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Hey chief, howdy?

How much are u selling?

And does it have any issue i should know of?

I've messaged your whatsapp line ...

harber123:
Any lucky person interested in buying FOR SALE- USED ECOFLOW DELTA 2 MAX 2400W 2048WH

Just incase you are interested though.

I've got FOR SALE - USED ECOFLOW DELTA 2 MAX (2400W, 2048wh)

Used for around 6 months.

Changing it because I have a higher Ecoflow now.

WHATSAPP ONLY- 07063830475

U dey mind am

Age and intelligence are 2 different things ... that's why u can be 60 and be foolish and yet, a 20 year old can be wise

advanceDNA:
So once learners start entering Js1 @ age 12, impressive graduates is automatically will be the outcome??

Sigh!! God abeg oooo !!

Use a plier and rock gentle to get it out ...

Why force your cable into the macbook pro port in the 1st place??

By the way, that your mac is prone to have issues very soon with the amount of dust i'm seeing on it ... Get foam clean and be cleaning it constantly to remove dust, debris, bread crumbs etc which can damage the keyboard ...

Domainer1999:
I don forcefully put my iPhone usb port inside my MacBook port.

I don drag am with teeth, hy no comot.
Make I try plier? Oil?

But I dey fear make he no spoil the port.

Help me! Help me!! Help me!!!

haba, oga, ibo la tun jasi bayi

But to be honest, you're correct ... that has been the order of the day for a while now

FreeIgboho:
6. DON'T consider doing olosho as a side hustle
Just don't

Yeah ... you'll get it on cdcare. They do even nos: 2, 4, 6, 8, 10 & 12 months!!

After 50% pay, & u are midway in payment plan date (if u pick 4 months, it will be delivered after 2 months, even if u pay 50% at once)

I did 2 months ... paid 50%, and 7th or 8th day, they brought it!

I have to cough out their balance by 22nd (extendable by 7 days grace = 29th) or else ... don't know what will happen sha
I had replied u earlier but its like one of the MODS deleted or hid my response and restricted me from even replying for hours ... maybe cos of links i posted there sha ...

I'm using the Delta 2 1800Watts with 1024 Watts/hour battery!

Yes, it does power my deep (chest) freezer and also my fridge ... I don't put all on at same time ... its mainly for the freezer (make things inside no spoil) ... if u load am well well, u get shorter battery life time but usually, with tv, home theatre, android tv box (airtel) and router = 64 watts ... u get around 6 hours plus ... sometimes, 14 hours (when fully charged) ...

I'm getting the extra battery sef for longer run time

The fact that the specs are all well written out without any hidden thing and also, i've watched tons of review ... especially from Miss techy ... that's what made me decide ....

Nurse no fear bro ... that delta 2 is a beast ... i wired it to a change over and i'm enjoying it!!! And there's a way to wire it to charge whenever nepa brings light ... and also, when u put on the gen, u can just reroute the charging plug ... I can explain it to you sha maybe on whatsapp ... before seun and his mods decide to ban me

Switch between nepa and solar?? I don't understand the question ...

NB- i had replied earlier but the post was either deleted or hidden ... and i was also restricted from posting or liking, for hours

Afikoo:
Ohh. Interesting that I Will be getting it on CDcare. How is the instalment payment on CDcare like. How long will it take for them to deliver the goods after paying 50%

What model of the ecoflow delta are you using that's powering your fridges ?

Again, what's the switch between NEPA and solar like. Is it fast

Buy that ecoflow jeje for peace of mind ...

The stats are stated there ...

Delta 2
Capacity 1800watts
Battery Capacity 1024 Watts Hour

It has battery expansion port by the right side....

I am currently using the Delta 2 and is wired to my change over switch!

Powers my freezer 105 litres, Fridge - 95 litres, Tv, light etc

And you see the battery estimated time ...

The more load u mount, the shorter the battery life!!!

Its that simple!!

If u need more info, hit me up!!!

Get it from CD Care and spread the payment. Its about 685k when i got it!!!

U see that colasolar abi whats the name, the specs are shaddy jare ...

