Did marriage take away the sparks he saw in you while dating? Perhaps you need to reignite that spark and see ...be the bigger person and light the flames dear.

Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me

Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.

He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room

My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .

Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.

We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do

Same with me

Amazoner01:

I was born in Nigeria and have lived there long enough to easily spot my countrymen or maybe perhaps it takes high IQ or super power to be able to do that. I can also tell ethnicity sometimes lol . Abi he shock you?

How was the suspect apprehended?

Children too go get CoS from their school Since they all want to move madt

ehizario2012:


Yes o, their sites are being bombarded.
I think individual care homes can still sponsor skilled workers without dependants, so for a family already in the country, picture this:

Husband gets CoS, wife gets CoS... Would ukvi now say children should be sent outside the country?

Lol

You nor build better hospital for your state, you travel go abroad go spend still come back de jam our local doctors

FreeStuffsNG:
I went to Thailand to rest, check my medicals – Adeleke

Adeleke urges medical doctors to tackle system’s quackery
Gov Ademola Adeleke of Osun State



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/i-went-to-thailand-to-rest-check-my-medicals-adeleke/

Crass governors we have got in this country. Last time it was Osho Baba that removed the roof of the house of assembly complex ...now this one decided to demolish the entire complex to rebuild. Has there been any tender to begin the construction of a new one?

chokekachy:


Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7939446/rivers-government-begins-demolition-assembly

Right now, both sides are not loyal

hustla:



That's what I'll do too when renewing

Btw, who should we vote o.. Elections are around the corner

Tru, I should look at this option next time. Though the Trainline app I use sef, de embarrass me sometime when trying to pull up the tickets e too slow

hustla:



I think the digital railcard sef makes sense instead of the physical one. If you forget and youre asked, them no dey wan hear story

I think you overlooked one aspect of the entire situation. When you experienced the two white ticket attendants, you were alone unlike when you experienced the black attendant ....you were with your family. That may have been the ice breaker there. He has a job to protect and by extension family to feed. We don't know if in the past he's been reprimanded for whatever reason, with cameras around, he just had to issue you the ticket fine. If on the other hand, he gave you a fine but let go of another passenger with same issue, then you can complain with your full chest out.

The last time a black attendant checked my railcard and went on to the next passenger, when we alighted at the station I was getting off from, our eyes caught and he thumbs me up ....I'm sure he thought he was going to use me as a scapegoat that day but was disappointed

ehizario2012:
So immediately I got the ticket, I went online to read more and saw that I needed to buy tickets before boarding, except at some small stations where tickets aren't sold. By the rules, I was wrong and accepted it. That's why I immediately paid the £50.

But that still didn't take away the anger I felt towards the guy, especially after two whites had attended to me without any fuss. It was truly an if looks could kill moment... But in retrospect, I thought about his constraints. He might not get away with things the whites would get away with.

Finally, it's better to know ones place at all times. Regardless of the accomodation, we should never forget the deep fault lines - natural fault lines.

Thanks everyone. We good.

Ooh wow. Truly these occurrences are not enough to cast judgement or think you are targeted, to me I just believe they're doing their job and I don't take it personal. In all I give thanks to God because I have not had an adverse situation to complain about. I always buy my tickets before going to the station and whenever I notice I am not with y railcard, I always rush back to pick it up before continuing. I no want dem wahala

hustla:



.. And only white people have ever asked me for it so it goes both ways

Infact, the only time I made a mistake and didnt pay, it was a black guy and he explained what happened to me. Also told me i can get a refund

I have a railcard but the only times I've been specifically asked to present it had been at the instance of the black rail commercial team members.

How they prefer to take on liabilities over recurrent incomes beats me shaa

Several factors come to play here. First is she might have caught the bug to bond well with the kids on a common ground which is the cartoon movies. She might have also been missing her childhood days. Secondly, its easier to catch up on cartoons more than real movies. I still crave my Thundersub, Voltron cartoon movies

I would suggest you join in the crase just to be part of the fun when she's relating with the kids on movies watched. You got a lovely family man.

DyshApp:
A married man has anonymously taken to social media to complain about his wife’s addiction to watching cartoons with their children.

According to him, his wife was always excited to watch and sing along to the cartoon with their kids and she would narrate the stories to them if they missed them.

