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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm At War Within. My Body Needs A Relationship, But My Mind Isn't Ready. HELP by bigt2(m): 1:52pm On Apr 10, 2013
Pritheeann: prithee mins pretty...prithee is jes tushed datz all..
shocked tushed huh Cool! Whr d y schl?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm At War Within. My Body Needs A Relationship, But My Mind Isn't Ready. HELP by bigt2(m): 1:32pm On Apr 10, 2013
Pritheeann: yelz sumfin lyk dat....buh iam fyn nw
puhleeeeeeasssshe! What is d meaning of pritheeannhuh huh Did u mean preetyann or pwetieannhuh huh wink
Properties › Re: Marble & P.o.p Work .contact-08039207700 Or Aeonconstruct@yahoo.come by bigt2(m): 1:07pm On Apr 10, 2013
Where exactly are u located. The fact that u are mobile means ur price will be a little bit higher. I know that for sure! Can u send qutations for POP when guven the room dimensionshuh How reliable and fashionable are ur workshuh Reply now or never! Thanks!
Romance › Re: Top 8 Reasons Why Hot And Sexy White Women ”love”/ Are Obsessed With Black Men by bigt2(m): 12:59pm On Apr 10, 2013
Thats Cool!! cool
Romance › Re: 4 Things Every Man Wants In A Woman by bigt2(op): 12:43pm On Apr 10, 2013
[quote author=oko-oloyun]prove you for wetin! You be "THEORY"[/quote]dont derail my insightful thread! It is for REAL MEN, not Big Boys!! Seun! Warn this boy oooo angry or else.....
Romance › Re: 4 Things Every Man Wants In A Woman by bigt2(op): 12:30pm On Apr 10, 2013
[quote author=oko-oloyun]Every NL member don become love doctor. Anyway, first to comment.[/quote]prove me wrong!!!
Romance › 4 Things Every Man Wants In A Woman by bigt2(op): 12:17pm On Apr 10, 2013
While every man is different, there are certain things about a woman that will make any manstand up, take notice, and make him decide hewants to get to know you on a deeper level.
If you want to win the right man’s heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from just feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I’m going to take you inside a man’s mind youso you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection.
And I’m talking about a real man – one who ismature and grounded on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level. They are on a great path and open to growing on a deeply personal level. I’m betting that’s exactly why you’re on this site: to find a quality kind of guy– a real man looking for a real relationship.
So what does a mature, REAL man want in a woman?
#1) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Playful
There’s something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of “connection” – play.

Men love to be active and to play. They were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through action.
Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk their way into a man’s heart. But the fact is that men don’t “feel it” for you because of what you say. It’s not your words that make a man attracted to you, it’s the experiences you create with him.
Watch or play sports together, be competitive in casual games like ping pong – even add a little teasing and sarcasm here and there – and you’ll really ramp up the attraction and interest.
#2) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Independent
Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a “weaker” woman who will make them feel like they are smarter and more powerful.
Nothing could be farther from the truth.
Real men want a woman who inspires them because she has great things going on her own life. They want a woman who has her own purpose other than being in a relationship.

