₦airaland Forum

lonelyatdtop:
Please let's rub minds, which is more economical, with this harsh economy and weather conditions, one cannot do without bathing with boiling point water, And cost of everything has skyrocketed, a bag of charcoal is above 5k, 1kg of gas is above a thousand naira and kerosene is also nothing to write home about, so please, I'd like to know how you cope with your families this season, which do you use and why?

1. A charcoal 2. Gas 3. Kerosene 4. All or none ?
Thanks for your input.

I dont use none of it for hot bath, rather i use electric water heater .

Johnycastro18:
Mtcheeew i am not impressed
Chris rock is a gentleman.

Will smith should have tried that nonsense slap on a person like Dwayne "the rock" johnson,


Let me check something.

Easier said than done, if you where in his shoes and your wife was mocked publicly where hundreds of millions of people are watching, you will definitely pat him at the back and say , well done guy for mocking my wife abi?

dre11:
https://leadership.ng/federal-government-spends-n600bn-on-electricity-subsidy-in-2023/

N600B what? we are actually doomed in this country with the level of corruption we practice, some years back they where stealing millions, they upgraded to hundreds of million, they upgraded to billions now it it hundred of billions and trillions. May God punish those that decide to threat the common man like slaves in their mother land.

robosky02:
Which of this Ex-Super Eagles players deserved a CAF footballer of the year award in his prime?

Jay-Jay
Taribo West
Obafemi Martins
Daniel Amokachi
And
Mikel Obi



https://twitter.com/home

There is nothing to compare as it is very glaring that Jay-Jay Okocha is the only player amongst them. He deserves it.

Jewessgratitud3:
I came across a post where some men where expressing disappoinment over the high rate of indecent dressing among our girls and thought to make a counter post to let the men understand why it is so and how they are not unconnected to it.

Now, you Men come here to complain about indecent dressing of most ladies meanwhile you're the reason this things are so.

90% of the time, You men are naturally and easily attracted to this indecent girls. I've seen it happen a lot of times. If a decently dressed lady and the slutty ones are placed side by side for you men to make a pick , the tendency to pick the decent girls will be low compared to how you would rush after their slutty counterparts and it is this single act that has driven more girls and even the once decent and innocent girls into dressing slutty just to be seen by men.

In another scenario, a girl will be minding her business and you men will come and start flashing cash before her to lure her into sleeping with you even when your intentions are not pure. Like you don't plan to marry her. It will take extra discipline and grace of God for any young girl to reject such offer and when she gets used to getting this free cash and starts demanding or giving her body to the highest bidder, the same you men will start complaining again. Why are you men now complaining now that they are giving you what you want? Abi na me dem dey dress like that for?

Some men will even tell you they need a Christian sister with a touch of Ashawo vibes. I mean.... these girls see and hear these things and the chicken brain among them who don't want to be left out will begin to conform to such lifestyle.
Others will tell their wife's to dress decently but will go and be running after the slutty ones outside. This is the reason you can hardly tell a married woman apart these days because of the way they too have started dressing slutty just to keep their untamed husband. You men had better dropped this double standard mentality because the woman are no longer having it. What is sauce for the goose is good for the gander.

After this carefully expressed thoughts/ points of mine, it is safe to say that you Men are the cause of high moral decadence in the society cos you're the ones promoting it by your actions.

Stories for the gods, na woman wey ashawo don dey her blood stream but waiting for the right moment wan do ashawo or woman that is hiding her immoral attitude will listen to such vibes. Some women are still very discipline and wont even do the wish of the man if it doesnt suits them.

Caseless:
Regardless of which language this tweet is made, it should not matter. The most important thing is, it's a Nigerian language.

Are you saw we as youths are ready to get this country working? Why should anyone be angry that Yoruba is used when the same Osimhen was born and brought up in Lagos and speaks Yoruba himself?

You all tribal jingoists should go for a psychiatric evaluation.

Don't mind us those wanna be tribalistic nuisance, any small thing they direct it to tribe, we are Nigerians, lets love to live as Nigerians, but unfortunately some bunch of fools are been paid to always flood the social media with tribal issues and religious sentiments so we continue hating ourselves. Back then in the 80s when i used to live in Festac toen that housed both Igbo, Yoruba and few Hausas, we lived as Nigerians , we eat from each other's house ,play and even watch TV's from each other house , we only saw ourselves as Nigerians and the love was booming seriously then, not now , where things have changed drastically. Walahi i so much miss life in the 80s and 90s.

