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bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...

In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.

We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"

The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.

He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..

Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...

Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child

Why would you say such a thing that the dead man is wicked because you want to support your friends wayward life abi? at his age he has been rusticated from 2 different university , and he is always having police cases , which father will be proud of such a son, he the father has been wayward during his youth life do you think he can acquire all he has now for the kids? He made the best decision and the guy needs to buckle up and become a good child not because he wants to but because he needs to lead by example. he is lucky he is from a comfortable family yet he is messing up his life.

Genesiszero:
My mom was whom I first called especially the moment I heard him calling the lawyer for the divorce papers........ It's been a week plus now... He's hell bent in his decision...... I'm even heart touched by the cry of these Lady.... I've done my best... Will keep trying and for the Pastor, that one no too like church things to much

I respect and admire your brother's decision, this will serve as a lesson to all those ladies posting family issues on social media ... Fact is he has warned her couple of times and she feels his treats are just empty and he wont do jack shit, that alone shows her level of disrespect she has for your brother, make she carry her crocodile tears go elsewhere.

StPete:
It's just sex and it's his own addiction. Either help him to fight it or just let him be. As long as he does his bit in his family. You see, to men like that, it's just sex. No feelings attached.

I know many people would reverse the case if it was the woman but women don't just have random sex, it comes with emotions. Even prostitutes catch feelings with their clients. So just let him be. Insist he use a condom with them and just free your mind about how he bleeps around. In his own time, he will stop

Matured reply, no feelings attached you are definitely right. moreover the wife could be a log stick while having sex, no romance, no sexual arousal , just stay like stick while he will be doing everything without her supporting him romantically by handling the nipples among other sexual enhancing activities , let her do more home work on her sexual life , sound romantic, and do the needful. I believe the man would either stop visiting prostitutes or reduce it drastically by 90% .

Newsmic:
A Nigerian Pastor, Ekuma Uche Philips, in Benin Republic shared photos of an 'angel' captured on camera in his church during cross over night, IgbereTV reports.

He wrote on Facebook;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1118717148957941&id=100024589999985

May Almighty God forgive you for making jest of his angels , you don't use God or God's Angels as a way to deceive people , what do you gain by deceiving people? Vanities ...

MrBrownJay1:
there is only ONE solution...get rid of the liability from your life, you CANT save her!!! just as some give (up) their life to christ, others give theirs to drugs/addiction, and believe me... its easier to get out of the religion scam than drugs!

if this was a sibling/parent/child, i would tell you to waste your money by sending him/her to rehab an hope for the best (as we know it doesnt really work most time), but as a wife/husband, just get rid of the liability and get your sanity back

My brother as much as your words sounds harsh , walahi you are saying nothing but the truth. rehab doesnt really work as you realize its just waste of millions thrown away, and all those advice will go down the drain cos its obvious she is a konk addict, in a situation like this it is only God and herself that can help her situation .

MufasaLion:


Retired hoe seeking relevance.

Bro you harsh oooo

Karemarealty288:
Oni has multiple personality according to Olori

Chameleon ni Oni

Rtk5:
sir, it baffles me how some people reason, honstly if i type all my experience with this woman you will think it is fiction. A woman that when i lost my job and there was no money for diapers her sister advised her to steal my phonr and go sell it. Thank God i found it under the bed. I saw the chat with her sister on that.

You get ime , make yourself happy , i she is your source of unhappiness send her packing and seek for divorce , nothing is what dying for bro. not even the type of women outside this 21st century , be a good father to your child and do what makes you happy .

rentAcock:
The paper tiger strikes again. Russia has been irrelevant since the 1970s. Putin thinks he can bring back the old Soviet Union of its glory days, that ship sailed a long time ago. If NATO were to descend on Russia, they will be wiped off the face of the earth, but of course it will be a pyrrhic victory nobody wants.

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AnambraHeraldTV:
Mrs Tina Ogbonnaya, the woman accused of withholding and starving her employee’s 5-month-old baby over failure to clear delivery debt has shared her side of the story.

Speaking with Punch Newspaper, the woman disclosed that Gift, the young mother was the one who refused to take care of her baby, denied him food and breast milk which in turn resulted in his death.

According to her, in a bid to help the poor child, she had to employ the service of a nurse whom she paid N30,000 to take care of the baby due to his mother’s negligence.

