₦airaland Forum

Was there no gutter nearby for him to lay inside also..nansense!

olaboy33:
It appears there are cliques within these "men of God".

I wonder why he didn't visit Late Tb Joshua Widow.

I will accept religion and become a pastor the day one of these " men of God " go the hospital and heal those who are truly sick rather than pay for hospital bills.

Did Bishop Oyedepo have any relationship with TB Joshua.. wakanda daft and stupid statement is that..do you visit random people you don't know or have any relationship with or do they visit you?

Bishop Oyedepo who didn't talk to or relate with TB Joshua when he was alive should suddenly visit his widow because he is a hypocrite right.

You TB Joshua proteges are nothing but nuisance talking chaff everywhere..

ziondaughter247:
See this lowlife ooh! Which abroad you dey? India abi Bangladesh? I am talking about original abroad, UK, USA, Canada not your type. Anuohia. You go to another man's land and still be forming that you will mistreat your wife because you brought her over! You no dey shame? If visa officer no give you visa to India or Bangladesh, you still go dey your village oooh...Real men built their societies, that's why everyone desires to go there. But see the way African men are using abroad(another man's land ooh) to pose. There's really something wrong with the black man! Shameless lots

I lived in France for a while and now Canada for over 6 years and know first hand what the situation is regarding the disaster 9ja women have become who were brought over as wife..because you are a useless loser who haven't smelled plane doesn't mean I don't know what I am saying.

Look at this useless nonentithy talking about India Bangladesh...who goes there?..is that were you are..did you check my posts over the years to know where I live or you are just one of those noise making nuisances here defending the shitty trend that have come to be identified with 9ja women brought abroad as wives..

Real men built societies and the women did what..frying akara in the kitchen? been a liability to everyone around them like we see in 9ja..right? Get out of here..nonsense.Where I have been to by grace I am sure no one in your useless poverty decorated generation have smelled there.

Acidosis:
If you marry a woman that fears God (or at least her responsible parents), relocating abroad shouldn't be a problem. If the love you both share is all you rely on to see you through, then you're already f**ked.

Something or someone must be able to tame a man or woman to remain sane at every given point. It could be morals, parents, or religion (not the seductive owanbe type of Christians we have in Nigeria though).

If some men can be 100% loyal to their family back in Nigeria despite the opportunity to oppress, misbehave, and marry multiple women, then women can't be all bad when they relocate. Knowing who to marry seems to be the major problem. You can't marry a money-conscious god-less, irreligious Nigerian lady with feminist tendencies and expect her to remain sane when an opportunity is presented. What exactly is going to tame her? Love abi romance?

You couldn't have said it any better

ImaIma1:
They always forget to add what they did to the wives to make them turn out that way. How have they treated their wives so far?

That's not always the case.A bad woman don't need any ill treatment to screw things up..
If she has bad friends, she will mess up
If her family or mom is controlling her, she will mess up.
If she is a pretender,when she comes abroad she will manifest her true evil character and deal with the man after taking advantage of the system that favours women

I won't pretend like there are not men that are abusive to their wives abroad..which the system doesn't really tolerate..but that is not always the case. I know a case where the wife lied to the police that the husband was abusive so they could boot him out of the house but oga was smarter and had secret camera which revealed the truth..

Gkemz:
I will never take my spouse to abroad if she's a nurse, doctor or medical practitioner. Also if she's driven by peer influence, I will never take that risk.

Even if she comes abroad she needs to re-train and re-licence to practice there which is not any easy feat. However not all 9ja girls brought abroad end up as disaster mistakes..there are a few say 15% of them who don't change and remain as the good god fearing girl that she is because her christianity has root and probably comes from a family that value marriage and good upbringing.

The thing is praying to God to help you find a woman in that 15% because without God the chances you will find a bad 9ja disaster wife is very high because most of them pretend heavily.

Although I am based in Canada..my aunty in Houston would always be warning me having seen the disaster a number of Nigerian women have become in marriages over there, she will say be careful oh, no bring anyhow girl oh..be careful..check her well oh.. because of too many stories that touch

TheGreatOne90:
Joke of the year. It will be easier for a camel to pass the eye of a needle, than for our own naija sisters, to carry there man go abroad. It will never happen

I know some abroad based women that brought their husbands from Nigeria..but in proportion to men who brought their wives..its 1:9. How many women in Nigeria can organize their way with millions and relocate abroad..themselves..they aren't many unlike the guys.

