₦airaland Forum

Christistruth03:
It isn’t enough !

They should have also ordered him to pay Julius Berger

to build a 10km Road in his State as well

Chai you Harsh bro .

Stephen2324:
Age 25+..what advice would you give someone age 18-24?

Mingle with people of positive mind set , don't womanize, stay focus, and believe in yourself. also learn not to be predictable, don't let people know everything about you or your plans, and above all Pray .

Eriokanmi:
Peace is the way. I urge the FG to release their leader and engage all stake holders in the truce talk. That's what I understand as a path to peace and not all these killings of ipob or fulani bandits. They'd only keep raging and reinforcing and one day...I hope bush meant won't catch the hunter. A few days back, the IGP said ipob should stop making police family orphans. This statement would make sense if only they sue for peace. Most of katsina schools are on compulsory holidays as we speak

Nigeria is the easiest country to rule but our leaders don't have the antidote to vices and agitations yet.

The last caption is a big lie and i disagree with it, Nigerians are the most difficult human being to rule, highly indiscipline people .if you know you know,

Uyi168:
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the same Nigerian universities where people bagged first class??

most times, people often become more serious with their life when they relocate.
its not everytime we blame the system. The fault can also come from the individuals.

The school environment and the lecturers matters alot to help you push forward , you cant compared Nigeria university environment to western school environment.

Prospertochu:
My x wife and I share 3 children together ( 4 years old triplets 2 boys 1 girl). I live in another state due to the nature of my job.

The girl lives with her in Lagos and the boys are with my mother and sister in the village. I rented another apartment for them far away because I don't want my x or her family to come and kidnapped my boys the same way she kidnapped the girl .

My x wife and daughter are going to the village for xmas she want me to give her my mum adress so she can see the boys she said she bought plenty gifts for them .

I refused because the last time she visited she took all 3 children to her parents house only for her to kidnapped the girl leaving behind the boys.

I don't want her to kidnapped my boys and she has threatened to take me to court for custody she said the judge will grant her custody because the children are tender .

I told her to go ahead and report me anywhere she wants. I am scared to loose my boys. I love them so much they are my everything I won't bear to lose them.

My boys are only 4 years old is it true that the judge will grant her custody because they are tender ?


Edited 1 : https://www.nairaland.com/7112098/x-wife-demanding-me-more#112551530



Edited 2: https://www.nairaland.com/7436944/ex-wife-kidnapped-daughter#118450454

Your wife will treat your kids more better than you keeping the kids with your mum or family member, bro i understand how you feel , most especially when you are not that financially strong, but you can talk this out with her and probably get a lawyer so you can always have custody of your kids anytime you are not at work and want to spend time with them.

Help those kids to have motherly and fatherly care and love, don't allow your personal greed's to affect the kids life, they are still small and need at least mother care . I know it is a very difficult decision to take , but if you truly love your kids let their mother be with them , and you can be in their lives too when you are very much available, when they start growing of age then you can decide on what or how to go about their custody.

Walahi i hate broken home, the innocent kids are always at the receiving end.

Mayormoffy:
I have always dreamt & imagined how snow ❄️ is and feels.. Back then after watching Home Alone the movie ,with all the thrills & fun with snow..I decided from then that I must act my own scene of snow play...long story short after over 2 decades I finally experience the joy of fulfilling one of my life long dreams...not just me alone but with my wife & kids...
The euphoria that came with it is unbelievable 😍 & can't be fully explained until you experience it...see me that use to off my shirt upandan because of heat for naija..I never fit open chest except to bath..The cold ehnnn e sweet & at the same time tough but as Nigerians na we must sure overcome..
Moral of this my brief story you see that your dreams & desire don't give up on it ..no matter what Believe & Faith it..above all trust God..He will sure make it happen in His time..mine took decades but yours can weeks just Faith it.. God is Amazing 👏

Congratulations to you my brother , your kids will surely love you more for helping them out of the country that doesn't value humanity ...

stories for the gods, na today ?

I know my south east brother will crucify this doctor for speaking out loud, they really hate it when you speak against them, that's why they love producing fake things for human consumption.