My 1 cent advise!

Afikoo:
Good day all. I want to get a portable solar generator to help power my starlink and fridge.

I came across Cola2000 and Ecoflow Delta 2 1800.

I read Ecoflow has expandable outlets where you can increase the voltage by getting extra batteries.

I need your submission and recommendations on the best solar generator right now and if it's advisable to get one

Get over the oscro joor!!!

She's a bloody manipulator!!!

You're just been unnecessarily emotional and i understand cos i've been there ...

But as a senior for this kain field, she's not worth 1 drop of your tear ...

Ensure you become successful in life but learn from your mistakes ... no let anyone guilt trip you into doing things which you can't afford!!!

Wyrax:
Good morning, Nairalanders.

So, I am extremely unhappy, sad, pained, etc. If you check my previous posts, there is this one girl that has been breaking my heart consistently for years with consistent rejections. We had been friends. When I asked her out, she declined, saying she couldn't date me. A year later, she called me, saying she missed me... Then, we got talking again. I asked her for a relationship again, and she declined again. I had a fight with her, and we didn't even talk for over a year, until I just apologized to her for my behaviors. That was 2023. Early this year, she called me, saying that though I had asked her out several times and she had declined, she loved me and would like to be in a relationship with me. I thought about it and gave it a chance. Unfortunately, I got too attached again.
She started a crisis talk. I observed she was testing me for a particular week.

What caused our breakup was the fact that she asked for data, which I didn't have enough money for. She then started saying it's not like she asks for much from me, that ordinary data I couldn't buy. I told her I really didn't have it. She dragged it to the point where she said, "We are still early, and we can break up if I don't care about her." I told her we should end it. I said this because she's been selfish. I actually didn't have the money for the data. She even started saying I should take from my savings if I truly love her. She pushed it to the extent that I had to tell her she does things I can't cope with, and also I am not ready for a relationship.

Now, we've broken up. I've been thinking I've made a mistake. I've begged her, but she's just resisting my plea. I love this girl so much. For more than 5 years now, we've been doing this on and off, and she's been consistently on my mind. How can I completely get over her?

I don't know why some people no dey hear word!!!

Must u kill yourself cos u wan impress woman

If ur body no carry am, abeg, leave sex alone jare

Seriously, the weed must be from Iran or Jamaica

Dogalmighty17:
I heard from a reliable source that a very potent type of weed has been smuggled into Nigeria. I think that's what OP is smoking.

Picking a partner is not that black and white bro so, lower your so called standard and look at things from another perspective, then you'll find a partner!!

Meanwhile, who u wan leave all those u don damage for street for

CTee1:
Looking for someone who shares my values: family oriented and God centered

Looks like a stun gun .... its good to have that in traffic jam cos of boiz wey dey break car glass to rob ... pray u don't encounter them for lagos

Naturalgbola:
If its not real, what's a pastor doing with toy gun 🔫??

Eeya, sowie my dear brother....

Sometimes, life happens to us and we need to just simplify it, a lil bit ...

Lemme start by asking u about school ... did u, say, attend kinda tertiary education? Even if na Ond, lemme know!

Now, do u have any marketable skill that people will be willing to pay you for?

Talking about your present leverage, are u living with your parents or living alone

What are the stuffs you've tried over the years that have not worked??

See, whatever present condition we find ourselves, its always and almost based on the decisions we took in the past....

So, lets both figure this out ... then i may be able to profer one or 2 things u can do to move up and outa the trenches ...

As per DM, nairaland doesn't have the feature or else, i would have preferred to have a one on one discussion with u.

Stay blessed!!!

Cleanthes:
I am tired of living in uncertainty and lack, I want to start living in prosperity and abundance. I am 29 years old but very poor and struggling, my net worth is 7k despite the fact that I am not lazy.
I do a lots of hard labours to survive but I always don't have money. All my money is for food and data, if I spend two days without working I starve. I am tired of this life style. It hurts me seeing my mates/friends living in abundance, eating and drinking what they want, buying nice clothes and going out with beautiful girls, while I always work hard, eat and sleep. I can't afford any good life.
All my friends I grew up with are doing better than me, it got me thinking that I am under a,spell or what? Or my village people are after me, why all my efforts are in vain? For 29 years on earth I still have nothing and feed myself with difficulty.