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland boys, get a life! Always looking for every avenue to bash women. Even those that have no hope of ever travelling to Cotonou in this life will come here and spill trash! So many women file for their husbands to join them abroad, so no biggy!
Abroad no be Nigeria, anybdy wey do anyhow go see anyhow! That is how a sane society works. All the rubbish you would get away with in a disorganized corrupt society like Nigeria, you can't try it over there in civilised society. With the way many of you behave here, don't dare step your dirty feet abroad, because you will surely end up in jail! Lazy entitled corrupt Nigerian men. No one get una time for abroad. That's why most of you are in prison or homeless when abroad..shioor

You should shut up..i have lived abroad for almost a decade and the stories here on how 9ja women leave their husband is a trend known by many..you can't come and talk thrash here at 9ja men because you presume the contributors to this topic live in 9ja..instead of recognizing the thrashy and dishonest way Nigerian wives now conduct themselves abroad and the need to do better..

kolnel:
I won't advise anyone to bring a wife here.
90% of couples who migrated here get divorced within years.
yeah, I do know few who are still together, but its a game of chance.

No mind them.Let them not hear

If you take your wife abroad there is a 80% chance she will leave you..making you look like an idiot in the end after sponsoring her with millions.Too many stories that hurt by 9ja men from USA,Canada and UK.

What most guys don't know is that these women pretend a lot in Nigeria once they come abroad and see how the system favours women they start having ideas from bad friends and she takes advantage of the system even more than the white women and in some cases lie on the guy head to the police so they can boot him out of his house and give him restraining order..then divorce him eventually and leave him with neither root nor branch.

Some men can't take that pain and end up killing their wives..that's why we saw a certain trend in the USA at some point of 9ja men murdering their nursing wives..
There are good 9ja women who come abroad and don't change because their character and fear of God is genuine but they are less than 15% of such 9ja women..the remaining of them..nah scam them be.

In most cases very particular with igbo girls brought over as wife..if you hear stories ehn

Lexusgs430:
Is a man allergic to house chores or it's only women that must do house chores?...

If they are both paying the bills they must both share in the house chores but if its the man paying all the bills the woman must do the chores without complaining..

ednut1:
For every bad news there are more than 1000 married people enjoying their marriages abroad. Both men and women do all sort of rubbish abroad.
1. No house maid abroad, yet you allow your wife to work and do all chores alone. Some even demand for fresh food. Wont she divorce you after

2. Some men have been beating the wife from Nigeria, the day you slap her here she called police. Is it not justified

3. You cheat without shame, she con do you strong thing. Is she not justified

4. Some bring women abroad and tell her to use your account as salary account. Then you give her a fraction of her own salary o.

The law favours women too because for centuries men have had the advantage. The system corrupts them too, they hear things, see things at work places and lawyers working on commission bases plenty. A woman is entitled to your house after divorce especially if kids are involved, na you go leave. Child support and alimony too dey. Who no like free benefits



Abeg i don tire for man and woman matter hahaha

Not really true..in most case they arrived at a deal..sell the house and split the money or they reach an agreement for either to keep the house or car or whatever..its not in law.

Aufbauh:
It happened to me too, and it's very common in Abuja.
It's so demoralizing and discouraging listening to people you've held in high esteem in the Christendom spilling hate, inciting congregants to be lawless and so on.

Any church that spilled hatred from the pulpit against anyone or tribe, incite people against constituted authority, lump unfounded conspiracy theory to arouse sentiment, count me out.

The conviction i have had as a Christian is that of love and not of hate, for God is love. So anything outside this is heretical to me.

Will a prophet Elijah not call out the evils of King Ahab.. the prophets of God in scriptures were specialist in crying out against wickedness, evil kings, injustice and the need for the people and kings to return back to God.Thats not hatred in anyway. Any man of God that don't speak against evil..I will wonder which God called him
So you are fake Christian..you were never a true Christian..nonsense.

People are been murdered and oppressed by the wickedness and incompetence of disaster Buhari leadership..you think if a prophet Elijah was in the land he will keep quiet?

The man of God Bishop Oyedepo sent by the Lord to warn Nigerians not to vote in Buhari in 2015 or else disastrous blood calamity with be their portion having seen ahead...he cried..he begged but Nigerians with their coconut head told him to keep quiet and still went ahead..now see the result!

Dem wan kee United.. see pressure..

advanceDNA:
Nigerian women?? Them no dey like this parole

If them spoil you..na boxers, singlet..some Don dey upgrade to cufflinks shaa

But altogether.........the slogan still remains:

“my money is money, but his money his for both us”

Especially that we both pay..for 9ja woman ..nah not happening.lol

Hathor5:
So you can also love your wife when she cheats? Or is faithfulness a condition?

What does Jesus say about adultery in marriage? Go and find out first before asking me stupid question?

Calitoscassius:
[s]Is this rubbish supposed to make sense?

Clearly you cannot use your brain. Pastor bottom licker[/s]

Garbage reprobate get out in Jesus Name. Find something productive with your useless frustrated nonentithy poverty decorated life. Attacking pastor and churches will only increase your frustration.

