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Newlymarried:
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Nzubeolisa:
The reverend or pastor that officiate this wedding is mad

illicit:
Prince wey dey go steal phone?

That one na prince?

🥴

Greatex90:
That's a Badger, the strongest animal on Earth

Wizzy13:
my girlfriend have been telling me how men gives her money and gift and want me to accept it is normal.
Someone i have been spending my money on.

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

mmadu5:
Dont be surprised that child is not mohbads, nigerian women of this generation are very loose and promiscuous

mrvitalis:
Anytime I see videos of Nigerian soldiers in action is always disappointing

Realistically this soldiers can't defeat any armed group

When you are ambush it's basics knowledge

You take cover - regroup - get into formation -then lunch counter attack


There is zero differences between what this soldiers are doing to what a random group of boys would do if you put them in same situation

I can't see any reason to believe they are trained... Nigerian Army just win bandits probably when they outnumber them

This is sad to watch... Really really sad

naptu2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-synpdfu3ng?si=YQKc-BdR3Pbgakun

Volodymyr Zelensky @ZelenskyyUa

Objectivist04:
And some fools are wondering why majority of christians are supporting isreal.
How can I as a Christian leave isreal a chosen race to support children of the bond woman ?

It is time to end Islam now, if the entire world are serious, it won't take more than two weeks to wipe Islam out of the face of Earth, they are very. Volnurable but they don't know

Dyfynezz12:
When president and his vice are muslims what were u expecting

adenigga:
Source: https://dailytrust.com:/Nigerians-Flay-FG-Over-Public-Holidays-Extension

Righteousness2:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.iranintl.com/en/202404043146&ved=2ahUKEwib_rLx5auFAxW48gIHHdvgCAMQFnoECCUQBQ&usg=AOvVaw04AjBzzPy9gQjEqZrZ0XZC

Ance4Liverpool:
You better not think of coming back to nigeria bcs sleeping in the street of portugal is better than who sleeps in nigeria flat

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?


What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

Arobaga:
Oya Nigerian army should go build a barrack inside those boarders




They should replicate exactly what they did in Delta state to that area




I love Nigeria army but hate how they all allow themselves to be used by evil government

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swEuSsf4MII?si=PS1EOWSxoot4QDkQ

fergie001:
Imran Muhammad

aylipple:
On Tuesday night in Accra, Ghana at the ongoing All African Games (AAG), the Nigerian mixed 4x400m relay team of Emmanuel Ojeli, Patience Okon-George, Sikiru Adeyemi and Omolara Ogunmakinju stormed to GOLD in sensational style with Omolara stealing the spotlight.

Ojeli set the race going for Nigeria and set the team up for a brilliant start, handing over the baton slightly in 2nd place behind Botswana to Patience Okon-George, who created a reasonable lead just 30 metres into her race; pushing Botswana to second place on the 2nd lap.

However, Sikiru Adeyemi found himself napping on the 3rd lap of the race as Botswana's Bayapo Ndori wasted no time regaining the lead and creating a distance of over 20 metres between himself and Adeyemi in the process.

All hopes looked lost for Nigeria after the pass of the baton for the last lap but Ogunmakinju put on a show, running what could be aptly described as the race of her life as she steadily and speedily closed the 20-metre deficit created in the 3rd lap with the just 30m to the finish line to bring the GOLD medal home in a time of 3:13.26!

With that thrilling performance, Nigeria shattered the African Record set by the Nigerian team that competed at the Tokyo 2020 Olympics.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JpW16G5C5ug

helinues:
Just imagine, yet millions of Northern graduates remain jobless.

Imagine how many industries, factories, empowerment program that amount would take care of.

Religion is now a laundering money avenue

Who cursed our politicians self?

Racoon:
"Nigerian Government Allocates N47.5Billion For Rehabilitation Of 50 Schools Without Locations Amid Budget Padding Scandal."


https://saharareporters.com/2024/03/18/nigerian-government-allocates-n475billion-rehabilitation-50-schools-without-locations

99thEnemy:
Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/03/irate-ijaw-youths-kill-army-commander-soldiers-in-delta/amp/

efemena5050:
Rubbish wat dirty massacre..... will that bring their dead comrades......they will be massacre indeed bcus na south south abi.....they have been killing them like rats why no massacre in the north they only go into reactive mode when they come normal place .......see am not in any way justifying the killing of the soldiers but I think is high time they change their strategy of operations ......instead of going on rampage burning innocent people and ransacking the village who did not commit the crime ....of which they can never do in the north,when faced with demons called iswap,bokohagoats,bandits etc......use intelligence gathering.....use selective investigation....and with that get the perpetuators and kill them in return and not some medieval method of walfare that is even selective in nature RUBBISHY

2shure:
Nigeria no get military. They met their match now and were massacred. Hahahahahah
When it comes to unarmed civilians.they tend to flex muscles,slaps,kicks...but now they met their match.and were gunned down.hahahahahaha

MrBrownJay1:
so that men would call them desperate old cargo and start abusing them?

if a woman reaches 35yrs old and no man has proposed to spend the rest of his life with her, then let it go and just accept that marriage aint for you.

iamtardey:
Let the Adults breath
Let dem do adultery in peace please.

190:
who the phuck are even these people

sheila ?

Isreal ?

Who are they?

Are they related to tinubu

Botragelad:
Lol. Cry, beg, scream, Icj, Un, USA, clowns protesting. No one on Earth can stop ISRAEL from destroying Hamas.

How can you justify Hamas invasion, rape?
You say it didn't start on October 7, okay so Hamas attack is a retaliation they say, even when there was a Ceasefire. Why then is Israel attack not also retaliation. Why wailing all over the media. Hamas sent thousand of rockets into Israel, iron dome destroyed them. Israel retaliates everyone cries genocide. Lol. What would you have said if Hamas rocket killed a thousand of Israelis? Thanks to the iron dome and other defense mechanism.

I guess you were expecting Israel to hug the TERRORISTS. This is just the beginning, Hamas terrorists must be levelled down to the last man.

thesicilian:
I'm not against beating them mercilessly, giving them head bumps, panda eyes and letting their blood flow freely, but roasting them is barbaric.

Seequadry:
This is the time for Lp senators to come out and clear thẹ air.... Make dem no fold, we are behind them.

Just come out and tell us the truth

Cant stop laughing and continue deceiving yourselves that LP candidates are the messier to corruption, very soon una eye go clear , you will understand that a mans stomach is very more important than yours

NLCreator:
https://gazettengr.com/fg-urged-to-introduce-higher-taxes-on-sugar-sweetened-drinks-to-reduce-obesity/