200m-fraud.html

http://omojuwa.com/2015/06/see-scam-of-fake-miracle-by-a-popular-nigerian-pastor-caught-on-camera-video/

https://www.naij.com/609202-meet-nigerian-pastor-possessed-devil-defrauded-parishioners-100-million.html


Need more?

Whatever alleged atrocities these so called pastors commited do not represent the behaviour of majority of Pastors in the christian faith, besides these are mere allegations which has not been proven to be true. If the Pastors truly committed a crime, has a competent court deemed them guilty, I doubt that. Besides I didnt see how I could have been scammed by what you posted.

Besides a Pastor, just like other folks, are not immune from commiting a crime, because they are humans, that's why we have criminal laws to address such issue in a competent court of law.

senbonzakurakageyoshi:
And some Christian adherents have used it hoodwink, scam, mislead people and promote discord and the evidence is there for any rational person to see, so what's your point?

Hoodwink who? mislead who? in what way and promote discord how, give examples and not make empty, vague and deliberately misleading statements you cant substantiate.

I havent been scammed, hoodwinked or mislead about the truth which is obvious from the Bible guiding the christian faith. I believe in Unity. So what are you trying to say?

Lies unlimited =APC government

Even zombies refused to believe this one.haha

Walelavender:
That doesn't mean there aren't some faults in the way some clerics practice Christianity. From the blast of public address system during worship to the 'heartfelt' prayers generating noise during vigils. We have to tell ourselves the truth. The practice of the two major Religions in Nigeria hasn't brought us the needed change,morally, in our society. The hues and cry isn't worth it. The Christians were identified in Antioch simply because of their Christ-like attitude, they couldn't help it but to call them 'Little Christ'. We are frustrating the grace of God upon our lives in this nation. The earlier we know, the better.

Given your stated facts, which is subjective because the moslems also disturb the peace of the neighbourhood with their daily early morning call to prayers through their mosque speakers. Yet the bill doesn't put a restriction on that yet, its restricting the practice of religion till 8pm, when christians most likely have evening services or start their vigil which is not every day.Christianity has impacted the lifes of its adherents positively with many instances community outreaches embarked by some churches, the changed lifes from bad to good by its faithful is there.
In Islam, terrorism and hate messages are taught "Kill the infidels at all cost" bombing, shooting, abduction of school girls, terrorising the populace or forcing them to convert or die.

If religion must be regulated.Its Islam that should be regulated because some of it adherents use it as a tool to cause mayhem and destruction.The evidence is there for every rational indiindividual to see.

Secondly, the bill also makes it a crime to play christian music or preaching in the comfort and privacy of my car, which in many cases isnt really disturbing anyone.

You have no point, you are just one of the misguided fellows out there, who cant discern the times and appreciate the sensitivity of the matter and encourage the need for caution and appropriate and relevant stakeholder engagement before pursuing and engaging in such needless religious controversy because the elrufai is a Islamic political rascal who thinks he is a small lord.

He has been warned, to leave christianity alone or face the consequences.

He is a Muslim and not qualified to regulate christianity practice. He is not God.He can do that of Islam.

Walelavender:
If the piece was read with a rational mind, it's obvious the bill was put together to address the wrong indoctrination in Islam that often gives birth to terrorism.
El-Rufai is undoubtedly a Muslim, so what is the fuss about the criticism?
We hardly read in this country. Why not take time to scrutinise the bill before crucifying the man? He is even ready to make changes to suite stakeholders. Wisdom is the principal thing....all wailers and zombies of this bill should get it!

If the bill was designed to address the wrong indoctrination in islam which spur islamic revolt, why include Christianity?

If the law is truly targeted at preventing hate and extremist preachers.Like the examples he gave, its only rational to target the law against the false propagation of Islam whose religion it affects mostly, example the shites, boko haram and the likes and leave Christianity out of it since we dont do that. Its a subtle attempt to stifle Christianity, but the blind cant see.
No wahala.

He and others here are mocking the prophetic word of the Apostle,
Its clear, the stage is set for something to happen.Time for powers to be tested has come according to the Apostle.
Does God comfirm the word of his servant? We shall see.
If the Apostle truly spoke by the anointing of the Holy Ghost.El rufai sorry in advance.

All you people who claim religion is regulated in developed countries and preachers need licence to preach how stupidly ignorant can you be.The picture is in the US showing a student preaching unrestricted without any license.

EL rufai stirring up unnecessary religious controversy when there are pressing economic issues that needs to be addressed.How does the law improve revenue generation? When a religious bigot is in power, its always obvious.

El rufai, you've been warned.Go ahead at your own peril.

SambisaaForest:
A country steeped in shame, devoid of honour and any shred of dignity. Even Satan himself must be weary of what he created in Nigeria because the country is more evil that the combined forces of the entire army of darkness.

modafaka! do you remember the last time your fumbling,wobbling super chickens beat the Mighty Blacks Stars? I am sure you were not born then


Nigeria jagajaga, Everything scatter scatter Poor man dey suffer suffer Gbosa, gbosa, gunshot inna de air.

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When last did the useless black stars or any level of Ghana football win a trophy.
Please get out and stop your empty rantings here.

Nigeria is a blessed country, inspite of our temporal challenges, your ranting doesnt change that.

Barcelona trio didnt do eneough to live up to the billing in todays Classico.I am sure Atletico might cause an upset in tuesday CL match.

