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I disagree, Keshi has used all his luck finish. His winning ratio is very low. Let's try someone else, personally I prefer Samson Siasia

Stelvin101: I use to shout and rant at people in ma state wen ever I go to ATM machine dat dey waste too much time. Buh since am in Benue state (thanks to Now Your Suffering Continue) I jst go there n book space, go market,go barbing saloon, even go watch premier league before I go back to the ATM machine to check if e don reach my turn. Ppl here will kill u with frustration in ATM here in Benue state, I kept wondering if they are withdrawing Millions with their atm card. Am not stereotyping, just saying the fact.

Corper We....
Abeg when dem go pay allowee for this month nau?
Hunger dey catch person for here o

thorpido: where are you from?Were you not taught to respect your elders?

Lol, just imagine! Is it becos schools are on holidays...when I was ur age, i don't even have a fone.

UnknownT: I have seen how you are minding your own business right? Well, at least you in particular must have learnt that 'delivery like Hebrew women' never existed

It's not abt whot exist or not but abt what we believe in, and it works.

No one has eva seen Jesus but we believe, same goes for Prophet Mohammed.

It's abt believeing.

UnknownT post=/post/26823228:
Bro! There is nothing like "deliver like the Hebrew women". That was a lie told by the midwives, I wonder how it stuck up to dis century. Safe delivery to ur wifey

Kindly mind ya business, he believes in it and he prays for it, what concern u with dat one? Mind ya 4ucking boring bizzzzzzzzz!!!!!

Atmmachine post=/post/26820851:
#Make sure you deposit enough sperm into her.
By so doing,the child will resemble you & not your landlord

meaning?

thorpido post=/post/26817075:
^^keep at it.Help her with house work and massage her body especially her back cos she will experiencing back pain sometimes.
Make love to her cos her body needs it but do it when it's convenient for her.
Sleeplessness is a common occurrence so she should catch up on as much sleep as she can.
It's a worthwhile journey.Wish you the best.

Lecturer, he has being managing the situation since, I don't remember reading him asking for ur advice

Heyliesha: He shud sack him on tym

u wicked o

But truly, d guy don exhaust im luck

QMark: True. My Ipad is as useless as the penis of a catholic priest.

It's 2 years old. I haven't powered it up to 10 times. My laptop serves my table needs, while my phone serves my mobile needs.








I think you need to check the meaning of "upwardly mobile professional"

Lol @ joystick of a catholic preist, make Father Paul catch u

sexymoma: Collect nor be borrow o..

Collect means d person has right over u. To borrow means u ca can return, where dere is problem with borrow is when d person fails to return. Even countries borrow so how come a guy won't now borrow, I think u should count urself lucky if ur guy wanna borrow from u, the reason being that guys are known for ego, so for a guy to cum down and ask for money from his babe, chai!!! He go regard dat babe welllllll

BreezyRita......the question should be 'at what stage should ur bf start spending on u?'



General opinion, guys start spending from d very first day, yet the issue or borrowing is now debatable

BreezyRita: Seriously? You spend on her to borrow from her??

How cum there's no specific time for him to start spending on u. He takes u out on a date, buy everything, gives u t fare. But when he need help, u don't deem it fit for u to help him, u don't deem it fit for u to be part of his success.
Nigerian women mentality....smmhhh

sexymoma: My sister i won't lie to you... If i should lend my guy money, The respect i have for him will gradually diminish, Seriously.
Why i go dey borrow ma man money..

Meanwhile i nor dey borrow person money wey i nor fit give

But u can collect from him? Selfish woman

MadCow1: [b]Yes I can...

But wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It requires a whole nother level of maturity of mind and mental strength.. You have to deal with certain emotional dramas that can really fhuck up the feeble minded and put untold strain on the relationship.. You have to try to raise another man's kid like they were yours. You have to deal with her/his past that keeps looking at you in the face daily. Let's not talk about the step parent drama that most step kids bring with them. Also when you now have your own kids, the battle line of fairness and equality is drawn and everytime you accidentally fhuck up by treating yours differently to theirs, the fall out is big. Infact you are almost always required to treat your step kids better than you would treat yours as they are technically the victims in your relationship. If the spouse with the kid isn't also mentally mature, they tend to create even more problems than the kids. In some cases, they start hoarding their assets and stashing them for their own kid for inheritance purposes. Every disciplinary action to take towards the other person's kid is seen as exaggerated and excessive. You most times end up emotionally messed up cos having to deal with that drama does tend to take its toll on you eventually.

In my opinion, I would highly discourage it.

Simply put, marrying a single parent is not for the emotionally weak.. But I believe I can handle that.

Thanks.[/b]

U said it all.