A great guy isn’t intimidated by independenceand success. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when she’s with him.
The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and not suddenlymake him your world. Don’t drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with him. And then, when you are with him, really BE with him – have fun and give your attention to him and what you’re doing together.
#3) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Emotionally Mature
If a man feels attracted to a woman, eventuallythere’s going to be a situation that comes up where you and a man will see something differently and misunderstand each other.
How will you respond to this and share your feelings?
A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she’s feeling, but toshare her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her will be attractive to a man. How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things men look for when deciding whether or not to get serious with a woman. If she lets her emotions get out of control, thisis a big red flag to him.
On the other hand, if she can present her feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win his respect and make him feel like she’s the kind of woman who willbe a real partner to him. He’ll see that she can handle things with a cool head rather than becoming a damsel in distress he has to rescue.
#4) A Real Man Wants A Woman He’s Intensely Attracted To
Fact: Men aren’t as scared of commitment and relationships as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no passion and attraction.
A common way women accidentally kill the attraction men might be feeling is by either trying too hard to get him to like you, or by acting like the relationship is too serious too soon.
Relax and let things happen naturally. Make sure you do and say things that interject fun and humor into your relationship from the very start. There’s nothing more appealing to a man than a great woman who knows how to relax and have fun.
You can do this through playful teasing, flirting, humor, and being unpredictable (in a good way). For instance, instead of talking about what he does for a living when you meet him (yawn), ask him about what sports he plays and what drives him. Once you’re in a relationship, don’t be afraid to shake things up. If you normally go to brunch on Sundays, suggest something completely different like a bike ride and a picnic. Mixing things up keepsthe relationship fun for both of you, and being a woman who is open to new experiences is very attractive to him.
TV/Movies › Re: What Does A Movie Set Look Like? by bigt2(m): 10:22am On Apr 10, 2013
Quid pro quo!!! :/
Science/Technology › Re: Great Nairalanders by bigt2(m): 10:20am On Apr 10, 2013
Try using a mail app integrated into phones like nokia, bb, android, i phones, e.t.c.
Romance › Re: Top 8 Lies Told By Ladies Of Nowadays by bigt2(m): 10:13am On Apr 10, 2013
Akpa ife: And ds mumu topic made front page
and dis mumu boy made the next page huh grin
Romance › Re: Top 8 Lies Told By Ladies Of Nowadays by bigt2(m): 12:28am On Apr 10, 2013
I went shopping with my aunty's husband! :x shocked
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm At War Within. My Body Needs A Relationship, But My Mind Isn't Ready. HELP by bigt2(m): 11:39pm On Apr 09, 2013
cheesy grin tongue
Pritheeann: yep..am fyn nw
grin grin thank God cheesy though u failed to relay the bone of contention wink, seems like a relationship stuff sha cool cool shocked
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm At War Within. My Body Needs A Relationship, But My Mind Isn't Ready. HELP by bigt2(m): 5:38pm On Apr 09, 2013
Pritheeann: Datz gudnews....
and have u been able to get over ur past?if i may ask:::
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm At War Within. My Body Needs A Relationship, But My Mind Isn't Ready. HELP by bigt2(m): 5:29pm On Apr 09, 2013
Pritheeann: lwkmd...i appreciate the advice ooo...joooorrrhh ooo u too much ooooo thank u oooooo
is this what i am seeinghuh wink
Politics › Re: Leadership Newspaper Fallout: Should The Police Crack Down On Some Nairalanders? by bigt2(m): 8:00am On Apr 09, 2013
Arrest me? On top say wetin? Laye laye!! angry
Nairaland General › Re: Evil Spirit Causes Pandemonium In Rivpoly As Exam Starts, Several People Injured by bigt2(m): 7:59am On Apr 09, 2013
Who care whether ur louis vuitton shoes were torn also, let even vickers chinos? grin
Programming › Re: Help Needed On Adword Algorithm. How Cpm And Cpc Ad Compete ? by bigt2(m): 10:30pm On Apr 08, 2013
huh huh
elvis10ten: Don't worry. I have found the secret ingredient now.
thank God! But how me sef go find d secret ingredients nah? I want to program!!! huh huh
Nairaland General › Re: 7 Ways To Be A Super Man by bigt2(op): 1:33am On Apr 06, 2013
^^^^^^:-ohuh
Nairaland General › Re: 7 Ways To Be A Super Man by bigt2(op): 1:00am On Apr 06, 2013
6. Get a superman mind
We’re not talking about superpowers – although admittedly we all want to be able to do telekinesis – we’re talking about the state of your mind. Ever heard the theory that people who think of themselves as lucky people actually have more fortune than those who think of themselves as unlucky? The mind is powerful and therefore having a good, optimistic attitude is bound to have a positive impact. The trick to achieving this smiley state is to keep busy; don’t dwell on the past, but focus on what could be. Volunteering and helping others is another way to make life seem more fulfilling. Sometimes negative thinking also becomes a habit; a rut you can’t climb out of. To break it, become more aware of yourself. You could keep a grumbling journal and log how many times a day you moan.

