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Romance › Re: True Story: Claimed She Was Virgin, Rushed Engagement by bigman001(m): 1:26am On May 16

SQLmastar:
Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.

I met this lady (a doctor)
4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.

Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?

I need honest advice.

As you Rush in na so you go rush out, you said she lies alot abi and you want my candid advice. Don't ever marry a woman based on self pity and expecting her to change from her lies in the future, it is better you call off the wedding and face the consequences now than regret for the rest of your life. If a girl can get pregnant during 1 year residency, bro them don dey flip her even before the residency, she wants to use Virgin as a way to lure cool looking young guys into her web of lies. you should be thanking the person that sent you the preg test, she actually wants to save you from future dillema.

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Politics › Re: Tinubu Reshuffles Cabinet, Sacks Wale Edun, Dangiwa by bigman001(m): 1:56am On Apr 22

InfoGuru118:
https://verynigerian.com/breaking-tinubu-sacks-finance-minister-wale-edun-housing-minister-dangiwa/

Chop and Replace Administration .

Politics › Re: Riley Moore Raises Concerns Over Nigeria’s Insecurity by bigman001(m): 1:30pm On Apr 02

WorkTheTalk:
U.S. Congressman To Nigerian Govt: Address Attacks On Christians Or Trump Administration Will Address It for You

Source

This is not about Christians killing, its about stealing the countries rear earth minerals and oil, the killings is not subjected to Christians alone they've killed hundred of Muslims too but they never spoke about it, funny thing is Trump doesn't care about black people he is a racist and most of us knows that. they've planned this years before now, despite American forces are in nigeria and the killings sky rocket ,then its obvious what their plan is and that's why they planted Alex Babir (Spy) in Nigeria to act like American cares, yet he works with an ex armed robber turned pastor that has unlived many people before claiming to be a pastor to oversee the atrocities happenings. i know when they start invading Nigeria it will not be about Christians anymore it will be a different ball game.

Family › Re: “Avoid DNA Tests” — Odumeje by bigman001(m): 4:33pm On Mar 28

i smell something fishy, probably baba don shit inside many hoes for church, so this is a psychological diversion for members to accept every tom, dick and harry, their wife brings home as theirs.

Family › Re: Man Attempts To Jump Into The Sea At Night After Catching His Wife Cheating by bigman001(m): 8:11am On Mar 03

insidelife22:
I will get married one day but on my own terms.
You must be hard working.
DNA is compulsory for every child born.
You cheat,don't ever let me catch you.
You must respect my family,it is paramount.
And you must not touch my phone,I won't touch yours.
If you fail any of the above,I don't beat women,you will become ex wife.

With all this your write up, that one no mean say make dem no give her doggy ko Laa gune . grin

Politics › Re: City Boy Vs Village Boy Movement — Who Will Nigerians Choose In 2027? by bigman001(m): 11:51am On Feb 25

Daddyyin:
Nobody can defeat President Bola Ahmed Tinubu in 2027. Nobody!

He is the choice of the people

He is never the choice of the people , he knows how to navigate his way, everybody has a price and he will do what is necessary to get the second time, if truly the voting is a free and fair election, forget PBAT , person that cant even win Lagos State.

Education › Re: Between Sponsoring My Wife's Nursing Career To The UK Or Enroll For Msc In UK? by bigman001(m): 5:33pm On Feb 20

Naya261:
I am married with Children, my wife is a registered nurse with about 8yrs working experience.

Please which one would you strongly advice Between Sponsoring my wife's Nursing career to the UK or Enroll for Msc in Construction Project Management in the UK?

My aim for the Msc is as a means to jakpa and reside in the UK to continue working not that I really needed the Msc.

Please i need your candid advice. Thanks.

