₦airaland Forum

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=276601.msg3932658#msg3932658 date=1243430342]how can a man get married and settle down with just one woman for the rest of his life after he spend all his whole previous life compulsively going from one woman to the next. Marriage will be like a prison for them and will almost never work
I personally will not marry a guy who has had more than 2 or 3 gfs in his entire life (serious or non-serious). They may be hard to find but i'll find one. AMEN lol[/quote]"d more d merrier"

both,

@poster: now dat u know wasup, u gat 2 options, clear things up with her or move on, however, u shd confront her

JJYOU:
sorry o boy this is funnny. sweet heart cant be his sister definately. but sure she will deny

i stored my sister as sweetheart

luxoire:
@JJYOU - maybe she saw the poster as secuity, but wanted the liberty to still be with her lover

hmmm some ppl need to think about the effects of their actions ratehjr than their immediate pleasure

Ppl that marry young immature girls, pls beware!! sometimes they marry because it is the 'in thing' not because they understand the sacrifice, commitement and what exactly it entails

tell them!

too true 2 be true but,

@poster: yes, age na number

as pure as #5, just kiddin

we never had one,

sistawoman:
What kind of conversations have you had regarding religon?

If you love him and he has asked you to marry him then these conversations should have already taken place. If not then go and talk to him.

@poster: TAKE IT FOM HERE

tboy1:
^^ google it

YA RITE

.

Ben20001:
Even now that the real owner of the child is not known, you don't have trust for the gurl; like you lost it. from the way you sound, yes.

I sense your concern is just the baby. anyways, get done the DNA test first.

ya, take it frm here,

too much movies n tv cud be evil,

wats happening?

i think u cant help a partner deal with some nasty habits if d partner is not willing(i.e if d partner doesnt realise it)

We nawt promoting racism.  Only trying to explain why her boyfriend is feeding her the blues
[quote][/quote]exactly, i also av a feeling d guy is not sincere

@poster: i dont know wat u r waitnig 4, cos u dont need 2 be told wat wud happen if financial crisis occurs while married 2 dat girl, comparing u 2 others doesnt make u her ideal man n u also know u belong 2 diff schools of thought, i believe u know wats good 4 u

find it hard 2 believe even educated pple promote racism, 4 me - no wahala with any tribe so far d person is reasonable

ievbuomw:
I like you- we are operating on the same frequency, THAT is the issue

but she seem to aknowledge d cultures n willing 2 learn also,

bluespice:
i honestly think it depends on the (pardon my seeming insult here its not meant at all) level of exposure of the parents
if the parents i mean the nuclear family of this boyfriend dont care,
why should it bother u?
out of curiousity tho
i suggest u try to meet his folks u should know what they feel about u
tho the yoruba's are experts at hiding their feelings

this wat we r talking abt-racism, u can use one man 2 judge a race/tribe, wat does d last sentence mean?

@poster: from all i've read ur bf could av sumtin up his sleeves cos if his parents(ibo & yoruba) wont support d union then y r they still married?

@poster: common find ur way home!

chei,
r we sure jesus hasn't come n gone?

luxoire:
@chuck - what if the baby was aborted for medical reasons?

like?

myg3:
Imagin, them no even fear aids at all

9jas no they fear death OOOOO

i tire ooo.

imagine wetin go happen if govt say make evry go do hiv test,

na wa o!

so u r all telling me pple actually av unprotected sex?  

arggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg

barca 09