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Politics › Re: Ahmed Idris Got N15bn Bribe To Fast-Track Payment To Oil-Producing States - EFCC by bigman001(m): 9:54am On Jul 22, 2022
dre11:
https://dailytrust.com/efcc-suspended-agf-got-n15bn-bribe-to-fast-track-payment-to-oil-producing-states
And the country keeps lending money from IMF when we actually have the money yet very small group of people are sharing it among themselves.
Crime › Re: Nigerian National Arrested With Cocaine Worth ₦12.6 Million In India by bigman001(m): 8:35pm On Jul 07, 2022
uvie66:
Who can solve this equation for me.
COCAINE+ASIAN COUNTRY= ?
= DEATH
Politics › Re: 2023: Some ‘Unknown Persons’ Stole My Academic Certificates - Tinubu Tells INEC by bigman001(m): 12:13pm On Jun 26, 2022
ExAngel007:
https://dailytrust.com/2023-unknown-persons-stole-my-academic-certificates-tinubu-tells-inec
The idiot is not even a Lagosian , yet they allowed him to rule over Lagosians because of some bunch of old greedy fools that sold out their futures to him.
Crime › Re: Imo Prison Escapee Stabs Pregnant Woman To Death by bigman001(m): 3:29pm On Jun 20, 2022
VeryWickedMan:
I like him.

Caesarian operation that other women pay through their teeth and bleed for is what he gave her for free and she had the balls to report him.


Humans are ingrates!
And you think this is funny?i pray such happens to your sisters or wife in the coming future, omo ale jatijati.
Romance › Re: I'm About To Break Up My Relationship Of 3 Years Due To Indecent Dressing by bigman001(m): 1:02pm On Jun 08, 2022
Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.
My brother i understand how you feel when you say attached to her , fact is love is the best thing to experience and you will always pray things continue going fine with you both ( That's if she truly loves you genuinely and respects you opinions, and you have same feelings towards her too) but it is the saddest thing when you when you realize the trust and respect is gone. Truth is if you truly Love her then you have to let go. Dog wey go lost no go hear hunter whistle , a word is enough for someone who is wise enough to take the sacrifice. mind you It wont be easy oooooo .
Romance › Re: Lady Cries Out As Her Husband Calls His Sidechick To Cook In Her Presence by bigman001(m): 4:05pm On Jun 01, 2022
oilmane:
Why u nor dress up follow am so that you go follow am eat? Fish pepper is what you plan for, shey you day write proposal b4 u cook am? Even if you're tired couldn't you've sweet talked him to eat what you prepared? Na u know, if u use ur husband do boyfriend, who nor day plan b4 she cook pepper soup go carry am take
Gbayi grin
Romance › Re: Married But Dated A Single Lady For 2 Years Now I Am Loosing My Mind! by bigman001(m): 12:56pm On May 27, 2022
NLElder:
First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.

I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work.

The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no.

The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.

We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .

All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.

After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.

I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills.

So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.

So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it.

I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."

After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..

All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.

She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again.

So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.

The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything.

We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.

Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace.

Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending me her pics but should be sending to her man. She apologized and said she has taken note. Yet, I will feel bad inside me if I don't see her friendly chats which my attitude has made her reduce. Yet in all these, first thing in the morning I will quickly rush to check her pics, if she has made new posts, etc etc. I need help, I really do. Sorry my people for the long post but I really needed to empty myself to see the help I can get if any cos I want my normal sane life back. I have also prayed to God and asked for forgiveness for cheating on my wife ....I have no excuses for doing so but from the long story you can see it was never my intention.
Hmmmm, fact is she truly loves you as much as you love her, but she needs a new life too, she wants to get married and have her own family, bro i understand how you feeling, trust me but if you know you truly love her, then let go of her and probably work more on you wife, be more romantic, say lovely things to her, make her see the difference in you and help her with her sexual life, im having same challenge with sexual life and i think its good to her a wife that is not a sex addict , than have a nymphomaniac as a wife.

Pray over it, but mind you if you continue having close communications with her then believe me, you will start another episode of your affairs together again.
Family › Re: Nairalander And His Family Travelling To The UK For The First Time. by bigman001(m): 12:23pm On May 27, 2022
9jaHustler:
Hey guys, it's our first time ever outta Naija. Currently at Heathrow Airport waiting for connecting flight to Manchester which is our final destination.