If truly you want genuine advice from a brother click the link below and see for yourself, the rest is left for you to decide

https://web.facebook.com/reel/1317171472739447

Romance › Re: Vladislav Luilkov: Ghana Releases Official Identity Of Russian Man by bigman001(m): 12:15am On Feb 20

benardtotti:
A servant cannot be greater than his master. Africa was colonised and we are not yet powerful enough to challenge the status quo.

And never can Africa be powerful enough to challenge any of their status quo, these people see Africans as advanced slaves that what ever they say or want we must want it by fire by force else its gonna rain missiles which they deprived Africans from having, there are particular weapons that could be sold to Africa and there are weapons they will never sell to Africans, we are under there watch 24/7.

Foreign Affairs › Re: US Labels Muslim Brotherhood In Egypt, Lebanon, Jordan As Terrorist Organisation by bigman001(m): 10:19pm On Jan 13

CyynthiaKiss:
https://saharareporters.com/2026/01/13/us-labels-muslim-brotherhood-branches-egypt-lebanon-jordan-terrorist-organisations

Kings of Terrorist Labelling its sponsored groups that have deviated from the original plans their terrorist sponsors made with them

Politics › Re: Kelvin Oniarah: The Notorious Kidnap Kingpin Pardoned By President Tinubu by bigman001(m): 9:15pm On Oct 13, 2025

Chijeep:
But they're still holding our Nnamdi Kanu for no concrete evidence

I'm not surprised with your level of hypocrism , what do you mean by no concrete evidence ?

Crime › Re: Somtochukwu Maduagwu: Gang Driver Reveals Own Role In Operation (Video) by bigman001(m): 12:47am On Oct 12, 2025

Chenu60:
VIDEO: Somtochukwu Maduagwu: Gang Driver Reveals own role in operation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qL3GI7VdCc?si=IUjwfXMWM8J2IzzL

And you want me to believe this karikacior News , dey play, be my fans . grin

Crime › Re: Former ECWA Secretary Backs US Senators’ Claim Of Targeted Attacks On Christians by bigman001(m): 9:34am On Oct 10, 2025

OLAADEGBU:
[color=orange]SaharaReporters[/color]

Nmadu lambasted the entrenched insecurity, revealing that "some insiders are using insecurity for their own benefit to make the government ungovernable."

The situation appears to have dimensions beyond what is being publicly presented. It’s important that Nigerians remain aware and discerning — this may not be purely a religious matter, but one with potential political implications.

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Crime › Re: Woman Herbalist Exposed A Young Man Who Came To Her For Money Rituals(vid) by bigman001(m): 5:47pm On Oct 08, 2025

press9jatv:
most of them are into all the devilish acts you mentioned in your reply. GenZ guys are deadly in search of money.

Deadly is an understatemenrt , GenZ are extremely desperate and deadly to get rich no matter what it takes.

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Crime › Re: Lady Chases Away Her House Help At Midnight In An Estate Over Missing ₦500(vid) by bigman001(m): 6:02pm On Sep 29, 2025

press9jatv:
Lady chases away her underage house help at midnight in an estate over missing ₦500…. This is really Sad man 💔

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cuIZzpILCU

Politics › Re: Jonathan Will Contest, Return To Aso Rock As President In 2027— Jerry Gana by bigman001(m): 5:08pm On Sep 29, 2025

Ofunaofu:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/09/jonathan-will-contest-return-to-aso-rock-as-president-in-2027-jerry-gana/

Like your vote even counts grin

, If you know you know.

Romance › Re: Is It Right To Apologize To Your Wife When She Cheats On You? by bigman001(m): 4:47pm On Sep 29, 2025

isyourboy:
Google photos used for illustration

Shey o wa Ok Shaa, babe wey decide to leave the house so she can be having steady bunking with the guy in hotels , you want to ask the parents to beg her, did the parents know what she did before she left her home to her fathers home? mind you if the parents can accept her back for you accusing her of infidelity with prove then be rest assured the landlord son is doing your wife and her parents just right, no worry you go hear say Landlord pikin don carry your wife follow am to Netherland , Landlord fit come decide to evcit you from his house becuase he wont be safe living with you.