I want to change my life. Maybe I am following a,wrong path or maybe there is something that I dont know about money.
I create this thread, to seek for ideas and solutions about my situation, truly I want to enjoy life before I kpai, and to enjoy life I need to be successful with money.
Anybody that has an idea that will change my life and make money flow to my side please share with me for that I truly need it. I am tired of toiling inside a blazing sun everyday and earn a meagre amount that won't solve my issues. I want to start earning smart for that I realized its how people get rich not by working hard, hard works give waist pain and backache.
My DM is open

Eeya ... mine picked up and started working again after some hours ... but e don get small belle (pregnancy)

I still dey use am sha ...

Paystack:
Same here

Thank God for whoever brought the matter to court and the quick judgement/order given!!!

There should be a law against this rubbish religion ... So their religion permits life to end than to take blood transfusion??

I can bet with my left ball that even their so called head would have taken blood transfusion secretly at some point time while telling their followers to not do it!!!

OLAADEGBU:
Regrettably, the parents of Ruth declined, stating that they were members of Jehovah's Witnesses and their faith did not allow blood transfusion.

Its like lending money to the government .... And get paid with interest.

If u get energy well well and have 50 million, u can buy directly from cbn but if u are super broke like moi, then u can buy from 3rd party fellas like your commercial banks and i think for as low as 100k or so ...

Tenure/maturity is 3 months, 6 months and 1 year ... they all have their interest rates

Smilleydr:
pls can you explain what s Treasury bill for me, pls and how it operate.

Apart from the Catalytic converter, there are some other tiny but important components in the car that affects/impact fuel consumption!!!

One of the major culprits is your ECT (engine coolant temperature) sensor ... When u start the car in the morning, it tells the computer to pump fuel into the cylinder so it can reach an operating temperature (Open Loop) ... when the operating temperature has been reached, then it goes into Close Loop (normal fuel consumption) and hands over the fuel management to the Oxygen Sensors (popularly called O2 sensors)...

If that sensor is bad, then is stays in open loop forever, consuming fuel ...

Your oxygen sensors might also be dirty ... You are supposed to clean them or replace them the moment u get a used or tokunbo vehicle.

These cars are not built to consume so much fuel by design but due to our kazeems tampering with some stuffs to keep us coming back every week, dem go guzzle your fuel...

Your gear, if the oil is dirty/brownish colours and smells burnt, needs a change and that will also aid in it down shifting to lower power gear which in turn affects fuel consumption.

From my experience, these are the stuff that will affect your fuel consumption.

BlindAngel:
Hello Nairalanders, as y'all can see from my previous threads, I bought a 2008 toyota camry July last year, the fuel consumption was something else and totally out of this world, I went from mechanic to mechanic, to detect and get It resolved, but the fault remained the same, nothing changed. So August last year, I bought a 2012 corolla, but it seems It also consume fuel which I didn't realized until I stormed upon a thread here on Nairaland, I came to this conclusion when I saw a thread on Nairaland titled "how much fuel per km does your car consume" I clicked on the thread and read all the comments and to my surprise, my corolla consume more fuel than those using v6 cars, a guy commented that his Toyota Venza goes 490 miles for 40k fuel, which is approximately 42 liters, I saw another comment where a guy stated that his camry goes 270km for 20k fuel.

Whereas my 2012 corolla goes 150km for 30k fuel which is approximately 31L of fuel. This Is the 5th time I have timed and calculated it's fuel consumption, the first I got 150km for 30k fuel, the second I got 144km for 30k fuel, the third I got 152km on 30k fuel, the forth, I got 146km on 30k fuel and the last which was four days ago, I got 149km on 30k fuel. I used "km" because my corolla gas milage reads in km and not miles.

