₦airaland Forum

While I agree a guy should have a reasonable source of income before settling down with his lady.
Using that as a criteria to trash "not yet arrived guys" is highly misguided.
The problem of girls like you is that you want an already made man whose future is uncertain.The ability to provide is not static, its relative and changes.
A guy might be earning say 100,000 while another guy might be earning 300,000.
People like you would choose the guy earning more because your are motivated by material gains and is unaware of the possibility of the guy earnin lower to earn higher due to favourable condition such as possibly winning a big time contract or changing job.(I knew of a guy who a girl rejected perhaps for his status. Shortly after he landed NNPC job, she wanted to come back, but offcourse, no one wants to marry an idiotic gold digger, he rejected her in a most embarrassing way)

while the guys condition earning more can change in a moment for the worse due to a number of reasons.

When you marry for material gains.Any thing you see. Take it.

adeaks:
But that's the point. The guy is working to better himself but you don't want to give him a chance. You only want someone who has already 'bettered' himself. So if I am already made and I can see that that's the main reason you are going out with me, it means I can replace you at anytime with other girls because you are not adding anything to me. You are only taking away.

Thats how majority of 9ja girls are, an example is the OP. Bunch of liabilities with the collect collect mentality looking for mugurized magas to milk. With zero motivation to add value.
while I agree with the idea that its the man responsibility to provide, the womans responsibility is to enhance the mans ability to provide and contribute at her level to running the family and not be a liability.

Fine girl like her and still very good in barbing.
Interesting. I doubt if she can handle all her customers.

A massive revolution is the only way out.
Either revolt or continue to suffer.

I have checked that most great countries were birth on the platform of revolution when things got so bad.

[quote author=kropotkin2 post=43779769][/quote]If your el rufai get 2 heads let him sign the bill.

I am sure your gov is aware of the curse placed on his life by Apostle Sulieman. I guess he is thinking twice now.

So untill he signs it into law, I know he is afraid for his life.So keep quiet islamic religious bigot!!!

Besides is it your father that owns Kaduna that you have the temerity to tell me to remain or not. Besides I live presently in a far far far better city that exist in your dreams compared to Kd.

Besides you are a Muslim and from your postings I observed that you have always been against Christianity so any law that seeks to stiffle the influence of Christianity is celebrated by you.

I shouldn't really respond to you further because with you islamic mind you can NEVER be reasonable.

kropotkin2:
Guy if you are unhappy over this bill, feel free to ship out of our state. This bill will become law regardless of how you or your pastors feel. Kaduna dosent need you

Are you sure you are ok or does your brain need formatting to understand that the bill is an infrigement on peoples religious freedom as defined in the constitution. You sound confused as to what the issue been debated is.

Next time take your misguided opinion to the garbage because you are one of those bigots who needs a socio-mental reorientation just like your gov.

Though I am from the SS but was born in KD and lived in that city during my elelentary and high school days and know the city's socio-religious divide pretty well. So dont tell me nonsense.

Thats is great.

Still wonder why some folks in the country still consider UK as a study destination when US and Canada are far better.

Offcourse I understand that the challenge in gaining admission into Uk universities is easier when compared to Canadian and US universities but we must not forget that notwithstanding the greater challenge it is worthwhile in the long term.

Of all the issues confronting government and the dire need to revitalise the ailing economy. Restricting religious freedom which is against the constitution is seen as priority to a midget called el rufai.

They say who the gods would destroy they first make mad.

The Apostle of God warned the Gov.I saw the link on youtube as shown below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYAV2V_5Hqo

If El rufai get mind or 2 heads and think the Apostle is bluffing or making noise,Let him pass the bill and make it law, if he doesn't suffer massive consequence then we know the Apostle was making noise.May all those supporting the bill suffer the same fate with El rufai as declared by the Apostle.

Nothwithstanding the deceit of "It affects both christians and muslims " we know the bill is targeted at Christians because they are the ones that often go out to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ unlike muslims do about islam.

I hope CAN dissociates itself from such anti God and satanic bill.

Of all the issues confronting government and the dire need to revitalise the ailing economy. Restricting religious freedom which is against the constitution is seen as priority to a midget called el rufai.

They say who the gods would destroy they first make mad.

The Apostle of God warned the Gov.I saw the link on youtube as shown below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYAV2V_5Hqo

If El rufai get mind and think the Apostle is bluffing or making noise,Let him pass the bill and make it law, if he doesn't suffer massive consequence then we know the Apostle was making noise.

Of all the issues confronting government and the dire need to revitalise the ailing economy. Restricting religious freedom which is against the constitution is seen as priority to a midget called el rufai.

They say who the gods would destroy they first make mad.

