₦airaland Forum

wirinet:
I didn't see where she wrote that she lost her employment letter. The only evidence she needs is her employment letter stating her duties and condition of employment. If the letter did not state how many instagram, Facebook, Twitter followers she must get, then it could not be used to hold up her wages.
If she was terminated without a valid reason and was not paid for the job she did, where is the defamation?
Are you insinuating that labour laws do not exist in Nigeria, and that workers have absolutely no rights?

glorybasseymma:
The painful part is that, yesterday morning when she came to work.
She playfully told me to give her all the login details of the social media pages, and I did.
Even the phone, she gave me to use for Posting, she collected it from me and refuse me to delete my details from it and also refuse to give me my sim card.
It was one of the security, that beg her to give me back my Sim. My email, WhatsApp etc are in that phone.
Pls guys, I want this post to reach the home page.
Cause right now ,am depress. All my suffer, leaving my children with someone still sometimes 10pm bfor I get home.
And it was part of that money I was main to add to my children sch fees.

GistMore10:
Lalasticlala

LillyVal:

MannieA:
Think properly before you talk.
Do you think there are no single men in their late thirties or late forties?
There are my dear... stop thinking every man that's from 30 downwards is either married or in a serious relationship . There are lots of men searching for a woman to wife.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not everywoman knows how to cook. It does not make such woman less of a woman if she is interested she can learn or get someone to be doing the cooking. I see nothing wrong there.
Men should learn how to cook to complement the ladies effort

kriskristyne:
I am posted to enugu From osun
07068423250

Freestyl:
Why not create a WhatsApp group and drop the link here?

Temmygold600:
Hi people
I opened this acct cuz I need advice


I have a boyfriend who is 8 years older than me
We both love each other but the problem is he insults me anytime we have a misunderstanding and he always threaten to hurt me but yet am always the one to beg for forgiveness.

This has happened a lot of times and we had another fight again and he called me stupid and prostitute and promised to hurt me as usual and he did .he called my dad and told him am a prostitute,, something have never done in my life my.. and he told my dad all sort of things.we broke up and I decided not to beg this time cuz I was hurt..
During the break up I met another guy tho I knew this guy before and I friend zoned him for a year.i decided to give him a chance..he is really nice and caring and doesn't insult me whenever we quarrel but I didn't love him like my ex.

I missed my ex bf and I felt incomplete without him.but this guy is always busy and doesn't have my time much or maybe that's just my excuse... later I called my ex and we got talking again, we got back together but I didn't know how to tell the other guy.he later found out that I got back with my ex but he wasn't angry instead he begged me to choose him or date both of them and told me he would wait for me whenever am done with my ex.i told him to leave me alone and broke up with him but he told me we should be friends again.
But recently I had another fight with my ex turned boyfriend again and he insulted me and called me a bastard.. he told me never to call him again.i had to beg and beg before he forgives me again and now I think I should just let him go now cuz I don't want to get hurt anymore.
But I still have doubts about leaving him cuz I would feel incomplete again.we have been through a lot together and I know all his family and vice versa .
Should I let him go and face my studies and graduate before thinking of relationship again cuz am still very young ,am only 21 and he is 29
I don't want to spend my life with this kind of person
OR
Should I give the other guy a chance again and move on cuz I can't seem to forget my ex anytime I try to .
Please advice me on what to do
Thanks

Temmygold600:
Hi people
I opened this acct cuz I need advice

well..if this is actually true ehn..
then the guy is right..u r an IDIOT!!!

I have a boyfriend who is 8 years older than me
We both love each other but the problem is he insults me anytime we have a misunderstanding and he always threaten to hurt me but yet am always the one to beg for forgiveness.

This has happened a lot of times and we had another fight again and he called me stupid and prostitute and promised to hurt me as usual and he did .he called my dad and told him am a prostitute,, something have never done in my life my.. and he told my dad all sort of things.we broke up and I decided not to beg this time cuz I was hurt..
During the break up I met another guy tho I knew this guy before and I friend zoned him for a year.i decided to give him a chance..he is really nice and caring and doesn't insult me whenever we quarrel but I didn't love him like my ex.

