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the truth is bitter sha

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anyway. . . what goes around comes around

tell your parents u are pregnant with his child. if they still don't budge, then go for a quiet court wedding.

sure feel her pain , imagine doing a strip tease or a lapdance in dat skin ,yuuuuk!dat chic needs the best csmetic surgeons to do damage control or else

The best option is self help.
the law takes 4eva and more pple'll keep dying, in btw, while the case is being adjourn ad infinitum . when the defaulting medics know and see how much they too stand to lose via avenging families of victims , they'll seat up . i assure u they will. i have seen this mosaic law formula work like magic .
it's just a pity this vicious cycle belief has to be adopted but . . .as they say , "drastic events demand drastic actions"

the kind of funny and interesting comments i av read so far on this thread , since the inception of bba4, has kept me not only reeling with lafta but also spending my dear 75 naira on countless occasions , voting via sms , as if my life depended on it . when d time comes i'll definitly miss 2 tings , nairaland bb4 commentaries and the show proper.

   my job schedule might not allow me time to post regularly but , i trully appreciate all your different comments - 4rm the witty, to d FUNNY   , and to the downright bizarre.

  i say more power to your elbows,

chaotic- somewhat non-existent

u just have to be strong brave and forget the loser. YOU DONT NEED HIM
   Imagine the fool kai ! so this story is the same everywhere. Na wa sha

  In case u r habouring any hopes of re-uniting with him , girl wake up . He did it once , his gonna do it again . such negative energy should come no where close to u or your son. Baggage like this are best brought out later when your son is ready to handle it . esp with this his cloak and dagger approach . He is not even proud of his own son . When he is s'pose to be begging he is still showing attitude . Kai ! Kai!  i wish i could just meet these kind of men face to face so they'll get a taste of me  u know, really get to make an example with one .

what u should feel for him is pity. and pray for the poor woman that he is with now . cos any1 that can do this can kill.

Try d an eye 4 an eye. . . approach. Do me i do u back, no 1 apologizes 2 no 1, God no go vex, & evry1's happy

am not surprised @ the manner pro reindeer & laheeh09 have promptly risen up to the defence . Abt 2mths ago ur excuses of stress and work pressure would av made sense 2 me to an extent but not anymore.
 I still cant understand how one takes out his work pressure on d same pple that keep u in business: ur patients. I also observe that this cholericl streak of theirs exhibits itself only wen they are in govt owned hospitals . When u go 2 their privately owned hospital where they are always wont to  refer u to, they suddenly& automatically can manage stress well.
Too bad if my opinion rubs off on u all d wrong way, but i insist there is a great need for re-orientation amongst medical personnels.  Ur patients are the main reason u exist try not 2 take out ur anger 2wards a decadent system on them. it's mainly ur colleagues, not other professionals  @ the helms of affairs that mismanage ur allocations not the common man ,  that throngs ur office daily. Say no 2 wrong diagnosis,aloofness 2 ur patients, bottleneck bureacracy when lives are @ stake, money-over-life atitude , & above all highandedness {esp 4 those govt owned hosp}. A life is still a life irrespective of  the ownership of the facility. That profession has fragilty as a distinct quality, stop eroding the agelong trust it. Thank God some still even deem it fit 2 go the extra mile 2 use torchlight, or even use d glow of bottled fireflies -a la reindeer.
 Beef or no beef, the atitude of naija health personnel not just infrastructure needs serious overhauling- a complete turnaround.

as 4 @ladeeh09 & his likes, i'd rather be treated by a warm hearted rascal who appreciates d sacrosanct nature of human life than one who sees me as a mere increase in death statistics targeted 2 prove a point to govt that his sector is suffering a dearth .

@ riendeer u av a perogative 2 hold any opinion u choose, I dont particularly care. Tirade or not, all i know is dat the doctors 2 have a share in d rot of dat sector as thier atitude ,professionally speaking is no longer wat nigerians used 2 know dem 4. It's a sensitive job & their negligence or oversight cost LIVES not ntin replaceable. If u entered d profession 4 d money & u observe d cash aint 4thcomin quit so u dont start venting ur frustrations on innocent patients.

it's not just infrastructure dat's poor . The atitude of so called nigerian doctors need to be worked on. Even a street rascal will attempt better customer/patient service than them.   Imagine the outburst, esp coming 4rm som1 that claims 2 have gone thru d ivory tower 4 aeons of yrs,
U studied 2 bcom a pro so what ? That's Just millions of other professionals dis so dat shuldnt be an excuse. If u cant perform d job well ,and u tink pay is 2 lil, quit and stop killing pple 4 God sake.

i pray everyday nothing ever takes me 2 nigerian wicked halfbaked, money worshipping, arrogant,heartless, doctors. I'd rather take all d preventive herbal extractions esp my dearest "agbo" than be killed by one charlatan parading himself as a doctor who sees ever1 as a potential cadaver. They thrive on image no substance. Bloody murderers

I had mine in onitsha, & i enjoyed evry 2nd of it cos it wasnt a "strange " land . 1 of My godparents live there.
Nways @ poster, i suspect u r a budding writer, cos dis piece of urs looks 2 " textbook " language like 2 be a mere recollection done extempore 15yrain't no joke. On dat note i think d post is ok. U can go a step more by incoporating dialogues btw ur chosen xters, it helps in prose writin

Omo see mutual spewing of vitriolics. . . Make una sha take am easy on urselves

I dis life where pple are weeping & praying 4 @ least even a stillbirth , this junkie is maltreating her own son. I pray d child is eventually provided wit a family dat 'll show him enuf love 2 make up 4 all his period of lack.