The Apostle of God warned the Gov.I saw the link on youtube as shown below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYAV2V_5Hqo

If El rufai get mind and think the Apostle is bluffing or making noise,Let him pass the bill and make it law, if he doesn't suffer massive consequence then we know the Apostle was making noise.

A president that spends more time travelling than governing. No wonder the economy is nearing total collapse.

kaziblake:
Stop generalizing!!
I know many nigerian girls that haven't ask a guy for a dime.

Which "many"!!! They are not many, very few 9ja girls in that bracket.

There is no contending the fact that dating a white girl is far far better than a dating a typical 9ja girl.

Offcourse the love expressed is true and genuine and independent off your pocket or material acquisition unlike with a typical 9ja girl.
The white girls are more loyal unlike our girls most of which are hoes only few with dignity and decorum.

For example if you go out with a white girl you are dating she can insist on paying for the meal eaten by both of you. But for 9ja girl if I hear!!!!

This was a most mugulicious idiot. Killing yourself because of a girl. When he should be building his future he is pursuing a girl. What an idiot.

Was the girl worth it. Absolutely NO.
When there are girls out there, he could easily replace her with. His sense of esteem and value was so low.

No girl is indispensable, if she does any how, she should be replaced quickly because there are better options out there. Not kill yourself.

BABSIN:
“The side of the door, where the Honourable Minister sat, was not properly locked because after the car somersaulted, the thing flung him and so he had a terrible and fatal damage that his body was beyond recognition. There was a foul play in Ocholi’s death."

With the Above statement, Aliu has indicted the Late Minister in the circumstances surrounding his death. I believe everyone should be responsible for his/her life and death:

I mean how can you get into a car without confirming if the door is properly lock or not, What happened to door lock sensor?

Are you also telling me that the Driver was supposed to ensure that Late Bar. Ocholi belt himself to his sit? Abi the Jeep no get sit belt?

What happened to cautioning on speed limit especially when Late Ocholi had his family in the car? He is the principal in the Vehicle for God sake. I drive nasty sometimes when I am alone in the car but when I have other people in the car, I give myself brain because I would be responsible for their life.

What happened to Auto-check to ensure the Vehicle is fit for that Trip? Late Bar. Ocholi is not just any Person, he is a Hon. Minister of our Nation so I believe there are personal Aid to ensure all these checks are in Place except someone is not doing is job or Cutting corners.

I sincerely pray that Late Ocholi and his deceased Family member find solace in death, I however enjoy everyone to take lesson from this horrible experience, basic auto safety is
do not start your car without putting on your sit belt

no journey is to small, the inertia force of impact of a car moving at 30km/hr is like falling from a 4-5 Storey building. This force is enough to project someone out of the car through the windscreen not to talk of 120km/h and above.

In as much as I agree with you and commiserate with the Ocholis family on their loss which is most unfortunate and tragic.You must be aware that not everything is as straightforward and clear as it seems. I am of the view that what happened to the Ocholi was beyond human or natural systems failures.

My mentor said something striking "Having a new car, excellent driver, smooth road doesnt always equal safe journey"

There are things that transcend the natural that determine ones fate on roads.

Except the Lord watches and protects you on a journey, the journey is always a risk.

This is a very wrong move informed by confusion and deliberate ignorance. The demand for dollar and creation of scarcity is caused by the Cbn who sell dollars to hoarders such as Banks who then sell to black market to make outrageous profit rather than their customers.

This move would only make demand for dollars higher as parents would now source for dollars from parallel market which would increase the parrallel rate.

If the Cbn and Buhari led government stop helping parents to pay fees of their wards in Foreign universities and the rate of dollar dont improve consequent of the reduction of "alleged pressure on the naira by parents who are sourcing for dollars for their wards abroad as claimed by Buhari"

Then we know he was lying and very clueless on how to manage Africas biggest economy.

Doyin Okupe Vs Saharareporters.

The exchange is getting hilarious.Lol!!!

You must be dull, confused or "jazzarized" to stick to a cheating fiancee to even be contemplating going ahead. The signs both spiritual and physical is everywhere for you to see to avoid wrecking your destiny by marriage to a very wrong girl. If you like go ahead against the warning of the signs, we dont want to hear stories that touch later. Then you would be on your own.

Interracial love, the best ever.

I am sure that this Buhari led APC is on a race to outdo the previous PDP goverment as the most useless and worst government of all times since the history of Nigeria.

When a government was founded on propaganda and lies like what obtains in this APC government as has been shown by the OP using incontestable facts, one begin to wonder if it can get any worse.

I blame the girls parents for all this hullabaloo.

Where were they when some idiotic abok1 abducted their kid and possibly brainwashed her.

