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bcomputer101: Another 30+ frustrated lady.
Abi what is your age?
Mtshewwwww!!!

Your response shows you are a mischeivous fellow

Op please don't let anyone hassle you.

Remember also just as it looks bad that the man wants to seperate you from jr he may also have good plans for you

Someone has mentioned canada and that is a good idea

Discuss your concerns with your man and you guys should come up with an alternative suitable to all parties

As a woman, you also have your needs don't let anyone make you feel ashamed of that

Now she is the trapper but the phool of a baby daddy is the star abi?
If you are empowered, that child has a better life too


Always women castigating each other

If it works well na you go benefit am

Ish

May God help you

R2bees: Fair play to Wigan, the fact
they've spent 8 years in the PL
with such a small budget is a big
achievement. Puts teams like
QPR to shame.

Yep but if they lose their coach to everton that will be double tragedy
If only that had been able to win swansea

On pelegrini that is the spanish job

Txiki cut the yam and cooked the deal

Yam peper

Interesting so na you Joe?

His inconsistency this season was astounding

Abeg if pantimon is not respected, make barca or arsenal take am

That guy better paSs scz

jasper7: If I am to psychologically analyse Men and Women. I'll tell you that All male decisions are driven by 3 factors, Personal Intelligence, Ego/Pride, Libido. In other words, A man can be highly Intelligent but if he has a huge Ego and a high Libido his very likely to make a whole bunch of mistakes, same with an Unintelligent man with Little Ego and high Libido. or an Unintelligent Man with a Huge Ego and Low Libido. I hope by now you get the point. Once a man goes bad in one of this 3, he's likely to take the wrong turn. In the other Hand, A woman is driven by many many things, but the honorable mentions should be, personal Intelligence, Passion, self Esteem and general Emotions. An Intelligent woman with Low self Esteem, high passion and balanced Emotion. would eat alot of crap, because she has low self esteem. An Unintelligent woman, with no passion, High self esteem and mixed or alternate emotions would eat alot of crap too because she's not just smart enough or she's not sure what she's feeling. Like I say to alot of people that come searching on tips on how to have a happy relationship, Everybody is not the same. We are not all one mass produced action figure or toy that comes with a manual. What works for Mary can never work exactly the same way for Martha. That's why I believe all those books on success in a relationship are a total rip off. We all have to take our own initiative here. The only thing I can help to do is categorize it for you. If you got a partner, write my factors down in a sheet of paper and find out which group your partner falls into. Find out what drives the person. Maybe as a guy, if I notice my girlfriend has a low self esteem, I would never do anything to make her feel she's not good enough. Infact I'll make her feel I am not good enough for her, just to make her feel comfortable. And if I am a gal and my guy got Ego problems, Even if he's really bad in bed, I'll fake Orgazms and moans, just to make him feel He's the best I ever had. I'll let him feel like he's in charge, Even when I am fully in-charge. there's one wicked stunt my mum frequently pulled on my dad, she got an idea, but she knows he'll never go along with it, so she talks like she was reminding him of a bizarre idea he brought up some years back and she opposed it completely, She might say somfin like "can you imagine how silly you were then?" My dad in a bid to prove that the idea was not actually that stupid might begin to bring more points in support of the idea, and in the end He'll insist he must do it. My mum would smile and say somfin like "Whatever, you always have your way". My dad always did my mum's bidding, but never for one day did he directly agree with her on a point. she used the reverse psychology to get everytin she wanted. It's just the bit and pieces of many possibilities, that should be exploited by partners, but I hope by now you get my point?

A bit unorthodox but definitely some sweet points

I like the 3 nature component of the genders and especially the statement at women using reverse psychology

vivian chinaza: I'm based in Bayelsa state. So where is fun alone?

