Supreme145: There is this motion that giving birth to children is an achievement in this country. I see young guys in mid and late twenties rushing into marriage while they are barely standing on their feet. From someone that comes from a family of 10 I'm sure if my dad is given a second chance he won't give birth as much children again. Let me share some of my experiences as regards giving birth without proper planning or sustainable income.
I've a neighbor in my compound, he's 32 and in his final year in the university, I can hardly have decent conversation with him without hearing about how he wants to get married. I would always remind him that he's living in a one room apartment, still a student without a strong source of income, but he would counter me saying that he can always start small and grow with his wife. Moreover when he gives birth he would have an investment.
I've have another friend that was a classmate in secondary school, he graduated the year I got admission though he had some issues with his results. One day he called me that he's married and I was surprised, though he is an artisan into all those parapets and pop stuffs I know he wasn't financially buoyant enough to carry a family. The last time I visited him he was looking malnourished and unable to sort out his issues in school almost four years after because according to him any money that he gets already has a pending issue waiting for it. He's looking far older than his elder brother who's still single, he looks 38 when he's just 30. He consoled himself by telling me that even if he doesn't have money he already has two kids which he sees an investment and a great achievement. Meanwhile they are cramped into a single room apartment and none of the kids are enrolled in school.
Last week while we were training in the evening, an argument broke out between two young guys. I was just by the side observing what was happening, I kept hearing stuffs like....why you dey argue with that guy? you no know say na person father he be? that guy don born two children o abi you think say e easy to born, na big achievement be that o. Now this is a guy that is about 25 years and has no sustainable means of income, he works in peoples farms and other menial jobs to make ends meet.
My next door married neighbor has become a torn in my flesh, he's always borrowing from me without paying so it's obvious he's struggling financially, factor in the constant arguments with his wife due to shortage of funds all the time. I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.
I have no issues what so ever with how anyone choose to life their life but considering the economic condition of this country now bringing in kids without proper plans is not the way to go. If my dad had given birth to maybe 3 kids I'm sure he wouldn't be stressed out the way he is now and the resources used in training 8 kids would be better managed on just 3kids.
Personally I feel that one of the surest way to perpetual poverty as a young guy is to get married while struggling financially. Like one of the examples above, he cast aside his personal development and aspirations just to cater for his family. Supposing he's still single I'm sure he would have cleared he's outstanding school fees and maybe get his certificate.
Well since I'm still single and still struggling I don't judge anybody, every mallam to his kettle. As for me no marriage till I'm financially stable enough to afford at least 3 bedroom flat, a small car and substantial savings. It would be an abomination for me to bring a child into this world to pass through the kind of life I had growing up.
Kriss216: We shouldn't overlook kemi's submission.
NOA should try more to educate school boys about the dangers of Cultism.
I stay close to a secondary school, and I see how these little boys pride themselves with Cultism.
Cultism don commot high institution.. The guys there are into yahoo, nobody get time to practice confra. Na secondary school boys carry dey matter for head like this.
Why didn't he direct the letter to a Northerner Instead of directing it to a southerner like him a-won o-de
Stopping a northerner from emerging as a president in 2023 is well justified...
Since PDP is allowed to choose a Northerner as their presidential candidate then APC too can do otherwise..
Bello Turji should be your problem, smelling abokis with una natural body odour ,ur entire race will soon be wiped out by Herdsmen and your bandits brothers.. pathetic bigot
ejitest1: I find it very difficult to give girls money especially the ones I am in a relationship with. I think the reason behind this is, I used to spend on girls to much in my days on campus but since I got comfortable and also swallowed Ubunja redpills, I easily see through the games of girls and how thier only use is sex and to collect money from men. The only difference between an average Nigerian girl and a prostitute, is the name you call the money you give to them after sex...... guys, drop your thoughts.
