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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 2:56pm On Jan 23, 2020
Opetech:
I updated my xiaomi Mi A3 with the latest January 2020 security update and my battery has been standing gidigba without dropping. This is just sweet ��

I noticed that on my MI 9T ohhh.

But I don't know when I updated it ohhh
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 2:39pm On Jan 23, 2020
genius43:


Yes. With Night modes or Night Sight you don't need flashlight.

Baba, please help me with MI 9T GCAM .

The one I have don't have slow motion ain't working . And I need the blur lense stuff in the camera
Investment / Re: MBA Investors Forum by Biafrareform(m): 7:58am On Jan 23, 2020
drakeli:


I don’t have access to my nairaland email anymore. But if anyone would like to ask me for FREE prove and FREE information on how to go about getting into Rofx. Absolutely free. I have over $10,000 account with them with proof.



NOTE: I have no affiliation with Rofx. I’m just a happy customer ready to help others succeed.

Trading forex has never been better without Rofx

How do I contact you sir . Can you drop your number
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 10:03am On Jan 21, 2020
bwehdoneit:

Go to telegram and get the full recovery rom and update using the updater app. I had to go that way when network on both MTN and Airtel were so slow.

Gimme the telegram link please .

And is it Android 10?
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 7:01am On Jan 21, 2020
I received New updates on my MI 9T last nite. On trying to download it this morning , it disappeared.

How do I get it back ?
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 8:08am On Jan 16, 2020
Good morning all. Please I need link to download MI 9T GCAM.

The one I have don't have blur lense and slow motion.

GrandMufti
Genius43
Religion / Re: 4 Powerful Programmes To Start Your Year With by Biafrareform(m): 8:48pm On Jan 15, 2020
HARDDON:


I wonder.

This is an wholistic program packed with:

1. THE WORD
This is to reformat minds for earthly exploits. Reveal the keys to all that redemption brought and awaken the Christian mind from it's religious redundancy. You can't be heavenly conscious and be earthly Useless.

We were placed here to dominate the earth. Rule the dark world. Ambassadors of light, love and the truth.


2. WORSHIP
Thanksgiving, as my mentor, David Ibiyeomie would say, magnifies the Goodness of God.

Praise his Mightiness and Worship? His Holiness. Come connect with your source for both heavenly ( divine guidance/protection, answers to prayers etc) and earthly resources

3. WONDERS
This timely program is set to deliver the mandate of Christ here on Earth as he stated in his Vision/Mission statement in

Luke 4:18 NKJV
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me To preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives And recovery of sight to the blind, To set at liberty those who are oppressed;


Kindly note that what the poor needs is not Money but mind transformation, as Jesus Christ clearly stated above. Ability to think and generate lasting wealth.
This is why those who win lotteries and jackpots end up being more broke after a while than they were before they hit such money. Prodigal son comes to mind.


You can never remain themsame ( Financially and otherwise ) if you avail yourself this program with an expetant heart.


Are you in PH. Or worship in HQ?

I will really love to meet with you if you don't mind
Romance / Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Biafrareform(m): 8:43pm On Jan 15, 2020
PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas.
.

So why are you still single .

What exactly are you looking for?.

Ohhh, opp, didn't mention make sure you marry a man who is very rich

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Religion / Re: Salvation Ministries 5 Nights Of Glory 2020: Everything You Need To Know by Biafrareform(m): 6:31pm On Jan 12, 2020
You can watch the live services via

wwwdotsmhos.org
Religion / Re: 4 Powerful Programmes To Start Your Year With by Biafrareform(m): 6:24pm On Jan 12, 2020
Where is 5 Nights of Glory?

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 8:28pm On Jan 01, 2020
I can't make video calls on my Yowhatsapp.

How do I rectify it please ?
Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 4:47pm On Dec 30, 2019
Slynation:

People are just talking shit, because they don't know what you and your family passed through in the cause of catering for the child....
But i understand perfectly due to past experience with my sis, it happened to us...

Now they want you to forget the shame of giving birth to a child out of wedlock....

The Cries of your Momma blaming herself for scoring F in parental guidance....

The extra adjustments and sacrifices y'all made just to accommodate an unplanned circumstances...

The Money and Time been channeled in catering for the girl knowing fully well it should have been avoided...

Bro/Sis all of the people giving you advice to forgive easily and grant the man access are all mad....

-The man must give a clear and concise reason for coming back to his senses after 16years, if he claim he was young and naive, then what about his parent, were they also young and stupid??

Secondly there must be utmost signs of repentance and gnashing of teeth before he should be allowed to see her picture self grin

Ndi ara Ndi ara everywhere......!!