Na which government una wan sue? for which country ? They Play, Una go explain tire .

Norsemann:
After snatching running away with the people’s mandate you’re now begging


You’re begging while your online dimwits are saying companies can leave, that others will come


Dimwits wey Aso Rock animas chop pass


Ebola create an enabling environment for foreign investors then you won’t need to beg rather na them go dey rush you


Nobody wan plunge his capital into a failed economy


Cocaine sniffer

Bro , easy on him small nah, no carry naija matter for ahead ooo make you no go get untimely stroke or heart attack , in as much i don't like many things happening in the country even before President Tinubu administration came into power, i dey try not involve myself into naija discussion because before you know it , its already personal and you wont know when you start cursing and ranting. The country na Cruise .

Naija and chinko products na 5 and 6 , no wonder things produced for naija doesn't last , they love cheaper thing at exorbitant prices just to steal more money from the treasury .

OlawaleBammie:
But people dey craze ooh

Na how many pipu u don see wey well 4 dis naija , d economy self don make am worse

Keepamsafe:
Just this morning, my female neighbor brought this Oha Soup for me after I apologized to her yesterday over our last fracas. (I brought a girl home, and we had an issue.).

Please note, I have no entanglements with this my neighbor as im not sexually attracted to her even though she’s single and I am too.

I have started eating already, as this is my breakfast to work this morning.

She did well and what are you planning to give to her in return, because this looks like energy rejuvenator .

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Continue wasting your time with I Never Chop Ladies , by the time they start billing you, you will get sense small .

[quote author=lavylilly post=127366367][/quote]Yet you people still prefer to stay, live and die in Lagos with all this Skyscraper excuses you wrote down about Lagos , you make your riches in Lagos, every state has its own challenges if Lagos is unbearable to live or stay then change location to another free zone state.

goodnessme1:
Yoruba Muslims are coming for you.


I don't know why they hate yoruba Christians and every christian.



Be ready to be called Omo Igbo because they are taught from kids to hate Omo Igbo,so anyone they hate including yorubas Christians na Omo Igbo.

Another tribal and religious bigot been paid by her slave masters to instigate hatred among Nigerians. If you don't have any meaningful thing to say why not close your smelling hoe rather than suffocate people with your insensible talk.

GanagiBitrus:
Any ritualist caught mining body parts should be donated to a medical research institute where all their vital organs will be removed for medical research & treatment.
Then drain all their blood into a blood bank.

That's a very good idea, but draining their blood into the blood bank is not advisable, since the government is trying to curb ritualism, because those blood drained must not be used on another human , else such people may start developing ritual instinct and will continue where the dead ones stopped, such blood should go down the waste.

femisplash:
There's nothing royal here, he received a normal Presidential reception as was given to President Tinubu during his recent visit to UAE. A royal reception would have been a royal robe across the shoulder just as Messi was adorned at Qatar 2022.

NA wa for you oooo, its people like you that will see white and call it Red , how dare you compare the reception of the number 1 man (Putin) in the world to Tinubu reception? common ICBM you dont have in your country na to loot treasury and steal from the poor una sabi.

Eastmiddle9:
4 Russia thunder jet escort Putin to Middle East

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Hp6TeJLilA?si=a_FVmza9ymb8T_TX

The Most Respected President in the world ...

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

She is a smart ass woman, she wants to be first to report so they will side her, she must have told your dad bunch of lies . Lucky you no kids in the middle, my best advice for you as a brother is to start scouting for a wife material and divorce her, if you like use pity to accept her back, experience is the best teacher and you will surely learn if you don't act fast and smart.

O NA NA NA NA

VeryWickedGoat:
We need a census of all men with black mark on their foreheads if we really want to curb crimes like this one.

This should be the work of your brothers in crime and stop diverting peoples attention to elsewhere, we sabi una format.

Christistruth03:
It isn’t enough !

They should have also ordered him to pay Julius Berger

to build a 10km Road in his State as well

Chai you Harsh bro .

Stephen2324:
Age 25+..what advice would you give someone age 18-24?

Mingle with people of positive mind set , don't womanize, stay focus, and believe in yourself. also learn not to be predictable, don't let people know everything about you or your plans, and above all Pray .