And wicked

Within d range 4 wat 2 happen. As if saddlin her wit a baby is not enuf, u also want 2 put her thru a D & C. Why are u so selfish

Not possible my dear, I 've already given it 2 som1

My dear testimonies abound abt modern day sarahs & hannahs. Chat wit ur hubby so he 2 can go 4 a test so u get 2 be certain of d situation . Be prayerful & learn how 2 fast & be a lil ascetic while seekin God's face. Build a personal & direct relationship wit God. He abovd man knows u . He in his own perfect time will bless u wit d fruit of d womb. Be of good cheer & dont allow ur spirit be defeated . Ur success story is on d way

As 4 d " lopsidedness of thots" , i dont mind any name calling as long as i can @ least inform & by extention save a life. D unsuspectin indigenes are @ d recieving end . The place has changed 4 d worse . Just like so many other central hosp

Yes it might sound like a generalization. . . I know hw bad it is. If my wide comment irks u no vex. But as they say , who no go no know

I can recall way back , abt 6yrs ago wen we had 2 relocate 4 a while 2 agbor, i was awed by d positiv tins, like gud roads, free computer education, pipe borne water, gud state hosp & an ok standard of education. All these things my dear are gone. The worst hit in dis downhill slide is d health sector. While patients in cities bemoan their fate @ d hands of extortionist medics, indigenes of agbor who opt 4 medicare @ central hospital agbor have 2 contend wit d sad reality of either been butchered in d theatre , milked dry by the admin staff, given d " u shuld be glad am condescending 2 talk 2 u" treatment, or completly ignored until d patient dies. & of course d mortuary staff , d only seemingly active dept, promply appears in their usual shylock manner. get as much money 4rm d bereaved family; nt carin dat dia negligence actualy cosd d grief in d 1st place. THIS POST IS AN SOS 2 DELTA STATE GOVT, AND A CAVEAT 2 PATRONS OF DAT HOSPITAL. . . IT' S NOTHING SHORT OF AN ABBATOIR . . .MEDICAL STAFF NEED REFRESHER COURSES ON D HIPPCRATES OATH, AND WHAT IT ACTUALLY MEANS 2 BE IN D MEDICAL FIELD. What goes around comes around.

Hi Mistuh Darqly,

I see u  are still spitting fire and brimstone as per grammar issues ?
  kia your blood too dey hot sef for turanci . Anyway it's rather very nice of one to stand for what one believes .
contrary to your wishes i wasn't posted to a "remote" village.
i miss your funny criticisms all this long while . now am back i hope to catch -up.


Ciao.

Haba! Sha easy on it . . .your "Oyinbo" bro!
 

bye

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one of the most honest woman there is![/b]


honest and blunt to a friggin fault, but below ur age range . . . . i no fit do pole-vault enter ur age category o o o! until the appointed time

and that's in years to come

and mine is " 00000000"
               my fellow Nairaland users make una sufri sufri o!
    4 person 2 dey use my bros & sis brains like this dey bleed my heart no be small.
  obanikoro & co may God bless una for all the help when u don offer .but i must remind u say

      "dog when don dey determine to die no dey hear him master whistle".
   
  i 've read the entire thread and genuinely appreciate u the response of  nairaland family members who wouldn't  want  any one scammed : but  obviously some people just won't listen ( let alone heed) this advice.
but thanks once more  to those who have sounded the warning .
  u've played your part it 's  now up to  them ;  prospective " id no. posters" ,
       
to  decide whether or not to  continue this madness.


ONE LUV
NAIRALANDERS!
UNA JUST TOO MUCH!

single
and  enjoying every minute of being chased . i' ll miss that when i get married right ?
so i have to savour this singleness to d fullest

if i enter marriage as a virgin i think the rebellous part of me would want a virgin as well .

           but if i don't't i wont be needing one .   
      on a second thot even if i don't enter as a "v' i wuld still want one afterall no be  only woman suppose remain chaste. i wuld love to "coach ' someone . u know" tear him own rubber "
        abi na only woman them go dey coach?

  but after all said and done, i am really getting tired of this topic.

ehivinne:
una suddenly don tire?
already?
make une no drop this matter oh !
make una continue to "legislate" on am till una faint .

when life get other things when dey disturb am una choose to dwell on "virginty".

more power to una elbows o!

as this member also says

  ethetreal

ethereal:
mak una take em easy o.
there is more to marrriage than "the hymen"

i done tire 4 this topic

one love
NAIRLANDERS

just look for a cute and unique pet name 4 her ok?
she 'll like that for sure and start begging 4 forgiveness . if it was me ,i don't know if i'd have clonked your head first

but if u are just being stupid or mischievious,
methinks she shuld treat u stupid!