Hmmm don't know much about that side but I hear Brass is lovely.
That is somewhere I wish I visited long ago

For your location, Eket beach or calabar will be swell

When I said no to obudu, it was just a reference to the distance and cost and the serenity factor

Another place is abraka but that may be too 'youngish' as per say na student full the place and the nitelife is a distance away

I like nitelife close to my hotel when I go out like that

[quote author=I.Joan]doesnt mean i cant enjoy good football [/quote]nice..lolz

ramsee...

podo 68 mins

[quote author=I.Joan]walcottttttttttt[/quote]i thot u followed United

walcott scores... 63 min

Wigan has a poor defense


Super pass by Cazola

[quote author=I.Joan]thought wigan was already relegated why are they fighting so hard

antolin of wigan gets a yellow card[/quote]they need to win this and the last game to have a chance of survival

arze need to win this to have a chance of 4th spot

WAR!!

wow... double save

podolski.... cazola

rosicky shoots wide

offside gol ruled out.. mccarthy 51 mins

TouchDown: I'm so tensed up....


I deeply regret my life.

y? on top football whey this guys don collect their wages and go still collect if arzz dont play champs football...

mc namaman dived for a penalty

[quote author=I.Joan]it is wigan leading in possession sef.... 57 - 43

What's arsenal doing [/quote]Wigan play a variant of the same tiki taka that Arsenal and Swansealona play
The problem is their poor defence
That is why they are fighting for last breath now

vivian chinaza: Within the country, where there are nice beaches and other natural stuffs. Ogbudu cattle ranch is purfect.


you guys are really funny.

Ok within the country.. you have Eket beach, Calabar (marina resort), Ibeju Lekki, Whispering Palms - Badagry

The challenge is where you are based... lag or ph??

Obudu is fun as a couple or a group...As DK said Lacampagne is ok also

obudu is not fun alone

[quote author=dotcom_na_me_na_me]You be human-being? [/quote]someone calls himself a dondi mumu.... and u ask question

naijababe: Maybe dem go tire after an hour. Abi dem smoke sontin' ni?! After the kain game dem play for Saturday

yes they will but we have to raise our tempo and seize the 3 points.. I point is not good enough for us
Its ok for them as they play Villa away(on 40 points)

Spuds play Sundie...if Sunderland lose by 5 goals and Wigan win by 6 goals.. Sundie will go doen

HT..lovely free header and well a super freekick!

We have to be more aggresive.. Wigan is fighting for their life

They will die on that pitch today ... since they have a gol before HT.. na die o

yepa...

[quote author=I.Joan]I am here o
On my way home..... Am rushing home as fast as i can to watch[/quote]welcome...


offside gol - theo 40 mins

bukatyne.. i respect your calmness

adaobi123: Football is one of my main sports, behind athletics of course

nice... i love athletics too but athletics is dead now
Na Usain Bolt dey carry the thing... the golden age is gone

Imanuelle: Brings out juju sack,

Casts a spell over arsenal ....


Otujokoro. .. tuoyo .. babatutu batayangba. .

Gives a DIRTY SLAP

bettymafy: Well, something is got to give. . . This is all in the bid to making a better and fulfilling life for u and that child too. I don't think it will ever be easy to be away from one's child, but I guess it will be worth it in the end.

But like I said, if u donot have anybody u deem fit to take care of your son, then consider online degree in a good school in the UK/US/Canada. Make sure the school doesn't carry the "online status" on the certificates they issue out as most Nigerian employers still haven't come to terms with online studies.

Don't worry about getting PHD positions. U should be able get a good one if u had a sound first and postgraduate degrees (especially in research courses).

By the way, I commend your effort to dust it all up and go make a good life for yourself and your son. Its not an easy feat. Weldone.

nice

adaobi123: bye bye wigan

did not know u follow footie also

where is I Joan

django1: I can see that am a learner here
So obito = tobi = fake madara?

That's interesting!!

you are way way behind,.... readin it here will spoil it for you though

A good team but they left it too late

They are playing an arsenal side that had a week to rest and they played on saturday

wee gone ... Relegate In Peace

Goal.. podo

free header

naijababe: Biola, you should beg jide to give her sister ni o

lol..

coogar: any male volunteer to accompany vivian to obudu ranch?

does vivian want to go to obudu or she says she wants a nice place

Vivian,, what do you want exactly..obudu is cool but as a couple or a group

jidegirl12: Siddon there, One way flight will do the trick you no know say I know una? , eni ti o mo eni Lon feni shere

I dey gentle ma..lolz

wow.. close header from santi babay...


the keeper no move sef

7 mins