Mondisweets: it does even if you tell yourself its not. Its the same as saying a woman who thinks a guys who isn't rich is a turn off, is mature enough to know the qualities that make up a good husband.

That's not MATURITY, anybodu dat want to marry a single mother is his own choice, dat doesn't mean dose that don't are not matured.
Marrying a single mum comes with a lot of challenges,
(1)u nid to consider the relationship btw her and d baby daddy.
(2)u nid to consider the child, some child will let u know u can neva be their dad.
(3)most single mum comes with some emotional challenges, u become suspect in ur every move most especially if she had wit rough wit her baby dady.

So it takes a lot of patience when dealing with dem, but dat doesn't mean dey are more matured dan dose who marry single women.

And for those saying they've know d state of the woman as per fertility, having a child isn't a guarantee that the rest will come.

AND AS FOR ME.......NO, I CANT MARRY A SINGLE MAMA.

Pdizzle: Fertility is the only advantage, too many cons, i can't.

D fact dat shae has one doesn't mean she'l be able to give more. U neva see person with one pikin(and not dat she wanted one).
It's for bothe sides jare, either u don born or u never

AdeniyiA: At least it shows her fertility, how do you explain a lady who had had several unprotected intimacy not having a baby, it's either she's done abortions or she's infertile, either way what's d assurance she'd be able to conceive when married /

It's a question, nobody is asking for your thesis! Can you? Simple

Ipledge: You know say anything combination of igbo, and yoruba is always mad

If the mod that deleted my thread dont want Sango to feature amadiohora unto his matter make he bring back my thread,

ROTFLMFAO
Why u dey swear for mod now

krall: This is serious issue. My mother sister say that they say if a very beautiful woman don't eat fish, she is marine mammi water. So although I strongly advice her not to she served my fine girlfriend big cat fish head with rice and stock fish and dry fish and one chicken. And she say I should watch.
To my horror, when she see the fish, she squeeze face shift the fish one side and ate only the chicken. I started shivering. And my mum sister whispered "what did I tell you. If you love your life run!!!"

Since then I am afraid of her and refused to touch her again. She also likes spending time in bathroom and like swimming. Could she be a mammy water??



I have also observed some other mammywater tendency she exhibits....

Give me her number, I know how to handle their type.

joywendy: @bold do you know me before? To conclude all that you are saying

So kissing and using a person's toothbrush is the same?
Tell me something I don't know

Why should I use his toothbrush when I got mine?
Why is it paining you sef?

It ain't paining me. You said I don't know, if u don't have a bf dat means u have no business commenting but I wanna assume u have, so don't tell me u hav nt kissed ur bf b4? Or uve not......b4?
Abegi‎

joywendy: your point is?

My point is u go abt doing all sorts of things yet u couldn't share his brush.
Am not saying it's a must but maybe such did occur, don't make it look like it's a sin for u.

And havnt u eva kissed him b4, yet u can share his brush..abeg what's the diff?

moneymaker24: I tell you! She says it like it was a national anthem. I was quite accommodating until a particular day she mentioned it when I wasn't in d right state of mind. I told her bluntly to do whatever suits her and if she believes after everything we've been through that I still don't love her, then I don't love her. She just said goodnight and hanged up.

End result? She called up the next day to apologise and it was my turn to play hard to get

Are u two still together now?

moneymaker24: For my first love, I was willing to go as far as running away with her if my parent didn't approve of her. I remember back then, I'd jump over our house gate somewhere around 2am just to be with her (of course her house was close to mine). We ended up parting way cos of distance but I still had her on my head till I found another girl who made me forget her 80%.

With the new girl I loved n cared about, I gave her my bold 2 last year and within 2 months, she lost it. I didn't scold her but instead, I gave her my torch 2. I remember I had to stay without a phone for weeks. All I had was my tab. I remember that day I had to go to ikeja in search of a new phone and using my tab to make calls publicly. It seemed so embarrassing.

What more? She cheated on me on 7 different occasions but I forgave her. Most recent event happened when we had issues and sorta broke up, she travelled to go visit another guy. D guy didn't treat her well (not even giving her enough TP to return back to her place) and I knew all these things as they happened. She called me and told me she was coming to my place. Normally, one would have expected that I scold her over the phone n warn her never to call my phone again but that wasn't d case. I was gentle. I simply said okay.

Yes she came, I asked her where she's been. As usual, she tried lying but I made it clear to her that I knew where she went to and all that happened over there. I was so furious that I almost felt like hitting her but I couldn't just do it. I have never hit a woman since I started dating.

Buttom line is, I still forgave her despite d fact that I was aware she had sex with that guy. I still gave her more than enough money for tp n pocket money.