According to the man, something must be wrong with his wife. While admitting that she has not failed in her roles as a wife and mother to his kids, he reiterated his worry that he felt she should have grown past cartoons.

He appealed for help to fix the cartoon problem.

In his words:
"I feel like something is wrong, I don't really get her sometimes. She doesn't even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I'm missing out on something great.

“My wife, 37 years old, enjoys watching cartoon even more than our kids. When I say cartoon, I mean animated movies.
Our first boy is 14 years old down to our last who is currently 4 years old.
They’ve turned the home into a cartoon home.
They are soo addicted, they sing their songs, do their dances and discuss those things all the time.
My wife at her age will be running as if something strange was happening and she forgets herself to be an adult sometimes.
I’ve tried to explain to her that I don’t really like it, I don’t complain because they are being happy but, I don’t understand my wife’s addiction. Even when the kids aren’t around, she’ll be watching animated movies alone.

Once they get home, she’s going to narrate all she watched to them and even demonstrate with actions some funny/emotional scenes.
I feel like something is wrong, I don’t really get her sometimes. She doesn’t even watch the movies I want us to watch together unless I really encourage her. She acts like me not watching those their cartoons with them, I’m missing out on something great.
Is there something I can do to help her? It’s somehow bothering me.

Kindly note that, she’s fully employed and still does her duties as a wife and a mother. I don’t have any problem on that side, I just feel she’s addicted to animated movies when actually, she has grown pass it.”

They still want to maintain the international reputation of the educational sector so they won't scrap student visa or psw but rather reform it. All those 7 months courses that many piggy-back on for psw would be scrapped. PSW may now be reserved for postgraduate research students and limited to a year instead of two.

Raalsalghul:


Quick question Zahra.

Why not just cancel student visa for international students and scrap the psw?

ok

Just what I was saying the other day

https://news.sky.com/story/nottingham-city-council-declares-itself-effectively-bankrupt-13018935

bigtt76:
Their condition is better off compared to the councils.

None yet but I began the process online, awaiting further response from them (police team).

iyatrustee:


After 1° na 0° remain! Minus something degrees still dey wait you for front!

-1, -2, -3, -4,-5,-6,-7,-8-9

Choose your minus carefully!


@Bigtt76, please what information have you gotten about police clearance? Someone I know here needs it urgently.

Their condition is better off compared to the councils.

Peerielass:


And NHS is not battling funding gaps? 🤷‍♀️

Yeah and all the need to do is slot his name into one of dem supreme court briefs and boom ...he gets his own SAN too

Truths9ja:
Congratulations to you ma. Their son too, falz is a lawyer

Wherein does your passion and heart lies? Which of the two has job openings you can comfortably defend in an interview using past work experiences? If you can answer all of these, then you got your answer

Lilymond:
Hello everyone,

I'm at a crossroads in my career and seeking advice. I hold a master's in Public Health Education and a bachelor's in Health Education. I'm torn between pursuing a career as a Health Policy Analyst or a Health Promotion Specialist. I'm equally interested in both but would appreciate suggestions based on demand in the UK, job opportunities, salary, and overall professionalism. Thanks for your insights!

Take the NHS job, look for shared apartment in Bristol to stay for a while to get your footing before moving fully with your family. You should look at staying at the outskirts from Bristol which might be cheaper. Council jobs are a bit of a risk owing to the recent bankruptcy most are plunging into, one need to be careful. Same with civil service jobs which government is planning on downsizing to a level by 2025

Oyi12:
Hello elders, please I need your opinion on this. I got 2 offers with sponsorship. The first is with council in a day centre while the second is a Band 5 with the NHS but in Bristol. Considering how expensive Bristol is will it be wise for me to move there with the band 5 salary with my family? There is prospect for me to secure a higher grade in the NHS in future but I am just scared of because of how expensive Bristol is.

House rent is about £1,500 average while i stay in a town where i pay less than £1,000 for rent. We are a family of 4 and my spouse hasn't gotten a job yet.

Diversification of ministry ...call it subsidiary

chisomkachy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xkFXrE4U6og

Pastor Isaac Oyedepo, the son of Bishop David Oyedepo, the founder of the Living Faith Church Worldwide, has unveiled his own ministry, The Isaac Oyedepo Evangelistic Ministries.