Nevertheless, upon realizing this, I got a Nigerian used 2008 camry yesterday, the engine Is in great shape "very silent" but my mechanic I went with to purchase It warned me that there's no catalyst on it, In which I still proceeded in purchasing it, as I intended buying a catalyst for it tomorrow morning. I'm yet to test it's fuel consumption because I'm unable to drive It yet because my papers are not yet ready.

I have not sold my 2012 corolla yet, I told myself that If it consumes just like the corolla or consumes slightly just above the corolla, then I would sell my corolla, but If it consumes far more than the corolla then I would sell the newly bought camry and continue using my corolla.

For those using the 2007, 2008 or probably 2009 camry, what's your fuel consumption How many miles/km does your car goes per liter

Below are the pictures of my corolla and my newly bought camry.

Treasury bills ... run the quarterly (3 months) plans and keep re-peating ... its about 10 to 18 percent ... Its safer than all those CBEX stuff

Roseodd:
I need an urgent advice please.
Should I use my 4million to buy Treasury bills,or mutual funds.
Or I should just buy the mini bus and drive.
Urgent answer needed please

Now u see say, the airforce are justified for going to their office to beat them up

Distribution companies are our enemies ... and until their heads are sacked or jailed, they will continue this their drama

SalamRushdie:
This can't be true that a whole deputy governor is finding it hard to get metered ?

Good question seun and this tells me you're very intelligent!

1. Ability to show what we feel about someone's post - like, love, angry, shouting etc ...
2. Escrow services - yeah ... a lot of transactions happen on nairaland and to ensure people don't get scammed of their hard earned money, i feel nairaland can have escrow services (like an intermediary - hold funds from buyer, hold & inspect item from seller) ensure both gets to each party - not free sha ...

Those 2 for now ... if any other ones come to mind, i'll drop em!

Thanks once more for creating nairaland!

Seun:
Hello Guys,

I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.

So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.

What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?

Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.

Well, the question you should ask your mind and body is, why are u not attracted to such a good girl

If i'm in your shoes, i'll marry her ... rather than those "spec ladies" that might end up not giving u peace of mind ...

Most times, the bigger the assets, the more likely you'll not be able to control its access ...

Learn to love this lady ....

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

Use Iphone 11 swap for Samsung S10? E choke oooo

hunterezi:
Make we swap with my samsung s10e

That's not bad .... I'm eyeing their 800w or 1800w version ... But the money tough small

coolie1:
Not that great maybe like 8 hours. But I want to pair mine with solar so it can be unlimited during the day.

Nope, i disagree .. most have not backslided but have been discourage by various factors ... one of which is pastors attitude these days ...

U can't claim to be a pastor and talk to me anyhow cos i play keyboard for your church ... it will take the grace of God for us not to have a verbal encounter ...

That's why most people prefer to stream services of other churches at home and have a peaceful sunday ...

AngelSlay:
Many Christians have backslided from attending church service due to one reason or the other.

I am no here to judge, I only wish you can tell us your peculiar reason for you to stop attending church and hopefully someone might be here to advice you on what to do.

No one is perfect, we all learn from birth to death always have a open heart to the endless possibilities been alive.

Don't be fooled by the "ikoyi thingy"

Get married at any registry in lagos and use your document to travel out!

The ikoyi thing has been debunked since na ... why waste money?

Hope u know dem go bill u well well there sha

Safe trip o

Hagiazomakai:
There have been a lot of debates on whether Federal Registry is more authentic than Local or State Government Registry?

Well I am not here for that though but Federal is still superior though you can use both certificates to travel abroad as it is acceptable in embassies all around the world.

Moving forward


I will do another thread on what to expect when going to Ikoyi Registry.

Aircoolers actually work ... i've not bought those big ones shown in your post but a small portable one i bought, proved that they are not bad.

However, i'll not buy aircooler, rather, i'll buy 1 hp portable ac ... infact i saw one inverter type sef which saves 70% energy (LG of course)...

That's a better option ... and buying as tokunbo is the best way to save money cos the brand new price can kill ...

The toks are about 100 to 200k depending on how much greed dey the sellers eyes

Asamota:
I've been reading a lot of feedback from Europeans and Americans, but now I would like to hear from someone living in Nigeria.

