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donsimo:
Why do all girls think it's first love. Did op say it was??

Sheybi u can read and write?

Pluto16:
Guys I need your help!!!
please try to read all,
There is this girl I've been dating for few months now. Her beauty is one of a kind, she is down to earth. But she lemme know she has a boyfriend, I said no problem. We started getting along, we do things together, walked together, party together. In fact she never wanted me to do anything alone. She started loosing interest in her boyfriend. She hardly pick his calls, they argued on phone everytime. Things started falling in place for me until her brothers infact everybody told her to dump me. They said the guy love her blah blah. The pressure was on her then one night she told me we should break up. She cried out her eyes, I told her I'll be fine so she would stop crying. The next day I started crying, I couldn't handle the break up. I cried like a baby. I was depressed,If not for God and my friends I almost commit suicide. She said we should get back together that she can't live without me. We got back together again that's when the problem started. The relationship is now very strong now, I started feeling jealous and insecure. We spent more time together than before. We are still in our early 20's. I'm getting obsessed over her. I used to dream about her every night. I always check her FB page every minutes to see her new post. I used to call her and text her all day. I'm not myself anymore. Her image is always on my head every seconds. I'm not serious with anything again expect her. I'm always afraid I can't find someone as beautiful and perfect like her. I'm scared she will leave me one day. I always used my last money to get something for her just to make her happy. I'm even thinking about her right now. Now she has know my weakness and she is now playing with it. I'm not always like this, I want to go back to my normal self. This is more than love, Somebody should help me on how to escape from this obsession!!!
please I need help!!! please

pls ignore my bad English. Thank you
Lalasticlala

...uhm... First love is always full of love and pains... Believe me, you're not going to marry her... Unless you're ready to marry her...

gullotine360:
hello naira landers I ve been into d cleaning Biz for a while now an I ve focused mainly on d post construction niche of it which s quite lucrative bt seasonal and very competitive so I want to move into other areas like for residential home cleaning in areas like okota ,festac amuwo odofin etc pls is it viable in such locations.pls I need to know I other not 2 waste ma money

Can you control both... I mean both post construction and residential?

solablings:
I got this text that he was my mate in katsina state orientation camp.
And I fell for it.
My God, I just stupidly sent N50, 0000 to these scammers yesterday. It sounded so real that I can't but just to make the payment almost immediately.
All my savings is gone.
Why is this happening to me now.

God have mercy.
The person that claim to be my mate number is 0816 789 3361
And his in-law Dr Paul Lawson number is 08140514297.

I'm having sleepless night right now.

Please beware of these scammers.

I'm just learning from my own mistakes.

Igot the message almost everytime... How come youfell for such scam?

4kings:
Cc: Wirinet KingEbukasBlog Bibi294 greatface.

Just give her time... She'll pay...

banky3w:
Now tell me, how the hell do I kiss you if you don't want your lipstick ruined? Is it straight to your honeypot?

... What's kiss? ...you mean kiss Daniel?

Tamper with my lipstick
Ignore my calls
Any of these will be the end of our friendship

I'll prefer the later.... Wedding ring supersedes engagement ring

lot14:
Dear all,
I will like to share my experience with you.
I have a girlfriend that we been in a relationship for 3years, she is everything a man wants hard-working,Godfearing has an good business she handles.
I supported her in all her endeavours in the best possible way I can..I worked with a FMCG company even before I met her till April this year i was relieved of my job..
Prior to April we had issues of ego,pride, etc relationship issues but the issue of my friends,family attention of priority always was a heated argument btw us like I spend too much on them..for instance my sis cousin in school said I send her 5k it became a serious issue..I always tell her fine I know these people,they moulded me directly and indirectly to who you are dating..ok..my relationship with my family friends are even meant to be controlled by me not you vice visal cuz you know your family and friends better than I do and I can only advise on your dealing with them when it's called for.
Moreso, after April I lost my job she has been acting funny always threatening with breakup cuz she started handling some bills and I won't lie she assisted me ..I just see her change to I am in charge of everything..now raising more issue on the family and friend..
Everyday I prayed to God I get a new job which a month ago I got and be resuming soon.
Now she is still standing her grounds on the family issues and I have made her realise she must accomodate them with their good,bad and ugly same way I have done towards her family or we chart a new path and everyone goes his/her way..
No doubt I really love her...i sacrifice for her loads of times and she same back, she is non-materialistic and intelligent woman but her character and attitude towards my very close family and friends just makes me pained and hurt towards her....
she has decided either them or her...and I now look..
A new job on the horizon God did it....what do I do pls?

