Sorry, hate to break this to you Odeku, but I don't miss people. Just not one of the things I am good at.

But sha, I am sure KC is not as cold as here. It was 14F this morning and my stupid garage door no even wan open.

Nilla, make we first generate the questions, then we can open another thread for the game, before we over populate this one. Make una come up with questions, relevant to NL and also questions that are easy to answer.

Make I go do some work. I'll be back with the questions i come up with.

Tie you and tag you, Odeku? Are you on that cheap crack again?

The rules, make sure you answer the questions and then pick someone else to tag and you can't pick one person twice.

The kind miss wey I miss you, no be small. But sha, next week I go have more time.

OK, make I go put together the list of things for the tag. It's simply asking questions.

Example, we could play the Four Memes. Example of the questions:

Four cities you have lived in.
Four people you like reading from on NL.
Four forums you visit most on Nl and so on.

How una dey?

Nilla girl, long time no read/hear/type.

Odeku, bo ni? Hope y'all slept well. Oh well, this is my busy weekend, so I dey for work. Not that stressful sha.

Nilla girl, you know what we should do. We should play the tag game. But we'll come up with the things we want.

Who else dey for here?

I thought I was the only one. I actually had an headache yesterday from thinking about solutions for the "yeye" country. I am so K-Fed up, it's not even funny.

I thought about dropping grenades on all the houses of assembly when the thieves are all in session, but I realised that I can not kill people, because the good book says, Thou shall not kill.

I thought about the right to bear arms for all the people of Nigeria. I am sure, if the corrupt policeman knows that you might have a gun in your car, he'll not come and harrass you for 20 naira bride.

I thought about the fact that the average designer's clothe in Nigeria is about 200 dollars and I wonder, who are these thieves daughters, expecting to buy their stupid clothes, if not their fellow friends, whose fathers are also thieves.

I thought about, the fact that I really want to visit Nigeria, but God knows I can't stand the present day Nigeria. I will definitely go back and do politics in 25 years, hopefully, the country will have improved, though I aint going to bet my salary on any improvement.

Just like David, I am K-Fed Up!

Y'ello my people. How una dey? Seems this place is getting cold nowadays. Is it because of the winter season? Oh well, hope y'all had a good day and still having a good day? Just getting in and fixing myself some nice rice and dodo. I no even comot clothe sef, before I jump into kitchen. Oh well, soon that will change, cos I dey look for aristo wey go hire me servant and all. LOL.

Anybody notice wetin I notice? Seems the number of new people joining the site has greatly reduced. It used to be like ten in a day, now, it's like one for two days or more. Wonder wetin dey happen?

In any case, make una have a good night. I go still dey here for a while.

Wow, feelgood, this is surely interesting. Hmmm, glad your wife did not make such a big deal about the "issue". I bet, some of the present ladies we have nowadays will almost chop off your head.

I definitely enjoy reading your posts. Seems there is a lot to learn and I am willing to read on and learn more. Not enough to convince me to get married anytime soon, but still good to know.

All the best.

I dey here o. Just waking up.

Odeku, I go find cheesecake for Nigeria?

Everybody, how una dey?

Ad, no need trying to explain your stand on issues with everybody. I do perfectly understand what you mean. For a girl to ask you for money, one week into a r'ship, that says a lot about the girl. Believe me, no amount of suffering, should make a girl do that. There is something called respect, afterall, if you did not meet her, she'll not die and she'll continue to do whatever she's been doing.

My take on this: Talk to her. That's if you are still interested in her friendship. Let her realise, you aint her bank and her provider. Let her realise that you'll not continue to drop the kish anytime she asks. Also, talk about the things she is trying to solve with the money and offer solutions to them - it does not have to always be monetary. You guys might just get closer.

All the best.

Nothing much. How you dey?

Nothing o. Just getting back from work.

I dey go eat cheesecake. Wait, them dey sell cheesecake for Nigeria? No mind my stupid question o. Someone asked me, because na so I like the thing, and me I tell am, I no know. As per the last time, me I comot from Nigeria, I no see am for shelf. But sha, you never know, all them rich rich people fit get am for V.I and V.G.C them.

I guessed as much. You sure say na EKO you dey, cos I am sure, it is like 3am for your end.

Oh well, how you dey? Wetin dey shele for Lagos?

Wow, feelgood, thanks for sharing. I just hope we'll get more from the married peeps here.

Me, I don't want to get married and it seems everytime I am about to cross the line, I hear something or find out something about a "happy" couple and I question, the reason for getting married.

I am so happy for you and I wish you the best in your marriage. Maybe, ten years from now, if I get married, I can look back to this thread and put one or two things I have picked up into practise.

P.S: Is your church, Family Worship Center?

See your head, like mine, Odeku. Na me you go fire. How you go take fire me?

Nilla girl, how you doing?

Jaybaby, how body?

Who else dey here?

Ok, we go jam later.

malaika:

This is the best thread I've read! Why has it died down - Please tell us more!

I second that. I just hope more married people will come here and actually tell the truth though. I have been reading and listening to people talk about their marriages. It seems a lot of people are suffering and smiling. True, nothing in life is good, 100%, but if the married people could just be honest, so that we 'yet-to-marry' people can learn and know what to watch out for.

Most definitely, Meredith, I'll be glad to help. At least, give you a peace of mind. Believe me, I can relate. My email is beesee12@yahoo.com.

Kitaun, no worries. Nothing fit happen. Just a sista helping anoda sista out. Isn't that what we are supposed to do?

Kept me up, Odeku? You wish. Me, I dey work o. Since I no show up since Thursday, I bin get a million and one things to do. Oh well, in about 30 mins, I go dey on my way to my house. Chei, I wan eat chinese o.

Nilla, how work na?

Odeku, your own work nko? No forget the thing wey we talk o. I serious well well.

Who else dey here?

And yes, Nilla girl, you get am right. Na we dey bring enjoyment for here.

You no sabi who us be? Us na all of us now.

I see. No let the cold for get to you o, as per oga dey far away.

Yes o. But follow us come now. It will be fun. Abi oga no go gree you comot from him sight?

Ok, I go begin organize am on Thursday.

I no dey go see anybody for Chicago o. Me, I just dey go have fun.

Keep wondering why o.

You go come with us? It will surely be fun.

That said, how we go take do ur grad party now?

Ok, o. Ghost it is.

Thinking of going to chi-town, Nilla.

Yeah ugly betty. How could I forget that one. Quite interesting.

Odeku, where you at?

Do you watch Desperate Housewives and Grey's Anatomy?

I no dey watch tv. Na the only two shows wey I dey watch be that.

I dey o. I don carry my lazy sef, find food chop, before I die.

Mehn, I need me a buka. I need correct amala.

Nilla, when u dey comot go house?

Communication wahala. Long distance stuff. It gets really frustrating. Me, I had my bf's password, so I could know when he got my mails, whether he had read it and stuff like that.

But not to put my nose in other people's problem, it seems one sided. I don't know your story and I aint trying to analyze it.

I hope this gets settled out sooner than later. Maybe you can find someone going to Nigeria and have them send it in. Other options, have you tried calling someone else in Nigeria and having them try out his number? It might just be an international wahala. I just called Nigeria today. Infact, I call Nigeria everyday. Also, try sending him a text.

I work in North Dakota, but my permanent address is Dallas, Texas.

All the best.

Nothing much o. I bin just dey have fun.

Chatted with peeps wey I never talk to in months. Only God knows why they all decided to resurrect today. Been fun sha.

Finished work?