Are air coolers worth it?

Running ACs at night with an inverter costs an arm and a leg. The only alternative I can think of now is air coolers.

Have you used air coolers in the past, do you currently use one today?

Is it really better than a standing fan?

Are u buying the ecoflo solar panels or the regular solar panels

I'm asking so as to know steps to take when i get mine too ... Thanks

coolie1:
Not that great maybe like 8 hours. But I want to pair mine with solar so it can be unlimited during the day.

Well, try some low brow areas where u can get room and parlour self con for less than 500k sha ... na low brow area o ... and no POP ...

Na all those POP, terazzo or all walls tiled dem dey take chop u ...

Rent for low brow area and enjoy peace of mind ...

Funny thing is, all those 2 million area, some associated bills might still show up that you won't ever envisage and the agents won't tell u so consider your options carefully ....

To me, staying in low brow area is a great way to save money ... rather than dashing away your hard earned money to these agents

concho:
I have a business that will keep me in Lagos for 18 months, so I decided to secure accommodation before relocating—I hate being stranded.

Knowing that rent on the island is quite high, I focused my search on Main land .

Omo, the cheapest room and parlor apartment I found was ₦1.2M, with a total package of ₦1.6M. Another agent even quoted ₦2M as the total package for the same type of apartment.

I’d love to get some insight into how much you all are paying to see if these agents are overpricing or trying to rip me off.

Also, if you have any advice on renting in Lagos for a JJC like me, please share.
Thanks 🙏

You should understand that some people are at war with themselves ... how do u think such people won't be at war with anybody they see around them

Try as much as possible to avoid interacting or getting over familiar with your neighbours ...

In our former place, one single mother wants to borrow money without giving it back ... infact, we got so familiar that if her gas finish, she would come beg us to use our cooking gas ... na we cause am ... we learnt the hard way ...

In current our place, i stay upstairs but u see the neighbours downstairs, won't light up (put bulb) on the path that leads to their apartment but wetin concern me? They recently killed a snake that almost bit one of their kids ... u know, i came back from work to see them all gathered ... but you will think they will be sensible enough to buy 1k bulb so as to avoid walking in the dark after what happened but na lie, till now, they don't care ... me sef just face front ... the day snake bites someone, that's when they will learn ...

Bro, caution your people against having interactions with your troublesome neighbours ... if possible, avoid spreading clothes when the others will ... if u have a washing machine, spin those clothes till they will need just 10 mins sun to dry ...

As per those clips thing, mark all your clips or study what they are using ... buy something waaay different and avoid borrowing from them ...

If while the altercation was happening, she falls down and pass out, hope u know say, na manslaughter

Na money to chop we dey all find o ...

Jozilinn:
I have noticed that people don't like peace,they would just use it as an opportunity to step on you, brush you even chop you join.

There's this guy that just got married where I stay the wife wanted to collect clips from my cousin sister and she said she doesn't have, she started saying that she doesn't want to bring it out. Next thing she hot in and brought out the clips which wasn't even enough for her to clip her kids clothes.

Now according to her, she saw some clips which she collected from our neighbor and discovered our clips inside it. She wanted to take it this woman was saying she shouldn't on that she wasn't the one that gave her clips.

Just Thus evening I receive a call that there was a confrontation before my sister and this neighbor of ours. Now my sis said after the woman dropped the clips outside after use, she decided to remove our own from inside mind you the neighbor that gave out the clips is very close to us.

Now this woman came out and said that my sister should go inside and bring out the clips so she can hand them over,and she told her that the clips are ours next thing she started raising her voice at her, the neighbor came and then she joined her saying my sister is very stingy and that she's wicked because of clip oh and these two women are from the same tribes they started speaking their language.

My sister got so infuriated she started throwing insults at this lady when she went outside to start unclipping our clothes knowing fully well that our clips mixed. Immediately my sister started shouting and she said she's mad. Immediately this lady as if it's a plan she started throwing blows pushing and looking for objects. She said she refused to be calm and immediately she tried to defend herself from her after then a series of dragging. They were eventually calm and me myself am in shock over the whole issue that is why I'm here.