Bro , forget her , she is far gone.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: 1000-24: Russia & Ukraine Exchange Dead Bodies Of Soldiers Killed (Photos) by bigman001(m): 12:09am On Sep 19, 2025

franchasng:
Putin should continue wasting the lives of Russian men in the name of a senseless war of ego he started. History will never be kind to him for the inhumanity and wickedness he has demonstrated since 2022

Stop talking like an ignorant person, and if truly you are ignorant of what caused the war initially and not the western propaganda news that you guys always believe then you should be talking to Puppet Zelensky.

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Family › Re: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by bigman001(m): 12:07am On Sep 19, 2025

SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?

Welcome to the club bro, you are still warming up, you never start to dey watch movie, you go trust and obey las las , My broda no worry nobody go tell you what to do when you are not just frustrated but you start thinking if something else is not happening behind your back. Na see finish dey make dem dey do like that , nothing to impress dem again from you

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Calls For Angela Rayner (UK Deputy Prime Minister) To Be Sacked Over Stamp Duty by bigman001(m): 11:40pm On Sep 03, 2025

Zackattack:
I wish we are civilize enough to make this type of call in Nigeria 🤦🏻‍♂️

we are civilize enough but corruption has damaed the oblongata , no more fear of God or Self Respect, they will prefer to be called criminals while they are praised and walk on Red Carpets. and they living large and proud of it, than to make things work and they are broke and unable to steall or continue corruption.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Kemi Badenoch Faces Backlash For Defending Israel's War On Gaza As Proxy War….. by bigman001(m): 1:43pm On May 27, 2025

miketayo:
It's funny, I actually supported the Palestinians for a period of time until I understood what the war was about.

You, on the other hand, don't understand what you support. What do you think Palestine wants?

Only Animals in Human Skin will support Isreal, no human being born of woman will support the genocide and ethnic cleasning , this War is not about Religion, its about humanity.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Kemi Badenoch Faces Backlash For Defending Israel's War On Gaza As Proxy War….. by bigman001(m): 1:41pm On May 27, 2025

sucess001:
This Kemi girl is always on the wrong side

What do you expect from a western/european slave?

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Travel › Re: Lekki Cars Submerged In Flood (video) by bigman001(m): 8:45am On May 22, 2025

Vendor127001:
As weather conditions change and raining season has fully begun in Nigeria, It’s the yearly anniversary of water flooding lekki as usual, a man complains about the amount of used condoms floating in the flood , with vehicles also stuck in the water which has risen above knee level.

Source: Energyoftheicon

Video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oV_RN-5r5AA?si=oAqdkWjmzWwwdU5X

Lekki and Fake Lives na 5 & 6 .

Car Talk › Re: A Typical Sunday Evening In Abuja With Fast Cars (video) by bigman001(m): 8:07am On May 19, 2025

Vendor127001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-yOMzNXBxo

Abuja is known for fast cars on the streets, the likes of lambo, bmw, Audi and mustang, but showcasing on Sunday is always the best part of the action, as the best of wheels are out on Sunday’s !!!

How do you expect the government to take us serious ?

Crime › Re: Man Butchers Wife With A Cutlass In Akwa Ibom (Photos) by bigman001(m): 1:10am On Mar 11, 2025

Aonkuuse:
Source: https://wikigists.com/rccg-pastor-klls-wife-with-a-cutlass-in-akwa-ibom-photos/

A PAstor that butchers his wife? I wonder the type of sermon he gave in his church a day before he butchered his wife,. Madness everywhere

Family › Re: "I Am Not Underage, I Am A Graduate": Lady Defends Her Marriageable Age by bigman001(m): 10:51pm On Feb 23, 2025

SultanOfAbia:
She may be a graduate
But her pussy is a PhD holder

Stupid words coming out from a stupid Man, i'm pretty sure your daughters pussy will not just be PHd holder, but a street dog holder, ewu.