Explorerx: This is my story. I have dated five Nigerian girls but all left me for being nice even though I bought the latest iPhone for at least three of them( iPhone 11, x , 12pro) respectively. At first we will begin dating happily but when they seem to see that I am a nice guy . They begin to back out. Last month I was opportune to travel to the USA. I met a 18 year old white girl named Katie. She at first like me but when I began to act nice she begins to back out. Funny enough after taking her out numerously she started to ignore me telling me I am so nice and she doesn’t like it ( the nice she meant was that I don’t request for her nudes or try to have sex) just yesterday I saw her cuddling an African American man who she said raped her when she tried to run away from home at the age of 14. What am I doing wrong?
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Some of the youths also took to the streets to protest the killings.
In December 2020, Rahama called on the United Nations, United Nations Women, United Nations Population Fund and United Nations sexual and reproductive health agency to intervene in the increasing number of violence against women and put an end to insecurity in Nigeria.
Northerners will reap what they sow.... useless Cows oya sai baba
ijustdey: Sylvester Oromoni: Why parents of fleeing suspected Dowen college students can be liable – VC
There are speculations that some parents of the suspected students of Dowen College had flown their children out of Nigeria to evade arrest and possible prosecution.
Kemi I don't mean to insult you,but honestly thunder will fire you....common 9million naira , tufiakwa poverty is a disease, what about those governor's that are paying 100million per semester for their children in private universities,and they have like 4 children in the university? How much is the salary of a governor....KEMI it will never be well with your grand children because you are cursed already...werey
nosiebaba: Shey you see all these people that believe generational poverty is a birthright. Dem dey talk one thing, this cursed ex governors daughter dey talk another thing. If no be suffering mentality, how much is 3 million naira in usd or pounds. Why don't they investigate the school for collecting that much fees. Nigeria is too God fearing honestly. In other climes, 5his woman won't be able to walk outside.
3million naira is just 5000euro at 620 per rate That's not money it's just a chicken change
Metrix147: The long-awaited 2021 annual thanksgiving service and cash harvest organised by Prophet Chukwuemeka Ohanaemere, popularly known as Odumeje, the Lion Himself, the Indabosky Bahose, the Senior Pastor Mountain of Holy Ghost Intervention Deliverance Ministry on Sunday took place with rain of money, ABN TV reports.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwJq8oPiJPo Our correspondent gathered that money flew from all parts of the church building when Prophet Odumeje took over the stage to dance as worshippers showered him with various currencies.
The event took place at Mountain of Holy Ghost Intervention Deliverance Ministry auditorium located at No 88b Bida Road, by Modebe Avenue, Fegge Onitsha, Anambra State.
It had in attendance notable gospel artistes such as Evang. Prince Gozie Okeke, Evang. Prince Chinedu Nwadike, Evang. Chinyere Udoma, Evang. Dr. Felix Ndukwe, Evang. Israel Anyanele and comedian MC Parrot.
Earlier, Prophet Odumeje while extending invitation for the thanksgiving service and cash harvest had said.
Dorcmass: Dear lander am 29 am still suffering from small penis my gf have complain alot and threaten to leave me because i get small penis have do all my best even my parent also have tried their best buh the prick stil remail the same and now me and gf have plan our marriage wich is cming ealier how can i Bleep her till her satisfaction talk less of getting pregnant and lady of nowaday leave men that can't handle them tough during sex my family have nt heard anything about our up coming break up and we've choose date for our marriage please help me nairalander That daddy is to small gan ni Please any advice
mesmer: [b][/b] a nigerian man was found dead in a spousal revenge, the man had six wives, on the night of the fateful day, he decided to spend the night in the youngest wife room, according to the youngest wife odachi.. the other 5 women had a meeting before their husband came back demanding him to have sex with them all at the same time, they invaded her room with knives and sticks... the husband who resisted their attack, was overpowered and ordered the sex march begins with the youngest wife and continue in that order to the top the husband stopped breathing when the fifth woman was making her way to the bed... the wives started laughing and ran out and into the forest when they noticed the youngest couldn't resuscitate him. omo did one na real gobe o. on a more serious note i cant still de-mystify the reason why nigerian men will or wants to marry more than one wife like say we fit finish one self.. i think a lesson learnt there for most nigerian men. this is the link to the video: http://videos.huffingtonpost.com/husband-dies-after-rape-by-6-wives-517426893
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