₦airaland Forum

Blakjewelry:
That guy is in bondage like if na normal mature lay, it's understandable but old mama? Comon.

Older women are even more respectful, tolerant and gives more rest of mind than all these small overused kpekus girls that will frustrate life and mental state out from you. If you know you know.

EmperorTolson:
I earn above 70k monthly and I was recently offered a job at Mutual Benefits Assurance Plc as a Marketing Executive, with no salary, only commission and bonuses.
What'd you advise I do? Do you think it's worth it? Please enlighten me.
Thanks.

Dont even try venturing into such commission and bonus stuff, walahi wa la las-las, my advice for you is to stick to the 70kplus salary. if you know you know.

ademola2017:
In 2017, i expressed my deep concerns on nairaland about my now ex wife double dating game before we got married, her attitude towards me and how the relationship was one sided.

I got several advices to let her go but decided to give the marriage another chance but it eventually crashed in March 2022. We did all we could to save the marriage but to no success. We were done patching. No child was involved and absolutely nothing to show for the marriage after 8years of being together. I still feel the pain but it gets better everyday.
I credit myself for not cheating on her till our last days together and even months after our separation.

After several months of being celibate, I had sex with a young 25year old lady. I met her through a family friend 2 months before she got pregnant

Just one intercourse, she became pregnant. At first, i doubted it because I laboured very hard to father a child for 8yrs and with just one sexual intercourse, someone is carry my baby?? with me being very knowledgable about calculating ovulation dates and timely intercourse, it conformed so I had to accept the pregnancy as a sign from God.

Deep down, my new partner and I do not love each other but the respect for each other is on point. We have ZERO expectations from each other. We communicate well and have started living together in peace. No arguements, no drama and no issues at all.

I changed my mindset by taking her as my younger sister and she does same by taking me as an older brother.

It feels strange to be at so much peace with someone that I dont love at all. Our baby is coming and I am scared things may change when the true reality sets in.

What do you guys think?

With time love will find its way into your hearts , you couldn't love her immediately because of your past experience and the pain in your heart. When i met my wife some 13 years back i actually didn't love her and i made it clear to her that i like her but i don't love her, probably due to my past experience, with time i started loving her, now we have 4 kids and i love her with all my heart, i respect and would marry her again in my next life if i see her. Just pray over it and ease yourself , moreover don't look at the age difference , learn to trust and tolerate her to an extent that is comfortable to you.

I wish you all the best .

Padipadi:
Christians in middle belt Nigeria and all areas where there's religious crisis or fulani herdsmen menace should copy IDF. Take the war to the islámists.

Idiot like you, this is how mental derailed people like you trigger religious war with your senseless talk.

Tjra:
I'm an old guy like you too.

Vincent Enyeama is the GOAT.

No contest

Same here, after Enyeama , i will give it to Peter Rufai.

Draslo:
This is not for me. My sister na church worker

My guy's sister is nothing you write home about. Their father has money, like 3 Rolls-Royce parked in the compound type of rich but the girl is very promiscuous. Many big boys on the island have had a fling because she must attend every raving bash. Her SM pages are full of filth in different countries. You'd easily call her online olosho sponsored by politicians. Her friends are worse cos they don't come from that kind of money. This girl is just 23 and already a red flag amongst guys. Even guys that have never seen her unclothedness will claim to have slept with her and people will believe as long as the guy has class.

My guy is getting married in January and doesn't want his only sister there. Can she still be saved?

She maybe a Nymphomaniac .

globalresource:
Why would they use this to cover up when gay relationship is a very open and loud one in america

Not everybody wants to showcase their sex orientation, even when the society allows it.

deekseen:
Those guys may be gays using the woman as a cover.

Boss , this your reply alone shows your level of mentality , your IQ High .

OkCornel:
Lori iro

Vinnie2000:
OK.
Tomorrow's match.
Everton 4 Man UTD 0. 🤨🤨🙂

hammerFC:
DEMOLISHING IGBO PEOPLE HOUSES IN LAGOS, THAT THEY HAVE LITTERED IN THEIR VILLAGES WILL NOT IMPOVERISH THEM.


FOR ANY IGBO MAN TO BUILD HOUSE IN LAGOS, HE HAS FIRST BUILT SIMILAR STRUCTURE OR BETTER IN HIS VILLAGE.



THE QUESTION THAT SHOULD BE IN THE MIND OF YORUBA PEOPLE IS, WHAT WILL BE THE CONSEQUENCES OF DESTROYING THE HOMES OF PEOPLE THAT BUILT AND DEVELOP LAGOS.


TINUBU MAY BE DESTROYING THEIR PROPERTIES AND EXPECTING ONE NIGERIA TO CONTINUE FOREVER OR PERHAPS TO LIVE FOREVER, BUT THAT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY AND PURE FANTASY BECAUSE TINUBU WILL NOT LIVE FOREVER AND THIS NIGERIA AS IT IS WILL ALSO NOT BE FOREVER.