Update: It was almost 9:30pm when we left Manchester Airport but it was like 5pm in Nigeria. Everywhere was still day. I though my wrist watch was incorrect until I check the dash board clock of the taxi
Congrats to you and your family, na this kain food news i wan dey hear for NL.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by bigman001(m): 2:36pm On May 26, 2022
SUPERPACK:
Speak for those that have zero in economics sha not me. With that pay I will enjoy my life here in Nigeria and never look for more. I will still save 250k per month at the end minimum. I live a minimal lifestyle, no smoking, drinking, clubbing, womanising nor friends and don't fancy social attention.
Na broke ass mentality be this, guy when the money starts raking in, your mentality will surely change and you will want better things at higher cost.
Romance › Re: I Can't Swim Because Of The Size Of My Manhood by bigman001(m): 11:56am On May 20, 2022
dettolgel:
There are swimming shorts that is what I use. With swimming trunk I sure can't hide my prick in it more especially since I usually swim at the beach and you can't trust your 3rd leg amongst those young whity on bikini.

See picture of swimming short look for one with a net underwear inside and buy.
One of the most sensible advice, na bunch of wereys full NL .
Romance › Re: I Can't Swim Because Of The Size Of My Manhood by bigman001(m): 11:53am On May 20, 2022
Stallionhorse:
shut up.... Just shut the fvvvck up!! Don't give the poor boy hope , when all you crave for is big gbola... Tell him the truth small gbola have no place on the food chain..
hahahahahahaha , na people like una dey make me they visit NL everyday , thou abit harsh, but na just d fact you talk grin
Politics › Re: APC Primary: New Delegates Template Favours Bello, Lawan by bigman001(m): 10:14am On May 18, 2022
JavaScript90:
They have destroyed tinubu with the large number of contestants from the south. The north have a game plan
You are a wise Man.
Politics › Re: Deborah: Suspect In Viral Video Is From Niger Republic, Has Escaped – Police by bigman001(m): 9:08am On May 15, 2022
exCHRISTIAN:
Why didn't the imaginery christ protect the lady shocked

Is he absent? Or doesn't exist? Or cant fulfill His promise to protect his followers? Or is the bbbile lyi*g as it used to do?
Thessalonians 3:3

I left Xtianity because I realized it's rubbish.
What do yo expect from a god that was born by a WOMAN and ended, murdered on Cross? Didn't help himself also grin


The entitled punishment for blasphemy in Xtianity as I was forced study by my parents back then is death !!!

anyone who blasphemes the name of the Lord is to be put to death. The entire assembly must stone them. Whether foreigner or native-born, when they blaspheme the Name they are to be put to death.
Leviticus 24:16

Deborah killers used this verse to kill her the way the verse instruct, I think they own a copy of christ papers, bible is full of evil to its followers.

I left religion for you!!! Ath3ism all the way

Before any rotten brain qoute me, see my signature..... grin
you can speak all the English and grammar you want to, you are not in any position to alter such nonsense about her God saving her, you are nothing different from those that killed her. remember this, its not ending on Earth , you will explain what you mean when the time comes.
Politics › Re: 2023: Nobody Will Steal Money Under My Watch As President Of Nigeria – Atiku by bigman001(m): 8:53am On May 15, 2022
Entertainment › Re: I Vowed To Do Michael Jackson’s Dangerous Dance Before I Die!!! by bigman001(m): 6:31pm On Apr 10, 2022
Contango:
I am not a dancer, but a huge fan of Michael Jackson. My favorite choreography has always been the dangerous dance and I had vowed to do it before I die!!!

Definitely far from MJ and other professional imitators but I am happy I was able to whip something up.

Show some love guys cheesy
Video quality not good though

I vow to do smooth criminal if I get some encouragement tongue


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suRad3181zQ
One of your dreams achieved " you did really great" . Thumbs up Bro .
Family › Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by bigman001(m): 12:05pm On Apr 01, 2022
frozen70:
The only problem here us you searching his phone, you will definitely see one bad thing that will provoke you, stop going through his phone chats, so that you will have peace

As for your husband, he is a womaniser and nothing you can do to stop him until he have gotten enough of it

You don't need to divorce him

Spend the money you have with you wisely so that you don't run out of cash

Make sure you pass the hills to him so that he won't have excess to be spending outside


One of the best advice so far, she wants peace of mind stay away from his phone.