Now, u might say I am just been foolish but hey, those were some of the vital things I did for love.

Its funny how a man can be so foolish when he is in love but the sincere truth right now is...... I FIND IT HARD LOVING ANOTHER GIRL!!!! All I do is care for them.

Am sorry bro, dis ain't love again but foolishness

joywendy: yes! Not throw it a way per se. But i would stop using it from that day, i would get a new one for the both of us the next day. It's very unhygenic! Even if it were my bro that i love so much i would do the same.

Next thing you tell me you share towels and shaving stick!

Here we go, comparing ur guy/husband to ur bro.
This is a guy u kiss, give a head yet u can share toothbrush with him!

beeevan: I don't do 'feminazi'/ 'manist' sentiments and I don't comment to pleasure you . If you see the one you don't like you can simply move on to the next post.

Okay, am watching

Acidosis: When a muslim marries a christian, conflict would always occur

I agree.

bukatyne: Will you listen to an artist as regards banking?

Well the issue is abt the man going to church or not.
And @tyms, an artist might end up lecturing a banker if it has to do with common sense.

bastien: snap d pix wit d shoe on ur head

ROTFLMAO.....we no even trust ourselves again

BananaBender: This has nothing to do with feminism.

Come to think of it, why didn't she leave the baby at home with his/her daddy?

The husband is probably one of those men that believe taking care of his own child will make him less of a man.

Even ur name (banana) sef shows u reason like a monkey.
The reason the woman was travelling that far is becos of the child, she claimed she got the child after she joined Winner's chapel, dats y she can't leave. So how do u tell such woman to leave her child behind.

And perhaps, what if d child is like 2/3 weeks nko?

"Leaving the baby for the man' u no wan do anything again.

carefreewannabe: Even a married woman can decide for herself and choose which church she wants to go to. You don'T have to follow EVERY wish / advice of your spouse.

Never, I can't go to a church and my wife will tell me she's going to another...all these small small issues would be sorted out b4 marriage o. I don't take such for granted. Ni no lo tin bo?

carefreewannabe: If we want to continue playing blame games, then let's ask ourselves why the father didn't tell the woman to go but to leave the child with him?

And what if the child is less than 4months? How do u keep such child with the father?
Then don't forget that the excuse she gave for going was becos she got the child after 5 yrs through the church.

Her faith was limited, What she didint know is that it is God that gave the child not Winners or Oyedepo!

alutacontinua: As per your first paragraph, I totally agree!
However, how many churches out there today are actually a body of TRUE BELIEVERS?
And no, if what I see on a Sunday does not point towards the fact that the elder lives a Christian life, why do I have to wait to watch what happens on weekdays? From the message of most elders, you can certainly deduce that you've missed road. Not to mention other things in a church that just totally makes you to know it's not the place to be.




Agreed!




As per the woman in op's story, I cannot really say, as Winners church, I believe is all over the country. However, I hope the real gospel of Christ does not get that scarce but if it does and I have to drive 6 hours to get spiritual nourishment, I'll gladly do it! People drive 6 hours every week cos of work, no?



As I said earlier on, spiritual immaturity!
Which also has a place in Christianity. There would always be newborn babes in Christ.....does not make them bad, it means they are immature. Even in the Corinthian Church, some people preferred Paul, others Apollos! This was a church Apostle Paul established himself! Paul only had to correct their mindset, not criticize them! A few years ago, one of my uncles was transferred from his church branch to another branch as a Pastor. There was a particular woman in that church who was his convert that decided to also move to his new church with him (even though it meant more distance, and of course, money). All efforts to convince her otherwise proved abortive, she actually told him if she doesn't follow him, she'll stop coming altogether. Apparently, at that point, he left her alone and she actually did start attending his new branch. Fastforward almost 10 years later and this woman does not even belong to his denominatiom again, and yes, she's still in the faith (I believe). I'm sure if she even remembers now, she'll prolly laugh at her ignorance then.


My point? Such acts of clinging towards sentiments are acts of ignorance and immaturity, something about behaving like a child when you are a child, not reasons enough to criticize such people. It is almost natural for a woman to believe the person who gave her the miracle of a child after many years of trying and maybe places is her closest link to God. It takes maturity to get rid of such sentiment.





I AGREE!

Where two or more gather in my name, I am with them.
Church is who we are and not where we are, not shiloh, not redemption camp etc. It is who we are.
Shiloh was once a bush b4.

Travelling 6hrs to meet GOD every Sunday is nonsense, how do u attend weekly meetings, how do u go for word hunt(like Sunday school) during weekdays, how do u meet up with workers meeting/prayers every Sunday morning?

God have mercy!