U DESTROY THE HOUSES, WAR START, ALL OTHER STRUCTURES IN LAGOS DESTROYED AND NIGERIA DIVIDED, WILL TINUBU FAMILY MONEY THEN ERECT ALL THE STRUCTURES WE ALL CAME TOGETHER TO BUILD?


THIS IS JUST ONE SCENARIO AS WE CANNOT SEE THE FUTURE, BUT AGREE ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN.


WE HEAR HE ALSO WANT TO EXTEND HIS HATE TO ABUJA AND DESTROY IGBO PEOPLE PROPERTIES.


THAT MAN IS DIGGING HIS GRAVE AND ONCE ALL THIS RICH AND WEALTHY PEOPLE UNITE WITH BIAFRA FORCES, IT IS ALL OVER FOR NIGERIA.


BELIEVE IT OR NOT, IGBO PROPERTY OWNERS IN LAGOS ARE THE ONLY SET BACK TO THE BIAFRA MOVING TRAIN. THEY ARE NORMALLY ONE NIGERIA SUPPORTERS.

You are simply a tribal bigot with empty brain , what has tribe got to do with building illegal structure in unauthorized place? If that building belongs to a Yoruba man or Hausa man , he will surely face the-same faith as he has faced. People like you are the one brain washing ignorant fools like yourself that will not do due diligence before acquiring land and get the proper documentation from FHA , can you do the-same in your ill fated state and the FHA wont bring it down? All you people do is criticize Lagos whereas you are suffering more in your states. If your state is that conducive for you then go build it and stay there and stop disturbing Lagos state with your empty brains and ignorance.

Available9:
Muslims see religion as a competition...that's why they kill to get rewarded...and that's another reason why you cannot separate Islam and terrorism.

Ignorance will not kill you, Sense can never be your mate.

Goodvibes007:
Olaudah Equiano



https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/anambra-community-protests-cult-killings-knocks-police/%3famp

Another form of marketing what they have for prospective buyers. Many of them are either drunk or are under the influence.

Newdawn30:
List the states / cities that us cheap, safe and has a active night life not a place like sagamu that if you are out my 9pm it's too late already

Shagamu don show you shege?

Odewaleadesoye:
Year 2023 was filled with countless challenges but I believe that we were able to overcome at least one of them.

Fellow members of Nairaland Forum, what was the biggest challenge you overcame this year?

Mine: [/b]

Kindly share yours with us.

Stay Strong bro, Almighty God will continue to be your strength.

kingsways:
What a shame

12 trillion, more than the country’s annual budget apparently stolen and Nigerians are just going about like goats !

In a normal country, there would be a national outrage, they would shut down everything. Nothing will move until those who stole the money vomit it!

na see finish, them don see us finish so they will continue treating us as such. the politicians have succeeded in using tribe and religion to separate us, so we can never have one voice, which i dont even see coming to existence, the level of hatred and greed we have for each other is immeasurable.

Natbrowny:
Alaye is already getting the pussy elsewhere. He's just trying to make moves coz he knws u'll decline.

If he doesn't ask for it. You'll suspect.

Sharp guy

You self super sharp

AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness

Can you please share your husband contact with me, i need him to lecture me on how to do same, you women always feel you can weaponize the puna simply because we want to be holy , many married men face the-same challenges in their marriage and that's why many young girls can easily get their attention.

Continue weaponizing your Puna dear nothing do you, the younger girls will make it available and will surely distract your husband from you , most annoying thing is that most of these so called wife's are nothing but a log stick , yet we endure the pain and still want to be holy, yet you will frustrate our effort.

MetaFiles230709:
If you don't believe in these 3 things:

1. The fake prophet mohammed is a demented deranged and retarded smelly pig.

2. That allah is a rabid hopeless and a useless rabid dog

3. Islam is a form of mental illness, a form of schizophrenia

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You also have to go for surgery for brain tumour...

Unfortunately you are OYO , and since you believe your religion is the only accepted religion then stick to it , i hope your ignorance and your derailed mentality doesn't send you to your early grave.

FalseProphet1:
I achieved a larger congregation.

I have more beautiful female members.

One married woman bought me a white sienna. I hate colour white because it's obanje. So she changed the car and brought ash colour.

I have man members sending me dollars from the abroad.

This I have seen.

Actually they asked what you've achieved in reality and not in your dreams

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

Its even wrong of her to think of visiting her ex talk-less of asking your permission, it surely means she still have a crush on him and be rest assured if she gets to meet her ex, she will never be the-same again because the guy must have definitely continue his unfinished business.

misreal:
He died well.I wish to meet my end while preaching the gospel

preaching the word of God doesn't determine how pure your heart is and how close your relationship with God Almighty, anybody can preach the word of God, even a ritualist, drug baron,occultist , name it.

KingOfAllIgbos:
The second part is if a babe rubs Pears Baby Oil on the cap of your 🍌... if she keeps stroking, wouldn't your cup overflow ?

Oil full ya Head

Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having one. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?

File Photo

This ain't news bro, i started having strings of hair when I was 28 - 30 years old, it took another 10 years before they became goatee like its called, while i was having strings of hair, my younger brothers are already using combs and brush on their beards. You should be grateful you don't have it earlier, mind you, you will get tired and sick of it when time comes.