I missed my ex bf and I felt incomplete without him.but this guy is always busy and doesn't have my time much or maybe that's just my excuse... later I called my ex and we got talking again, we got back together but I didn't know how to tell the other guy.he later found out that I got back with my ex but he wasn't angry instead he begged me to choose him or date both of them and told me he would wait for me whenever am done with my ex.i told him to leave me alone and broke up with him but he told me we should be friends again.
But recently I had another fight with my ex turned boyfriend again and he insulted me and called me a bastard.. he told me never to call him again.i had to beg and beg before he forgives me again and now I think I should just let him go now cuz I don't want to get hurt anymore.
But I still have doubts about leaving him cuz I would feel incomplete again.we have been through a lot together and I know all his family and vice versa .
Should I let him go and face my studies and graduate before thinking of relationship again cuz am still very young ,am only 21 and he is 29
I don't want to spend my life with this kind of person
OR
Should I give the other guy a chance again and move on cuz I can't seem to forget my ex anytime I try to .
Please advice me on what to do
Thanks

obembet:
The French club are desperate to get rid of Neymar but have now accepted he will only leave on loan and not for €180m.

PSG are trying to find a solution to their Neymar problem this week. Despite the Brazilian's wish to rejoin FC Barcelona, it appears they are determined to talk with everyone else before calling Josep Maria Bartomeu. Neymar knows he is being offered around and one of those sides was Manchester United - but they turned him down.

Before Ligue 1 begins this weekend, PSG want the situation resolved. The issues between the management and Neymar is beyond repair and know they must get him out before the season kicks off to avoid any further embarrassment. They spoke to United about taking Neymar on loan and Real Madrid have also asked about the Brazilian's availability.

Neymar only has eyes for Barça after making the decision to leave at the end of last season. He wants PSG to discuss a move so he can start planning for his second stint at the Camp Nou.

Source: https://amp.sport-english.com/en/news/barca/psg-offered-neymar-to-manchester-united-but-they-turned-him-down-7583273

Isha327:
Stop screaming and go get a foreign girl
Leave Nigeria girls alone

folake4u:
People have choices.

carter009:
Please tell her, she like bashing guys, always angry over Nothing, she can't say anything without harsh words, or did anyone guy hurt her, I really don't know what is eating her up, her hatred on nairaland guys is something else.hope she will listen and change her ways,

LilMissFavvy:
That was a description of you, and you know it. I would rather be single for life, than mingle with a skunk of a man, scallywag! I don't hate men, mind you I got the best dad, that's why when I see bastards like you from failed backgrounds talking shiii I get irritated. Go and get a life, loser.

LINTUNE:
dude, don't waste ur time trying to explain something that is so apparent, to an obviously exposed lady, cos I deduced that from the way she writes, she knows the truth but just in self denial ... For women, the older she gets the higher the tendencies that she will give birth to an abnormal child, it's a medical fact...

Lovelyn451:
They all look different

Fountainofyouth:
She married the least guy she loves because you are in her heart to know how much she loves her husband right? The confidence some people have on this faceless forum as if they are part of your life in reality is nauseating......

ImaIma1:
Stop this ignorance. You think all the ladies that you see getting married to young single guys are all below 30? When next you attend a wedding, go and ask for the lady's birth certificate. I married above 30 and I am so glad I waited. My close friend got married at 34(a virgin) to a single guy. Infact many of my friends married at over 30 to single guys in their age range.

I don't know why you are making myopic baseless assertions. If you can't marry a lady above 30, no problem but don't speak for everyone.

This kind of restricted and shallow mentality is peculiar to Nigerian men... mostly the unexposed ones who still think traditionally and inside a box. I would rather marry at 40 than marry a man with such mentality.

Marriage is not a prize, an achievement or a race to be run; first to get there gets a prize. You can rush in and rush out or stay and suffer because of how people like you think.

This prejudice against single ladies needs to stop. At least I know for sure that there are many men out there with a liberal and healthy mindset. It's only in the Nairaland world that these nonsense talk happens because it is filled with myopic, unexposed and self absorbed men.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/soldiers-allegedly-gang-rape-aaua-student-at-checkpoint/

Islie:
Oh!!!my alma mata..







https://punchng.com/soldiers-allegedly-gang-rape-aaua-student-at-checkpoint/

LillyVal:
Understood sis

LilMissFavvy:
She didn't marry the least guy, she married the best. She was in a relationship when her current husband approached her. She refused to take him serious because she felt he may be a player, and also the tribe issue. He continued to pressure her, till she became just friends. From simple friendship, they landed where they are today. Need I mention how long they dated, I rather not. Because you won't even believe it.

Phenomenal16:
.. U wan put word for my mouth

LilMissFavvy:
Well sorry to disappoint you, my sister got married at 30 to a guy of 31, she initially did not take him serious especially since he's from another tribe. How is the marriage currently? they are doing great till date. Speak for yourself, leave other men out of it.

LilMissFavvy:
So on point!

Phenomenal16:
Ok