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Green222:
Please Candid advise needed.

On the 8th Dec. 2017, I was gisting with my Best friend (we have been friends now for 17years) about a guy I dated for 7years. We parted ways because he was a chronic womanizer and was not ready to change. I have caught him on several occasions with other women in action; I have cried myself to sleep because of his actions and in-actions. His actions affected my grades while in school. my relationship with him was well known by his family and mine. The relationship almost caused me my life during an abortion I did for him; he never abandoned me, he was with me thru the ordeal. He is a loving fellow that can do anything for me and defend me anywhere. He can go Xtra miles to please me but that does not stop him from cheating on me. The emotional trauma was becoming too heavy for me to bear, I quite the relationship.

Back to my friend. On this particular day, we decided to search the guy on Facebook, we saw him and my friend sent a friend request. He accepted the request the same day and they started chatting. He requested for her mobile number which she gave to him and they started talking on the phone. The guy requested to meet with her during Xmas as we are all from the same locality. She agreed to the request even though she knew she will be traveling home. I was still in the picture of their discussion at this stage.

On the 22nd, my friend travel to spend the Xmas with her brother's family in the West while I traveled to our Hometown in the North Central. We constantly speak on the phone and she never mentioned her communications with my Ex again. Only for her to call me yesterday that she has changed her travel plans. She has traveled back home on the request of my Ex to meet him in our hometown; they have met and he has introduced her to his family and she has done same and both families accepted them. Their wedding has been fixed for March 2018. She said she has asked my EX to call me

She called this morning to asked if my Ex had called to inform me of his intentions to marry her. I said NO. She said my Ex said he does not have the courage to talk to me.

I feel betrayed by my friend's actions. I have a lot of friends that know my Ex and I and also know me and my Girl friend.

Please I need Candid advise on her to handle this issue

Passy089:
I thought this spiritual husband/wife stuff is a myth

Passy089:
Guys your opinion is needed please! My friend narrated to me how whenever he plans to propose to his girlfriend he will mysteriously start looking for the ring he carefully kept....the first time he kept it in his car, when she came inside the car he started looking for it...turned the car upside down he didn't see it then after 3 days he saw it behind his back seat,second time he carefully kept it in his bedroom table locker ,when he came back from a dinner outing with her ...the ring was nowhere to be found,then after some days he found it inside the same locker .he lives alone so the possibility of someone taking it is zero..his girl have no idea what's going on, Advice him.

Zionadebisi:
I stumbled on this picture of an egg inside an egg and was so shocked.
I couldn't just let it pass by just like that.
How is this possible?
My hands on my head.


Source : http://zionadebisi.com/how-is-this-even-possible-photo-of-an-egg-inside-and-egg-photo/

Explorers:
People don vex o, everybody need money.

Jnrbaino4real:
did you just say fat?I beg to differ,cos even skinny people snore.

yk2018:
I saw my girlfriend last on the 31 of Dec 2017 when I went to their house to give her money to do her hair and buy some dress for the new year,At first she was complaining that the money wasn't enough for her to do hair and buy gown for the new year, I begged her to manage it that wasn't pay December salary it was from my savings I have removed to give her the little I can afford..After I left her house till on the 2nd of January she hasn't been taking my calls, She just sent me a msg now that the relationship is over between us, this is someone I met last year June,Nairalanders please help me I love this girl some much, I just don't know where to start from... please ignore my grammatic error

greiboy:
I also thought as much

Why use "a Yoruba man" instead of just a Nigerian man?

Why ask, "are Yoruba men generally like this"?


if the story is true, I don't think they are playing her though. She said they dated for ten years and he waited for her to finish college

CooperJay:
NO PART OF EDO SPEAKS YORUBA!! GET THAT IN YO

UR HEAD!!



I tried to be reasonable and polite with u but as always they were right wen they say that doesn't work with people of Yoruba extraction!!

CooperJay:
I am holding back my temper right now, kindly disist from making false statements I am from irrua and no one there speaks Yoruba outside those who might have lived in Yoruba land at some point .... Yoruba is not a lingua in Edo state , disist from such statement... Cheers

AxxeMan:
Tell us the part of Edo you served! Liar, No Edo man who hasn't stayed in Yoruba land before understand or speak Yoruba as it is a foreign and strange language .... Stop spewing cheap lies !!

Even your own local language you speak in ekiti a typical Yoruba from Osun or Oyo does not understand and your language has been called gibberish numerous times by the Yoruba's I schooled with.

You don't even know your history , ooh you think you are really Yoruba?... Or believe you will ever be fully accepted by Osun and Oyo ppl?

Reality would dawn on you soon!!

Foodforthought:
Why are u guys turning romanceland into a gender war zone? It's becoming really boring and predictable. If u don't agree with general opinion, just keep being a unique and different individual.
Besides u failed to address the issue or question: what else can slay queens offer a man aside puxxy? Just answer the question and let the guys here shut up.

HeWrites:
A Nigerian lady on Facebook, Ifeoma Vivian Emeka, has taken to the platform to apprise ladies of her discovery of how their crazed hair extensions – weavons, wigs, human hair and all – are demonic and can take them to hell.

Some months ago, a pastor too had admonished his members of the same thing as he told them they were wearing “snakes” on their heads and they shouldn’t partake in the usage of the extensions.

Vivian now, alongside a photo of her some of the wigs she set ablaze, has warned her fellow sisters to stop braiding their hairs or fixing them if it’s possible.

She wrote;
"I JUST BURNT ALL MY WEAVONS,WIGS ..PLEASE IF YOU ARE A GIRL BURN YOUR WEAVONS AND WIGS IT IS DEMONIC AND CAN LEAD YOU TO HELL PLEASE DO IT NOW . EVERY WOMAN IF POSSIBLE STOP BRAIDING OR FIXING…


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/lady-burns-all-her-hair-extensions.html

wadner1:
https://area.com.ng/index.php/poll/7/ekiti-2018-who-will-be-the-next-governor-of-ekiti-state/