HeatSeeker:
No black man on the list? Na wa o!

Such awards is not meant for black man, do you think they recognize black people? all they are doing with blacks is called international politics.

Jostoman:
May be the Award is meant for most wicked people.

Then Benjamin Netanyahu ,is worthy of the award .

Gasopanis:
I have been having some kind of pain in my ear for about 2 weeks now, i went to the hospital last week and i was prescribed this drug Augmentin, i was shocked when i went to the pharmacy and was told it costs 57k, i even had to ask the lady if she knew what she was saying, i had to google it and found out she wasn’t lying. I went to buy it today.. it has just 14 tablets. A friend of mine told me it used to cost about 6k in the past.

I’m fed up of the situation of things in this country

Nigerians and Geed are padi padi , 5 & 6 .

Emyzoloye5:
How can a 19year old boy rape a girl to death, with little prick?

Maybe he stabbed her

Very funny, you determine the size of gbola with age? seems you haven't seen a 18 year old boy having 10 - 12 inches gbola abi? they play

Solsix:
Nah you wey no get sense. You don't know what you want

at times we learn the hard way.

Ndimkpurummiri:
Reno Omokri

We know those people dont waste your time mentioning them. they are the kings and queens of importers and exporters

Meerahbel:
y?

They use workers like slaves... They are terrible people to work with .

Jennyclay:
If the man can’t forgive her then let him go jare!! . He’s not a saint either!!

I’m sure the man is not really good in bed reason she visited her ex.

So many men are not just good in bed, especially Nigerian men!! and they won’t even care if a lady is satisfied or not!! Very selfish men!!!

Personally, if I’m not getting enough money, sex and true Love from my man then I would definitely look outside.

Stop sounding like a local Nymphomaniac , is sex food? I pity the man wey go marry your type put for house, he will be busy fathering other men children unknown to him

$111B Dollars, many of those in Ukrainian government has cashed out seriously in the name of War, while some ignorant people are at the War front killing themselves for their selfish and greedy government, if ukraine thinks they can win this War then they are actually day dreaming, US as most of us know them are very useless , after using you for their personal use they will dump you when you least expected. To me its no news , this is not the first time they are doing it.

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SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.

Continue day dreaming by the time you enter menopause even if the man is 4.9 feet with a bald head and a oju yobo eye wants to marry you , you go rush am Relish indomie noodles ... They Play

GuruboiNaija:
https://.ng/2023/12/02/umahi-seeks-south-east-support-for-tinubu/

Tinubu dont need any South East Support, the last time i checked they are not Nigerians, they are Biafrans. they should keep their support for Obi and Chinedu

Jennyclay:
Another post demonising single mothers . Just look at that nonsense man shouting “100% true” repeatedly!! Mtcheww!

Biko, Let her speak for the single mothers in America

Most single mothers here in Africa, Nigeria to be precise are doing great job raising their child(ren).

Let’s understand there are many situations that make one a single mother, situations like.. widow, irresponsible father, rape, deceptive boyfriend etc

The question we should be asking ourselves is Who is the better parent?? Is it the woman that actually stepped up and took responsibility OR the foolish, deceptive and good for nothing man who abandoned his child and his responsibility??

The man that served you breakfast must be a Legend . You talk with too much pain and hatred for men, yet na Man pregnant your mum before you could ever come into this sinful world. dey play.

Theopneustos:
Good day nairalanders

I have heard and seen some people who say that on their first date they had sex with the person they are having that date with,and to me it looks weird,it's simply put 'absurd'

Well I don't know what you may think about this but I believe that it is makes you look cheap,makes you look as a person who has no moral boundaries, it reduces your worth before that fellow and generally makes you look s*upid before the fellow even if they won't tell you.

I think it's quite odd and nothing pleasant that you are meeting someone for the first time and what comes to your mind is going to bed with such a person, it ain't funny and it's something that should be discouraged.