See, u understand her... If you accomate too much families... You'll suffer (financially)... I'm not saying you shouldn't assist them(esp. Ur extended families) but please, don't let them depend on you...

makydebbie:
Lol what do you mean by this?

Most nl guys are not worth it biko. Don't come here and sound like you all are saints and we're the demons.

Not after they accused you of being ugly and an olosho... Yet, they'll send u senseless pms

dayo2me:
I have observed many ladies here to be bossy and even some boast of being feminist from the tone of their posts. Many of them sound undatable, many of them are materialistic which make a lot of potential guys walk away. Lots of them with their excessive requirement scare guys away. I wonder how long it will take them to realise that marriage is beyond materials, it's about your character and wisdom that sustain marriage to a long extent. The funny part is, some after doing shakara and yanga to lots of potential guys eventually settle for less.

With all being said, make yourself available to guys, not just any.

Abi na

If you say nairaland babe and materialist, please visit instamessage and co...

FlirtyKaren:
Following Denrele reply to a follower's tweet that Bobrisky has knocked him out of prominence, the Nigerian crossdresser has replied the media personality.

Bobrisky who addressed himself as the new boss Denrele should learn from, said he has always met people who have been jealous of him right from secondary school.

Here's his Snapchat post;

https://www.lailasblog.com/im-boss-now-sit-learn-bobrisky-replies-denrele/

So simple, one is gaming in the media industry while the other, in the bleaching industry... Why are they fighting?

Airforce1:
To slap your bum-bum just dey hungry me

Oya come here

muller101:
Aircraft 1

Aircraft ko... Witchcraft ni

PureWaterNylon:

I love you

Dead ....

Airforce1:
You mean all these?

I'm broke buh I can afford all these...

#naturalsagging breast? Well.I love her cos she refused to be a victim of cyberbully... But I'm not sure saggig breasts are natural. Not after series of sucking and abortion

Born2conquer:
All is well... actually ladies become more attracted to you when you give them less attention!

Bibi! I've suffered from gals... seriously

I've suffered from men too... But I thank God, I never relented... Today, I've got the best of men...

Biko nu...this babe get craze

See this people o

Some does bcis they're scared of their partners

Report to the police... With your written proof

Born2conquer:
Ladies then were loyal!

The ladies we have today are so emotionally unstable

...yet, people are still getting married every weekend! See, just check yourself and also, check the type of girls you roll with...
Ladies like your mum still exist...
Moreso, if you don't change your philosophy 'bou ladies, I pray you don use and dump your supposed wife... Pls change!

Tk4all:

His mum

Check his other topics

Born2conquer:
Seriously...the kind heartbreak wey you go suffer ..no be from this world!

Gals ain't Loyal again

A guy shouted yesternight beside a gal "Bleep YOU!! YOU LIED!" and he left hurriedly in annoyance.. few minutes after another guy came and replace the guy who left!

I loved ones hard..and I was burnt by the unfortunate gal!

Now..I am into over 10 female friends and I am totally comfortable!! Like I am comfortable..

Now I don't care about a gal calling another guy beside me..or sex chatting..so far it's not affecting my shares and even if it affects me...I wee just walk over to the next gal!

After all you said about your mum

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