They dont even know me. I have agreed to let him see her. But he must come visit me with his family and everyone that once made mockery of us when we went to talk about the pregnancy. I will so embarrass them ehhh. Make them come, i dey wait for them

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Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 4:43pm On Dec 30, 2019
healthserve:




Look at how people are cheapening the OP's value in the kids life. What if she had died. Irresponsible people don't like responsibilities but when it's time to reap the rewards they all. Jump out to lay claims of ownership. It's not who biologically produces a child that's the father, but who "fathered" the child. While the kid can be told who the sperm donor is, he shouldn't be given more access. He gave up on all privileges when he denied her. Also she should be made aware at 18,so right after a meeting she can make the choice required by law to continue to remain with the uncle.
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Remembered when She was sick and needed blood, I donated my blood to her. I dey for any court rubbish that the man will try to bring up. I dey wait for them. I fit cut person ear for this matter
Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 4:40pm On Dec 30, 2019
adanny01:


I get it, you are hurt and insulted by their actions.

However, dont make a fuss about it. The biological father has rights you dont have, so dont go down that way.

I suggest you guys sit her down and tell her. She will most probably wanna meet her dad, you better let her. She is not a lottle girl and you have done the best for her. If she appreciates, she will treat you guys as her first and only family. You cant force anything on her since she will in a few years have full right to choose where she lives.

Sit her down in a family meeting style and drop the news and tell her the family who want her now didn't want her when she was still in the womb and for the 16years of her life until now.

He has right for just planting a seed and running away. Then I that tendered the seed and nurtured the fruit dont have right . Nonsense. I am waiting for that court that will tell me that

Tell her you are not letting her go, and would fight them with every thing you have but she has to decide to be with the only family she has ever know.

I trust that she will do the right thing. Most kids in such situations will just want to meet with their other family and get over the feeling of not knowing.
Romance / Re: He Got My Sis Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After PT 2 by Biafrareform(m): 2:14pm On Dec 30, 2019
meobizy:

I said it in the other thread this was what you had in mind. The only hope you have is her reconnecting with her father and eventually learning he is nothing but a stranger. An abandoned child will always long for that connection with its original parent(s).

From you writing style you are under forty years of age. I’ll hazard a guess that you’re under thirty also. Why put another person’s responsibility on your neck especially when you’ll disregard the individual when you start making your own babies?


The court of law most times gives zero consideration to emotions. Don’t put too much hope on this.

Do people change? I do not know. I believe they can even though I’ve hardly come across such in real life. I’ve seen people try to only to slip back into old ways. Only time will tell what he has in mind. Your original thread stated it was his family which rejected the child. You have not cared to know if he was in support or not.

I am under 40. That girl is a family and we have been taking care of her . I am not alone in this .

I won't allow one bastard emerge from nowhere to come claim ownership of what he didn't care for.

I will let them see her if she chose to . But it will end there . I know what we went through bringing up that girl

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Romance / He Got My Sis Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After PT 2 by Biafrareform(m): 1:18pm On Dec 30, 2019
After reading comments to the thread I made last night , I had a change of heart. Earlier , I vowed never to allow that bastard come close to my baby girl. A father isn't one with penis , but one who takes responsibility.

So I spoke to my elder sister and she said my baby girl has been asking questions about her father . She said she is really missing the fatherly bond and can't really connect with her foster father .

Then I remembered how she always calls me and wants to come and stay with me . I have made plans for her to come over to stay with me once she was done with her SSCE but her mum said she should learn a skill first which she is learning .

I began feeling for her and understand that she really need to know the truth . Is painful on my side letting this girl know this cos it will really affect her psychology.
So I called her mum this morning and told her we will tell her the truth and allow her see her dad if the so called man shows interests cos right now , is his family that is making the calls to see her .

But I will never grant them custody over that girl neither will I allow them to spend a dime on her .
Let me see that court that will grant that irresponsible man custody just by planting seed with out looking after it.

I will keep you guys posted as we progress .

Link to the first thread .

https://www.nairaland.com/5604791/he-got-sister-pregnant-rejected
Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 10:23pm On Dec 29, 2019
daddytime:
Exactly the same thing happened with my younger sister which I shared a bit on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5284768/she-pregnant-twins-honestly-dont#79985006

The truth is, you have no right to deny the kid a relationship with her biological father no matter what must have transpired.
.

Just finished reading your story . Guy , you wicked . You are mean.

Just look at what you spewing on someone and her family

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Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 10:11pm On Dec 29, 2019
GuyWise101:
He abandoned the little girl when she was in the womb, never cared for her when she was growing up...


He now appears from nowhere and started claiming the girl he abandoned just because he has seen that she is nearing to be married just so that he can eat the bride price. (thats wickedness)


If I am in your family I would make sure that he pays every dime we spent on her head, right from her birth.
.