Bliss62:



Well from my own experience oo, Nigerians or Japarians are hardworking and not lazy

Pakistani, Indian, Lebanese, Arab, comiunity would gather together to socialize, help themselves, intermarry, network

Nigerian neighbors won't even great themselves

One time our philipino HR back then needed, workers, overseas ... see as Pakistani, Indian were submiting CV for there people, we Nigerians submit nada, no help, we still dey survive



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Its just our natural hatred we have for ourselves , yet deceiving ourselves we love each other, we are the problem of ourselves and our country we run away from. Until we change our ways , we continue pretending and hating each other secretly.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjhP28Rw2vc?si=7VhiMbs58iv8pm_e


lady shows off the amount of items her partner brought for their marriage introduction ceremony

That one mean say make you no cheat on your husband to be? Empty brain , attention seeker

Kalatium:
No sooner was I on my way leaving the market, after buying all what I need and ticking all the items on my list than a stranger came out of the blue to accuse me of stealing his penis.

I won't say the state this happened.

At first I didn't clearly understood what he meant because he initially said, I should return what left his body.

What looked like a funny claim in my ear turned serious as he started shouting and calling the attention of passers by. People started encircling us and the guy who accused me said we are going to police station, I was like why will I follow you to station when I didn't do anything wrong.

One of the passers by said I should just follow him if I know I am truly Innocent since the station is not far. I had no choice that to follow them to prove my innocence ( the accuser and the passer-by) with many thoughts on my mind.
On our way I resolved to call all the important people I know that can get me out of this mess. I first dialed my dad's number and started explaining what was going on before the guy said I should cut the call that we must go to that station or else he will collect my phone.

Eventually we arrived there, and met two police men inside the station compound, then my accuser started laying claim of his stolen manhood story. I was called to narrate what happened and I told them I just left the market gate after purchasing all I needed from the market only to be falsely accused.

The two officer took us inside the station to write a statement. After the accuser narrated his story once more, one of the officer was laughing.
The police asked what I do for a living and I told him I am a medical Doctor and the hospital I work. He asked the accuser same question who said he is a university student and doesn't stay far from the market. He asked of both our phone numbers and also gave out his number to us. Then he asked the accuser to put his hand in his trouser to confirm if his manhood is there, the guy touched and the manhood was there.

He then started saying that initially he didn't feel anything there that there have been cases like that in his school and that he was shocked that the thing happened to him that's why he dragged the case to the station.

The police then said that he has been hearing about this stealing of manhood and that people can do diabolical things for money. However, it could also be that his mind might be playing tricks on him as such he felt his penis might be missing when it actuality it is actually there.

The police man said I should go that since the guy has confirmed his penis is intact, there is no case. He said I shouldn't be annoyed that if I were in the guy's shoes I might as well do the same . He also said that it could be that it actually happened but me being there at the wrong time and being there when he felt such that he will easily take the person close by as the culprit. I felt relieved but at the same time angry for been falsely accused and my time wasted for something as dumb as this.

When we were going outside the station, the guy who falsely accused me was dragging his foot and kept working very slow such that I was at a far distance in the front. The passer-by that followed us early was apologizing to me, that I shouldn't be angry.

Damn, I was just feeling different emotions. However, I thank God nothing happened to me ( I wasn't hurt and no mob action or jungle justice), nothing was missing and I came back home safe and fine.

My dad who is in another state got worried when I called earlier. If something had happened to me that guy will have had the worst day of his life. The kind of people that will have come for him eh.

There were 2 things on my mind. It's either that guy did it intentionally to put me in trouble or he is delusional ( superstitious) and/or actually suffering from Koro syndrome.

Help move this to Fp so everyone can be aware of this.

Thank God nothing happened to you, those guys are criminals, the other guy that told you to go to the police station with him is also his accomplice, for him to have stayed till you both left the police station shows they are together running the criminal act and this is how innocent people die unjustly from the hands of their criminals.

whitejs:
What should I do to break out?

I can't give a speech in public.

I blank out at times when trying to express myself.

Also rapid heartbeat...

I feel more relaxed when alone.

Definitely you cant go for a job interview comfortably then?

Truths9ja:
“The Biggest Mistake a Lady can make in life is to Marry a Poor Man” - Nigerian Lady reveals!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pr0LVVJ0SZs?si=XkUrxA6lETOJbrtr


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzLeEvRINR8/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading

Only broke as ladies/ I never chop gengs with empty brains think the way you think. Ask your mother in the village if she married your father because he was rich? From their words you will surely know them, awon omo jati jati

Cruise777:




Na joke I dey joke ooo

Organize Boys and thugs to break into her shop at night and let them pack everything in her shop, so that her business can collapse

Sell it off without her knowledge , let her return penniless under your roof

Let's see how she will insult you while she feeds off you, and get common upkeep from you


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Wisdom will always be with you all the days of ya life bro .

Na only gbola them sabi memorize and the money wey dem wan collect, bunch of block-heads.

honour7:
Let her go with the baby and marry a new wife, there is an 85 percent chance you have lost her

My thoughts thou.