SambisaaForest:
stop talking like a foool,huh? it is a fact that that sh1thole you call country is just a useless armpit country. even sef Fela talk am abi? Big-for-nothing country with your size and population, we still rule your dirty azzes in football, education etc. hahahahahaha big-for-nothing country abeg I no wan laugh huh/ Laugh wan kill me sef.

the world's 7th largest producer of crude oil cannot provide common electricity for its impoverished citizens?

did you say blackie? Ooh I forgot shitnigerians are white skinned such inferiority complex no wonder the sh1thole is the bleaching capital of the world
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You must be the super fool.Rule who? Maybe in your dream. Which education, which football (When last did Ghana win a trophy of International repute)
Even if our electricity is not sufficient, you guys still beg for electricty and Natural gas from us.
Besides what are you doing trolling our forum because, I guess in Ghana you dont have the know how to put together such an enlightening forum like Nairaland.So get out of our forum and go to your empty and good for nothing forums in your country.

O0XYGEN:
Meanwhile the total number of mumugerians in Ghana exceeds the number of mumugerians in all other countries put together.
You live in a useless good for nothing country so be mindful of what you say about a country far better than the zoo u hail from.

People are raising their voice even you idiotic blackie(Na charcoal God use create una sef) from a mediocritic Ghana is raising your voice.
Abeg get out.Before I vex.
Small Ghana of yersterday is talking to Nigeria, their elder brother.You nor even fear.

This is how a reasonable governor should do things.When you make people leave their property because of a government project, its proper to compensate them.

This is what is called responsible governance unlike what the midget and herod of Kaduna called hell-rufai is doing to people whose building he is demolishing.

People dey go better countries like UK, France, Canada, Germany, US. Ghana sef they form you must get visa to come here.Na wa oh.

What would one, want to do or see in Ghana sef.

I hope the Nigerian foreign affairs office replicate the same policy to them too.

MadCow1:
Bro!! If my Alma Mata that is ranked in the top 25 Universities in Africa is an AKARA school, Check UNIBEN's ranking and find a suitable adjectives to qualify UNIBEN..



Typical UNIBEN student.. Throwing stines when they live in a glass house..

You would have also claimed its in the top 25 Universities in the world. Smh!!!

You wanted to thrash my school when yours is not better and expect to not get a rebuttal.You must think again.

scholes0:
Yes, I am a misguided and narrow minded man from the local osun state which is headed by the bearded clueless man....... lol......... buffon
This "LOCAL" firm is not setting any precedence, As this has been going on among PRIVATE employees for ages, it is not a new development, Ode. I am pretty sure companies in your exposed tribal part of the country do the same (If they have any)

You call it a local firm, yet you want it to become National.... lol, keep contradicting yourself in your desperate attempt to sound like an exposed he-goat.

Unfortunately, people like you in your narrow, local and tribalistic mind are a major part of the reason why Nigeria, a country with so much potential find it difficult to unite, put differences aside, promote collective good and interest and achieve its greatness like developed Nations and take its position as number 1 in Africa and a major force in the world.
The firm is called local because they behave like one.

MadCow1:
Ofcourse Total filling Station will employ UNIBEN graduates..


Somebody has to sweep the filling station everyday before the start work..

Total filling station offcourse dont employ Uniben graduate maybe they employ people like you from your Akara school.

Your misguided mind is so ignorant that you think TOTAL is a filling station.

When TOTAL employ UNIBEN graduates they send them abroad for training, They send them to carry out responsibilities offshore and onshore on any of their platforms because they are value adding graduates unlike bunch of liabilities from your akara school.

scholes0:
lol, see mumuism....
Yes Yorubas are the most tribalistic in Nigeria.... congratulations. Are you happy now?
Your tribe is not tribalistic at all..... They love everyone like family, infact they offer free jobs from Daura up to Ikot ekpene..... to them, everything is 'One Nigeria"
Olodo...

You are just a misguided and narrow minded fellow who cant think broadly because you are confined to some local place perharps in Osun state headed by the bearded failing and clueless governor. I am not tribalistic, people from my tribe are open minded and accommodating unlike yours because we believe in the Unity of Nigeria.
That local firm is setting a bad precedent for which if followed by other regions would not be good.

Given an option, its not better to want to work for such local firm which restricts employment to a certain part of the country or region.Research has shown that It affects the socio-mental balance of the work place and limit creativity.

Its better to be in an establishment with a fair representation of different schools, different cultures, different regions.

scholes0:
Gerrarahia....
Since when did your people start loving Yorubas for them to reciprocate? ..... lol you don see mumu people abi?

You too get out of here!!!

Arrant Nonsense. You can't counter my submission with a relevant fact because its the truth and its obvious, hence your empty ranting.

Yoruba local employer employing people only from schools located in yoruba land, Not suprised!!!

Now I believe the saying that yoruba folks are the most tribalistic in Nigeria.

MadCow1:
No UNIBEN... Not Surprised..


Even in my Poultry, I will not employ anybody that even lived near UNIBEN talkless of schooling there.

When better firms, like TOTAL and the likes are employing, you observe UNIBEN products are well represented unlike the supposed Akara school you graduated from. You must be super silly.

This is what is called the divident of change.We warned the zombies, now look at the outcome.
Enjoy the change from fair(PDP) to worse(APC)

When TB joshua said sometime ago before last year election that PDP is bad but APC is worse, little did I know that he has seen ahead now we see the realities everyday.