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Kidney transplant has its own law. In fact organ transplant has its own rule. Your write up shows you know nothing about it and you are a typical Nigerian you thinks he can buy anything. Organ transplant has to come from a family member or properly documented from a donor.
You just don’t pick someone because he’s poor, and harvest his or her organ.

I agree 100%. As the lawyer asked,why did he not collect kidney from his family members. So does it mean its only poor people that should take risk and be walking around with one kidney?

Probably easier to manage, no unecessary emotions, she won't also have to deal with his issues or bad behaviour.

Use him for sex,collect money and send him back to wife to manage his excesses while still being able to date anyone she wants to.

If it were me,I would choose not to marry him and just be in a relationship. This is just a personal preference for me.

You've done marriage,you've got kids,you've got a business and you're doing well. Why saddle yourself with extra geriatric responsibility when the children are so young? Besides,you've just known him for a year so what's the rush?

Man is pushing 60 and you are just 36, he's literally close to retirement age. The age difference is extreme especially at this point in your life.Why is he not going for his mates that are closer to his own age?Adding a grandpa to your list of problems isn't on abeg.

Please,reserve your energy for raising your 4 children ,some who are under 6. Can he run after and help with the kids without almost breaking his knees and hips? So what exactly are you going to benefit from this marriage? Who gets all the advantages?

If you are that invested in having companionship
you can keep him as a boyfriend or man friend ,you do not have to marry him and make him a permanent fixture while you raise the kids. He should understand this if he really loves you and cares about you.

Tell him there's no rush and you can date him for as long as it takes.
Please,keep the kids away from your relationship until you are certain . No point introducing them to someone you're not sure of.

What matters is what your friend wants..he wants my wife,call her his wife,simple.

A friend of ours calls his wife sugar..we all call her sugar too,no one calls her by her name and yet this man does not play with his wife, carries her like an egg and everyone accords her same respect.

We call other friends wives madam,our wife,or her name,depends on context.. When we ask after her,we can say how madam etc. If we are told to call her Mrs x,y,z, we comply.

I don't know why this is an issue and you're insisting on calling name wey husband no want. The victim may not even know you both de exchange insult over her name.
E just be like say fight dey hungry una since

We give both parents same amount and then supplement with extras to whomever needs it.

If any parent needs more , we give.

You both need to sit down and understand that needs will vary,there will be times that one party will need extras.Both of you should be fine with it,so that no one feels cheated. This will aid openness when giving the topups.

Bare minimum could be 50/50 for both parents and then add on as you wish .

Or you both do it separately..depends on what kind of home you want to run. No pattern is wrong as long as both of you are in agreement.

You owe her nothing.
I don't believe in all this she's still your mother nonsense.
She hasn't changed from all indication so I don't understand why you have her in your lives still keeping you miserable.

The victim in all this is the fiancee who is not aware of the kind of man she is married to.

Or maybe she knows and is also running things on the side.

She has entered one chance..

A man marrying in February,busy tearing an us of his other lover of 7 years in December

I wish her luck,she will be needing it.

Happy wedding and happy curse if you believe in it.

Why don't you just break up and move on?
It's clear you both are unhappy in this relationship.

If she really enjoyed sex with you,no way she would starve herself.
She's happy to go without because there's nothing to look forward to,lol. Probably faking clim ax et al.
Keep talking and ask her what she likes
Pele .

OLAADEGBU:
Are you by any chance the drama queen's publicist?

Lol,spoken like a typical daily mail reader. Enjoy your thread.

Interesting that you're pushing Daily Fail agenda against this woman persistently.

A woman that had not even a single scandal or a single person say a bad word against or about her throughout her acting career suddenly turned into a monster overnight in the UK.

A woman that her own father sells out to the media,a man who conveniently has a daily mail editor living beside him is the person a whole country loves to persecute while praising the perfect Kate and William for doing the same exact thing Markle is hounded about.Her father has a youtube channel where he trashes her,he called her 1 year old child trashy for turning one during the jubilee. This same man does not even have a relationship with his other grandchildren.

You daily mail readers are obsessed with her.They are hardly seen in public and yet have articles written from "royal sources" about them daily to stoke hatred.

She defeated daily mail and the court papers with information are public record and yet you people rely on daily mail news from "anonymous sources" and take it as fact.

They have pushed a hate agenda against her and radicalised people to the point where there are death threats against her and her children.

Harry has been wanting to leave the royal family since his 20s but you people want to make it look like he's helpless and had been overtaken by a wicked American witch.Like an old man like him has no agency.

The newspapers keep reporting on them to the point of stalking them where they live 247 and yet they're also reporting that she needs publicity. Ordinary school run,they'll snap her and publish and say she's seeking for attention.

I find it disgusting and troubling

Leave this couple alone to breathe.

I will leave a twitter thread here about the disparity in reporting about her for the records so that people can judge for themselves and see how the media is able to radicalise minds and instruct you on how to think about a person .

https://mobile.twitter.com/snigskitchen/status/1534521188017483781

https://twitter.com/snigskitchen/status/1216763343068942336?s=20&t=GKPXzRuTfSkj02XbkC_BRA

After all this wailing, na una go still pay roadside ashawo to fork while.bleating like goats and begging her to let you press brezz.

You sow demon and want to reap angel ? I laugh in Mr Nuru.

Best thing is MGTOW with complete celibacy and also WGTOW.. its the best way forward.