blinking001: More reason all men should aspire to marry good virgins. Stop rewarding wayward women with marriage. They don't deserve such generosity. Women that are not virgins should be legally banned from marrying men and giving birth to children.
are you a virgin mister man? If you are not, then you are just capping bullshit
Advice21: Hello nairalanders. Sorry that this is going to be a long read but I need to be detailed enough for you all to understand. I married a man less than a year ago after about a year and half of long distance relationship. From the inception of the relationship, I knew he was poor but I accepted him for certain reasons I thought were genuine. I never knew he was a liar, and a pretender and so good at it that I am sure he can fool even the devil. I do not understand how a person can live such double lives without anyone finding out. I wasn't naive when I met him. I was in my early twenties, a virgin, and what would be generally termed as a homely girl. There was so much camouflage in our relationship. I can categorically say he was too good to be true. Everybody loved him and sang his praises and when my parents got to know him, he was all they talked about. When I met him, he told me he was a livestock farmer and I believed him. He didn't have much, infact our traditional marriage was a palour affair. No white wedding, we just proceeded to court wedding because there was no money. When I got to his house, there was no chair, no TV, just a bed in a self contain. I felt bad about this things but I encouraged myself with the fact that I married the best man on earth based on the pretentious lies and the double life he was leading, until I saw truth for myself. Nothing under the sun can be hidden forever. First of all, he wasn't the caring man I thought he was. Just after a few weeks of being together he slapped me and from there it degenerated to full blown physical abuse, but they beating is not what killed me. By chance, I discovered that the man I thought I knew was into yahoo things and drug pedalling and infact I suspect he takes drugs too. I got to know this things by plain accident after having lived with him for a few months. I still cannot understand how he cleverly hid this part of himself from me for so long. On the outside, he seems like a gentle man, always dresses in native wears so how come? The only thing I can say that I found odd was that there were always young boys coming around the house. I asked him about it and he said he was guiding them through life based on his own experiences. The knowledge I discovered shattered me. I nearly ran mad. I think it killed my spirit in the end. I couldn't accept it, I couldn't wrap my head around it. This was a man I told about how much I detested yahoo boys while we were dating and he would join me to openly condemn them. I met a lot of them while I was in school, but I outrightly rejected them. I never believed that I would end up with not just a yahoo man, but a drug peddlar, a person who destroys the life of Young adults with drugs. Sometimes I wonder why God allowed such a calamity to befall me and my family. I married as a virgin, I never dated any married man even in times when I was so broke in school and the devil came with many temptations. I was brought up in church, my family has always lacked money but we never put our hands in any wrong thing, I was in the choir, I always prayed to God asking him never to let me marry the wrong person, I have never intentionally hurt anyone, I always seek good for other people, so why did God allow this calamity befall me. Just yesterday, I discovered the man I call my husband is a serial cheat. He sleeps with anything, even young girls. I am pregnant now and God didn't show me any of this things about this man till I got pregnant. Why did God allow me to get pregnant when there are several women out there who are in stable marriages praying earnestly for a child. I want to leave this marriage because the pain, the pain is too much. I am dying emotionally. I am a corper and would be passing out in two weeks time. My parents cannot help me. Everybody says I should pray, I shouldn't leave. One of his numerous side chick, the one who opened up to me is begging me to stay because she says he is threatening her life if I should leave. He has a cult like following of young boys who are loyal to him and I fear for the poor girls life. Please what do I do, where do I go. I didn't even tell half of the hell I have seen because I can't type everything. I have no money because I basically take care of myself with my allawees because he has no money despite selling drugs and all the evil he does. I didn't write this for money sake because a lot of people would think that's my reason. I am just pained. My heart is heavy, I feel God has failed me. How do I even begin to piece my life together with a pregnancy of seven months. Where do I go when I leave here, how do I manage. How did such evil befall me. I am all alone, saddled with a child, helpless but most importantly pained. The emotional pain is the greatest of all my woes, not even the physical pains comes close. I just wanted to let it out because I have no one else to talk to.
i hope you aborted the pregnancy and moved on with your life. God does not exist.
he should have married all these side chicks before the former olori left. He only. ended up disgracing himself and still ended marrying them side chicks
Tammyor2: I tried doing this. The pressure from the extended family was so much on me. My parent kept feeding them with lies and about how I have money and I'm ignoring them. My living close too the village does not help matters too. No body from my family has seen my baby boy since I gave birth,
Just because I predicted Liverpool will defeat Man City, then I dropped N100, boom, I now win N45 million if Liverpool end up defeating Man City.
Then why can't I bet Liverpool will defeat Man City with N100 on one hand, then Man City will defeat Liverpool with N100 on another hand, then still bet that they will draw with another N100. Whatever the outcome, I have 45 million.
But we just like deceiving ourselves. No free lunch anywhere, know this and know peace.
lwkmd you clearly dont know anything about betting and odds. Me i dont have time to explain things. bye bye.
Guy calm down. Not all nigerians in america are suffering. Though they might not be wealthy but to say they are all suffering is an exaggeration.
timesuploaded: mumu can you afford to buy a used car of 7k for there? The cars we buy here your mumu head forget say shipping, buying, clearing and profit cost they on top? People are balling in Nigeria. Nor go old for that street wey u join morrocans dey sell coffee for street. Time don go. Na even Amazon factory work u dey do, later drive taxi for evening. Hope u meet your 244 weekend trip target so them fit dash you something? Mumu
sweetman2022: I read somewhere where you said you are educated. Going to school doesn't mean you will be smart or intelligent. You are a driver and you are proud of giving birth to four and planning to do more. This means you are daft and not planning a future for those kids. As a driver what quality of education can you provide those kids right now? What if you die tomorrow because you guys don't ever think of that as Africans. Do you think what you have on ground now can take care of those kids? Our fathers made huge mistake giving birth to multitude without proper planning. How can you not realize the mistakes of your father and learn from it. The value you create before leaving this world is the legacy you live behind not the numbers of children you give birth to. You are being selfish if giving birth is making you happy even though it doesn't benefits the innocent children you are bringing to this world.
his plan is surely to send the children to public schools where they dont pay school fees
15k, and the house help is going to do almost every chores in the house. Would carry out duties of laundry man, cook, cleaner. 15k is too poor for any human being in this dispensation.
almost all? the unfortunate victim will do every fuçking chore. cooking, cleaning, laundry, nanny, going to market, carrying load, packing shït, fetching water, massaging feet, loosing hair, attending PTA meeting, picking kids from school, to mention but a few. I just hope no one is desperate enough to fall for this
A female friend said i should bring 20k to buy one for me but I'm sure she inflated the price . I then went to the market and was able to get one for 1.5k but unfortunately it left my face white and i had to wash it off. I'm guessing it was too cheap. How much is a good one that will rub in very well?
gloryhomemaker: This video gives a detailed explanation on how to safely bleach palm oil without any fumes or a choking environment. It's quick and easy to follow steps in a 2 minutes video.
All you need is a pot with a non perforated lid and palm oil.
Pour palm oil in a pot with a tight lid. Cover and cook on the lowest heat for 20 minutes without opening the lid at all. After 20 minutes, put off the heat and allow to cool for another 20 minutes before opening the pot. You can cook in large quantity and store for use anytime needed, that way you save gas. No fumes, no choking, no air pollution, no coughing, no near fire incidence, etc.
what of if i open the pot immediately after putting off the fire
as an atheist i have gotten to a point where i dont bother to argue with anyone that their religious beliefs are not real. Because it doesnt fuçking matter. Nothing matters in this life. Let everyone just do whatever rocks their boat
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