Eriokanmi:
Peace is the way. I urge the FG to release their leader and engage all stake holders in the truce talk. That's what I understand as a path to peace and not all these killings of ipob or fulani bandits. They'd only keep raging and reinforcing and one day...I hope bush meant won't catch the hunter. A few days back, the IGP said ipob should stop making police family orphans. This statement would make sense if only they sue for peace. Most of katsina schools are on compulsory holidays as we speak

Nigeria is the easiest country to rule but our leaders don't have the antidote to vices and agitations yet.

The last caption is a big lie and i disagree with it, Nigerians are the most difficult human being to rule, highly indiscipline people .if you know you know,

Uyi168:
..
the same Nigerian universities where people bagged first class??

most times, people often become more serious with their life when they relocate.
its not everytime we blame the system. The fault can also come from the individuals.

The school environment and the lecturers matters alot to help you push forward , you cant compared Nigeria university environment to western school environment.

Prospertochu:
My x wife and I share 3 children together ( 4 years old triplets 2 boys 1 girl). I live in another state due to the nature of my job.

The girl lives with her in Lagos and the boys are with my mother and sister in the village. I rented another apartment for them far away because I don't want my x or her family to come and kidnapped my boys the same way she kidnapped the girl .

My x wife and daughter are going to the village for xmas she want me to give her my mum adress so she can see the boys she said she bought plenty gifts for them .

I refused because the last time she visited she took all 3 children to her parents house only for her to kidnapped the girl leaving behind the boys.

I don't want her to kidnapped my boys and she has threatened to take me to court for custody she said the judge will grant her custody because the children are tender .

I told her to go ahead and report me anywhere she wants. I am scared to loose my boys. I love them so much they are my everything I won't bear to lose them.

My boys are only 4 years old is it true that the judge will grant her custody because they are tender ?


Edited 1 : https://www.nairaland.com/7112098/x-wife-demanding-me-more#112551530



Edited 2: https://www.nairaland.com/7436944/ex-wife-kidnapped-daughter#118450454

Your wife will treat your kids more better than you keeping the kids with your mum or family member, bro i understand how you feel , most especially when you are not that financially strong, but you can talk this out with her and probably get a lawyer so you can always have custody of your kids anytime you are not at work and want to spend time with them.

Help those kids to have motherly and fatherly care and love, don't allow your personal greed's to affect the kids life, they are still small and need at least mother care . I know it is a very difficult decision to take , but if you truly love your kids let their mother be with them , and you can be in their lives too when you are very much available, when they start growing of age then you can decide on what or how to go about their custody.

Walahi i hate broken home, the innocent kids are always at the receiving end.

Mayormoffy:
I have always dreamt & imagined how snow ❄️ is and feels.. Back then after watching Home Alone the movie ,with all the thrills & fun with snow..I decided from then that I must act my own scene of snow play...long story short after over 2 decades I finally experience the joy of fulfilling one of my life long dreams...not just me alone but with my wife & kids...
The euphoria that came with it is unbelievable 😍 & can't be fully explained until you experience it...see me that use to off my shirt upandan because of heat for naija..I never fit open chest except to bath..The cold ehnnn e sweet & at the same time tough but as Nigerians na we must sure overcome..
Moral of this my brief story you see that your dreams & desire don't give up on it ..no matter what Believe & Faith it..above all trust God..He will sure make it happen in His time..mine took decades but yours can weeks just Faith it.. God is Amazing 👏

Congratulations to you my brother , your kids will surely love you more for helping them out of the country that doesn't value humanity ...

stories for the gods, na today ?

I know my south east brother will crucify this doctor for speaking out loud, they really hate it when you speak against them, that's why they love producing fake things for human consumption.

HeatSeeker:
No black man on the list? Na wa o!

Such awards is not meant for black man, do you think they recognize black people? all they are doing with blacks is called international politics.

Jostoman:
May be the Award is meant for most wicked people.

Then Benjamin Netanyahu ,is worthy of the award .

Gasopanis:
I have been having some kind of pain in my ear for about 2 weeks now, i went to the hospital last week and i was prescribed this drug Augmentin, i was shocked when i went to the pharmacy and was told it costs 57k, i even had to ask the lady if she knew what she was saying, i had to google it and found out she wasn’t lying. I went to buy it today.. it has just 14 tablets. A friend of mine told me it used to cost about 6k in the past.

I’m fed up of the situation of things in this country

Nigerians and Geed are padi padi , 5 & 6 .

Emyzoloye5:
How can a 19year old boy rape a girl to death, with little prick?

Maybe he stabbed her

Very funny, you determine the size of gbola with age? seems you haven't seen a 18 year old boy having 10 - 12 inches gbola abi? they play