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Celebrities › Re: Portable Arraigned For ‘assaulting’ Ogun Officials by bigman001(m): 12:34pm On Feb 20, 2025

Smartcitizen:
This man is not our problem in this country, we are even laughing because of him.

Tinubu and his supporters are our number one problem.

Useless myopic block head people.

😂😂😂😂😂

You are also among the problem of this country, not just Tinubu and his administration. Everybody is guilty of it.

Health › Re: NAFDAC Seals 250 Factories Producing Fake Hennessy, Coca-cola, Others In Abia by bigman001(m): 9:56pm On Jan 28, 2025

PresidObi:
250 factories?

Take this news to the jokes section abeg, children needs to laugh small.

If we're to believe this news, it means that there are more factories in Aba than in the whole of the SW

Propaganda don break leg here

This whole news is a huge lie.

Because its coming from south east, then its a lie, if its coming from south west or Northern region then the story is true. Its obvious the kind of person you are and the type of people you breed.

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Romance › Re: Relationship Ends After Store Owner Adjusts Girlfriend’s Dress by bigman001(m): 5:14pm On Jan 27, 2025

davenews:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvgEu8ElRQk?si=ksCeurSAWCSfqvc7

Relationship Ends After Store Owner Adjusts Girlfriend’s Dress

Naijaeyes

Congratulations to the guy, hejust dodged a stray bullet .

Politics › Re: Photo Of Lt. Col. T.E. Alari, Commanding Officer Killed By Boko Haram In Borno by bigman001(m): 4:05pm On Jan 27, 2025

Dogalmighty17:
When will the Nigerian army stop this needless waste of the lives of its men? What is an FOB without air cover? How can an attack go unchallenged for hours and an airstrike wasn't called in? We waste billions in buying combat platforms and yet we lack the skills and know how to effectively use them.

It is a disgrace that our military would rather prefer to carry millions of dollars to buy fighter jets and helicopters that cannot give immediate eyes on the ground capabilities that a 5000 dollar FPV drone can. That is incompetence as far as I'm concerned.

Shocking thing is that boko haram carries out this attack and returns to their base without our military even knowing where the base is located. A cheap drone that hovers over the theatre can trail these attackers to thier base and the coordinates pin pointed for eventually strikes. We have none of that.

A competent armed force doesn't experience this kind of humiliation. Certainly not with the billions of defense dollars we have expended over the years. That it keeps happening is very shameful. It calls into question the training of our officers and men.

There's a combat footage going around where hundreds of jihadists were attacking a Burkinabe military base. What did the Burkinabe soldiers do? The sent a drone up that was giving them real time video feed of terrorist movements around the base. They then deployed a Bayraktar drone that with just 2 strikes, killed over a hundred jihadists. The rest of the terrorists got the message and fled. Not one soldier in that base lost his life. Does Nigeria not have far more money than Burkina Faso? Yet we don't even have a Bayraktar and this is something Turkey even gives for free.

The day we are ready for this thing to end it will end. But so long as people are using this thing to cash out, it will never end. Boko haram is a business the elite are using to cash out. That's the only way the incompetence of our armed forces can be explained.

Go to all these big Multi Million/Billion estate on the island and even mainland see military personnels having their personal house(s) . it is what it is .

Crime › Re: Chinese Man Orders Soldiers To Beat Workers Over Hilux Seat (Video) by bigman001(m): 6:52pm On Dec 16, 2024

Mugu44:
Hahaha
Tinubu's regime is out to reduce Nigeria's population

An example of Zombie Soldier ...

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Politics › Re: FG Directs Houses, Land Owners In Lagos To Pay Ground Rents by bigman001(m): 6:56pm On Dec 14, 2024

Morbeta11:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/12/fg-directs-houses-land-owners-in-lagos-to-pay-ground-rents/

Bunch of Saddistt, they will still charge for life time use , and air breath use .

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