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Why do married men have money than single guys?

Married men have more responsibilities ranging from rents, kids education, food etc and yet they have cash to splash around.


Single guys even when they are gainfully employed and financially stable, majority are usually stingy and hardly spend.

Married men are more matured and tight lip about relationship but single guys easily run their mouth.

I need help on how to woo a lady for a relationship, kindly assist in the following areas.

1. How to woo a babe in public bus, supermarket.

2. Driving my own car and saw these beauty by the road...what do I say to make her join me in the car.

3. How to woo a fellow student

no bashing please.

A long-awaited verdict in the trial of two Canadian religious leaders accused of polygamy is expected on Monday.
Winston Blackmore, 61, is accused of having 24 wives and his former brother-in-law James Oler, 53, is alleged to have married four women.
They are both former bishops of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (FLDS).
The landmark polygamy trial is expected to test the boundaries of religious freedom in Canada.
Polygamy is illegal under Section 293 of Canada's Criminal Code.
Mr Blackmore's lawyer has argued that criminalising polygamy infringes on his client's freedom of religion.
Both men face a maximum sentence of five years if found guilty.
Fugitive US polygamist sect leader held
Their trial took place in a British Columbia (BC) court this spring over the course of two-and-a-half weeks.
The two are from Bountiful in southeastern BC, a religious community of about 1,500 people and founded in 1946.
Residents are part of a breakaway Mormon sect, the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (FLDS) and have practised polygamy for over 70 years.
Mr Blackmore was excommunicated from the FLDS in 2002 and replaced by Mr Oler.
The sect has branches in the US, including Colorado City, Arizona, and Hildale, Utah, and about 10,000 members.
The FLDS split from the mainstream Mormon church over a century ago after it banned the practice of polygamy.
FLDS sect members are said to see polygamy as necessary for reaping reward in the afterlife.
The American former FLDS leader, Warren Jeffs, was sentenced to life in prison in 2011 by a Texas court for sexually assaulting two underage girls that he took as brides.
This June, his brother Lyle Jeffs was arrested in South Dakota after fleeing house arrest in 2016 while awaiting trial with 10 other sect leaders for alleged food stamp fraud and money laundering.
Authorities in the US and Canada have collaborated on building cases against FLDS leaders.
The Royal Canadian Mounted Police has had Bountiful in its sights since the 1990s over allegations of child abuse, coerced marriages, and the trafficking of teenage brides between the US and Canada.
Attempts to bring the case to trial stumbled over a lack of clarity around anti-polygamy laws in Canada.
In 2011, the BC Supreme Court upheld Canada's anti-polygamy law as constitutional following a request for clarification from BC's government.
According to the 335-page ruling, the law is a reasonable restriction on religious freedoms.
Justice Robert Bauman wrote that the "salutary effects of the prohibition far outweigh the deleterious" and noted that the institution of monogamous marriage "seeks to protect against the many harms which are reasonably apprehended to arise out of the practice of polygamy".
Those "many harms" cited included the possibility of early sexualisation of girls, physical or sexual abuse, and the ostracisation of young men.
Queens University law professor Nick Bala, who was an intervenor in the 2011 BC court reference, says that questions around the constitutional validity of the law as well as difficulty gathering admissible evidence from the women involved with the sect made a case a struggle to build.
Mr Bala expects Monday's verdict will be closely watched not just in Canada but in the US and Europe as well, where the debate around plural marriages is a significant issue.
Polygamy is illegal throughout the western world.
"This is a matter of national and indeed international significance and it's likely to end up in the Supreme Court of Canada," he said.
Mr Bala says there is still sufficient legal doubt around the constitutionality of the anti-polygamy law that he is not willing to predict Monday's verdict.
Source : http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-40677576

lubaabu:
are you serious of what you are saying, advisory fee is payable once is not monthly, but email me on anataala@yahoo.com for why forward on how your bank will paid your back your money with interest.

I have same issue.

pressplay411:
They legally allowed to do whatever tickles their fancy.
Theres nothing wrong in exploring to maximize sexual experience.
Theres no biblical/quranic reference against it.

Islam which is my religion is against intimacy gadgets.