Who is even talking of paying up. I don't want him near my baby girl

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Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 9:58pm On Dec 29, 2019
Apination:
Issues like this dey complex, you can't stop the father from knowing his daughter but it should end there. He gave up the right to her the day he denied her undecided

I looked after this baby girl from when she was born till she came of age . She is so fond of me .

Now one nigga is trying to upset her psychological mindset all in a bit to have access to her .

This is so hard to bear

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Family / Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 9:56pm On Dec 29, 2019
nanaman:
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In as much as we think the deed was bad, there is still no reason to justify the fact that the young girl must know her real dad for future sake. It's kinda hard to forgive, I understand. However, who are we to question the circumstances behind all that happened and so far the mother is ready to the needful, my dear brother, let the reunion be possible though with some stringent clause.

The clause would be determined by the young girl. She's of age to decide where she wants to live. All these should be done within the welfare setting so as to have legal backing. The real father would pay all he can afford as upkeep, settle school fee and also visit as agreed by both parties.With this, everyone will be at peace especially your sister.

What happened was that you failed to take the necessary steps when the young girl was neglected. You guys should have gone to court for the new husband to adopt legally which would have given the man full custody and since you didn't do that, let the real father take over and settle everyone.

All the best.
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So you mean someone can get a girl he didn't pay preide price on pregnant, reject it, then come around after many years to claim custody of the baby and the court will grant him the custody .

On which basis will such judgement be made?.

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Family / He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Biafrareform(m): 9:33pm On Dec 29, 2019
Good evening all. I need your honest opinion on this .

My elder sister was put in a family way 16 years ago. The guy responsible, his family rejected the pregnancy Infront of my family .

We took her in, cared for her and she gave birth to a lovable baby girl . Dam, she is so pretty and was well loved.

She grew to become my pet . I loved her with all my heart. Infact we all loved her .

My elder sister is married . She has told her daughter that her present husband is her father when she start asking questions.

She is done with her secondary school and currently running a fashion design program . I planned on sending her to the Uni once she is done with her program .

Just got on phone with my sister now and she is telling me that , the dude that got her pregnant family has been disturbing her to allow them access to the girl . That they are ready to train her to any level .

And she is considering telling her daughter the truth about her birth .

Can you imagine the nonsense. I have warned her not to do that not to talk of giving them access and I am currently furious right now . After 16 years of loving this girl, someone is now claiming father .

Please how do I handle this .

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Fashion / Post Your Christmas Outfit Here by Biafrareform(m): 3:04pm On Dec 25, 2019
Happy Christmas Nairalanders. Sure know you are having fun today .

Oya post your Christmas Outfit here

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 8:16pm On Dec 24, 2019
peteregwu:
I love this team for my redmi 8a

What s the name of this theme
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 7:47pm On Dec 24, 2019
zicora:
It is so good to join xiaomi family, all tanx goes 2 Getbizy
.

My MI 9T brother . Welcome on board

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 6:21pm On Dec 23, 2019
genius43:


Some power hungry apps still works in the background and never really closes until you swipe it out from your recent apps
.

But the write up said , swiping kills battery . I am confuse
Education / Re: 'This Is School Not Hotel, Keep Moving' Spotted On A School's Wall (Photos) by Biafrareform(m): 6:09pm On Dec 23, 2019
Maybe the building was formerly a hotel then converted to school. Hence the inscription

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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 4:53pm On Dec 23, 2019
jboixxx:
For the umpteenth time, so many things affect battery life:
1) Apps installed on the device
2) Network stability
3) Surrounding temp conditions.
4) Buggy app
5) Power source used to charge
6) User handling and settings like clearing your background apps (you read that right)
7) Wallpaper/themes!
cool Those notifications that includes vibration
9) Screen brightness, GPS etc.

You can add or/and remove. I don't have time to argue, so, you can pick and reject whichever one that suites you.

how does no 6 affect battery life
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 9:27pm On Dec 14, 2019
PervySage:
How much?

08061170028

WhatsApp
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 1:49pm On Dec 13, 2019
genius43:


Your network sha, too many yellow lines
.

Watin e mean?

New one . Hope the battery is good compared to others

Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 10:58am On Dec 13, 2019
Make una rate the battery on my MI 9T

Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 10:40am On Dec 13, 2019
jumong232:
any used mi 9t for sale#?
..


Yes. location is Portharcourt
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by Biafrareform(m): 10:37am On Dec 13, 2019
Yowhatsapp users .

Please I tried backing up my WhatsApp chat via my Gmail but it was rejected .

How do I resolve it ?

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