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7889067/isaac-bishop-oyedepos-son-resigns#126603640

the point I was driving at is once you eat anything spicy or with condiments that give flavour to a meal, always brush your mouth to take the smell away. Leaving it overnight would only encourage bacteria to indulge and cause it to smell more.

Mercylike:


Apart from irú which í Don't eat everyday, I don't understand the rest

You can't be eating ogiri, iru or okpehe laden soup all day and expect your mouth to be smelling like rose flower the next morning when you wake up

Brush your mouth after every meal and right before you go to bed. Also ensure you brush off the meal on your tongue ...as in brush the whitish thrush off your tongue until your tongue glows in its pinkish glory.

Mercylike:
Is it normal to wake up and experience mouth odour?

I don't like talking to people very early especially when I just wake up bcoz there is this odour when I smell whenever I try to smell my own mouth..

Is it normal or it is something that has to be treated?

If i have brush, I don't have any odour from morning till night except for night to morning sleep..

Good afternoon my people ...please what's the process involved for getting the police character report from https://possap.gov.ng/ after successful payment? Thank you in advance @Justwise @Lexusgs430 @hustla @Zahra

Must be Uzoho

Unfortunately, she's of that age 23 when they try all sort of things, you can only pray that she changes ....she will soon though. Your friend should just tolerate her

Draslo:
This is not for me. My sister na church worker

My guy's sister is nothing you write home about. Their father has money, like 3 Rolls-Royce parked in the compound type of rich but the girl is very promiscuous. Many big boys on the island have had a fling because she must attend every raving bash. Her SM pages are full of filth in different countries. You'd easily call her online olosho sponsored by politicians. Her friends are worse cos they don't come from that kind of money. This girl is just 23 and already a red flag amongst guys. Even guys that have never seen her unclothedness will claim to have slept with her and people will believe as long as the guy has class.

My guy is getting married in January and doesn't want his only sister there. Can she still be saved?

.... Her monkey, her circus 😌

officialwdhtv:
Checkout what this girl wore to an event recently

Is this proper?

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_u4BAPhXU1U

This one just going upandan hugging people about ...he turn Brand Ambassador for Huggies

Truths9ja:
Videos from Toke Makinwa's star-studded birthday party in Lagos over the weekend


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzU0FSxNjpc?si=n6_4D7erPoNcU7Rn

As far as you mention previous work experiences for the last 3 years, you would required to submit a work related reference (UK or Naija depending on what you listed). Your chances are higher if you list a UK work experience shaa. Yes Academic references (PT or DS) are suitable but then you would need to explain employment gaps.

What a lot of people don't realise is that those part time jobs in the UK can serve as work experiences and references gotten from them.

Phil46:


To avoid all these dramas, if a UK reference isn't mandatory for a job, would it be okay to just use a personal tutor or dissertation supervisor (for those on student visas) plus a Naija reference instead?

Exactly. Most times in addition to requesting references, your employer or you may be asked for your past payslip. They also go as far as checking up the employer to see if they exist.

kwakudtraveller:

I think that this is the catch for most boot camps, the promise of a reference and putting them on your CV. I sure say most companies now don dey clock this format.

Attend the disciplinary hearing and thereafter resign. If you resign without the disciplinary hearing, it means that you are guilty of deception and ran away with it. At the hearing you stand the chance to explain your situation better and understand why this issue came up. Resigning without this would be depriving you of valuable lessons learned. Avoid using bootcamps as work experience.

Dimdim8593:
Good evening everyone
I am currently in the uk working for bank as a financial crime investigator, although I am still on my probation stage.i was suspended for gross misconduct(legitimacy of reference(uk)) I provided for them during my background checks,initially this check came back successful but months into my employment ,I was suspended for the reason above.after fact finding meetings I had with my manger,my case was moved to disciplinary hearing. I am confused as to what to do ,should I resign with immediate effect which I have read that the company can sue for breach of contract as I have a week’s notice or should I go for the hearing and defend myself.
Note:their concerns is for the reference I provided with a company I did bootcamp and voluntary opportunity with. I actually worked on cases with this company with the duration I put in my cv.
Please house help me with advice