That's my humble opinion
What do you think

#IWriteToCreateChange
©Theopneustos

During my dating days that aint a news , thou i engaged on some and tried not to on some, but do you know some girls will not even give you a second date or chance if you dont smash them on the first date? im talking from experience. one have told me , she came all the way to waste time talking and no smashing that i should not expect her to come again. na there you go fear fear .

otipoju:
Maturity !!!


I have a girl that I still dream about even last week. I saw her last 25 years ago when we were class mates in secondary school.

I just want to tell her that I am sorry for taking her profession of love for me for granted. I rudely said she was not fine enough and she was really embarrassed in class that day.

I've been sorry for a long time and wish I could get the opportunity to make it up to her one way or the other.

I was really immature to say such mean words to another human being. Sade no vex abeg.

I hope Shade is still alive to accept your apology, we all have acted immature one way or the other while growing up.

Zonefree:
She can't. She's already fantasizing wrapping her big head around his arms.

Okafor's law must be applied before second week of this month, I can stake my house rent on that.

CoronaVirusPro:
Super Nintendo

Sega Mega drive

Atari

You sound like a gamer

realmindz:
This time last year, I didn’t know I’d be married this year. A lot has happened in one year, met my wife in a strange manner, loved her and finally got married to her.

https://www.nairaland.com/7847420/how-met-fiancee


I will like to keep my anonymity so unfortunately no pictures here. But I can give you a good description, she’s the last child and only daughter, so you know how she must have been pampered. Her mum was so emotional and she had tears roll down her cheek on the D-day, it was lovely though to see such wonderful connection.

My wife is tall, ebony and in her early twenties. White sparkling teeth, bright eyes, always smiling. She’s the perfect gift to me. The wedding was simple yet beautiful. I am so fortunate to have her in my life.

And the best gift came after. Let me whisper it (I met her at home, tear rubber)

Congrats bro, Hope you have really prepared to pamper her like a baby, last born are extremely exceptional and can be more challenging to manage, moreover she is the last born. you go dey alright las-las.

Goodnewsforlife:
Omo this life ehn

Some people are just directionless, it’s anywhere belle face with hate, when buhari was d president any small thing they mention Fulani

But today a Yoruba man is d president n something is happening in anambra but na yorubas dem dey shout

I am sure if another tribe becomes president tomorrow, that tribe too will automatically become their problem

You should know they are bunch of sadistic people, with little or no pride.

BluntCrazeMan:
All these persons that handle guns..

They are just causing lots of nuisance.

They need psychological evaluation .

Kyase:
He may cost us this game
Cameroon should come take him for afcon abeg

Afcon bawo, the idiot suppose they keep for 3rd division club

Whic kain basket keeper Man United put for post so

DeltaOil:
Buhari just gave Dangote our money!
Took our Oil to the South west.

The South West that prefer agebroism, thuggery & rituals

go hug your community transformer if e pain you say refinery dey southwest.

GuruboiNaija:
https://.ng/2023/11/29/kogi-will-overtake-lagos-in-terms-of-development-yahaya-bello/

Nonsense talk, is it more developed than any part of the eastern Nigeria first and northern part before talking of Lagos? they use your people dey catch cruise, in 100 years to come it can never be anything closer to Lagos.

Goalnaldo:
Recently I fell in love for the first time with this 23 year old. It felt great. this was the first time someone is calling me baby and having sleepless nights because of me (before you people begin to ask how old I am, I was born in 1992).

About three days ago we were texting on WhatsApp and I asked her how many ex she had had and her reply was "I can't remember". I was shocked 😲 I asked her if there are too many that's why she can't remember and she said "yes".

I'm concerned.for a 23 year old to have dated many men means she has multiple body counts. Will this affect me in the long run? What advice do you people have for me
PS; I'm not a virgin

Afterall she is trying to be real and not pretend about it, mind you ,no be only you they bleep the babe presently, at such age they still tend to enjoy as many gbola as possible? my advice to you, find a more matured girl that really knows what she wants, as for you 23 years old babe she still have many years of serious knacking ahead to do before she can now decide to slow down and think of her future, probably in the next 6 to 8 years she go relax small