France is set to ban the sale of any car that uses petrol or diesel fuel by 2040, in what the ecology minister called a "revolution".
Nicolas Hulot announced the planned ban on fossil fuel vehicles as part of a renewed commitment to the Paris climate deal.
He said France planned to become carbon neutral by 2050.
Hybrid cars make up about 3.5% of the French market, with pure electric vehicles accounting for just 1.2%.
It is not yet clear what will happen to existing fossil fuel vehicles still in use in 2040.
Volvo goes electric across the board
Global dismay at US climate deal pullout
How Paris is stepping up its drive against the car
Mr Hulot, a veteran environmental campaigner, was appointed by new French President Emmanuel Macron. Mr Macron has openly criticised US environmental policy, urging Donald Trump to "make our planet great again".
President Trump's decision to withdraw from the Paris climate change agreement in June was explicitly named as a factor in France's new vehicle plan.
"France has decided to become carbon neutral by 2050 following the US decision," Mr Hulot said, adding that the government would have to make investments to meet that target.
Poorer households would receive financial assistance to replace older, more polluting vehicles with cleaner ones, he said.
Earlier this week, car manufacturer Volvo said all of its new car models would be at least partly electric from 2019, an announcement referenced by Mr Hulot.
He said he believes French car manufacturers - including brands such as Peugeot-Citroen and Renault - would meet the challenge, although he acknowledged it would be difficult. Renault's "Zoe" electric vehicle range is one of the most popular in Europe.
However, traditional fossil fuel vehicles account for about 95% of the European market.
Other targets set in the French environmental plan include ending coal power plants by 2022, reducing nuclear power to 50% of total output by 2025, and ending the issuance of new oil and gas exploration licences.
Several French cities struggle with high levels of air pollution, including Paris, which endured several days of peak pollution in March.
The capital has implemented a range of measures to cut down on cars , but air pollution is also a problem in picturesque mountain regions .
Last month, a woman took the French state to court over what she said was a failure to protect her health from the effects of air pollution in Paris.
Norway, which is the leader in the use of electric cars in Europe, wants to move to electric-only vehicles by 2025, as does the Netherlands. Both Germany and India have proposed similar measures with a target of 2030.

source: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-40518293

and then...

MouthAction is producing dangerous gonorrhoea and a decline in condom use is helping it to spread, the World Health Organization has said.
It warns that if someone contracts gonorrhoea, it is now much harder to treat, and in some cases impossible.
The sexually transmitted infection is rapidly developing resistance to antibiotics.
Experts said the situation was "fairly grim" with few new drugs on the horizon.
About 78 million people pick up the STI each year and it can cause infertility.
The World Health Organization analysed data from 77 countries which showed gonorrhoea's resistance to antibiotics was widespread.
Dr Teodora Wi, from the WHO, said there had even been three cases - in Japan, France and Spain - where the infection was completely untreatable.
She said: "Gonorrhoea is a very smart bug, every time you introduce a new class of antibiotics to treat gonorrhoea, the bug becomes resistant."
Worryingly, the vast majority of gonorrhoea infections are in poor countries where resistance is harder to detect.
"These cases may just be the tip of the iceberg," she added.
Throat infection
Gonorrhoea can infect the genitals, rectum and throat, but it is the last that is most concerning health officials.
Dr Wi said antibiotics could lead to bacteria in the back of the throat, including relatives of gonorrhoea, developing resistance.
She said: "When you use antibiotics to treat infections like a normal sore throat, this mixes with the Neisseria species in your throat and this results in resistance."
Thrusting gonorrhoea bacteria into this environment through MouthAction can lead to super-gonorrhoea.
"In the US, resistance [to an antibiotic] came from men having sex with men because of pharyngeal infection," she added.
A decline in condom use, which had soared because of fears of HIV/Aids, is thought to help the infection spread.

Source : http://www.bbc.com/news/health-40520125

When people say they are enjoying life or "chopping the life of their head" as the saying goes, its either they are eating, drinking alcohol or spirits and to some men its women.

Majority if not all of the above leads to destruction, you can't eat everything or too much, alcohol leads to disgrace, accidents or death, women leads to STDs, HIV, magun or thunderbolt.
Besides, if men says having multiple women is enjoyment, is having multiple men also enjoyment for women?
What does it really mean or take to enjoy these life?

Why not promoting promiscuity, ever wonder what will happen to women if all men in the world stops cheating.

Just curious...

And they want these one to support Biafra, where will he start from. Same with the Ubahs, and those spare parts sellers in ladipo.

As a legally married couple, what could warrant the use of condom during intimacy and why would you not agree to it?

only in Nigeria that suffering is a competition..
abeg who suffer pass.

softwerk:
These people just keep proving Donald Trump right on a daily basis now

Travel Ban - Supported

Extreme Vetting - Supported

No to Political Correctness - Supported

Fake News Media Shutdown - Supported

you think these is terror attack, where dem write am?

The car has a commercial plate number.

Death will come when its time.
wetin cause tiote death from your list....none am sure, cos he get 6/6 for your list and still died.

Tolerance.

Many couples live apart ranging from states to different countries, these may be due to different reason but the most common reason is work.