Mrs Ogbonnaya stated that she never withheld the baby as viral reports had it.

Recall that in a previous report, the mother of the child, Gift shared her side of the story stating that her baby was locked in a room alone by Mr and Mr Ogbonnaya and laid on the tiled floor bare-bodied.

Presently, the reports from the duo are strongly contradictory.

Watch Mrs Tina speak below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFzxvG7c68Q

Watch the couple narrate their side of the story below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMfwL8kAh1M

https://www.facebook.com/punchnewspaper/videos/218298887154653/?app=fbl

Madam you no sabi fabricate lies, you think say na people of your calibre you they talk all this trash to? dont by the time the show you thy kingdom come, you will explain what turly happen... Its obvious you are mixing so many lies with little truth.

DollarBuddy:
Hello my great nairalanders. Kindly help me go through the screenshot below and tell us what the problem could possibly be.

My brother's wife to be sent this to him.

Over to medical people here.

"For the past two days have been suffering from serious itching and pain in my lower abdomen, I don't know if that's what is causing the headache.

I find it hard to urinate, cos of pain have been enduring that for the days now."

The content in this message sounds more like a side chick than wife material, its obvious na oyushe dey refer too, both of you should go see the doctor that's symptoms of infection.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

So we even plenty wey dey suffer thesame thing ... Na wa oooo

socialmediaman:
This situation needs therapy o. You both appear to be sexually incompatible from what you described, though there may be other causes of sudden change in sexual urge, but let the professional help you both figure it out. Bear in mind that this is how many marriages are possibly operating in Nigeria. The men have gotten used to it and resorted to other means of satisfaction like porn and self-stimulation or cheating.

My advise is to seek therapy. If she thinks you have a higher than normal sex drive while you think she has a lower than normal sex drive, there can’t be an understanding especially when no party wants to compromise

Bro, i really appreciate this reply of your, actually many married men are facing this condition i'm also one of them, mine is even worst. i dont know maybe because she is the last born or sort of, but have learned to live with it for over 9 years now, because of the sexual starvation have resulted in masturbating whichi have never tried before when i was single. worst thing is she is not even sexually inclined ( she no sabi, sh just be like intimacy gadget) when it comes to sex she go just dey like log stick na me go dey do all the running around. It's very frustrating thou, but i need to accept and deal with it.

dre11:
Dead Kingmakers Listed As Voters In Controversial Selection Of Monarch In Adamawa Community—Source



http://saharareporters.com/2021/11/18/dead-kingmakers-listed-voters-controversial-selection-monarch-adamawa-community%E2%80%94source

them no mention Office chairs and monkeys as voters too? Krazy pipu

Mummiesgirls4:
Yes because I have no other option but I also feel sad that I have to keep this secret from him

Forhow long doyou tend to keep this secret from him? for your information if you don't tell him on time someone else will help you to tell him ...

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

What you sow,you will surely reap my brother , relationship of 3 years and you know you dont love her or want to marry her, yet you kept deceiving her only for your own selfish reason? guy you wicked no be small , you are forming gentle man yet your heart is not pure towards someone that has showed you love and respect, tomorrow now you say your village people they follow you about. i wish you all the best.

Glycolite:
Virtuous woman ?

I sincerely can't marrying a woman who supports any of my attitude(s) that could prove detrimental to my health or general well being.

hahhaha , tell me what is not detrimental to your health in this country? is it the polluted air you inhale or the carbonated drinks you take or the choice of food you take in to the system? one man's food is another man's poison. As for me i believe love ,trust and tolerance makes a good relationship, and not every smokers are hazardous in their relationship, and i believe thats why she brought him what gives him relieve and inspiration and joy

Comedian2019:
The supporters are wasting their miserable lives because of two thieves.
Una mumu no too much

Bunch of useless youths wasting off their lives for criminals.. Na when these stupid so called youths go get sense?

RapistOnBail:

You see we Nigerians?

We no like ourselves that much o!

We just Dey fake care and support to our neighbors.

Bunch of useless and greedy yorubas, thats why we the yorubas will never have any head way, i dont even now if the tradition has been cursed with greed and hatred.