After I came and I was told I blamed her for telling her she's mad afterall, and still told her that it's her over familiarity that brought about all these.

She shares everything with this lady, clothes, food yet she is calling her stingy. I thank God she didn't bring up this thing I just said now in the quarrel to give them what to say.

I think I have brought a particular topic about this lady earlier, that she is actually ungrateful.

Now I'm scared for myself and my cousin after their tribes person told her to be careful and still blamed her for bringing herself low for them.

I need your advice on how to handle this issue for now I have told her anything with any of them should end whether she greets them or not is not my business.

I need more input please and also more advices just in case I'm wrong.

Guy, your problem is simple: download and use the official whatsapp ... once u do that and u use your no that everyone knows, your whatsapp will work!!

All those YoWhatsapp, Gbwhatsapp, NairaWhatsapp, has been declared illegal by whatsapp years ago ...

Iamdbull:
I know how many haters I get for this platform and I know how many people are always waiting to mock me.

I work primarily as a graphics designer design logo, fliers, animation, banner and once once I dey run Photoshop for boys( no blame me na hungry finish me so I no fit say no).

Last week Monday while in middle of a deal with a client, was about sending my details, WhatsApp just told me my account has been banned.

Like play like play na so them ban my account o, I feel it was because I was deleting lots of numbers, anytime I one view status I go dey see like 1000 people status.

Wetin come finish me pata pata na when people talk say make I use new phone, na so I rush go carry all the money I get buy new phone o omo the thing no gree work

And it's that whatsapp that all my clients know, I have done paid adverts with that number, so now I can't even get customers.

Below is the screenshot of the message I dey get from WhatsApp.

Please if any Samaritan fit help me with money to do paid ads here on nairaland or Twitter or Instagram

400k for a single room? Which area be that?

Bro, you shoulda worked on staying in some low brow area that cost less and use the extra to do some meaningful stuffs ....

U gas use street sense to spend your money o ... so, no go give yourself heart problem cos u wan impress ...

I'll personally advise u stay off marriage for now till you've sorted your financials cos adding another human to your bills isn't smart ....

Remember, ladies can be understanding but the understanding get "time limit" ... I love you the way u are doesn't mean "i want u to remain the way u are" ... Hope u get my drift??

Though, u can settle down inside your 1 room apartment but having to share toilet with someone else? Is a no - no for me ...

Its the cheapest way to contact toilet disease that will eventually make u spend on drugs ... that's counter productive ...

Goodmarlian:
I am starting to get myself together financially after 5 years of struggle, I recently rented an apartment, its a single room in a three storey building but it's downstairs,very spacious and I have to share toilet and bathroom with the security.I initially wanted to get an apartment in ikorodu or mowe ibafo but considering the nature of my job it would be too stressful for me .
It's cost me 400k to get the room and I plan furnishing it,getting a flat screen television and at least a sofa,I already have a big bed,I believe i will be able to do the rest this year by God's grace.
Getting accommodation in Lagos is too hard and I think planning to get another bigger apartment would take another two years Or more I am tired of plotting and planning again as time is going ,we dey age everyday so I just want to stick with this one get settle down here and rather plan building my own house from here instead.
I have not hinted my girlfriend about the plan yet so I would like to hear advise from the more experienced people here

Why ranting na if you've trully moved on

Do not accept her back ... period!

We all have the lady we loved deeply and who eventually messed up our mind ...

.... love is a decision ... understand that ... she knew what she was doing when she left u ...

If the guy she ran after no do am strong thing, she won't come back ...

You're just an option amongst her several options ... so why make her a priority

I can bet with my left balls that there are good ladies with good hearts who are dying and ready lay down their lives for u ....

But na lie, na wetin go give u heart break una go dey chase after ...

Move on brova ... she was never "the one"

Wizzy13:
My ex who left for another guy has return begging after leaving but unfortunate for her i have moved on with my life.
I thank you all for your advice

here is the previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8347707/how-stop-thinking-ex