Quest for survival is really tearing many families apart. Many stay away for weeks, months and some mostly in another country stay away for years.

How do these couple cope with occassional sex?

Buffon is and forever remains a legend.

Modric is mastro.

Juventus more placed to win, doing all hard work while Madrid is absorbing the pressure and hoping on luck and counter.
Juv playing to win
Madrid hoping on luck.

veekid:
So Hausa women are wicked as well?

Did you read at all, couple are from Anambra but live in kano.

Afam4eva:
Nigerian police officers have beaten more than they can chew.

@beaten.

Should be bitten.

Toks2008:
Before you all begin to wonder what I'm up to this time I would like to state clearly that Polygamy is a matter of choice and I'm not promoting polygamy
but i want us to have an unbiased and non hypocritical down to earth discussion about this deep and sensitive one man one wife concept.

Everyday we see series of prewedding pics,we see pics of a happily married lady with her husband and lovely children and we see ladies gush over their significant other not forgetting those who will threaten fire and brimstone if their hubby ever imagine the possibility of a second wife but I want these ladies to wait and think for a minute about that young widow who is faced with the challenges of being a single parent...about that innocent divorcee whose husband against all odds threw her out...about that mature unmarried single mum that keeps meeting unserious unmarried single men and about that unmarried lady who is probably in her 40s and have had series of heart break from callous single men....

Yes we know that the aforementioned set of ladies could still marry a never married single guy but except we want to fool each other we all know that in most cases if single guys have the choice to make,they would mostly go for single ladies with no child rather than a young widow with children,a young divorcee with children or a single mum.

The big question is "Who will marry this set of ladies? I know it will be easy for anyone to quickly say shebi there are widowers, male divorcees with children or even single guys who can still marry them but it is easier to say this if you are not in their shoes.

No matter how hard some people go against polygamy,i strongly believe it is the answer to the prayers of some ladies but what can I say in a world where hypocrisy is a norm? a world where a man of 70 celebrates 40years monogamous wedding anniversary with one lady while keeping other children with different mothers outside the same marriage...and a crazy world where even the young married men who sing the "i love my my wife" lyrics will gladly keep side chics... oh I guess it's OK as long as these men are married to one lady...hmmmmm!

In my opinion I believe the one man one woman concept is flawed for many reasons...and it is a good thing Islam is not against it neither is the bible asides the "advice" given in the bible to General overseers to be husband of one wife.

Conclusively I would leave this topic open for discussion but when next you see a widow with children,a lady divorcee with children or a single mum finding solace in the hands of a married man,before you start judging just wait,close your eyes for a minute and put yourself in their position and ask yourself..."should i continue to wait for single men who hardly want to marry me?, should i remain celibate and continue to burn with passion?, should i just throw caution to the wind and allow different men take advantage of my condition by having flings with me?, or should i gladly allow a married man to have me as a wife as long as he has the finance to take care of his polygamous status?

And if you are a married lady reading this...please before you start lashing out at me,wait till you find yourself in such situations.

I don't know if this makes sense but I leave it open for you all to discuss.

My brother, women are something else.
There is a trend here in the east that will soon explode, many married women are living single in the name of my husband is in the abroad. Ask when since when has he left home, some as far back as ten years ago.
Am sure we all know what is happening to drug traffickers, many are dead, majority are in prison, thousands died in the desert. Now these women are fuxking anybody cos their hubby is nowhere to be found.
Easterners are the worst hit, we carry one man one wife for head in the name of Christianity. Majority of the priest and pastors have one wife but many baby mamas.
Women even prefer their husbands have side chicks than marry a second wife though they wouldn't admit openly.
We Igbo's need to see to cost of marriage, its driving men crazy and making our women become prostitutes. come to Owerri, Enugu, Umuahia and see all our single and youthful ladies now professional runs girls.
Am sure time will tell.

Alennsar:
she will be your childrens role model. correct her now

How?

What other ways can she be corrected?

2SWT:
1. Talk to her, let her know the harm she's doing to her home
2.pray for her
3. Show her love
4. Correct her with love
5. Do somethings by yourself, clean the house, bathe the children, spend time with them infact when she comes home take her clothes off and bathe her

She'd get the message
Domestic abuse doesn't solve issues it only makes things worse

interesting...

Considering the rate of domestic violence everywhere, what should a man do when his wife refuses to cook, take care of the children and other house chores.
Husband is financially buoyant, provides for the home, enough house help and ever ready to support the wife. All the wife wants is to party, visit friends at the expense of her family.

Hubby has discussed these severally but no changes.

What should he do? DV not an option.

ok

Nice one

Another reason why she didn't deserved to win the 25m, she is already made or she is still forming.

Until we accept reality.