Try and follow up the building project so that you guys can pack to that place and he will be far from those chicks

Once you stop reading his chats, you will be alright
Family › Re: Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! by bigman001(m): 5:35pm On Mar 24, 2022
Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!

However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..

I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg
Karma is a bitch . don't feel surprised when such happens to you in the future.
Politics › Re: Combat Aircrafts Of The Nigerian Airforce (Photos) by bigman001(m): 3:06pm On Mar 11, 2022
omowolewa:
Let's pledge some to Ukraine
They will return your obsolete under serviced aircraft. they would prefer their local drones to this jawe.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Hits Back At Western Sanctions, 48 Countries Will Be Affected by bigman001(m): 10:14pm On Mar 10, 2022
Reinvented:
He is obviously a muslim, Munir is islamic name.
Is Russia an Islamic Country? why do we have some set of sadist that are religious bigot yet they are even more unholy than the people they criticize. Make una borrow una self some brain , this is not a religious fight. Una problem for Nigeria self pass the WAR you are not discussing on how we can have a better country na racist countries wey no send una u dey carry their matter for head. Do you think if Nigeria is at WAR them go send Una? they will wait for everyone to nearly finish before them interfere just to take over the refinery among other things.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nuclear Power Plant: Heavy Fighting Ongoing As Ukrainian Forces Resist by bigman001(m): 6:28pm On Feb 24, 2022
ILEMUDA:
Let this war start fast
I wanna observe something,
Putin my Man.

Putting in their body Woto Woto.
You talk like all this indomie generation, never pray to experience WAR in your life time, not when supersonic weapons are now been made in the 21st century, experiencing WORLD WAR at this tech age will definitly wipe out over 60% of the population, mind you African countries will suffer more.
Family › Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by bigman001(m): 10:46am On Jan 29, 2022
bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...

In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.

We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"

The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.

He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..

Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...

Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child
Why would you say such a thing that the dead man is wicked because you want to support your friends wayward life abi? at his age he has been rusticated from 2 different university , and he is always having police cases , which father will be proud of such a son, he the father has been wayward during his youth life do you think he can acquire all he has now for the kids? He made the best decision and the guy needs to buckle up and become a good child not because he wants to but because he needs to lead by example. he is lucky he is from a comfortable family yet he is messing up his life.
Family › Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by bigman001(m): 11:32am On Jan 22, 2022
Genesiszero:
My mom was whom I first called especially the moment I heard him calling the lawyer for the divorce papers........ It's been a week plus now... He's hell bent in his decision...... I'm even heart touched by the cry of these Lady.... I've done my best... Will keep trying and for the Pastor, that one no too like church things to much
I respect and admire your brother's decision, this will serve as a lesson to all those ladies posting family issues on social media ... Fact is he has warned her couple of times and she feels his treats are just empty and he wont do jack shit, that alone shows her level of disrespect she has for your brother, make she carry her crocodile tears go elsewhere.
Family › Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by bigman001(m): 4:22pm On Jan 16, 2022
StPete:
It's just sex and it's his own addiction. Either help him to fight it or just let him be. As long as he does his bit in his family. You see, to men like that, it's just sex. No feelings attached.

I know many people would reverse the case if it was the woman but women don't just have random sex, it comes with emotions. Even prostitutes catch feelings with their clients. So just let him be. Insist he use a condom with them and just free your mind about how he bleeps around. In his own time, he will stop
Matured reply, no feelings attached you are definitely right. moreover the wife could be a log stick while having sex, no romance, no sexual arousal , just stay like stick while he will be doing everything without her supporting him romantically by handling the nipples among other sexual enhancing activities , let her do more home work on her sexual life , sound romantic, and do the needful. I believe the man would either stop visiting prostitutes or reduce it drastically by 90% .
Christianity Etc › Re: ‘Angel’ Caught On Camera During A Crossover Service In Benin Republic (Photos) by bigman001(m): 8:26pm On Jan 07, 2022
Newsmic:
A Nigerian Pastor, Ekuma Uche Philips, in Benin Republic shared photos of an 'angel' captured on camera in his church during cross over night, IgbereTV reports.