Monitoring system of that girl by her parents was faulty. It shouldn't have happened in the first place.
All these parents that carelessly leave their kids without monitoring and controlling them should learn from this situation.

glassman:
the misgivings about men of God is just too glaring..that man gave out 3 cars yesterday and scholarships to AAU and fed poly Auchi, students.

lots of other pastors does that and no one bothers to report it cos many will stil come here to mock them..

you think its easy to start church business and succeed, abi

go start yours and lets see how far you can go..

quote me negatively and you are dead.

You know why people freely run their mouth against men of God, its because ignorance, jealousy and hypocrisy. Such folks CANT do one hundredth of what those men of God have done but can run their sick mouth against a man of God at the slightest misgivings which in many cases are not true.

In many cases these men of God do more for the society than most of the rich folks in our society or politicians.

I am not a member of the Apostles church but I believe he is a man of God, with the grace of God to make things happen.

Well stated Ayodele Fayose, the man who is not afraid to state the truth, If Buhari likes let him pretend not to know the nuisance his henchmen and kinsmen have become to the Nigerian society.

Imagine Funali idiots going about killing people indescrimately, and nothing has been done, not the 1st time, not the 2nd time, not the 3rd or 4th time, infact every now and again, they wreck their havoc on the unsuspecting public and go back to hiding.Yet this a country with a normal president.

Offcourse we knew those promise by Buhari were lies designed to deceive the gullible during their campaign.Now its time to face the reality check.

Before elections:
Buhari: We would give every unemployed graduate 5000 per month( in Babas mind, I know them they would believe anything, maybe I should even say 10000 sef)
The gullible (APC supporters): Sai Baba!!!!!!

After elections
Buhari: Sorry we can't and wont give anybody 5000




Thats good Tonye for your well analysed posting on the deception of Buhari and his APC.

Its not the skin colour, stop thinking it is.Its how we think which is based on our value system.
In developed climes the police would have treated the Army personnel with some respect and not brashly

When the oppressor is oppressed by the higher oppressor.

A lesson for the police that they should not go about harassing and oppressing people.

There was panic Monday morning at the Railway Post, Umuahia, Abia State when police officers attached to the post allegedly manhandled a man later identified as an Army captain for packing his 18-seater Mitsubishi bus close to the fence of the Police station.

According to eye witness accounts, the Divisional Police officer in-charge of the police post was said to be driving into the station when he spotted the bus and ordered the owner to repack the bus claiming that it was blocking his way.
The Army captain who was in mufti, was said to have come out, greeted the DPO and quickly wanted to repark his bus. But the police officer was said to have ordered him to come closer and explain why he should block his way to the station. The army officer was said to have continued to plead with the angry police officer when he refused to allow him to remove his vehicle to re-park. Rather, he was alleged to have ordered his men to arrest the man, who at that juncture unveiled his identity, which was doubted by the police officer who insisted that he must be arrested.
The scene attracted passers-by and people doing sundry businesses around the area, who also joined to plead with the police officer who refused to budge and insisted that the soldier must be arrested. “He must obey my arrest order; you people should tell him to obey my arrest order. You must obey my arrest order, you said you are a captain, you must tell me how many wars you have fought. “I have fought in three Boko Haram states of Borno, Adamawa and Yobe before coming here, you must show me your identity today; drag him into the cell now,” the DPO whose identity was not immediately known was yelling.

However, the tables turned against the ‘powerful’ DPO when four soldiers arrived at the police station and discovered the man being molested was actually an army captain, and they became angry that an officer was calm and gentle to plead, yet he was being disgraced by the police officer. They called for reinforcements and in less than 15 minutes, four Hilux vans loaded with soldiers, arrived the police station. They later took away the DPO and another police officer with them to their base, after giving them the beating of their lives.

Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/02/soldiers-arrest-dpo-others-for-allegedly-molesting-army-captain/

Some folks are born scholars while others become scholars.
Congrats Daniel.

The rate of dollar in the parallel market doesnt have a fixed and uniform rate due to the recent development.
In some places its sold at 285, while in other place its sold for 290 and in other places its sold for 300.
This is because demand is reducing.Time to laugh at those waiting for dollars to reach 500 or more before they sell.

diasporaman:
dollar should return to N400 or more. Abeg

#COURTESY NIGERIANS IN DIASPORA

No way!!!
I am in diaspora I want the dollar at a fairly normal price not some artificially inflated price.
you want a Win-lose situation.
why not Win-Win situation.

Femiwilli:
na for Nairaland dem dey sale N300 or less to the Dollar oh!

Abok1 dey sell N390 Surulere oh!

APC don come with dem propaganda again oh!

Which Abok1 dey sell 390.Abok1 dey seriously cheat you. Who know know say the dollar done fall.