Kobojunkie:
Those are Paul's words, not God's. God's Word is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ's instructions to all His followers is that regardless of marital status, they each love each one another just as He, Jesus Christ, loved them.

That instruction was not meant for only husbands towards their wives.

So the Bible is selected God's word.Lmao
The bible view on Marriage is clear in Ephesians Husband love your wife,wife submit to your husband in all things.

No confuse anybody by saying nonsense Abeg.. it's Paul's word..its not God's word..what of David's word..Moses word..Elijah word..Peter word. Abeg go and get transformed instead of talking error here.

wale81:
Pastor bashers will soon start. Nothing the church does is good enough.

You know nah their food don ready..yeye useless reprobates.

Calitoscassius:
Nigeria has more poor people than rich people, ofcourse! It would appear as if crooked pastors and doing a good job. Maybe if politicians did their jobs their would be no pastors pretending to be rasing people. Infact, if nigeria was better no one would need pastors or churches.

In nigeria there are more churches than hospitals, so poor people go to church when they are ill to seek fake healings rather than hospitals. If there are more hospitals than churches people wouldn't need churches,pastors and their false hopes and fake healings.

Pastor and church hating devil sighted.
Na hatred and frustration go kee you las las.

All those reprobate nonentithy devils that were insulting Pst Paul yersteday because he was in Trump towers for 2 days ministerial assignment in Chicago, you will notice they are blind deaf and dumb today on this noble effort by the pastor couple. If its to run their useless mouth to cuz him, you will see them liike possesed dogs talking Chaff insulting him. If you are like that, you need deliverance and help to change! If not you will remain a frustrated and useless poverty decorated nonentithy.

Iyaebe:
Proceeds from extortion,kudos anyway

Did he extort you or your fada money..if not my friend shut up!

Hathor5:
Do you agree?

I am watching a series and in one of the episodes a couple goes to see a marriage counselor. She tells them that marriage is not about unconditional love but an agreement to show up the best we can. It is meant to challenge each spouse to bring out the best in them.

How useful is this kind of advice?

The word of God is the standard not some nonsense series or episode ..husband love your wife as Christ love the church.
Which is an unconditional and sacrificial love

Jochabed:
What kind of question is this? He was invited to the US for a program, his host lodged him in the Trump Towers, what under the heavens is wrong with that? If you as an individual strive to have a better life so as to have the good things of life, what's wrong with pastor's having the good things of life? Mind you Jesus Christ our savior said and I qoute " I became poor so that you might be rich" Stop all this unnecessary sentiment.

Are you minding these possesed reprobate pastor/church hating nonentities useless possessed pharisee devils here. Do you expect anything better to come out from their cursed mouth..is like Satan saying Jesus is Lord, it's impossicant nah!

Iyaebe:
Are these men truly men of God?They are so materialistic,flashy and wealth conscious.I wonder if this is what Christ lived for.Humans should reach out to God directly and not through any medium(men of God) because there's no barrier between God and anyone and He needs no medium to seek him.Be wise.

What is flashy about that pic?
Who are you to validate if Pst Paul Enenche is A man of God or not? A nonentithy like you is to infinitesimally small and inconsequential to talk chaff against Pst Paul.

Nonsense folks like you would probably be blind, deaf and dumb to videos and pictures of Pst Paul and his wife distributing food to the less priviledge and widows, providing scholarships to young people,constructing roads but as he is in a hotel in Trump towers for a 2 day ministerial assignment in Chicago, you now have the temerity to yarn nonsense.

No wonder people like you and your type are always at the back and often poverty decorated and permanently frustrated and saturated with consistent schedule of destiny failure.

FalseProphet1:
She's a blind witch!

Blind witches are people whom their ancestors dedicated to their deity without their consent and most times before they were born.

You can either experience good luck or repeated tragedy during your encounters with them cos there's always a demon attached to them at birth after the rituals to enforce certain covenants in their life.

If you don't back off now, you will experience a higher level of frustration and end up comitting suicide.

This I have seen.

First time I am hearing this..interesting

I am sure he was a useless wicked husband that's why she didn't want to stay in the house with him and planned to travel again..which he later proved. What a disaster loss.

Bring the tithes and I will rebuke the devourers(rats) for your sake says the Lord..lmao. if you like ignore this.lol

Listen to news
Listen to discussions and note how ideas are expressed
Read more
Take note of how sentences are made
You pick up by that.

Thank God for Mendy oh..if not no way this match no suppose end draw or Chelsea losing.

Martinez39s:
I don't blame you, it is Ole I blame. Premier fans, especially Liverpool and Man City fans, don't know their mates again. United remains the best.

Oboy wake up and wash your face..
United glory days ended with the retirement of Fergie
United which best..lmao!