Nemere2020:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=192222663061169&id=100068203105596

Bandist ko Banderas ni, una don see mumu like una? krazy government always trying to convince idiots of same likes...

onthehill:
A man got married to his elderly oyinbo girlfriend in Owerri, Imo State, IgbereTV reports.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CVsKGd7L8qp/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fY1O8XOkZWU

Congrats Bro, anybody wey no like am make dem go hug transformer .

Islie:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/woman-faked-kidnap-used-ransom-25292323.amp

Over to our feminist... your response please

Oluolad86:


Please i need to do CT scan and heart surgery at OAUTHC Ife please, I have been battling with constritive pericarditis since 2019, no medical cure for it except open heart surgery. I need #18000 bal for tests and #500000 for the surgery. I wouldn't mind if you know who do it for free as a NGO, I'm ready to provide myself there. Thanks

May Almighty God send you a helper to assist your condition. Rather than people to help a dying soul they are busy bombarding the prophet that is talking about fasting and midnight prayers. With all the fasting and prayers our pastors and Imams have been doing what difference or positive impact has it made to our country?

faithfull18:
This has been happening for years, it's nothing new. The prices reported as seen as fair. To correct your information sef, you pay heavily.

you are very right bro, recently i paid 55k for 64 pages of 5years passport, and paid 7k for change of name for NIMC for my wife so she can get her NIMC and use it for her passport, after 4 weeks she was given an NIMC code, she took the NIMC code to Immigration only to be told the change of name hasn't taken effect that it will take another 4 -7 days for synchronization to take effect. because she needs her Passport asap she met another NIMC Staff who promise her to fast track it if she will pay 2k , as a desperate fellow she has paid and we are yet to get the updated NIMC record. Walahi this country is far gone with corruption as im very irritated with what is happening .

Stankovic22:
Good evening nairalanders!

This is what happened. A friend of mine who is like a brother to me and has impacted my life positively in every way bought a new car. We work together and live in the same neighborhood so we go-to work together.

It happens that I do sit in front with him always while the third guy stays at the back. So today, on our way back from work, the wife called for him to come pick her and when we got close and stuck in traffic, I decided to vacate the front seat and move to join the other guy at the back but while trying to go my friend was like guy where u dey go... I say I wan create space for Iyawo and he was like Wetin dey worry u, sit down jor but I insisted and went to the back.

So when we beat the traffic and picked up the wife she was like why is the front seat vacant and my friend said... He left the seat for u... The wife was like, please its wrong, that I shouldn't have left.

I was like its your space and I felt it was the right thing to do, to join my other guy at the back before we get to you.

People was I wrong to have vacated the seat?

you did the right thing bro, but i think the wife respects you more and feels you deserve to seat with your friend and your brother.

saferoom:
Noone will deceive my daughters and sisters and those of everyone reading this in Jesus name

If your Sisters and daughters are not the greedy type, then it will never happen to such people .

Abujason:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.channelstv.com/2021/07/08/insecurity-we-cant-afford-to-disappoint-nigerians-buhari/amp/

Abi olori buruku ni eleyi ni?

TruthHurts1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7C6OWkurUE

May their souls rest in peace .

ebukajay184:
A Nigerian woman, Olabisi Ekwueme has claimed that she communicates with her late sister in dreams, IgbereTV reports.

According to Bisi, she was broke and had ended an abusive relationship when her sister Seun died leaving behind a daughter.

The first time she spoke to Seun in a dream, she asked her for help in securing a good job in order to take care of her niece.

Few days later, she got a call from a consultancy firm, went for an interview and got a job as an Operational Acceptance Tester with Marks and Spencer.

Read her post below:


https://www.facebook.com/756557773/posts/10159168183072774/?app=fbl

With God anything is possible...

kenwills:
He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

Are your parents aware of his disrespectful behaviors to you?
More over for him to have indulged himself into such act at an early age means he has been mingling with people of your age group and they welcomed him with all sorts of rubbish . What kind of friends he is hanging out with?

NEWSREPORT:
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CId6TX9Hrbj/?igshid=zpgfioak058q

Odumeje And Zubby Spotted At a child dedication Spraying Money On Each Other: Pics & Video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vf3MmcW2Zy4

Na your time , make una enjoy life while you are alive, but remember nothing lasts forever. Make impacts on those who dearly needs the money more for survival, and not for showoff ...

etokhana:
https://m.guardian.ng/news/senate-confirms-yakubu-reappointment-as-inec-chairman/
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

And Election rigging continues ...