He wrote on Facebook;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1118717148957941&id=100024589999985
May Almighty God forgive you for making jest of his angels , you don't use God or God's Angels as a way to deceive people , what do you gain by deceiving people? Vanities ...
Health › Re: My Wife Addicted To Tramadol by bigman001(m): 9:04am On Jan 04, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
there is only ONE solution...get rid of the liability from your life, you CANT save her!!! just as some give (up) their life to christ, others give theirs to drugs/addiction, and believe me... its easier to get out of the religion scam than drugs!

if this was a sibling/parent/child, i would tell you to waste your money by sending him/her to rehab an hope for the best (as we know it doesnt really work most time), but as a wife/husband, just get rid of the liability and get your sanity back
My brother as much as your words sounds harsh , walahi you are saying nothing but the truth. rehab doesnt really work as you realize its just waste of millions thrown away, and all those advice will go down the drain cos its obvious she is a konk addict, in a situation like this it is only God and herself that can help her situation .
Christianity Etc › Re: If Your Bride Price Is Not Paid You Can Never See God- Female Preacher(video) by bigman001(m): 6:55pm On Dec 30, 2021
MufasaLion:
grin grin grin

Retired hoe seeking relevance.
Bro you harsh oooo grin grin grin
Celebrities › Re: Charley Boy Mocks Ooni Of Ife: 'Na For Instagram Them Divorce You’ by bigman001(m): 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
Karemarealty288:
Oni has multiple personality according to Olori
Chameleon ni Oni smiley
Family › Re: See The GUTS Of My Wife by bigman001(m): 1:12pm On Dec 28, 2021
Rtk5:
sir, it baffles me how some people reason, honstly if i type all my experience with this woman you will think it is fiction. A woman that when i lost my job and there was no money for diapers her sister advised her to steal my phonr and go sell it. Thank God i found it under the bed. I saw the chat with her sister on that.
You get ime , make yourself happy , i she is your source of unhappiness send her packing and seek for divorce , nothing is what dying for bro. not even the type of women outside this 21st century , be a good father to your child and do what makes you happy .
Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Warns Nato Of Military Response To Alliance Expansion by bigman001(m): 10:07am On Dec 22, 2021
rentAcock:
The paper tiger strikes again. Russia has been irrelevant since the 1970s. Putin thinks he can bring back the old Soviet Union of its glory days, that ship sailed a long time ago. If NATO were to descend on Russia, they will be wiped off the face of the earth, but of course it will be a pyrrhic victory nobody wants.
Its obvious you dont know what you are saying? dem no born nato well to mess with russia, for clarification purpose In January 2021,
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Health › Re: #justiceforchidubem: Tina Ogbonnaya Narrates Her Side Of The Story (Video) by bigman001(m): 10:49am On Dec 20, 2021
AnambraHeraldTV:
Mrs Tina Ogbonnaya, the woman accused of withholding and starving her employee’s 5-month-old baby over failure to clear delivery debt has shared her side of the story.

Speaking with Punch Newspaper, the woman disclosed that Gift, the young mother was the one who refused to take care of her baby, denied him food and breast milk which in turn resulted in his death.

According to her, in a bid to help the poor child, she had to employ the service of a nurse whom she paid N30,000 to take care of the baby due to his mother’s negligence.

Mrs Ogbonnaya stated that she never withheld the baby as viral reports had it.

Recall that in a previous report, the mother of the child, Gift shared her side of the story stating that her baby was locked in a room alone by Mr and Mr Ogbonnaya and laid on the tiled floor bare-bodied.

Presently, the reports from the duo are strongly contradictory.

Watch Mrs Tina speak below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFzxvG7c68Q

Watch the couple narrate their side of the story below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zMfwL8kAh1M

https://www.facebook.com/punchnewspaper/videos/218298887154653/?app=fbl
Madam you no sabi fabricate lies, you think say na people of your calibre you they talk all this trash to? dont by the time the show you thy kingdom come, you will explain what turly happen... Its obvious you are mixing so many lies with little truth.
Health › Re: My Brother's Fiancee Sent This Text To Him This Evening by bigman001(m): 10:55am On Dec 13, 2021
DollarBuddy:
Hello my great nairalanders. Kindly help me go through the screenshot below and tell us what the problem could possibly be.

My brother's wife to be sent this to him.

Over to medical people here.

"For the past two days have been suffering from serious itching and pain in my lower abdomen, I don't know if that's what is causing the headache.

I find it hard to urinate, cos of pain have been enduring that for the days now."
The content in this message sounds more like a side chick than wife material, its obvious na oyushe dey refer too, both of you should go see the doctor that's symptoms of infection.
Family › Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by bigman001(m): 3:22pm On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
So we even plenty wey dey suffer thesame thing ... Na wa oooo

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