7. Get a superman girl
Where would superman have been without his Lois Lane? We may never admit it, but every guy needs a girl and if you’ve been flying solo for too long, or are unhappy with your current lady, it’s time to start addressingthe issue. The biggest obstacle to finding MissRight is often you. Are you in a good place? Can you handle the ups and the downs of a romantic relationship? If the answer is no, then think twice before you pursue anyone. Itwill only end badly. The second obstacle is finding your wonder woman. Sometimes it feels like all the decent women are hiding somewhere far, far away. To find Miss Right be open-minded. Chat to strangers and consider girls you may not normally date. Parks and coffee shops are great places to meet girls. wink wink smiley smiley wink wink
Nairaland General › 7 Ways To Be A Super Man by bigt2(op): 12:59am On Apr 06, 2013
Everyone knows that one frustratingly perfectman; the guy who can squat 120k and gets that promotion; the guy who has impeccably smart style and has a different woman on his arm every day of the week, but is still thoughtof as respectable and charming. Follow these tips and become your very own, real-life superman (cape not included):


1. Get a superman look
Every superman needs to look good. If you think spending time on your appearance is unmanly then you need to reassess. Face it, the days when men could shave their heads and go for a run once a week and get called “well-kept” are gone. The modern man has tohave style and looks if he wants success. The number one area to spend time on is your face. Most men neglect their face, but it’s one of the key areas women look at. If you shave, then make sure you use pre-shaving oil before you take a razor to your face. Baby oil is a cheap option. Next, tidy up your brows. A good way to sharpen your eyebrows is to take some tweezers and a pencil. Place your pencil at the bridge of your nose and hold it vertically. The spot where the pencil ends should be where your eyebrow also ends. Pluck any hairs that stray past your pencil border.

2. Get a superman job
In our lives, we will probably spend more time with our colleagues than we spend withour mates. So you have to love your job. If you’re unhappy at work assess the situation and try to come up with a solution. Make a listof all the things you like about work and thenanother list of things that you dislike. If your likes column outweighs your dislikes then it’s great news. All you need to do now is tackle the areas you hate. If you don’t like the people you work with see if a transfer is available, either to a new location or a different department. If you don’t like certain tasks then arrange a meeting with your boss and explain how you feel that the tasks you dislike are not your strong points and suggest that you should spend more time doing those things you excel at. If your dislikes column is longer than your likes, thenit’s time to search for something new. You can visit a careers adviser or even consider starting up your own business.

3. Get a superman diet
If you eat healthily, you will undoubtedly feel healthy too. Sometimes, though, it can be hard to know what it is you should and should not be eating. The best rule to use when you are trying to eat healthily is to prepare everything yourself. That way you know what is going onto your plate and you can control your portion sizes. If you struggleto make your own meals because you lack time then make big batches of food at once. You can knock up a healthy chicken and beanfilling in 25 minutes and store it in a plastic box in the fridge. Then all you need to do is add this some whole meal wraps for a low fatand filling meal. If you struggle to make your own meals because you lack the skills invest in one or two simple cooking lessons – you’ll be surprised what you can do.

4. Get a superman budget
Money, money, money; we could all do with some more of the stuff but getting your hands on it can seem impossible at times. Rather than getting more a great way to bolster your budget is to try and cut back on what you spend it on. Take out your bank statements and work out the five things you spend the most money on. Is it travel, your rent, or nights out? Now you’ve worked out where you spend your money try to think of ways to reduce the cost. So, if you spend a small fortune on rent can you re-locate to somewhere cheaper or get a roommate? If your car guzzles all of your funds could you downsize, change insurer or use public transport. A great way to save a lot of money is to cancel gym memberships and invest in some kettle bells, a skipping rope and some resistance bands. You can do a lot of great workouts with this kind of cheap and simple equipment and save at the same time. Plus you can do these workouts in front of the TV.

5. Get a superman body
Looking like an action man doll isn’t an option for most of us, but being happy with the way you look is. Start to take a more active approach to life. If there’s an option to climb the stairs or take an elevator, take the stairs. Try to walk around at least once an hour; even if it’s just a cheeky trip to the gents. Moving around regularly will raise yourmetabolic rate and help with your circulation. Humans weren’t built to sit at a desk for 8 hours a day. You could also buy some gym equipment and keep it in your living room. That way, when you watch TV you can work out whilst watching the show or just during the ad breaks. If you’re on a budget and can’tafford equipment get creative. Make your own sandbag or pea shingle bag as an alternative to weights or kettle bells. Use a chair for dips and you can work your abs by just doing the plank.

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